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okay I made a Zelda/Ganondorf server, I'm new to this so it's pretty bare bones as it stands. If you'd like an invite please either DM me or send me an ask off anon and I'll send u the link! You must be 18+ to join, thank you!
#also if anyone is better at discord servers than me and wants to help run this thing that would be so cool but no pressure otherwise#i just wanna have a fun space that isn't as formal as tumblr#please be respectful of others#and obviously don't ask to join if you're not a fan of this ship though i feel like that goes without saying#there will be dedicated spaces for other loz ships too that aren't zelgan but are just as unpopular within the fandom#i just want a space where people who aren't into zelink can hangout and chat w/ no pressure or judgment :) d#ganzel#zelgan
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If you don't like shipping that's ok but if you do I would like to know what people are shipping
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Please tag this with your favorite cats ship/ships 🐱
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Fandoms are weird. If you insist on replying, please be mindful of the original post (whether it be an opinion, a headcanon or whatever).
#atla#avatar the last airbender#had to delete a post since people kept bringing up irrelevant info#i made a hc post but had to delete cuz it seemed like people thought my hc was real#but i put headcanon on the post#please be respectful of others#respect#this particular fandom I’ve noticed is a little different than some others#atla fandom
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Happy one year anniversary to In Stars and Time!
#ISAT#in stars and time#siffrin#loop#I truly mean it when I say that this was the best game I have played since Disco Elysium.#It pulls off some of the best examples of Ludonarritive Harmony in a video game...possibly ever?#Not to mention just...wow. What a great story. What a tale of twists and introspection. What a tale about the need for home and connection#I know many of you have trusted me before with media recommendations. Trust me one more time.#Do you want to experience the torment of being in a timeloop? And *still* have fun and feel like your time is being respected?#PLAY IN STARS AND TIME!#Do you yearn for complex characters and love unravelling mysteries? PLAY IN STARS AND TIME!!!!#Please heed the content warnings; I took them a little too lightly on my playthrough! They are there for a reason! Don't be like me!#This game means a lot to me and so many others. On the small chance the dev sees this (they are on tumblr after all):#Thank you so much for all your hard work in creating this game and seeing the project through.#It has been a year for us fans but many years for you. So thank you!#I hope it has been a joyful year for you! Watching as people descend into shrieks of agony from playing your game.#It's good! It made me vomit blood. I had so much fun! I felt like I was torturing the protagonist when I played it. I loved it! I cried.
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#self care#self care is not selfish#self care is not an indulgence#rest#give yourself permission#give yourself permission to rest#make yourself a priority#you can't take care of others if you don't take care of yourself#for caregivers#boundaries#people pleasing#fawning#codependency#self compassion#self love#self respect#mental health#be good to yourself too#self and others#relationships
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"What are you going to do, have genital inspections to use the bathrooms?"
-a TRA
Males truly cannot conceive of the idea of simply respecting the space and boundaries of women. It literally doesn't cross their minds, so their minds immediately jump to whether or not women can forcibly stop them. The belief is that if a woman cannot forcibly prevent it, you may take anything you like from her with impunity.
- Marian Rutigliano
#trans ideology#women's rights#quote#feminism#please realize this is what is being argued when people say it doesn't matter because we can't 100% ensure female-only spaces anyway#to be clear this is SOME males#TIMs and predators for example#other men realize they need to respect the space and boundaries of women just fine
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Let’s keep this up!
So, in case you weren’t aware:
Name: Trick Weekes
Pronouns: they/them
Additions:
Jin Maley, voice actor for Taash, is non-binary and uses they/them pronouns. Erika Ishii, one of the four voices for Rook, is genderfluid and uses they/she/he/any pronouns. Gareth David-Lloyd, voice actor for Solas, uses he/him/they/them pronouns. Jessica Clark, voice actor for Neve Gallus, uses she/her/they pronouns. Jeff Berg, one of the four voices for Rook, uses he/him pronouns. Corinne Busche, game director of Dragon Age: The Veilguard uses she/her pronouns.
I've added the ones I could verify on IMDB or their social media profiles. If anything changes I'll do my best to add them!
