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Urgent ask, how be a baddie as a extremely under confident person

BECOMING YOUR BEST SELF WITH LOW CONFIDENCE

i have no idea what ur definition of a 'baddie' is, so this post may have not been what you've been looking for, but I tried my best

A lot of us struggle with confidence, and it can be the main factor that holds us back from growing to be our best selves. So, I’ve created a guide on improving ourselves even with low confidence.

UNDERSTAND THAT IT IS NOT UNREPLENISHABLE. Confidence is like a cup of water, tea, coffee, hot cocoa, or whatever your favourite beverage is, it can always be refilled. While you don’t have to ‘fake till you make it’, remember that you do not live with a restricted amount of confidence.

ACCEPT IT. Whatever way you have to, crying, journalling, venting, you have to accept that you are a person who struggles with low confidence. However, instead of identifying yourself as that, identify yourself as learning to self-love.

E.g. ‘I’m so insecure’ → ‘I am still learning to love myself.’ ‘Why can’t I be like them?’ -> ‘I will learn that I do not have to be someone else.’

CONSIDER NEUTRALITY. You don’t have to live on this odd scale of loving yourself or hating yourself all the time, and letting it define you. Instead of what it looks like, what it can look like, what it can do, see it as a special vessel that homes your soul.

For example, my body can digest the food that nourishes my soul, my hands can write text messages to my loved ones which reassure my soul that they know they are loved etc. Seeing it in this perspective grows a deeper meaning and appreciation for your body.

I like to see my body, traits, and life as a gift from God. Me insulting these things, is an insult to him.

INDULGE IN YOUR STRENGTHS. When we have low confidence, it becomes almost second nature to focus on our weaknesses. Instead, try to actively focus on your strengths. If you don’t know what your strengths are at the moment, just focus on things that make you happy.

It would be beneficial to add one thing that you know you’re good at on your list of what to do. Something that you’re assured you’ll like doing and the outcome.

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. Eat a well-balanced diet, make an effort to achieve good quality sleep, exercise when you can, reach out to your loved ones daily and incorporate things that make you happy.

Just these simple things can improve your quality of life by far, however, our intentions to do these things may be impacted by our low confidence, and therefore we are unmotivated to do these things.

If that is the case, take little steps in doing each thing and remind yourself that intentional self-neglect is a form of self-harm and destruction.

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ur fav yt channels ? love ur blog btw <33

PRETTIEINPINK'S STAMP OF LOVE; YOUTUBE CHANNELS !!!! 🤭

(just being a bit silly w the title as a youtube girlie i love this questions)

bria jones (self improvement) - a realist, she will make you motivated to make a change and offers fresh perspectives.

cajun koi academy (study, productivity ) - offers the best studying advice that isn't basic + have some nice productivity techniques.

madisyn brown (video essasys) i realy like her because no matter what, she's definetly unbiased and only says the truth

impact video ministries (christianity) - luv this channel, one of my first steps to becoming closer to God.

After skool (educational, self improvement) talks about many phonemems and educates well.

Ashley Hetherington (christianity, self improvement) - her channel has my whole heart, pls Christian girlies u need to watch her videos.

lol i got lazy half way through. I do watch more self improvement channels. sometimes i like to wtahc sims 4 videos as well. + thanks for the support, lovely!

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hello!! I'm a new follower here 🌸 I saw your post about notion and I wanted to know more about how to use it in general. I REALLY don't know how to use, thanks!! 🩷

idrk how to create a tutorial on tumblr... sorry but here's some that were really good for me!

i had another one that i rlly liked but i couldnt find it sadly

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can you give me advice. i’m currently just in a bad slump like i have horrible study habits, i live a sedentary lifestyle, i feel so self conscious and i’m lost. i don’t know where to start at all and it sucks. i don’t have anyone to guide me and so i’m hoping you can. can you share how to start being healthy, how to study bc i’m in a vigorous school so it’s basically college but hs and idk how to start self care besides masks lol. i’m sorry if this is self explanatory stuff

this should help you 💕😊✨

also, something I want to add on is that self care is NOT just masks. While self pampering is definitely a form of self care, it is not the main thing about it.

Self care is taking care of yourself.

Imagine this, you’re given a small toddler. Your main task is to keep them healthy and happy. You’re the caretaker of them.

Even if they ask for a can of soft drink, you’ll offer them water or juice instead because you know it’s not good for them regardless of what they want.

If they end up crying, you’ll give them a nice toy to reassure them.

They may want to climb on a high surface, but you’ll tell them not to because they may get hurt if they do.

However, let’s say they do climb, and they do get hurt.

You wouldn’t scold the toddler, or blame them for climbing. You would hug them and make sure their injuries are not severe.

Here’s the thing: you are both the toddler and the caretaker.

You take care of yourself by doing things you may not want to, because you know it’s healthy and it makes you happy.

But, you reward yourself on the journey for all the things you do that commit to yourself.

Even if you can’t commit, you never punish yourself. You just reassure yourself and move on.

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how did you start up your blog? do you have any tips?

I started it up just by really visualising how I want my blog to look like. I love, love pink so I really wanted to embrace that in my name. hence, prettieinpink. Then, I chose a pink theme! I dont really remeber my old one, but I created this one in Sept' when I saw a gif as the bkg and was like.. thats so cute. thats it sjgyug

my tips are;

try to post unconventional stuff (things that you cant easily find anywhere else)

be active. you dont have to consistently post things but just reblogging everyday can help keep the shadowban away

do not cross tag.. tag appropriately so you can reach a larger audience.

have something signature. Mine is that my posts always involve the colour pink!

jus have fun w it. at the end of the day, its just your silly little cute girl blog

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hi! do you have any youtube full body workout recommendations?? thank you! ^_^

I use dumbbells when working out. When I’m not, I use a skipping rope for cardio💕 if you don’t have any dumbbells at home, just use any heavy object that is safe.

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How old are you bc ur advice and everything abt ur blog shows a lot of maturity 💕

I am 13 years old, the age which just happens to be stated on my pinned and bio!

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hi i’m a relatively new follower and i luv ur blog!! ur very mature, wise + especially literate for ur age! it’s so wonderful that ur getting into self-improvement so young, cuz ur gonna have an amazing, fortunate + productive adulthood as a result! i’m proud of u and i hope u have an amazing 2024 💗

welcome to prettieinpink! Thank you sm for your kind words, it truly motivates me 🥹🥹 I hope you have an blessed 2024 💕

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aussie to aussie

where do you shop

valley girl for cute cheap clothes, factorie + cotton on BUT ONLY DURING SALES, H&M for durable but offerdale outerwear, Myer for nice jewellery, sometimes Kmart for basics. I very rarely shop overseas/small businesses, but I luv thriting there and there.

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idk if you would be interested in this idea but you should start a discord surrounding christianity. like you can host bible study’s and people can post verses that spoke to them etc

OMG A CHRISTIAN GIRLE SERVER. anonnie this is a brilliant idea I love u. but I cannot do this alone so mutuals hmu🙈

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! thank you for running this blog, you are so amazing, and have a great birthday!! you deserve it ^^

AAAAAAA thank you sm anonniee!!! Ilysm 💝

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holy shit you're the same age as me

love you!!! this is so iconic omfg

omg I love u toooo💕 merry Christmas and happy new years🙏🎄

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Im scared for high school too, ur not alone lol

we gotta stick together fr 😭