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Social anxiety level: Chatting with someone experiencing a schizophrenic episode and becoming increasingly self-concious of how I'm just saying "That sounds really stressful", "I've never heard of that but it sounds scary", and "You must be pretty worried about that" over and over again
#They needed someone to wait with them while their friend came to pick them up#And the whole time I was waiting for them to call bullshit#Like YOU HAVENT SAID ANYTHING MEANINGFUL YOURE SO BAD AT THIS#I'm sorry I'm making this one about me ma'am I'm just terrified that everyone I talk to is gonna give be a bad grade#I don't understand or beleive most of what you're saying but from the legit science you're quoting I can tell you've done some research#The research stuff I appreciate we can totally talk about that#Please God let me talk about Chordata or HTML instead of the thing I can't see or hear wouthout encouraging your delusion#I'd get SUCH a good grade at discussing invertebrates with you
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Thinking a lot about the inherent queerness of Fallen Hero.
Ortega's endless public performance,
Chen's perceived lack of humanity,
Mortum shaping themself body and mind against the will of others,
Herald's struggle past and present with the world's expectations of him,
Argent's existence being tied to something others perceive as inherently dangerous.
You are all Other.
And you are stronger in each other's company.
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@cigarettesandinevitablebetrayal
#a tribute to my favourite post in the fhr fandom#ortega#chen#argent#herald#fhr#fallen hero#pulp draws#please click for better quality! tumblr likes to destroy it and this is a piece id really appreciate people having a good look at#its queue and me just us and your friend steve
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listen I know it’s kind of corny and inaccurate to act like every single person in the dc universe knows each other and is besties but it IS endlessly funny to me to follow the web of connections and see how many degrees removed from each other everyone is.
like look at the arrowfam okay. ollie and dinah are together, ollie is homoerotic best friends with hal, dinah is homoerotic best friends with babs. roy is dating dick, has a kid with jade, and is basically an adoptive father to both grant emerson and rose wilson. connor is dating kyle and is constantly followed around by eddie fyers. mia is friends with a lot of the second gen teen titans kids, had an on-again-off-again thing going on with steph for a while, and is currently dating sienna. emiko is besties with courtney and some of the other recent teen titans. sin has a small army of protective aunts from the birds of prey. the real question is how far does it go before ollie puts a cap on the number of people who are invited to family brunch on sundays
#arrowfam#LIKE. PLSSSS#can you imagine them all in one room.#roy: hey ollie can garth come to brunch this week.. he’s in town and i never get to see him and he really wants to try your pancakes#ollie: idk roy we’re already at max capacity..#roy: please dad🥺🥺🥺🥺#ollie: …..fine. someone will have to be uninvited then#mia: why? what’s one more person?#ollie: bc I have Very Strict Rules!!! If I don’t follow the invite limit then the whole town’ll show up every week!#connor what about axing kyle#connor: …dad. I am not disinviting my boyfriend and Only Guest to brunch bc of your arbritrary rules.#ollie: fine that’s fair. um…#mia: what about grant#ollie: for the last time mia we are not banning your nephew from family brunch because he allegedly#ate some of your bacon one time. it was not a big deal and you need to get over it#mia: UMM‼️‼️ it was a big deal TO ME🗣️🗣️and I don’t appreciate you INVALIDATING my emotions like this‼️‼️#ollie: uhhh emiko what about courtney. she comes over like every week will she be fine sitting this one out#emiko: I can’t believe this. how dare you deny my ONLY FRIEND IN THE WORLD an invitation to brunch. it’s like you hate me#ollie: EMI I KNOW YOU PATENTLY HAVE MORE FRIENDS. who have BEEN TO BRUNCH BEFORE.#emiko: YOU CAN’T TAKE COURTNEY FROM MEEEEEE#ollie: FINE ok.#roy: why don’t you just tell hal not to come all the way down here for brunch I mean he’s here every week anyway#ollie: bc it’s hal okay. mind your own business.#roy: fine. but we’re running out of people#connor: I mean………. what about eddie#ollie: ………….. yeah ok I’m sold. that works. meeting adjourned good job team#mia: why are you so worked up about keeping attendance low anyway#ollie: MY KITCHEN TABLE CAN ONLY FIT SO MANY SUPERHEROES MIA
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i have a plan for punctuation day everyone! so here's what i want you all to do!
