#please leave me alone

[amandamadeathing]

@theonion headline paired with Crosshair.

[kiritila]

first

[sunrisemill]

LEAVE ME ALONEEEEE

I hate this bitch so much we have one sided beef

[caffeinatedpunk]

I'm sorry guys but if you are on tumblr and don't know who cecil is you need to go back on history books. He's the blueprint of the sexymen, the og twink, the first eye-motif guy, he ended queerbaiting during a time where queerbaiting or k*ll your gays trope was all the representation we could get. Respect the elder. He threw the first brick

[vivika-ka]

Some instances that I feel show how some messages in MHA are detrimental, especially on how victims react to their abuser, can be gauged by responses that tend to be highly prevalent in the fandom.

(Definitely not every fan, but a great majority).

Endeavor is a great example. Whenever you post criticizing his approach to atonement (and ultimately criticizing Horikoshi’s writing), you get BOMBARDED by people either belittling you for not liking his character or essentially forcing you to like his character by frantically writing “at least he tried” arguments.

If I have the CHOICE whether to forgive his character or not, especially given he goes through an atonement arc and not a redemption arc, why is any form of criticism about his abusive behavior and essentially his abuse of power practically ignored by the story unacceptable?

The message was detrimental because people operate on the notion that for victims to be good people, they must forgive and even help their abusers. MHA presents people who choose not to forgive him as either a monster (Toya) or inconvenient (Natsuo). And if they are still unforgiving, they must admire the abuser for doing the bare minimum (taking responsibility; this is also about Natsuo).

Essentially, they are considered "imperfect victims" because they weren't merciful in their approach to their abuser.

The majority of the fandom tends to ignore the lack of actual consequences for Endeavor's actions because he vows to talk to Toya every day. Insisting that doing the bare minimum, which is recognizing his son's existence and suffering, became his "hell" is a wildly fucked up message, in my opinion.

It harps on the issue mentioned above that if a victim isn't receptive to forgiveness or doesn't act "demure," they are seen as an inconvenience—which is how the Todoroki family ultimately views Toya.

On a less critical note, I'll vent, so if you don't like this, just ignore it.

I'm so fucking tired of stories depicting imperfect victims as people who deserve death and torture. Plus, having to be on the brunt of so many people acting like you're morally fucked because you're not impressed with how a writer handled abuse. Horikoshi is not the first writer to try to atone a character who is an abuser (and he isn't the first to fail at that, either).

I'm not about to dick-ride every decision every author makes. Especially if the message convinces some audience members that victims are inherently broken if they can't bring themselves to forgive and/or admire someone who hurt them.

[justaweebitferal]

Because I’ve been seeing a lot of them…

YOU CAN’T BE CONSERVATIVE AND GOTH

I don’t make the rules. Know your own subcultures history and meaning folks.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk 🦇

[irrevocably-delicious]

I HATE when a brand I genuinely like and want to keep in the loop with chases me away with how frequent their emails are. Like I enjoy your brand! I didn’t unsubscribe immediately because I really DO want to know about new releases.

But tell me ONCE and then fuck off. You could have sent me one email a fortnight or even a week, and I would’ve tolerated it. But you got greedy and so now I will receive NO emails.

If this is how something who genuinely WANTED the emails feels, I can only imagine what the vast majority of people who get them from just one purchase feel. Who told brands this was a good idea? You are actively pushing consumers away with 2+ emails a week. I work for a company now that I’ve been a member of for YEARS. And they heavily rely on direct email marketing. We put SO MUCH time and effort into all the email designs.

I’ve been unsubscribed from them for 9 years. You’ve been in my spam folder for centuries it feels like. … do you collect any data to prove that this ACTUALLY works?

[kawaiialeisha]

Hey!

Just a reminder to not harass me in my inbox. Like.. even sending me constant asks about the same things. This has happened throughout the year and I’ve chosen to ignore every single one as I don’t like harassment and spamming in my inbox.

Please refrain from doing this because I won’t respond to you. /srs

[allthefandomss]

Instagram has replaced their search bar with an AI tab. In order to search someone’s account, a hashtag, etc, you have to use their Meta AI search tab instead. You have no idea how much this genuinely pisses me off and I am attempting to refuse to use it (but eventually I will have to if I want to find someone’s account for example)

[zanejulien-irl]

Well..

I don’t think I’ve been embarrassed before.

This is weird..

I feel stupid. Have I felt stupid before? I don’t think so.

