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The phrases “during covid times” and “during the pandemic” drive me bonkers because hi babes, it’s not over. If you mean the lock down period, say that. But covid is still very much around and mutating like a motherfucker, so if you care about the immunocompromised people in your life for the love of god take some precautions and stop acting like it’s done. The effects of covid are far-reaching (for e.g., I’ve been told I have to be “past this covid cough” to have abdominal surgery or I’ll “tear everything open,” like sir, I don’t really have much of a choice in what my lungs are doing now or how long it will take for them to calm down, if ever). Those of us with shitty immune systems aren’t “scared” for no reason. If you’ve ever gone from “perfectly healthy” to “need a steroid shot to not die” then you’ll understand.
FUUUUUUUUUUUCK.
#we’re not in a post-covid world kids#we’re very much in a ‘this IS our world now’ world#you probably *should* be afraid of the effects of multiple infections#i put partial blames on the shitty medical infrastructure in the U.S.#so many people have to puff up in the face of sickness and act like it isn’t a threat#because they don’t have health insurance and it’s how they fool themselves into getting past medical issues#having your insurance tied to a job is one of the cruelest yokes#or tied to a spouse#Medicare for all now#UBI for all now#this country… it is beyond fucked
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oh my god bro im gonna say this one last time: the coffee theory fucking SUCKS it's bullshit and it'd be cheap writing and yall are fucking weak.
#'oH bUT whY diD tHeY empHasIzE thE cOfFe thEn?' BC ITS FUCKING SYMBOLIC ITS THE WEAKEST MANIPULATION TACTIC BUT IT STILL WORKED BC AZ IS#STILL SO TIED UP W HEAVEN THAT METATRON CONNECTING W HIM THRU THE COFFEE AND FOOD AND CROWLEY!!!! WORKS INSTANTLY FOR HIM#come on man have yall never had good written characters before? im sick of yalls bullshit#'maybe in an another universe aziraphale didn't drink the coffee–' shut tf up#good omens#good omens s2#azicrow#crowley#aziraphale#aziracrow#ineffable spouses#go season 2#good omens coffee theory#tagging that only so they can see and cry abt it
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Post understanding Amity, Hunter has developed a new favorite form of personal terrorism: Amity’s gigantic crush on Luz. Amity knows he knows after he comes out of her mindscape and he DOES at least promise not to tell (because Luz has enough on her plate without having to spiral about Amity’s feelings), but he has made zero promises about not embarrassing the ever loving hell out of Amity.
Hunter’s on door guard duty that night? Wishes Luz good night and then before stepping outside he’ll put on his most self righteous little shit voice and say “You two kids play nice!” back over his shoulder.
Whenever Amity’s face goes tomato red because of Luz, Hunter will make sure to get in Amity’s line of sight before doing the most dramatic eye roll.
Amity walks in on Hunter taking care of Luz’s hair, he just stops and goes “oh good, Blight, take over for me, my hands starting to cramp :))))”
Frankly Amity wishes he’d go back to threatening to kill her
amity's hair-braiding skills coming in clutch!!
luz keeps being like "you don't have to listen to him, don't do anything you don't want to" and amity, who's still trying to show luz that she likes being around her without showing luz that she LIKES being around her, is like "i KNOW that. i don't mind, um, touching.... you.... i mean.... your hair.... i..." and then loses her ability to be coherent.
at one point when talking to hunter, amity is like "i know you're just making fun of me, but if i didn't know better, i'd say you're trying to set me up with your...."
hunter: [raised eyebrow] my What??
amity: ...what DO you call her??
hunter: luz, mostly.
amity: ....right.
hunter: empress, occasionally.
amity: wow. you are SO unhelpful.