#dragon age#BioWare#If there’s other devs out there you wanna add to this post bc they also get misgendered#please add them! I’ll make sure to reblog#I’m not on Twitter and only follow a handful of people on BlueSky#so Twitter additions are super duper welcome#let’s all be respectful together ❤️
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On one hand, Young Justice is kind of neglected by the actual superheroes that should be looking out for them in a lot of crucial ways and very much failed by the adults around them
But on the other hand Red Tornado straight up hosts a parent-teacher conference where their respective legal guardians all show up, barring Batman who’s in traffic so Nightwing fills in instead because Robin’s dad does not know he’s a vigilante which is objectively hilarious
#Superboy does not have a name and his ass is constantly getting groomed like Clark please take a more active role in his life#And all of these guys need a healthy interaction with their respective legacies that does not involve heroing#Take them out for lunch! Play a video game with them! Let them be a kid around you without getting criticized!#Red Tornado had barely reconnected with his own humanity and he’s taken a more active role in being like they are safe happy and learning#compared to the people who literally are the reason they exist in the first place#and is the only one who seems to recognize their potential and ability as a team! and he wants others to know that!#and it’s kind of heartbreaking because the JLA should be paying attention to them and noticing how they succeed and instead just show up#at the worst possible time and take things out of context and criticize them and bestie I bet you they are a lot better of a hero#than *you* were at 14-16 because they actually are going out and making a difference and saving people#but the ones who should support them the most are barely there for them at all#someone give these kids healthy and appropriate emotional support I am begging you#yj#young just us#young justice#yj98#bart allen#tim drake#kon el#conner kent#superboy#robin#dc impulse#cassie sandsmark#wonder girl#cissie king jones#arrowette#greta hayes#slobo dc#empress#anita fite
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finally at that age where i'm thinking i should get a tattoo. not bc i feel strongly about it, just seems like a waste not to. i've got so much skin i'm not using
#feels so selfish like. all this skin what am i saving it for?#open to design suggestions! (please make me regret this offer)#maybe some deep sea horrors. a pretty watercolor of a gulper eel#once saw a person on the subway with various Skeleton Tattoos on all their limbs#i respected their commitment to the theme#but more than that i respected how all the skeletons were engaged in Activities#dancing in a ballgown. juggling its own (and two other???) skulls. swordfighting. being a mermaid skeleton#ANYWAY. the only reason i haven't already gotten tattoos is i just couldn't be bothered#i'm old enough to know i don't have any strong-but-potentially-temporary feelings driving me towards it#aesthetically i prefer decorated to non-decorated surfaces. but i'm not artistic or thrilled with commitment#honestly it feels like sheer laziness. indecisiveness--nay. immaturity!--that i HAVEN'T gotten a tattoo yet#letting all this blank canvas go to waste. tut tut i need to grow up and be an adult and get a tattoo sleeve already.#really i've put off my responsibilities long enough#(in fairness i DID at one time have 18 different piercings)#(but i took most of them out bc they interfere with wearing headphones and/or shoving my face in my pillow during Sleep Time)#(i only kept the nape piercing bc oddly enough it ended up being the most convenient. and the least painful to get now i think about it.)#(neck piercing? no problem. normal pair of earrings? Tribulations And Suffering. i don't make the rules i just poke them with a stick.)
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Sometimes low quality gifs are simply funnier
#PLEASE LOOK AT BRUCE BEING THE GIRLS HYPEMAN IN THE THIRD#HE LOVES THEM!!!#bruce is the most woman respecting woman lover ever and its not even romantic ever#hes the personificiation of the “me n my girl dont argue she tells me to shut up and i listen” tweet#and every other tweet in that genre#i love u bruce#beautiful beautiful bruce#koppaitepaladin#dreamworks trolls#trolls#trolls band together#tbt#brozone#trolls brozone#beeps gifs
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ultimately i think my insistence on aro positivity honestly is as much a political stance as a personal one.
when i say aro positivity is crucial and that i dislike doomer-ist posts that express sentiments like 'I hate being aro so much I wish I was dead instead’ it's not because I don’t think there can and should be a space for negativity and acknowledging self-hate, or the many ways being aromantic can really suck sometimes. i find that to be very important!
that being said. there is smth here about how self-hate posts are sometimes just arophobia that we inflict on ourselves. and when we put that out into the ether it (intentionally or not) can become arophobia that we inflict on other members of the community. i think there absolutely needs to be a place for negativity and the expression of anger and frustration and self loathing even - these are all good things to talk about because these are things that we experience. that being said, it can also be genuinely upsetting and triggering to people to have what is essentially arophobia shown to them and then have that be validated by other aspec people. your personal thoughts can affect your wider community on a level you may not anticipate. and i understand it i truly do! it took me so long to be able to recover from accepting being aroace - it threw my entire world off kilter and made me question everything about my place in the world.
but my insistence on aro joy and positivity is because ultimately i do believe that building is at the core essence of it all. that ultimately discussions and the purpose of community should be about construction, not destruction. and this is both a personal and a political stance. talking about how much you hate yourself and cultivating online discussions/spaces where negativity about aspec identity is the main and only theme is destructive - if that’s where we let the conversation end. these thoughts can and should be used as a vehicle to look for a path forward!
joy and positivity create a space where the focus can become on forging a path forward, on construction, on community building instead of tearing ourselves and others down with negative thoughts. it’s not productive or healthy when it stops at a place of negativity - it becomes actively destructive to the essence of community.
