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If you don't like shipping that's ok but if you do I would like to know what people are shipping
Please tag this with your favorite cats ship/ships 🐱
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Fandoms are weird. If you insist on replying, please be mindful of the original post (whether it be an opinion, a headcanon or whatever).
#atla#avatar the last airbender#had to delete a post since people kept bringing up irrelevant info#i made a hc post but had to delete cuz it seemed like people thought my hc was real#but i put headcanon on the post#please be respectful of others#respect#this particular fandom I’ve noticed is a little different than some others#atla fandom
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#self care#self care is not selfish#self care is not an indulgence#rest#give yourself permission#give yourself permission to rest#make yourself a priority#you can't take care of others if you don't take care of yourself#for caregivers#boundaries#people pleasing#fawning#codependency#self compassion#self love#self respect#mental health#be good to yourself too#self and others#relationships
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Happy one year anniversary to In Stars and Time!
#ISAT#in stars and time#siffrin#loop#I truly mean it when I say that this was the best game I have played since Disco Elysium.#It pulls off some of the best examples of Ludonarritive Harmony in a video game...possibly ever?#Not to mention just...wow. What a great story. What a tale of twists and introspection. What a tale about the need for home and connection#I know many of you have trusted me before with media recommendations. Trust me one more time.#Do you want to experience the torment of being in a timeloop? And *still* have fun and feel like your time is being respected?#PLAY IN STARS AND TIME!#Do you yearn for complex characters and love unravelling mysteries? PLAY IN STARS AND TIME!!!!#Please heed the content warnings; I took them a little too lightly on my playthrough! They are there for a reason! Don't be like me!#This game means a lot to me and so many others. On the small chance the dev sees this (they are on tumblr after all):#Thank you so much for all your hard work in creating this game and seeing the project through.#It has been a year for us fans but many years for you. So thank you!#I hope it has been a joyful year for you! Watching as people descend into shrieks of agony from playing your game.#It's good! It made me vomit blood. I had so much fun! I felt like I was torturing the protagonist when I played it. I loved it! I cried.
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Let’s keep this up!
So, in case you weren’t aware:
Name: Trick Weekes
Pronouns: they/them
Additions:
Jin Maley, voice actor for Taash, is non-binary and uses they/them pronouns. Erika Ishii, one of the four voices for Rook, is genderfluid and uses they/she/he/any pronouns. Gareth David-Lloyd, voice actor for Solas, uses he/him/they/them pronouns. Jessica Clark, voice actor for Neve Gallus, uses she/her/they pronouns. Jeff Berg, one of the four voices for Rook, uses he/him pronouns. Corinne Busche, game director of Dragon Age: The Veilguard uses she/her pronouns.
I've added the ones I could verify on IMDB or their social media profiles. If anything changes I'll do my best to add them!
#dragon age#BioWare#If there’s other devs out there you wanna add to this post bc they also get misgendered#please add them! I’ll make sure to reblog#I’m not on Twitter and only follow a handful of people on BlueSky#so Twitter additions are super duper welcome#let’s all be respectful together ❤️
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On one hand, Young Justice is kind of neglected by the actual superheroes that should be looking out for them in a lot of crucial ways and very much failed by the adults around them
But on the other hand Red Tornado straight up hosts a parent-teacher conference where their respective legal guardians all show up, barring Batman who’s in traffic so Nightwing fills in instead because Robin’s dad does not know he’s a vigilante which is objectively hilarious
#Superboy does not have a name and his ass is constantly getting groomed like Clark please take a more active role in his life#And all of these guys need a healthy interaction with their respective legacies that does not involve heroing#Take them out for lunch! Play a video game with them! Let them be a kid around you without getting criticized!#Red Tornado had barely reconnected with his own humanity and he’s taken a more active role in being like they are safe happy and learning#compared to the people who literally are the reason they exist in the first place#and is the only one who seems to recognize their potential and ability as a team! and he wants others to know that!#and it’s kind of heartbreaking because the JLA should be paying attention to them and noticing how they succeed and instead just show up#at the worst possible time and take things out of context and criticize them and bestie I bet you they are a lot better of a hero#than *you* were at 14-16 because they actually are going out and making a difference and saving people#but the ones who should support them the most are barely there for them at all#someone give these kids healthy and appropriate emotional support I am begging you#yj#young just us#young justice#yj98#bart allen#tim drake#kon el#conner kent#superboy#robin#dc impulse#cassie sandsmark#wonder girl#cissie king jones#arrowette#greta hayes#slobo dc#empress#anita fite