my goal for the day is to get punctuation trending. is this too ambitious? maybe, but i don't care. i want everyone to appreciate punctuation a little
what are some things i can do you ask? well let's look at some things i could think of:—
you can make a post with every punctuation on it (but try, and here's the hard part) to put some text around it and not just list them all out
you can make up a new punctuation mark! for inspiration i would look at the works of people like hervé bazin, martin k specktor, or other people who tried to invent new punctuation
you can make a post about your favorite punctuation mark and why you like it
you can post anything related to punctuation really, those were my ideas but feel free to. i dunno. dress up as an interrobang or make art or something. go wild
so everyone! mark your calendars! september twenty fourth is the day we get #punctuation trending!
#i will do my best to tell everyone fun facts about the origins of different marks#i would really like for this not to be a flop okay so please tell your friends spread the news etc#i just would like to be a part of something big for once and i really like punctuation and i am so happy people have liked this blog#so i would appreciate it i guess#also it shouldn't be too hard i am sure everyone here has fun punctuation facts#anyways i am reblogging this everyday until the twenty fourth and you guys should spread it around i want to celebrate
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COMMISSIONS ARE NOW OPEN!
Hello, everyone! My circumstances are getting a little bit more complicated and it's been fairly tricky to find a job over the past year (aaand it's only going to get worse...), so it's time for me to fully, officially, reopen commissions. Some prices have increased since the last time I did this, mainly in the hopes that this reflects my improving skills a little better. Some options are quite costly (particularly the animations and comics) because they demand a ton more work than one might expect. Terms are also more strict than they used to be in order to ensure a more professional dynamic between myself and anyone who commissions me.
Send me a DM if you have a commission in mind, but first, make sure to read through the Read More. I want to expand on what's stated in the final picture to ensure better clarity on the terms of my services:
I'm open to working with any fandom or OC, be it one I'm familiar with or not. I'm also open to working with crossovers, as well as making book/fic/album covers, and even drawing real people as characters of a fandom of the commissioner's choice.
I am open to drawing ship/romance content but, tied directly to the next point...
I reserve the right to refuse any commissions that make me uncomfortable in any given way. This does not mean that everything besides my OTPs and the headcanons I support is guaranteed to be rejected, but it does mean that, if the behavior of the commissioner or the specific subject of the commission does not sit well with me, for any given reason, I will decline the commission. I won't work on something that squicks me, nor with someone who displeases me. No artist should.
Animals, mythological creatures, gore and +18 requests are fundamentally valid but must be discussed thoroughly first. None of these areas are my forte as an artist, as much as I've dabbled in them here and there, so, in order to get it right, I may need extra time and I will most likely modify the base price for any requests that includes these elements.
Payments will be done through PayPal or Wise. The final, full-resolution piece will not be delivered until full payment is completed. Half payment is expected at the start of the process, the second half at the end. The client is entitled to two revisions of the art process to ensure expectations are met. If a piece does not match your expectations after the revisions, the commission will be considered cancelled and you won't need to pay the second half of the expense. Any commissioner who wishes to pay upfront from the get-go does so at their own risk. Revisions are always included, but there will be no refunds if the final piece is not up to the commissioner's standards.
The commissioner is allowed to publish and share the commissioned work across social media, provided it follows the rules of each site (as in, don't post any +18 artworks on sites that do not allow it, pretty much). I can offer basic Glaze and Nightshade in order to protect the artwork from AI theft, to no added expense. Credit MUST be given to me as the artist whenever commissioned pieces are posted elsewhere.
