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sanjeev-bhutani · 2 years ago

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forestpixies · 10 months ago

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no actually you’re either gentle parenting your child or you’re being emotionally and/or physically abusive to them, whether or not you’re aware of that.

because the term gentle parenting already includes discipline and teaching your kid right from wrong. gentle parenting doesn’t mean you can’t tell your kid no. it means you can tell them no when they do something they shouldn’t, but instead of punishing or yelling at them, you’re explaining and giving them reasons why they can’t do that, you are helping them learn and encouraging them to be better. gentle parenting means you’re using reasons built on mutual respect instead of anger. because yes, no matter how young your child is, they deserve respect too.

I’m sorry but most of the times when someone says they’re a strict parent, what it means is that they give their child childhood trauma that’ll last a lifetime, whether or not they’re aware of it. especially parents who brag to other people about how strict they are and how they punished their children.

and I’m sorry but saying you have a short temper is never an excuse to be emotionally and/or physically abusive towards your kid either.

“I yelled at you because I have a short temper” then why am I the one suffering? if you can’t control your anger, then get help. work on it. do better. be better.

also… your child standing up for themself against you, when you’re being abusive to them, isn’t them being disrespectful towards you. it means they are defending themself because you wouldn’t do that for them and so they had to step in and be their own protector.

if you’re a parent and can defend and stand up for yourself when you feel like you need to, but at the same time punish your kid when they stand up for themself against you, then you are the problem.

I was that child and I’m gonna make it as simple as I can for any parent out there — because no kid deserves to go through what I went through — imagine yourself owning a dog. really. you can either

a.) beat that dog whenever they do something wrong and simply take your anger out on them until they’re fully submissive and are terrified of you

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b.) train them with love and gentleness and earn their love and loyalty in return

now imagine both A and B dogs on leashes and imagine them no longer being on leashes one day. which dog do you think will run away as far as they can and never look back, and which one do you think will stay because they love and want to be with their owner?

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foundfamily-connoisseur · 2 months ago

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Punch Out Drawing Collection RAHHHHHHH

Close Ups and Translations in alt!!!

The last thing they see before the lights go out

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radio-show · 9 months ago

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Thinking about how Grant (and the other kids yeah but specifically Grant) had only known Henry (yeah the other dads too but I'm thinking about Henry) for less than a day before getting dropped into the forgotten realms and then at least a month later when he sees him again he has to see totally different sides of him and his dad. How jarring must that be? You meet a guy and his insane sons and your first impression of him is that he's some tree hugger granola dad who's a total pushover and then the next time you see him it's in a death game where he volunteers to kill a man by shotgun blast to the face and then leaves the dead body of the guy outside to send a message to the other players. Imagine meeting this guy whose whole gig is being vegan and a free range granola parent and the next time you see him he's breaking into another explosive burst of anger and yelling at the arena that he will fight and/or kill anyone who comes to hurt you or his friends. Imagine knowing your dad all your life and seeing him one day and then having to know that your dad has killed someone. And then you kill a chimera and you're changed forever. And then you grow up and marry a man named Marco.

#the whole Wilson family is immune to just living in peace #they're all going through life changing trauma #and then moving on and becoming a librarian or something #daryll went through extreme poverty as a child and then just became a stay at home dad #his parents held it together well but that doesnt mean he didnt go through it #grant went through a lot of life changing trauma as a child and became a librarian #he was a sniper too but he was a librarian #lincoln went through a whole like 50 years of life got married had kids and then just had to go on with his life #then he became a soccer coach #the jury's still out on Jerry #dndads #dungeons and daddies #daryll wilson #grant wilson #lincoln li wilson #henry oak

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coquelicoq · 14 days ago

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good morning can i show you guys the christmas card my little sister wrote me in french (she does not know any french)

joyeux Noël, j'espère que vous comprenez ce que je dis compte tenu de la fiabilité de Google Translate. Jespère qu'à l'avenir nous voir plus de deux fois par an. Je ne sais pas vraiment quoi dire d'autre, alors joyeux Noël et j'espère que papa t'a offert. Profitez également des autres choses que je mets sur la carte au lieu de vous ècrire un essai complet.

and then she wrote me a little crossword and a "connect the language to its way of saying 'merry christmas'" game 😭