and i do think that this is especially poignant considering the fact that being any kind of queer, but especially aromantic (and/or asexual) means forging a path for yourself and making your own happiness where there is no obvious way forward. our communities exist mostly online (right now, anyway), there is little recognition of our existence in the real world, the effects of amatonormativity are both pervasive and actively dehumanising, and there are legal, economic and social structures in place actively making our lives more difficult. yes that all sucks! it’s good to acknowledge that. we need to in order to change it. but more importantly, that’s not the end. we are still here and our happiness, our future is for us to determine. even if we can’t change the laws or society, loving yourself and understanding aromanticism as a political identity (as well as personal), as a radical worldview, and as a protest against amatonormativity is essential for both community and personal well being. the personal is political.
tldr. i guess my point is that as a community, we should focus on building, improving, and nurturing ourselves and each other (construction) as opposed to destruction. we should recognise aromanticism and asexuality as political identities as well as personal ones and rely on community and self-love in the absence of anything else as a form of protest and political power. destruction (the recognition of everything that is wrong) is essential as a starting point - but where do we go from there? we rebuild.
#aromantic#aro positivity#aspec#aroace#aro#aromantic joy#arospec#when i saw its important to 'love' yourself - pls understand i am in no way trying to exclude loveless aros from this#that was just the easiest way to express what i meant! when i say 'love' i mean positivity/respect/happiness. etc. i just used that word bc#it works for ME which is why i said it. but feel free to replace it with whatever works for you! <2#also sorry if not everything im saying makes total sense i tried my best#this is something ive been thinking about for a while and have been struggling to articulate#i maybe should have read some theory for this abt community building but im too tired + overwhelmed w school reading right now so sorry.#if anyone has additions on that front though please do add them#also ngl im kinda scared to post this. i hope i explained what i mean well enough. like i get wanting to vent and express self hate BUT.#there is nuance to this and it is not unilaterally healthy i think. also i dont see any other online community fostering the normalisation#of selfhate the way the aspec one does! which makes me feel weird abt it especially.#anyway. this is basically my personal philosophy towards aromanticism#mossy posts#⚙️
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I just want to make it a little note (though belated) that if you use character AI for RP purposes, you're no better than the people who use genAI for art
And please don't interact with my page.
It's rude to use people's content like that when they don't know, and it's not a 'what they dont know won't hurt them' either.
Ignoring the obvious topic of theft, or the discomfort of how their media is being used, the uptick of people hurting/neglecting themselves/others because of these bots has risen recently a lot. And you don't know if this may get the artist in trouble when they didn't even know the AI was made.
I've seen too many fic writers & artists quit recently/go entirely private because their stuff has started to be stolen for training the bots, because people are being pressured by fan-demand deadlines, or other rude comments & actions. Without these fan creators there will be no joy to be had whatsoever involving interacting with media you like.
Please respect your artists, your writers, & your creators while you still have them.
#munpost#im not looking to debate ethics or 'where else do i find it then' that's for you to solve. i know my answer.#adding this to my FAQ later probably#this has been sitting in my drafts for awhile alongside 800 other things#because i dont want to sound ungrateful or very rude either#but please#im begging you#respect your creators like you'd respect your friend's wishes. you'd be upset if your friend's art was stolen.#you'd go to bat for them. call out this shit when you see it. hold your friends accountable as well if they're doing it.#if communities aren't safe for creators why would they stay in those communities.
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Send '❤️❔' if you'd be interested in discussing a potential ship between our muses!
-send '<3?' if the emojis don't show!
#as always please be respectful of the other mun if they decline#and remember this is not anyone forcing a ship - this is just an opener to get that conversation going#meme#ask meme#rp meme#roleplay meme#inbox meme#emoji meme
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I love how everyone in Damian’s life is either their last name, hero name, or like “father”... except Steph. Steph is the only one consistently that Damian calls “steph”- even in canon. Maybe its because he knows how much she hates her father and so her last name, maybe its because he thinks “spoiler” is stupid, or maybe its because he sees her as an equal, not beneath him, not someone he owes deference to, but his equal. Literally in canon, unless hes particularly annoyed at her or smth, or in costume, shes always steph to him. Literally when he is in mourning he calls her steph. Not Brown, not Spoiler… Just Steph.
Idk i just love Steph and Damian so much and I feel like their relationship is so slept on.
#stephanie brown#damian wayne#pleassseeeee#please dc#she like#is literally his robin#puh lease i need it#i need them so bad#her as batman#because she and bruce are like male female versions of each other#but shes better at words and laughing#pleeeaaaassseeeee#and she respects damian#but still treats him like a kid#and gives him a childhood#ugh please i need it#batfam#batman#bruce wayne#batman and robin
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And yes, that includes you.
#treat yourself like you'd treat a good friend#self care#self compassion#self love#self respect#self forgiveness#be kind to yourself#be good to yourself#healing#recovery#boundaries#codependency#people pleasing#fawning#self care is not selfish#self care is not an indulgence#you matter#make yourself a priority#take care of yourself#relationships#self and others#mental health
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