For anyone who wants a list of fandoms I'm better acquainted with:
Avatar: the Last Airbender
Legend of Korra
Bleach
Digimon
Code Geass
Inuyasha
Dragon Ball
The Mentalist
The Dragon Prince
Disney
My Hero Academia
Dragon Age
Hades (Supergiant)
Cowboy Bebop
Hollow Knight
Star Wars
Ghibli Films
Overwatch
Full Metal Panic
Artemis Fowl
LOTR
Farscape
Haikyuu
Fullmetal Alchemist
Naruto
Stranger Things
Spy X Family
Kaguya-sama
Chronicles of Ancient Darkness
Eragon
Thor
Harry Potter
Free!
ASOIAF
Shaman King
K-ON
Critical Role/Legend of Vox Machina
Dungeons and Dragons
Blue Eye Samurai
Arcane
Castlevania
Again, any fandom, character or OC is valid, but I'm far more likely to know what I'm doing and to have my own opinions, for better or for worse, when it comes to anything on this list.
If there are any further questions, feel free to DM me and we'll sort them out!
Thanks for reading so far, and I look forward to working with you!
#commissions open#art commissions#commission sheet#OC commissions#fanart commissions#commission info#ngl I don't even know what to tag I haven't done this in so long#I do feel like I've racked up enough EXP points lately to expand possibilities in commission work#but this is nonetheless a little daunting#how does one shake off impostor syndrome when it comes to pricing your own art#asking for a friend#anyway to everyone who ever cared about me or my art#I'd appreciate reblogs#because the wider the reach the better luck I'll have I hope#pretty please thank you I kind of may need this to get through life not even joking
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Calling out specific fandoms is not the move
The people who play so-and-so game also watch so-and-so show and support so-and-so streamer. Everyone hops interest to interest and their attitudes and biases follow. The borders of online communities and tags and forums are imaginary.
There is no one group to blame, there is no gas leak source, there's no villain, its everywhere, its societal, not a unique symptom of one sub-culture over another like please dude cmon.
#I can think of one fandom that truly sent me to outerspace but nothing that happened was /unique/ ykwim#if all fans have the same experiences in every circle thats societal babe that is a mirror to the state of us as a whole#appreciation weeks and reblogging for awareness arent solutions please engage your friends & have a dialogue; thats progress fr#thats the real tea i fear (to me)
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thoughts on broppy?
Something something the one person who never gives up on you no matter how hard you try to make yourself untouchable, unlovable. A person who defends you even when you don't deserve it for no other reason than the fact they care.
They care like its a contagious thing, they care so much you think there must be something wrong with them and no matter how many times you reject that care it's relentless. You think they must be stupid to care so much until you realize they're not. You end up seeing deeper than what is at the surface, the sarcasm that matches yours, the bite along with the everlasting positivity. You see it andyou can't help but love it from a distance and be overwhelmed by it up close. Something about falling in love with the qualities you thought needed a reality check. Something about being vulnerable and showing a part of yourself because that's how you love someone. Something about supporting and caring back and being hurt and being different but wanting it to work anyway. Something about staying by them no matter what, no matter how much closeness hurts sometimes because they're worth it and quickly they become the most important person in the world to you. You know them inside and out and somewhere along the way you realize they know you like that too, even when you don't understand what you're feeling, they seem to know. Something about learning to listen and learning to care and supporting each others happiness no matter how different you are. Being with the person you're most comfortable with in the world, feeling most calm in a storm when you're holding their hand. Loving each other for your differences and complimenting those qualities with your own
yeah i think they're alright
#knox rambles#KNOX ART (me)#Trolls broppy#dreamworks trolls#Trolls#YEAH THEY'RE ALRIGHT#i don't think about all those invitations poppy gave branch all the time at all nooooo#i'm 90% sure half this sounds like gibberish i haven't even really looked at them close enough to analyze#i just think abotu them being best friends and hugging your honor#the way they were so casually close in the third movie got to me okayG;LKSDFM#please appreciate the hug it took me three redraws to get them squishy like that
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It might be the South Asian in me but I think Galadriel deserves the chance to slap Sauron across the face at least once for messing with her the way he did.