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finally at that age where i'm thinking i should get a tattoo. not bc i feel strongly about it, just seems like a waste not to. i've got so much skin i'm not using
#feels so selfish like. all this skin what am i saving it for?#open to design suggestions! (please make me regret this offer)#maybe some deep sea horrors. a pretty watercolor of a gulper eel#once saw a person on the subway with various Skeleton Tattoos on all their limbs#i respected their commitment to the theme#but more than that i respected how all the skeletons were engaged in Activities#dancing in a ballgown. juggling its own (and two other???) skulls. swordfighting. being a mermaid skeleton#ANYWAY. the only reason i haven't already gotten tattoos is i just couldn't be bothered#i'm old enough to know i don't have any strong-but-potentially-temporary feelings driving me towards it#aesthetically i prefer decorated to non-decorated surfaces. but i'm not artistic or thrilled with commitment#honestly it feels like sheer laziness. indecisiveness--nay. immaturity!--that i HAVEN'T gotten a tattoo yet#letting all this blank canvas go to waste. tut tut i need to grow up and be an adult and get a tattoo sleeve already.#really i've put off my responsibilities long enough#(in fairness i DID at one time have 18 different piercings)#(but i took most of them out bc they interfere with wearing headphones and/or shoving my face in my pillow during Sleep Time)#(i only kept the nape piercing bc oddly enough it ended up being the most convenient. and the least painful to get now i think about it.)#(neck piercing? no problem. normal pair of earrings? Tribulations And Suffering. i don't make the rules i just poke them with a stick.)
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Sometimes low quality gifs are simply funnier
#PLEASE LOOK AT BRUCE BEING THE GIRLS HYPEMAN IN THE THIRD#HE LOVES THEM!!!#bruce is the most woman respecting woman lover ever and its not even romantic ever#hes the personificiation of the “me n my girl dont argue she tells me to shut up and i listen” tweet#and every other tweet in that genre#i love u bruce#beautiful beautiful bruce#koppaitepaladin#dreamworks trolls#trolls#trolls band together#tbt#brozone#trolls brozone#beeps gifs
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ultimately i think my insistence on aro positivity honestly is as much a political stance as a personal one.
when i say aro positivity is crucial and that i dislike doomer-ist posts that express sentiments like 'I hate being aro so much I wish I was dead instead’ it's not because I don’t think there can and should be a space for negativity and acknowledging self-hate, or the many ways being aromantic can really suck sometimes. i find that to be very important!
that being said. there is smth here about how self-hate posts are sometimes just arophobia that we inflict on ourselves. and when we put that out into the ether it (intentionally or not) can become arophobia that we inflict on other members of the community. i think there absolutely needs to be a place for negativity and the expression of anger and frustration and self loathing even - these are all good things to talk about because these are things that we experience. that being said, it can also be genuinely upsetting and triggering to people to have what is essentially arophobia shown to them and then have that be validated by other aspec people. your personal thoughts can affect your wider community on a level you may not anticipate. and i understand it i truly do! it took me so long to be able to recover from accepting being aroace - it threw my entire world off kilter and made me question everything about my place in the world.
but my insistence on aro joy and positivity is because ultimately i do believe that building is at the core essence of it all. that ultimately discussions and the purpose of community should be about construction, not destruction. and this is both a personal and a political stance. talking about how much you hate yourself and cultivating online discussions/spaces where negativity about aspec identity is the main and only theme is destructive - if that’s where we let the conversation end. these thoughts can and should be used as a vehicle to look for a path forward!