#replies#toh#princess luz au#understanding amity#lumity#shitty idiot repression gang#and who is that other witch#horrible mindscape trauma pals#hunter toh#amity blight#amity like 'is she your girlfriend??' and hunter like '....IS she???'#after some pondering he's like no she's just my girl. like i'm her boy. & amity is like great job demystifying nothing for me. thank you#'you know how some people are just kind of tied to you forever for better or for worse' 'so like a spouse. or a sister'#'like both of those yeah' 'you two are so WEIRD >:('
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i would truly be the worst housewife of all time bc i hate cooking and i hate cleaning and i don’t want children. all i wanna do is live in a magically pristine home full of delicious food so i have all the more energy to focus on reading and writing disgusting smut
#i usually clean late at night and it’s good bc there’s a time crunch to get it done so i can sleep#ofc i don’t vacuum late bc that would be inconsiderate of my neighbors#but yeah the amount of times 10 pm rolls around and i’m like ‘now’s a great time to clean!’ should prob be studied#anyway my faves have a lot to put up with#and this is also why i’m weary of self shipping with diluc bc i think he wants a spouse to take care of the house and procreate and#wary***#tis not me#— idle chatter#cw food
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if chad stahelski drops the director’s cut/bts for john wick 4 i will draw marquis or john tied up
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I really do rather like that, you know
#bg3#baldurs gate 3#baldur's gate 3#baldurs gate iii#astarion#you must kiss the pixel spouse before bed every night#tis the law
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thank god i finally fucking did a tension swatch cause this sweater would've ended up wayyyy too small
#i think it would have still fit but i'd probably have run out of yarn#i got one of those caron pounds and bigger needles i'll do another swatch today see if that'll work#and depending on how much this pattern uses i'd like to make a second out of a big cake i have#maybe cropped???#i think i'll need close to 400g for the size i want and the cake is 300g and the one i got with the needles is 500 something g so test run#patterns are so fucking expensive but i'm not at a place in knitting where i can just go for it like i can in crochet#anyway the cake is what i used for the tension swatch i'm interested to try it again but i rlly wanna just get started so i'll just swatch#the new yarn & needles today#and then go from there#it's gonna be like a loose open knit pull over situation#cause i loveeee the way they look i've been wanting to make one for awhile#but it's so intimidating cause my last sweater i made some pretty significant mistakes lmso#and i'm actually gonna have to frog that one and start over#but that's very much a dead of winter sweater#i want a summer sweater rn#anyway#oh yeah and i finished the stuffie hammock!!!!!!#ended up crocheting the ties#gonna get it spouse's help to hang it up later i hope it works#it turned out sooooo cute#i love the fabric + yarn combo#kinda worked out that i ran out of ribbon
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heloooooooo bbb i might've spam queued your art and then shuffled my queueueue a few times byeeeeeeeeee
I WOKE UP TO 300+ FREAKING NOTES I COULDNT OPEN THE APP FOR A HOT SECOND LMAOO-
I’m so sure like atleast 100 of that was just you. PFFFT
Also gurl staph don’t look at my old art it’s so cringe 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 AARHAGAHIZSKKS LMAOOO
#the app crashed like two times lmaooo😭😭😭😭#Tis my discord spouse Omgg :000#oh wait no we fucking divorced 💀💀💀💀💀#lmaoooo#echo my beloved 🦋#echo-at-the-pond 🏷️#not pjo#reply post#off topic
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@soulsxng || Send questions to my muse’s parents || Accepting
I decided to break this up by parent/s so that we didn't end up with a mega long post! And so I could work on bit by bit instead of taking ten years.
"Some may say it would be a cliché to wish for my sweet babies to both be happy, but why would I not? Mo luran is such a serious little thing! So stuffy already for one so young! I can already see the ways in which he ends up like his father, far too hard on himself and in need of a good break! Tarag too, the wee toddling thing that she is." The smile on the woman's lips gained a tinge of sadness. "Royalty, the crown, it can eat one alive. I almost wish my two beloveds could escape from it all and live a life of their own making."
"I would have chosen to say that I wish for Camhlaidh to be a great king with Tara supporting him at his side, but I see that option is not allowed. Fine, I suppose I will say that I would like for Tara to never feel as if she is second to her brother, be it in our hearts or in the world. Siblings among Seelie fae are rare as it is, and to be the younger sibling to the heir is an experience of hers that very few can share. I do not wish for her to have a lonely existence. As for Camhlaidh, I wish for her to find a joy in life outside of his duties to the crown. It can weigh heavily on one's head, and while our duty to it is important, it is also important to find meaning and joy outside of it. I do not know where I would be if it were not for my beloved wife, mo chridhe."
"Oh, you!"
"Mo leannan."