#i really don't know what j'espère que papa t'a offert is supposed to be. seems to be missing a direct object #the previous sentence is also missing a couple words but i know what it is supposed to mean #french #sibling feels #anyway this was sweet #i am a little worried about her because a) one of the languages she put on the card for how to say merry christmas is hebrew #which is an odd choice if you're going to pick five languages to say merry christmas in lol #and i had just learned at dinner that b) she had never heard of chanukah. which is a bit concerning #also sidenote the hebrew version of merry christmas given is hag shmah which i'm guessing is the same as chag sameach?#which is used for any holiday not just christmas lol #i'm also a little worried because i think my brother gets more parental attention #or maybe my dad only pays attention to the sports that his kids play?#like my dad coaches my sister's team but didn't know what classes she has next semester #but seems to know all sorts of stuff about my brother's life #also she's 14 and i think wants to be much younger than that? or thinks 14 is very young (which it is but she is a teen. she called #herself a 'little girl' and was mad because she was home alone for the second time ever yesterday)#idk she's clearly just very sheltered. when they were driving me home we saw a homeless man on the side of the road holding #a sign and she said he was scary and i was like how come? he's just standing there #and she said one time she saw a guy like that and he was angry and now she thinks all of them (meaning homeless people ig)#are scary. so i had a conversation with her about that #like 14 is young she is a kid she has a lot of stuff to learn which is normal! but is she getting taught anything? is anyone paying #attention to her? i see her so rarely (as mentioned in the card) because i don't have a car and because i don't have #fond memories of that household and avoid my dad and stepmom but i should really try harder with her #my brother also wrote me a very nice card! he was pretty considerate yesterday which is also new #he did not discuss his opinion of the military or capitalism this time so i don't know how he is feeling about them these days lol #we talked a lot about sports lol

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islanddboyy · 8 months ago

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hate when my dad calls me kiddo. love when my coach calls me kid

#my coach is the best father figure ive ever had #and ive had 3 so far #the one first was nice but i was so young when he and my mum broke up that i dont really have many memories of him #and so he hasnt really had a lasting influence on me #but i know he tried to be a father to me and ill always appreciate that #the second gave me fucking ptsd after he and my mum got into a heated fight one time #but aside from that he was nice but just a big kid and not really a role model imo #then theres my coach #the kindest man alive to me and my friend who are both sorely lacking in father figures #he is always looking out for us and being such a good person we can turn to #always motivating us and just being what a parent should be #we joke we were his practice kids #honestly love him so much #but yea im calculating how many years my dad has left to live at the rate hes going (heavy smoker and alcoholic)#and im hoping i never lose this relationship i have with my coach because hes just an incredible person to have in my life #anywhooo #idk why i went off like that #way to infodump on innocent people just trying to scroll #im the person in the car at the drive thru and whoever is unlucky enough to read this is the cashier or whatever

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mifflebat · 10 months ago

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Request- Young Splinter? From any version of tmnt, but I was thinking your own iteration!

young splinter and his best buddy!

this made me so happy i love getting to talk about iteration turtles, their origins in particular (i’ll ramble in tags) thank you so much for the ask!

#own art #tmnt iteration #master splinter is almost an amalgamation of a bunch of different people i’ve had in my life #the main three being my own father #a coach and friend of my parents who taught me and my sister mma when we were younger #and my current instructor in a firefighting academy #alongside creative freedom of course #but those people have changed my life and are still currently affecting me in such positive ways that i felt the need to honor them #in the name of master splinter/hamato yoshi #lots of the more human characters i create are tied to people i’ve personally experienced in so many different ways #and i love when people ask me stuff to where it’d make sense if i talked about it #anyways this is getting long but thank you again for the ask!!#i genuinely appreciate all of you so much #including any and all feedback i get #yall are sweethearts and i love interacting with you

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jrueships · 1 year ago

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they Need to Kiss.

#yes lovie #( i love your name btw it's very cute #one of my best friends is named lovie )#(you are my best friend now)#anyways #yes lovie derek WOULD fit inside sauce best ty king for seeing my light #i will never forget sauce posting a selfie that he thought was cool and captioning it 'I'm the best in the draft.'#before getting drafted under another cb derek stingley #derek being surrounded by parental role models involved in football #having the training and skill to be known as a number 1 COLLEGE draft prospect AS WELL AS A NFL DRAFT prospect #thanks to his football loving family (coaching father wise retired football player grandfather)#vs sauce being raised all by his mother alone who had to work overnights at an automotive seating manufacturing factory #being the youngest of three of his siblings and never leaving his eldest brother's side bcs he was lonely and unsure and afraid #allante (the eldest) trying to draw sauce spreadsheets to help sauce understand the recruiting processes (and why he wasnt as high #as he wanted to be)#sauce fighting as an underdog his whole life in detroit then going to an underdog school that at least had the name 'King'#so he can feel like royalty as a wr/cb #promising his mom he'll be a college graduate no matter what so he'll always have something to fall back on so she wont worry #sauce's secret not so secret envy of derek and all his resources #his secret not so secret stuck up nose bcs he thinks hes had to climb higher hills than derek and therefore deserves the better recognition #then hiding behind 'im just working for my family' when ppl notice theres a lot more ego involved in his envious little nose scrunches #derek just smiling and being lively bcs hes just thrilled to be in his familys dream that a lot of ppl dont have the chance to obtain #even his dad played in the arena football league but not the nfl #im telling yall ppl with a chip on their shoulder... watch out 😭#it's like a beautiful giant marble statue with a bruise #i need to see them interact. i must.#sauce: you took Every. Thing. From. Me.#derek: ... OOH-- did I accidentally take a swing from your gatorade dude? aw #im so sorry man :( !! sometimes i just see shiny things and KABLAMMO! im on it like a silk bonnet! sorry bro u can have mine tho 🐶!#i didnt open it yet so it should be cool clean! AND refreshing 😁👍🏽!