joy and positivity create a space where the focus can become on forging a path forward, on construction, on community building instead of tearing ourselves and others down with negative thoughts. it’s not productive or healthy when it stops at a place of negativity - it becomes actively destructive to the essence of community.
and i do think that this is especially poignant considering the fact that being any kind of queer, but especially aromantic (and/or asexual) means forging a path for yourself and making your own happiness where there is no obvious way forward. our communities exist mostly online (right now, anyway), there is little recognition of our existence in the real world, the effects of amatonormativity are both pervasive and actively dehumanising, and there are legal, economic and social structures in place actively making our lives more difficult. yes that all sucks! it’s good to acknowledge that. we need to in order to change it. but more importantly, that’s not the end. we are still here and our happiness, our future is for us to determine. even if we can’t change the laws or society, loving yourself and understanding aromanticism as a political identity (as well as personal), as a radical worldview, and as a protest against amatonormativity is essential for both community and personal well being. the personal is political.
tldr. i guess my point is that as a community, we should focus on building, improving, and nurturing ourselves and each other (construction) as opposed to destruction. we should recognise aromanticism and asexuality as political identities as well as personal ones and rely on community and self-love in the absence of anything else as a form of protest and political power. destruction (the recognition of everything that is wrong) is essential as a starting point - but where do we go from there? we rebuild.
#aromantic#aro positivity#aspec#aroace#aro#aromantic joy#arospec#when i saw its important to 'love' yourself - pls understand i am in no way trying to exclude loveless aros from this#that was just the easiest way to express what i meant! when i say 'love' i mean positivity/respect/happiness. etc. i just used that word bc#it works for ME which is why i said it. but feel free to replace it with whatever works for you! <2#also sorry if not everything im saying makes total sense i tried my best#this is something ive been thinking about for a while and have been struggling to articulate#i maybe should have read some theory for this abt community building but im too tired + overwhelmed w school reading right now so sorry.#if anyone has additions on that front though please do add them#also ngl im kinda scared to post this. i hope i explained what i mean well enough. like i get wanting to vent and express self hate BUT.#there is nuance to this and it is not unilaterally healthy i think. also i dont see any other online community fostering the normalisation#of selfhate the way the aspec one does! which makes me feel weird abt it especially.#anyway. this is basically my personal philosophy towards aromanticism#mossy posts#⚙️
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"I may not understand why Batman put you on my old team..."
"Ah, yes... Dick[...] pity he broke poor Barbara's heart... See what I mean, Cass? They're all rotten to the core."
"Batman used to use these back when I was just -- how on Earth did you get this? Did he give it to-- ...you?"
"Let me guess. You must be Nightwing. I hope you're taking over for Helen Keller..."
"I... I wasn't very fair to you from the start. I think maybe his adoption of you didn't sit well with me on some level."
"I could have handled things better as well. Let's put this behind us."
Batgirl (2008) #1 // Batgirl (2000) #46 // Batman & Robin Eternal #1 // Batman: Family #7 // Batman and the Outsiders (2007) #14
#cassandra cain#dick grayson#batgirl#nightwing#batman#these two drive me insane#someone please pick up on this thread i'm begging#being jealous of each other's relationships (Bruce AND Barbara)#there's a reason they have fought each other a billion times#yet they still deeply love and respect each other#the siblings of all time
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There's something serious I want to talk about before the contest proper starts. I got a lot of submissions for this contest, and I tried to include a good variety of scrungly little guys. In my head this is a tournament dedicated to the funny, odd, weird character actors, and I'm happy that we have a range of talent here from noir to comedy to horror to drama. With that said—
A few of the submissions walked a line that I felt uncomfortable with, where a physical disability or a facial disfigurement was treated as the only reason to submit someone as scrungly. These submissions made me uncomfortable—the equating of someone outside the able-bodied norm with, by one of my own definitions, a scraggly-looking opossum. It crosses a line for me to frame a person as being odd for simply......existing in a human body. That's not what this tournament is about—this is a tournament about character actors who gave us fun, weird performances, driven by their own acting choices, not an excuse to think someone strange just for the way they exist.