#soulsxng#{Aur Answers#{Tara Answers#a lot of sappy nicknames and endearments here for both the kids and the spouses#but with that limitation you've in one move tied the hands of /so/ many of the gentry's parents#they're going to be struggling
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mrs collins arc in summary
#➤ roger collins & victoria winters. ┊ pain sometimes precedes pleasure,miss winters.#➤ arc: mrs. collins. ┊ collinwood will always mean home to me.#half the reason I think things would actually Work Out is that they’re both two terrible marriages/engagements down#‘might as well give it a shot. third time’s the charm’#it’s not so much a matter of … passion or whirlwind romance. so much as it is they’re already close and they want to move On from#prev spouses & unhappiness. adversity better faced in partnership#not that there isn’t romance involved but that’s not why they get married.#v’s experience still pales to roger’s but it does not Work unless they’re both divorced (to me)#Roger doesn’t necessarily have to live up to a youthful naive expectation of marriage and V is not a young toy that he’d buy like a new car#I didn’t even count v and barn’s almost vampire marriage but like. that too#they’ve both all but given up on the idea of marriage bringing happiness by then.#not that rog is ever selfless (never!) but he does have some selfless motives in terms of protecting V; keeping her with the family;#ensuring she’s financially provided for#there’s a line when she’s in Bangor looking for Answers about how she feels her future is tied to the Collinses whether or not her past is.#and. yeah. that’s it baby !!!!!#ok enough waxing about the version of the story that lives exclusively in my head lmao
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resa and dustfinger never fail to make me scream. she's on a rescue mission for her husband but finds dustfinger's body and just puts her face against his and goes "I should die here too" GIRL
#theyre soooo crazy#the unresolved everything they have is so so so good#but like stand UP teresa /your/ man is drowning#says kenna#inkheart#eventually when this brain fog i found out this morn is being caused by my migraine meds lifts a little im gonna write at length about them#and the way they do not and will never regret their spouses but thats not gonna undo the years they were together#that ended so abruptly they have no hope of a satisfying resolution now#anyway#just gonna be weird but tied together forever it's fine#resa folchart#dustfinger#i said i was gonna write later but im actually losing it at the way no one can read his face if he doesnt want them to#except resa#she reads him like a picture book every time#I N S A N E
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Not my sim aging up and IMMEDIATELY getting abducted by aliens... and impregnated by aliens... by the same pollinator that her mother was, at that very moment, going into labor with the offspring of.......... 🤣😅
#i intentionally wanted an alien baby so i cranked the settings up.... and forgot to turn them down 😬#and the sim who just aged up is the only child parented by the mother's human spouse who has been cucked for their entire marriage#i told myself if she was pregnant id delete it but the mess of it... the drama.... well my hands are tied#the sims 4
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I miss my spouse tumblr dot com
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throwback to the post i made a few weeks ago (that made some people mad) about learning to control your sexual passions before marriage, not just using obstacles to prevent yourself from sinning, because that’s a skill that is also necessary in marriage. i just want to add that if you don’t think that’s the case because 'sex isn’t as tempting when you’re married' just take a cursory glance at the people in dead bedroom reddit to see what i mean when i say that if your plan for controlling lust/sexual passion is "it won’t be a sin anymore once we are married" you could still be in for a pretty miserable life
#so many of these people have tied their self worth or how they measure their spouse's feelings directly to frequency or quality of sex#to the point where no other quality time spent together suffices#and the fact is that there are many points during a marriage during which sex is not going to be a priority for one or both spouses like#immediately post having a baby#i mean some of those relationships are just bad for a multitude of reasons#but with some you can see that the spouse is making an effort to do other things like spend time together but because it’s not sex it’s#worthless to the other spouse who can’t derive any enjoyment from a nonsexual activity because of this perceived lack#obviously im sure most of these people had premarital sex but again.#need to have a handle on this before you get married
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A book I read earlier this year made a claim that "motherhood is discussed in fewer than 3 per cent of papers, journal articles or textbooks on modern gender theory" and I wasn't able to verify their statistic but that idea sat with me (and certainly experientially the idea that modern feminism and gender theory drastically undervalue motherhood feels accurate) and so when I heard an old comment from an actress about being tired of playing wives and mothers it had a different ring to it. And I think that A. the problem isn't portraying wives and mothers it's a shallow conception of what those things are and B. maybe we need not less wives and mothers but more husbands and fathers and C. Once Upon a Time was doing something really right with Emma Swan.
#and obviously there's the importance of valuing singleness and realizing that not everyone is going to be in a relationship (and therefore#not going to be a spouse or a parent) and that's good#and that we have individuality outside of our roles#BUT.#and this is the big thing#I think our roles are a bigger part of our identity than we would like to think#and so what a lot of conversations do is flatten out the concept of wife or mother to be just a cardboard cutout to fill the role#and so its seen as if you take a woman and make her a wife and/or a mother you rob her of her individuality and limit her#and on the flip side men are kind of pushed away from their respective roles because they are seen as confining#and i think both can be attributed in large part to toxic radical individualism that is so prevalent in america/the west#that demands that you must be cut free of any of those ties and defined solely by yourself#but we are inherently made in connection to others#and we do ourselves great harm by believing that those roles of how we relate to (and serve) others diminish us#in reality they build us up and make us more than we could be individually#and i think even in singleness there's a common element that can be seen in the concept of what it is to be a wife/husband#or a mother/father in how we relate to people in general#for instance i think in all good authority there is an element of either the maternal or the paternal#and yeah big asterisk on that statistic because the book cited the article she got it from but the article does not cite where they got it
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I didn't think I would become somewhat of a stalking victim at the ripe age of 23 but here we are I guess???
#It's not a big deal (yet) I promise#It's just me and my spouse's old friend who we haven't talked with for 8 months and have silently severed ties with#he just suddenly showed up behind our apartment door (thankfully we weren't home but I met him at the entrance of the apartment building#I'm just fucking surprised that he still had the balls to bitch about how I'm always at work etc. lmao#he has an unhealthy parasocial relationship with us#tw stalking#I guess#vent post#Faun talks#<- that's going to be my new rambling tag for this blog
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