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growthandgold · 8 months ago

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She said, “You just f*cked up as a parent.” https://www.growthandgold.com/treasure-trove/she-said-you-just-fcked-up-as-a-parent

#blog #life coaching #life lessons #relationships #parent #child #adult child #dysfunctional family #childhood trauma #trauma #entitlement issues

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stabbingandorbeingstabbed · 2 years ago

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i need to run away from home i need to move to a city and meet people who get it and i need to get my tits cut off for realsies this time like i've had enough actually. for the love of god

#my parents are being kind enough to pay for sessions with a life coach bc im very stuck and not at all sure what to do #and the bad news is that it's a woman from my old church #but the good news is that i've always liked her and she's the most normal person there re: non-christians #like we have a relationship that goes back 15 years and i've never once felt judged by her like i love her #and had NO IDEA she did the whole life coach thing #so im hoping that once we start this it'll be the active hand holding i need to like. pull me out of the rut i've been stuck in for like #almost a decade now #gonna have to wait on even thinking abt top surg tho bc i cannot see my family being super supportive of THAT and like #idk how to go about looking into how to do that like my insurance covered my breast reduction #bc i was still on my moms really good insurance and it was deemed medically necessary for my quality of life or whatever #and im SO GLAD i did it but u know what would be even better ?? never feeling the need to put on a bra ever again in my life #anyways. right now at this moment nothing has like materially changed but i think i can feel Something shifting #but that might just be me having a little bit of hope for the first time in a while lmaoo. bleak !!

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mainfaggot · 1 year ago

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little sisters are a test from god actually

#i think I've made this exact post before ...#shes just so MEAN to me #like I'll say good morning or good night and she just glares at me and tells me to get out of her room #I'll ask her where xyz kitchen appliance is and she'll tell me to use my eyes and stop annoying her #I'll sit on her bed to pet the cat and she'll yell at me #I'll wear something cute and ask her if she likes it or ill ask for her opinion #and she'll tell me that she doesn't care and that it doesn't even matter what she thinks so i should stop seeking validation #like???? i just want a little compliment every once in a while... is that a crime #she'll openly compliment my older sister constantly but when it comes to me she suddenly thinks she's some life coach or something and that #im an idiot for wanting to get a compliment when i feel a bit more confident in my appearance #she'll talk my ear off when she's in a good mood but if i talk the same amount she gets irritated and zones out or just starts being rude #i cant tell her things most of the time because she's always being mean to me.#i cant tell my parents things half the time because they dont get it and because it's so hard to be vulnerable #also because im gay and closeted #im out to my little sister but i cant even tell her anything about my life because shes so.#she doesn't care. shes judgmental. she always has something rude to say. she's supposedly supportive #bc she won't out me. but she makes me feel like a bad person for being a lesbian sometimes #it's so weird. i cant be sisters with my sisters because my older sister is so different and so homophobic #and my younger sister has become so prickly and cold over time #we used to be close before.#z.post

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comradejoanmir · 1 year ago

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Finished the brawn docu. Two thoughts

1. Barrichello deserved that championship based, if nothing, on I feel bad for him reasoning

2. Listening to anthony hamilton speak like. Finally. Understand where lewis gets it from

#‘it’ being the life coach motivational speaker core speech. pattern. really #the contrast between what anthony would say had it been lewis vs what jenson’s dad Actually told him 😭#very cool to me though that his dad just wasn’t that ambitious or atleast he never showed it not like so many other sports parents #also mad how a show about jb’s championship winning season made me come out of it thinking ‘wow. poor rubens’ as my first thought 😭#I love that old man now….#f1 #a lot of it I knew from his book but still wow

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cat-eye-nebula · 2 years ago

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Self-regulation, positive words/affirmations and healing childhood wounds

“I learned to intellectualize a lot of my feelings and make logic out of them instead of just feeling them. Because I was never allowed a save space to feel my feelings.”🧸👧

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case-57-with-the-enclosure · 2 years ago

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i still can't believe they pulled that one on the tedbecca enjoyers JHKSJDG it was just a succession of me going WHAT. WHAT. while more people popped up on rebecca's kitchen. In my heart they're all on a extremely weird queerplatonic polycule.