I define scrungle as coming from a person's agency and skill as an actor, an energy and electricity brought by the actor themself, not from an appearance. I will not tolerate any propaganda that focuses on an actor's body in a demeaning or fetishistic context. I also won't tolerate propaganda that gets weird about race or class, comments that focus on a person's look over their performance, etc. etc. And if (against my best intentions) any of the propaganda in a poll post falls into this, I hope you guys will let me know and I'll correct/remove it. Please talk to me if I fuck up.
Some of the people here overcame significant barriers against a society that did not want to see them, making the most of bit parts and sidekick roles by giving warm, funny, weird, and masterful performances. That is a wonderful thing, and a brave thing. Some of these actors never truly got to shine, because Hollywood did not want to see them as more than a stereotype. I want to honor those comedians and character actors anyway for what they did manage to do. This tournament is about highlighting all these scrungly guys for the fun, purposely weird acting they gave us, and I hope we can be considerate in how we talk about their work.
tl;dr Respect for bodily autonomy and diversity of humanity is important in this competition, and it's important to me that we don't conflate "scrungly," ie an intentional performance of weirdness driven by the actor's choices, with "I think they look weird therefore they are weird," which is gross and dehumanizing. Do not do that. I won't tolerate anyone being weird about people who are just being people.
I hope this makes sense and I used the right language! See you guys Thursday :)
#hotvintagepoll#housekeeping#scrungly little guys#please be respectful y'all there's a difference between weird (scrungly) and weird (othering)
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Send '❤️❔' if you'd be interested in discussing a potential ship between our muses!
-send '<3?' if the emojis don't show!
#as always please be respectful of the other mun if they decline#and remember this is not anyone forcing a ship - this is just an opener to get that conversation going#meme#ask meme#rp meme#roleplay meme#inbox meme#emoji meme
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"I'm gonna hitchhike my guide up your galaxy, baby~!" <- thing Zaphod Beeblebrox has definitely said at least once in his life
#suggestive#tw suggestive#HI H2G2 FANDOM it's generally been a minute i was busy and i wanted to reblog some fundraisers#i also wanted to be respectful since it's the anniversary of a GENOCIDE and take a little time off#still gonna reblog some fundraisers i've received eventually but please keep an eye out for any others i reblog among fandom posts and art#anyway am i wrong#the hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy#h2g2#zaphod beeblebrox#lucifers gluttony#lucifers inferno
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#you matter#codependency#boundaries#people pleasing#fawning#self care#self care is not selfish#get some help#rest#give yourself permission to rest#self compassion#mental health#self respect#self love#you are enough#you are worthy#healing#recovery#put your own mask on first before helping others with theirs#relationships#career
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i will never stop thinking about this moment
#it's the way mark is so carefully trying to not grip seb's thighs#this was SOOOO hard for me to make you have no idea#gif makers the respect i have for you is unreal#sebastian vettel#mark webber#sebmark#martian#let's not talk about the quality please this was the best i could do#i just needed other people to see#bug yaps
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One of the multitude of the Red and Chad arguments:
Red fed up with Chad’s antics: You can’t just make everyone like you! You’re not Chloe!
Chad: Not everyone likes Chloe.
Red: [Processing]
Red voice dangerously low: Not everyone likes Chloe?
Chad: Yeah it’s common-
Red pulling out her card deck: Names. I want names and I want them right now.
#glassheart#to red not likeing chloe is a red flag no pun intended#she also just thinks you are genuinely a really bad person if you don’t like chloe#but she also sort of hates sharing chloe#Reds mindest to other people is (Platonically) like her girlfriend but do it from afar please cause she’s hers and she won’t share her#your capital enemy number one if you don’t respect chloe or steal red’s chloe time#redcharming#charminghearts#glassrose#chloe x red#red x chloe#chloe charming x red of hearts#chloe charming x red#chloe charming#red of hearts#red of wonderland#princess red#chad charming#rise of red#descendants rise of red#glassheart incorrect quotes
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