#not only did he manipulate her into making him a king and giving him backing into getting back to ME and letting him into eregion#but he also toyed with her feelings when she was grieving and alone and pretended to be her friend under the guise of a someone nonexistent#the BETRAYAL#fake friends are the worst fucking thing in the world#writers let her slap him just once please#my anger towards sauron for what he did to her periodically boils over#galadriel#halbrand#sauron#the rings of power#gal my girl don’t be polite when you get your hands on him just slap him#oh I forgot he also left her to drown in a fucking river#sauron you prick#now she is in trouble and also stuck grieving someone who did not even exist#messing with someone’s mind like this is beyond diabolical and tbh I appreciate the writers putting so much thought into it
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fun side effect (thats so not the right word but idc) of being aro is that while everybody else is in love with fictional characters, i just really want to be their friend!!! i just really really really want to give them a hug & make them a nice warm drink (yes i am one of those people that makes drinking tea their whole personality. what about it.) like. i just. i want to listen to them rant about their life & how their day was. I WANT TO LISTEN TO THEM INFODUMP‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ ugh. just please be neurodivergent with me for a minute. please. guys. autism. please.
#also nd does not just mean adhd/autism but that is what i’m referring to here‼️‼️#also i am actually autistic i am not just saying autism for no reason LMAO#but uh yeah. anywyas. love my silly little guys. just want to give them a hug & listen to them rant#please please pkease tell me about your special interest or current hyperfixation or whatever#i want to hear everything tell me every single little detail i love you#ALSO ON THAT NOTE!!!! i experience platonic love SO FUCKING AGGRESSIVELY#and i feel like alloromantic people do not understand that as much???#like i said to one of my friends thst they were ‘one of my best friends’#and they were like wdym. u only have one best friend. and i was like bro. actually i love you all so intensely so don’t even say that man#like i just. ugh. i love ny friends so much. platonic love is truly sososososoo beautiful & we need to appreciate it more bc what.#anywyas.#aromantic#aro#arospec#tea#comfort character#autism#adhd#yeah idk that’s all i got#oh one more.#martin blackwood#bc that is really who i’m talking about here lets be so real
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tumblr users will never learn that being jokingly condescending to a complete stranger unprompted will be read as condescending even when said person is fully aware you are Joking. because it is still condescending and annoying
#worse if they do not understand your tone but anyway. I DO. and i still hate it. dont say things to me on my post boy i dont know you#no its fine it really is but please you must refrain from using tumblr condescending joke speech. i dont appreciate that#you cant talk like that white baby.png#if we are friends its fineee if we are not. please:/#tess talks
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Returning from my partial break to say that I just tried a breathing strip at the recommendation of my myofunctional therapist and now I feel like I can actually breathe for the first time in my entire 26 years of life. What the fuck. Does everyone else feel this way all the time. What the hell
#rambling#BOTH of my nostrils are working at the SAME time??#and they're actually getting enough air in that it doesn't feel like I'm suffocating if i try to breathe though my nose??#what the hell man#this is more revolutionary to me than any of the life things that I've refrained from posting about since my 'break' started#i didn't post about my doctor suspecting i have sleep apnea and me discovering that unrelated sleep apnea literally gives you brain damage#(which feels really relevant with my memory issues 😶)#i didn't even post about how i managed to graduate from making my friends autistic to making my virtual coworkers in another state autistic#but THIS gets a post. this is the first time I've ever felt like i could truly breathe in my life. what the fuck#this is the first time I've tried this and i haven't had it on for too long so i guess we'll see how i feel in the morning#but still. what the hell#appreciate your working noses please y'all don't know how good you have it#update: its been less than an hour and my nose has already found a way to fortify itself against the evil oxygen being allowed into it#it was good while it lasted 😔
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<3
#i’m reflecting on yesterday rn#and i could honestly bawl my fucking eyes out because of the appreciation i feel from this community#if i may open up a little#i’ve always felt very isolated in life#both irl and online in communities i’ve always felt on the outskirts#never been anyone’s first second or third choice#and yesterday just made me feel the opposite#i’ve only been on qsmpblr since january and tk get the outpouring of love i received yesterday#it blows my fucking mind#if i’m being honest again i don’t feel like i deserve it#but regardless i am so fucking grateful to the people in this community - the strangers and the people i call friends alike#just thank you for making me feel valued and appreciated as a person#because i’ve not felt that for a very long time#and i’m just an anonymous person on the internet with a chay pfp#there’s nothing else identifiable about me#and yet people still give a shit? people went out of their way to wish me hbd and created things for me?#honestly i’m tearing up rn because of it#so just thank you - these things may just not even have crossed your mind as something special to have done#but to me they mean the entire fucking universe#so thank you from the bottom of my heart - i will never shut the fuck up about the love respect and appreciation i have for qsmpblr#because that’s all i’ve received in turn and i am still not used to that#i’ll shut up now but thank you again to absolutely everyone#if there is anything i can do to repay you for the endless kindness you show me please let me know
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Can you write something with the old loser dottore?