#they're all co-parenting AFC Richmond. TO ME #except jane she ain't mother to nobody #yall i have to move on with my life now and honestly. idk how im supposed to do that #ted lasso #ted lasso spoilers #coach beard #rebecca welton #jane payne #ted lasso finale #s3e12 #i'll treasure the image of coach beard's pale white ass on the kitchen counter #thats my wife yall

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larrycazenave · 2 months ago

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Lessening your teen's anxiety through higher levels of thinking

Teens feel stress, a lot of it. Specifically, they feel pressure from their parents to do well in school. A teen I was coaching recently told me his parents say “A” is for average, and “B” is for below average. That sums up well the expectations that’s put on teens today. I get it, I mean, college admissions are brutally competitive. Parents want to put their kids in a position to succeed in life, and have good paying jobs.

But how are they supposed to manage this level of stress? Some act out and blow off steam. Some act in and shut off from everything, and everyone. And when this happens, parents are often at a loss. They try to treat the symptoms and not the root causes. Aside from deep breaths, and anxiety relief medications, how can we support our teens to better manage this stress?

The answer lies in helping them learn higher levels of thinking. You see, everything that we experience as humans begins, according to Tony Kirkland, as originating from “Slow Brain”. It’s the primary feelingor thought that arises when we feel overwhelmed or triggered. Most of us, our teens included, get stuck there and cannot escape. Most of what I do as a life coach for teens is help them elevate their thinking so they can have more agency.

Let me give you an example. Last month, I was working with someone I will call David. David is a 17 year old high school student in Connecticut who is feeling a lot of pressure right now to get into the right college. He’s in the mix of college applications, retaking his SATs, while trying to maintain his current 3.8 GPA. David feels the weight of the world on his shoulders, and this is making his experience of life pretty miserable. When we looked closer at what was really driving his distress (symptom), the root cause appeared to be that he did not want to disappoint his parents. Getting high marks was a system David figured out he could use to get acceptance and caring from his parents. When that system broke down because he could not manage all the expectations on the level needed, his entire emotional safety was threatened.

When we unpacked this, David was able to witness that his system was actually creating a lot of pressure. We worked on helping David know that he belonged regardless of performance. I met separately with David’s parents to encourage more connection building independent of performance. Soon after, the heavy pressure to perform in order to belong began to deflate, and David started to feel more integrated. He developed more confidence in himself. He also developed more perspective about his model for belonging, and took agency in how he wanted it to go instead: choosing to know that he belonged regardless of performance, and wanting to do well for himself, not for his parents. And guess what? He started to do even better academically.

David’s parents were also able to move beyond their fear of failure for their son (Slow Brain) and realize the cost of their achievement only approach on David’s mental health and their relationship. They realized that the most integrated approach was toalways have connection as the foundation first. This was better for David, and also allowed them to actually have more influence over him because David, feeling connection beyond achievement, was more inclined to see them as allies and listen.

As parents and teens, we are often inside of something we cannot see. By learning to access higher levels of thinking, we can move beyond the stress and anxiety we feel to see the bigger picture. This is where the pathway to agency, wisdom and empowerment begins.

#parenting #teenagers #life coaching #stress #mental health

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heswrongshesright · 2 months ago

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Jody Calls, Moldy Barracks, & Military Life with Hots&Cots founder Rob Evans - HWSR Ep 102

In this humor-filled episode of the He’s Wrong She's Right podcast, ‘Jody Calls, Moldy Barracks, & Military Life with Hots&Cots founder Rob Evans’, join hosts Andrew Lemacks and Nona Phelps as they chat with Rob Evans about some uncensored issues facing soldiers today. From mold-infested military barracks and tech eavesdropping mysteries to the daily grind of balancing HVAC jobs and coaching youth sports, we dig deep and get real. Learn about the hot new 'Hots and Cots' app, created to rate and review military living conditions, along with some hilarious military anecdotes that will leave you in stitches. We even dive into the importance of good chow and the perils of predatory loans. Buckle up for a laugh-packed, informative session!

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