#personal 🎀

[mrdixon]

hey guys, sorry for going lowkey off the radar. school and personal issues have been stressing me tf out so i didnt really prioritize writing. but hopefully ill be able to throw out chapter four some time soon and write up a request. i havent forgotten about anything so dont yall worry.

[agirlwithglam]

"shes literally perfect! how can someone be that perfect??"

make them obsessed! affirmations <3

reminder: become obsessed with yourself first. if u can't, then make something out of yourself. have something to be obsessed about. | moodboard by me!

i am respected and loved

i am loved unconditionally

i am cherished and appreciated

i am their dream person

i am constantly on their mind

i am completely irresistible

i am desired by them

i am their favourite person

i am their priority

everyone loves spoiling me with gifts and treats

everything about me is attractive

they are so obsessed with me

they daydream about me all day

they love everything about me

they want me so bad

they are obsessed with my personality

they ADORE me

they always make time for me

they always want to be in my presence

they love to be around me

my vibe is addicting

they miss me so much

they would never want to do anything to hurt me

they cherish and value our relationship / friendship

no one comes before me and nothing can compare to me

i have it all! beauty, humour, intelligence, personality, <3

[princessbrunette]

since people are sending me asks like this i guess i’ll address it. idk what you ppl want me to say LMAOO do u hear yourselves? ‘fell off on obxtumblr’ like omg. this was a hobby. i said as soon as people make it feel like work - i will abandon ship. cos im not ur employee im a real person and some of you cannot stand that i am not feeding ur insane porn addiction anymore. getting this mad over me not writing porn????? oh my god. you have a gooning problem. this is tumblr dot com. take a fucking breath queen

[pinkpigtailsprincess]

ೃ❀࿔ About Wavering ! 🌺⭐️ ₊   ˙

₊˚🪼✩; “Just Stop Wavering teehee 🤪” whatt??, you can’t just tell someone to “just stop wavering” wavering is literally like an intrusive thought you can’t just tell someone to not have an intrusive thought is called “INTRUSIVE” for a reason its intruding on your natural thought process & its not your actual thought/belief its fine if you wavering but yknow whats not okay??

its not okay to just let this intrusive thought consume you & dominate your beliefs and become your dominant thought & stop occupying the state of lack don’t let intrusive thoughts control you, you’re stronger than that

just because you wavered it doesn’t mean that you “failed” or that “manifesting is over” unt unt don’t entertain that thought if you wavered JUST KEEP PERSISTING!! Keep repeating your affirmations keep occupying the state of wish fulfilled keep living in the end !!

[honeytonedhottie]

how to protect urself and stop breaking ur own heart⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍡

in this world its crucial to learn urself wholly so that u can protect urself in the best way possible. ofc u won't be able to protect urself from everything because some situations are opportunities to grow which is what life is all about. but lets talk about protecting urself and how to NOT break ur own heart…💬🎀

LEAVE THE PAST WHERE IT IS ;

first thing i wanna touch on is STOP checking on ppl that no longer have space in ur life. its just so stagnant and useless like why do u care? if u have enough time to check on someone from YEARSS ago (especially if this someone did u wrong) then ur wasting time that u won't get back. go spend ur time on something useful like affirming.

i feel like this also encompasses not trying to change people. respect a person for who they are -> not what u hope they will become. dont be friends or get into a relationship with someone for potential because they won't grow and evolve unless they WANT to. if ur thinking "oh just give them time, they have potential" or "they'll change, they won't keep hurting and disregarding my feelings" then ur just wasting ur time.

ALSO it doesnt matter if ur excuse is that you've known each other for a long time, ur allowed to leave relationships, situationships, friendships that no longer serve you its YOUR life. ur 100% allowed.

LEARN URSELF ;

by becoming aware of what u value, what triggers you, ur boundaries etc you can stay true to that and protect urself better. something that u can do to help you to learn yourself + how to protect urself is

make a list of things that u LIKE or are OKAY with. things that make u feel good. then make a list of things that make u feel bad and things that u don’t like…💬🎀

stay true to that list. when u understand urself and ur triggers u can protect urself better. live privately because what ppl don’t know they can’t ruin. not everyone has to know ur business, which leads me to my next point.

WHAT PEOPLE DONT KNOW, THEY CANT RUIN ;

dont put ur business out there for everyone ALL the time. privacy is power and the more private u are the less people will have to try and sabotage u because not everyone wants the best for you. when u tell everyone everything that makes you vulnerable and vulnerability can be good when building meaningful relationships and connections, you should NOT be vulnerable with every single person.

USE UR INTUITION ;

what u can't immediately sense YOUR BODY CAN. thats why we have things like gut feelings and hunches that often times are correct. ur intuition is like, everything that u know or have experienced subconsciously that u might not be able to recollect quickly, but ur body can. thats why its there.

[ozzgin]

i’m not sure if you’re a girl or if you’re enby or if you’re a secret third thing BUT

GIRL. YOU WERE ON QATAR AIRLINES? YOU WERE . GONNA DRAW THAT . ON QATAR AIRLINES ????? sorry im just FLABBERGASTERED

-🎀

Referring to this doodle.

I don't know, it didn’t seem that lewd to me in the moment. More of a funny thing. I did the rough sketch and showed my partner the butt candle, and he was like “we’re on our way to Doha please don’t get us interrogated” 😭 Maybe it’s my autism. I’m generally very aware, but I seem to have the occasional hiccup. Oh, well. I behaved for the rest of the flight and watched Golden Girls.