I could.
Anon, while I do appreciate the enthusiasm for my writing (I hope that's what made you send me an ask), I also need you to understand that this is quite possibly the most discouraging way to express it. There is pretty much no difference between this message and "part two?". I'm a person, not an ai you can prompt, and an ask like this essentially makes me feel more like a 'content machine' than a person.
There are so many ways to encourage a writer, but this really isn't one of them. In the future, I recommend telling a writer what you enjoy about their stories to motivate them to write more and then giving a premise for a fic in the hope that the writer finds it interesting. At the very least add a 'please'.
I understand that this might come off as a scolding, which isn't my intention - I'm hoping to explain to you that messages like these don't make writers feel appreciated or motivated - as I choose to believe that you aren't trying to be rude, but merely don't know how to go about expressing interest within the fandom space.
An example of an ask that would've gotten the same across but left me in high spirits (and thus increasing the chances of me writing old loser dottore) would be something like: "Hey o/ I've been really enjoying going through your dottore fics (what a bastard lmao) and was wondering what you think would happen if his assistant walked in on him whimpering their name?"
And if you have a specific idea that you really want me to write, then I suggest doing it through a ffg request.
I hope you have a pleasant day anon (´▽`ʃ♡ƪ)
#reiterating that I really am not trying to scold you or anything - I just want you to take a step back and realise that this may not be as#encouraging to receive as you might have thought#imagine you spent an entire day baking a really nice cake for your friends and you look away for a second and they've eaten it#and they just look at you and go “are you baking more?”#no 'thank you' or 'please' or appreciation for the time you spent doing it#other ways of encouraging a writer to write more include: commenting on or reblogging our work#screaming at the murder
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ill b honest. probably just isnt me, but i have a slight crush on you 😭 you might never know who i am.... but goly do ur posts make me giddy. ur kinda like....the tumblr sunshine to my thunder storm. kinda get jealous of ur moots cause uhh I WANT THAT ATTENTION. ME ME ME IT SHOULD B ME. mikey has a secret admirer on his hands. oh to be moots for a day. I WANNA KISS U SO BAD. SIGHS 🎪
HSHEJSHDHSHSHSHHELLOOO I LOVE YOUUU???!?!?! YOU'RE SO CUTIE I WANNA SQUEEEZE YOUUUU I WILLGIVE YOU ALL OF THE ATTENTIONN WDYMMM I'M ALL PUCKERED UP WAITING FOR YOUR KISS ANGEL:3333333333 OKAY NO BJT HSGDHHSHDAHDHA I'M SOOOOOOOOOOOOHAHDHWHFHS WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU HAVE A CRUSH ON ME I'M JUST SOME GUYYGSDHSDHSHSH WAHHHHH YOU REALLY ARE SO FUCKING SWEET IDK WHAT I DID TO DESERVE YOU
#“TUMBLR SUNSHINE”#AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA#I'M SMILING SO BIG RN PLEASE KNOW THAT#BEING HERE MAKES ME SOOHAPPYYY WAHHHHHH#I LOVE YOU NONNIE I REALLY DO#MOOTS OR NOT#I APPRECIATE YOU SO FUCKING BAD#AND I WILL . BE TAKING YOU OUT ON A DATE#:3333333333333#SO PLEASE PUT ON YOUR SEXIEST MOST COMFORTABLE OUTFIT AND GET READY BC I'LL BE THERE INNNNNN#FIVE MINUTES#MWAH MWAH MWAAAHHJJJJHHHH!!!!!!!!!#🎪 <3#friends!!#i love you#hhhhhhhhhhhhhthis made me giddyyy#YOU MADE ME GIDDYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!