This doesn’t feel right just leave me alone please. Unless its Pixal please get her.

[willow-boop]

This creature haunts my feed. It said it would only leave me alone if I drew it.

Help.

[starlight-starbright-council]

Okay... I'm saying something because I am sick and tired of being stressed to the point of physical illness, but can the stationdefenceteam blog that directly messaged me about things I'm not involved in and then blocked me immediately either never do that again or explain to me what any of what you sent means slash has to do with me?

[thejudeduarte]

!Reckless spoilers!

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Kai and Paedyn both calling their loved ones/the people they care about the most 'A' is so so cute! It's such an adorable parallel! Especially when they both describe Ava and Adena as being the light in their darkness and being entirely good. They each bring out the best in the other people and they're their anchor in times of need.

[logansargey]

https://www.tumblr.com/logansargey/752966693744263168/max-and-daniel-are-not-even-friends-anymore-when

“MaX aNd DaNiEl aReN’t EvEn FrIeNdS aNyMoRe” - whaaaaaasaat?

See, this anon is why I avoid Lestappies. Most of them are completely awesome people who just happen to like a ship I really don’t like or understand. Live and let live, y’know? But people like this just blow my mind.

Like, do they watch the PR videos they’re complaining about? Do they not see the way Max and Daniel interact? Do they not understand how to read basic body language cues? Or do they hate it because it shows them how their own ship is created from “crumbs” that don’t really exist and a narrative that sounds great on paper but doesn’t work beyond that?

You were super nice to this anon, by the way! And I totally agree with your take on Lestappen.

Thank you anon!!

BABES I'M GOING THROUGH IT RIGHT NOW. ALSO fym "Daniel and Max aren't friends so the ship doesn't make sense" MAX AND CHARLES AREN'T EVEN FRIENDS!!!?

I love F1 and I love Max and Charles but I HATE die hard lestappen shippers. The second you say you don't like the ship, they attack you. I just said I don't understand the ship and it doesn't make sense to me so I don't ship it and now there's a hit out on me. I'm a maxiel and piarles girly and I always will be.

I made this account for loscar content but now I'm a die hard maxiel and piarles girly bc so many ppl are attacking for being one.

If anyone has a problem with that, please block me. I do not want people threatening me bc I don't ship Lestappen. I do NOT have a problem with lestappen shippers unless they decide to be rude to me and try to force that ship on me.

[sweetfoxmojis]

I’m sad that I have to make this post, but it must be done.

My ex girlfriend is trying to “expose” me for “stalking her tumbler” which I wasn’t doing, but I don’t want people to blindly follow her think I’m a bad person when I haven’t done anything wrong so I put my Rant in a video :3

All the proof of everything is provided in the video.

You can find my bf’s Twitter post from old accusations and debunking here

to Finn: plz leave me alone respectfully, I do not want anymore drama with you and would just like to move on from all this, thank you and have a nice day

Edit:

So I got some concerns about the debunking and the video so I will be addressing them in this edit, first

“Why did you censor the part where she said she blocked you?”

To be completely honest I have no idea, at the time of making this video I was going to block out all the stuff I Screenshoted if it want relevant to what I was ranting about but I ended up taking a different approach to that and I just didn’t rescreenshot that picture which is bad on my part I will admit seeing as a lot of people took that ss out of context,, that is a mistake I will not be making again, even if so the part that was blurs said that Finnley had my account blocked which is true but as a stated in the video i saw her post through a reblog on an account I follow that is all that there is to it.

2. “Why were you viewing her accounts in the first place?”

Well a friend had came to me a while back telling me that she had made a bunch of posts about me trying to get me cancelled or to “get me exposed” and I being me was going to use that information if true to defend myself, I did find out that it was not true at the time I had checked and when I found out she didn’t actually spread anything about me at the time I moved on and forgot about it.

3. “Why was the screenshot of your rant you made blurred out?”

I had made this rant at the time before knowing finnleys had a new name, so i had used there now dead name at the time of making that rant, now at the time of making this response video I had learned that their name was now finnley and not that name so I had kept it blurred for their comfort as I don’t believe they would want people spreading around their old dead name, as to why it’s blurred discord wise, I blur their name because they are my ex and I do it for my own comfort.

in general I hope this clears up confusion because I’m tired of all this drama and negativity coming towards me + everyone being confused about certain aspects of the response, have a nice day and thank you!!

[sackoflower]

'i want to be what you deserve'

*ghosts me*