Though I will say, your disbelief combined with the previous ask of “I’m alive but imagine me coming out of the bushes all messed up” gave me this image

[fangirlforeversthings]

Don't you just love🎀 when they go like:

I TOLD YOU WE

Mewp - NEEDED MORE

GLITTER

The bigger the hunk - the brighter the smile the lighter the personality the sweeter the heart

[555bunnies]

Something about being a girl and a bunny and other related things

[snwbuni]

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[merakidoll]

[myflowerdeer666]

[adilynnyuri]

For people who are still "trying" To manifest SP

☆ Unfortunately, if you have everything planned with this one person ( Or more than one) and feel soooo good and sexy and makes you feel shy shy or some kinda shi like that, but you are just thinking if they will ever be with you or you feel like it's never going to happen. But this is your SP even if you have no fucking belief of them accepting you. They have no other choice but to treat you like a FUCKING PRIZE. BECAUSE BITCH YOU ARE!

WITH LOTS OF LOVE,

ADILYNN YURI🤍🌷

[missdollcouture]

Finding your personal style: self evaluation

developing your own style or aesthetic not only boosts your confidence, but it can also help you discover new things about yourself. and I know a lot of people may struggle with this because of being indecisive (like myself) or wanting to fit into society's standard so I'm here to help

find your fashion icons

style icons can give you inspiration on what you like. this can be a movie character, a celebrity, or an influencer you like. for example I love dionne davenport, london tipton, and paris hilton for my top three fashion icons

experimenting

fashion is all about experimenting with what you like best. so, find what patterns, silhouettes, colors, and fabrics you're fond of and put them together. this is all about trial and error so you're not guaranteed to find your style overnight which is totally okay, so don't rush things.

do your research!

go online and figure out what colors or styles match your skin tone, stature, or body type. this can give you a good idea of what looks best on you personally. trust me, it'll benefit you immensely

accessories

accessorizing can completely alter a look. adding jewelry or a nice handbag to a look can really boost your style. if you're struggling to decide whether gold or silver jewelry suits you the best, there's online quizzes or beauty experts you can go to in order to find that out

dress your body type

discovering your body shape is important to determine what looks best on you. keep in mind, everyone's body type is different so what may suits yours, may not be for everyone here's a guide to figure out your body type- ❤

mood boards

since I'm a visual person, I love any excuse to make a mood board. and they've really helped me develop my style. collect photos that capture the feeling and vibe of the style you're going for. use this board as a visual reference when shopping or creating outfits.

practicality

don't forget to consider your lifestyle when choosing your style. if you have a busy lifestyle, prioritize comfort and practicality without sacrificing your individual style.

shopping

when you're out shopping, take your time to really look through the items. try on different pieces and see how they look and feel on you.

[sematarygirls]

i was watching true detective s1, and it got me thinking of homicidedetective!rafe and his partner, reader, who is so weird and off-putting that he's just like 'what the fuck is wrong with you ???'

like, they're working on solving a string of murders, and she seems completely unbothered by the gore and horrific nature of the crimes, always wanting to get closer and see things first-hand. she's always saying odd things that make him wonder if she's secretly some serial killer, and she's going to kill him next. but really, she just has a passion and is not a people person, so she doesn't really understand that talking about murder like she does is not socially acceptable behavior.

[xdeadxxeyes]

to be honest its so hard being a mahito lover bc most of the fandom hates mahito for the same reason they love sukuna . .

[honeytonedhottie]

planning basics⋆.ೃ࿔*:･📔

i feel like at this point im a planning MASTER i've been using notion to plan and organize my life for about two years now and before i discovered notion i used a manual planner. i've also made lots of content about planning but today i wanna just focus on the basics and how to organize ur life in a simpler fashion…💬🎀

SEPARATE UR TIME INTO QUADRANTS ;

so i like to separate my tasks into quadrants. im going to try and present it verbally. so the first quadrant would be urgent and important, things that are imperative for me to do. the second quadrant is important but not urgent.

the third quadrant is urgent but not important but its not necessarily imperative that i do them. and last but not least the fourth quadrant is what i classify as buffer time, mostly cuz its neither urgent nor important. and i'll go more in detail with that later on in the post. this is helpful because it helps u to place priority on the tasks that u have to do and not spend a day doing side quests while u have pressing matters that need attending to. this is called the eisenhower matrix.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CALENDAR AND AGENDA ;

so i keep a calendar and an agenda. the main differences between a calendar and an agenda is that the agenda is updated weekly, the calendar is updated monthly/whenever u make appointments.

i find myself looking at and checking my agenda more often then my calendar and thats mainly because im more in-depth on my agenda because im the kind of person who needs specific instructions to get something done. the calendar only tells u the date and the event but the agenda tells u more in depth about how to prepare and go about things.

DELEGATE AND OUTSOURCE TASKS ;

to delegate a task simply means to identify and give tasks that can be handled by others to free up ur time for more important work…💬🎀

GENERAL NOTION TIPS ;

use toggle lists

use THIS website for cute emoji combos (things like ❤︎ and ⋆.ೃ࿔*:･)

make a color scheme and stick with it

twitter headers work the same as notion backgrounds

GENERAL MANUAL AGENDA TIPS ;

color code tasks with adorable glitter gel pens. use post it notes to break down large tasks. like, write the broad task and on the underside of the post it note make a bullet list as u break down the task. mostly with manual agendas i just prioritize aesthetics because if it doesnt look good i won't wanna check it and perform it.