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Where A/tsushi accidentally (?) runs into a struggling A/kutagawa at the grocery store. D/azai might have arranged the whole thing.
First time voicing these guys, but I had to give it a shot for @goodlucksnez's birthday!! Vic I hope you know how deeply loved/cared for you are, and that you never listen to the absolutely ridiculous voices that tell you otherwise!! (Whether in your own head, or out of it <3)
(Quick drawing added last minute, dropping bigger version under cut~ Not snz, but that miiiight come later <333)
#waterfallwav#waterfallart#HAPPY BIRTHDAY YOU BEAUTIFUL PERSON YOU!!!!#I seriously hope you realize that even if you don't see your own worth#SO SO SO SO many of us do!!!#and no matter what you say your content is NEVER trash and ill fight you on that any day!!!#watching shows with you- or just getting to squeal about lil guys#its truly such a pleasure every time <333#I know you're not feeling well and you have to work#but i hope today can bring you just a little joy~ like you bring to so many of us!!!#please take this lil wav/art as a small token of my appreciation for having such a wonderful friend like you <3#snzaudio#snzwav#a/kutagawa#a/tsushi#s/hin s/oukoku#s/skk
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btw todd’s reluctance to join the dps because he doesn’t want to read (which is then accommodated for) and is scared to put himself out there (which is also worked through) being read as todd not wanting to go AT ALL, and thus neil making the proper accommodations (“todd anderson, who prefers not to read, will keep the minutes of the meetings”) and encouraging him to step out of the box that stifles him being seen as ‘forceful’ or like he can’t take no for an answer makes me insane with rage
#and him trying to stop neil from asking if todd not reading at the meetings is okay isn’t him wanting not to go#its him not wanting neil to ask because (as someone with social anxiety) it’s EMBARRASSING ASF for someone to ask for things on your behalf#literally just think about it as the meme of ‘when i tell my friend im hungry and he tells his mom that *i* want food instead of both of us’#and the whole ‘neil not knowing how to take no for an answer’ thing…… dont get me fucking started#the kid who’s had to take no for an answer his whole life? the kid whose first proper scene IS him taking no for an answer? are you serious?#being encouraging and accommodating and (admittedly) a little pushy when he’s got his mind set on something—#—is NAWT the same as not being able to take no for an answer or bulldozing through conversations with people#he and todd DO listen to each other in those conversations theyre just on opposing sides—#—because their understandings of the world don’t fully align at that point in time/the movie#which is totally fucking normal?????? because later on they DO properly align?????????#i feel so crazy about this every time i see someone say todd didn’t want to go the dead poets meetings because it’s so obvious he DID#he was just scared#and you know what maybe it IS a little forceful#but given how dedicated todd is to shutting off and hating and isolating himself he NEEDS a little forceful to be broken through to#if no one ever pushed me to do things when i was scared (as irritated as it can make me) i’d never do SHIT dude#and obviously todd is the same way because he ALL BUT OUTRIGHT SAYS AS MUCH#‘i appreciate this concern but i’m not like you’ IS about neil’s voice and opinions mattering to people but it’s ALSO about—#—him being outgoing and trying new things and putting himself out there#WHICH TODD WANTS TO BE ABLE TO DO!!!!!!!!#the moral you take away from todds growth is NOT that he has to change to be accepted because he DOESNT#its that he has to gain the confidence and belief in himself to grow and become the version of himself he WANTS to be#he NEVER changes on a fundamental level to make others happy (although his growth does make others happy) he just opens up more#and i dont know WHY some people think his arc is becoming a completely different person#like yall PLEASE#this isnt even an anderperry thing this is an issue even if you read them completely platonic#i blame the FUCKASS novelization…. dps book you will always be hated by ME#dps#dead poets society#neil perry#todd anderson
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