#or the gay is real

[imherequeerandgotexistentialfear]

I don’t know how to do these usually but it’s been a hot second lmao

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mmer or winter (Fall) // coffee or tea // straight hair or curly hair (Having hair in general is my preference) //fiction or nonfiction // necklaces or bracelets (both) // marshmallows or whipped cream (BOTH BTHG) // lee or switch or ler (All) // fiaction or nanactiofic (I DON’T DISCRIMINATE AGAISNT KNOWLEGIKO) // Party or Homebody daiosmo (HHomebody daiosmo) // night in or night out (I don’t actually understand how to answer this) // sunset or sunrise (This sunset and the next) // pizza or pasta (Food is Food)// cold drink or hot drink (Depeins on the average temperature of the room I’m drinking it in and the humeciotepo outdeunir) // vampire or werewolf (WHO WOULD WANT TO BE MURAL VEMuo) // crop top or oversized hoodie (Huniohook Persoe)) // be able to fly or run at super speed (😶‍🌫️) // speak many languages or able to speak to animals (uhhh well both happens so) // be invisible or read minds(FFS) // phone call or text// laundry or dishes (…Piutinomagikoepans…shhh) // pool or beach (Beach why’s if I had choice would I want a phusdeo beinoniko) //flats or heels (SNEAKIOS SNEKIOLOUS SNIKIOUS) //stay home or go out (…. ~_\\ :.)) // coke or pepsi (Fruinilopuia) // cook dinner or do dishes ((what? Oh wait cook COOK CIEPENOPPOSKDISPAPOEX) // books (this doesn’t even need a space) poinskindoomo?!’s) or movies // dogs or cats (Animals all deserve love, safety and security like us, so every animals Animicalogia) // chocolate or vanilla ((mosukioke Strinbee) // facebook or instagram (Tumblr or YouTube Abrikimey) // over-dressed or under-dressed (I would just like to be dressed…pinalenbababsmoo) // morning or late nights // always late or always early (why can’t we just be in the middle not first but not last) // dancer or singer (More of Ryhthem vubbes) // always eat only dessert or always eat only savouryi ((((these questions both scare me and confuse me I can’t eat only sweets forever that’s gross and I can’t eat only savory cuz then my mouth will get way to dry) / shopping or museum (MUSEUMINOOOOOOOO) // art gallery or Zoom? (I think this means art gallery wall or online looking at art…so why would I not want to IMPORNEINSANISOPEFECTICOANO) //parties or picnics (Picnics Peinmoemina) // white lights or multicolored lights(Miscotolianirisia) //

Thank you for the tag, @s0lavellan 🤍

summer or winter // coffee or tea // straight hair or curly hair //fiction or nonfiction // necklaces or bracelets // marshmallows or whipped cream // night in or night out // sunset or sunrise // pizza or pasta // cold drink or hot drink // vampire or werewolf // crop top or oversized hoodie // be able to fly or run at super speed // speak many languages or able to speak to animals // be invisible or read minds// phone call or text// laundry or dishes // pool or beach //flats or heels //stay home or go out // coke or pepsi // cook dinner or do dishes // books or movies // dogs or cats // chocolate or vanilla // facebook or instagram// over-dressed or under-dressed // morning or late nights // always late or always early // dancer or singer // always eat only dessert or always eat only savoury // shopping or museum // art gallery or zoo //parties or picnics // white lights or multicolored lights

No pressure tags: @polskasroka @beardedladyqueen @harpyhunting @elfroot-and-gooseberries @solasisms and anyone else who'd like to do this (:

[inkskinned]

she's singing in another room and my dog is asleep at my feet. my grandma asked me why i haven't found a man yet and i laughed. oh, you know. i like my house clean.

my girlfriend is also my man is also "my partner" if i'm in a professional setting. yesterday we went to a ren faire and a man mimed at me - you're together? and at my delighted nod, his baffled, you're gay? made me laugh. a woman with rainbow hair said i love the two of you together. you're both so beautiful it's absurd.

my dad introduced my partner as my "..... friend. or whatever" the other day. he knows we're dating. in the same way, i was never able to get my sister's husband to stop saying that's gay like it's 2008. he still uses the word fa***t, and my sister's defense of him has always been well, he's just kidding.

my lover and i dance to old music in a tiny kitchen. we judge new music together and take food critique very seriously. we watch love is blind before we fall asleep and agree that if they had a queer season, it would be bloody but also make for excellent tv. of fucking course queer people would know someone for only 2 weeks and agree to get married. what are you saying.

at a bar with friends, a man puts his hand on my wrist. got a boyfriend? and yes, i do have a boyfriend, she's amazing. i am texting her while i wander around a gas station named after geese. i am visiting a swing state for a wedding. in the candy aisle i overhear: she's actually like a lesbian it's disgusting. two teenage girls with packaged sandwiches in their hands, giggling. no literally, like. i'm not, like. okay with her being there while we're all, like, naked and changing.

my girlfriend and i tailgate, drink gin and cider out of cups. from the frat group beside us, a man corrects himself with one of his friends: bro, i mean, nonbinary entity, and it makes everyone around him laugh, myself included. he razzes his friend the same way i would have killed for at 19 years old - like nothing happened, he continues: you apply sunscreen like an alien. he does a little sassy (and fairly accurate) dance interpretation of the motion. his friend is laughing so hard they're crying.

i am lucky, i live in a safe neighborhood in a safe state. my masc passenger princess comes up from DC. i drive her for an hour to where all the leaves are a violent arrangement of color. we walk along the trails, letting autumn into our blood. in this part of the state, there's a lot of pickup trucks and trump signs. when we chastely kiss before getting into the car, i accidentally make eye contact with a woman holding her child's wrist. she looks disgusted. she looks fucking pissed.

two hours later my girl and i are eating dinner on a patio, soaking in the last warmth of new england sun before the chill of winter sets in. we are giggling and trying to talk through plastic vampire teeth. at another table, i see a young woman sit up straighter. i watch her watch us. she blushes and takes her partner's hand from across the table. shy, like the taste of evening has just become something deeper.

it's worth it for this moment, i think. my lover is still humming the same song she's been singing for four days straight and i don't want to kill her for it. her guitar is beside my bed. her toothbrush is in my bathroom. in a few moments i will make us lunch. we are lucky enough to have found each other. it is lucky enough to be in love.

[artstetic-real]

happy pride. or whatever

[stonelions]

i was thinking the other day how we tend to draw cas and dean (correctly tbh) like

but in doing so we are betraying another fundamental dynamic of theirs which is more like,

[frogkik]

your light keeps burning 💛

[thelolarahaii]

DOECHII NISSAN ALTIMA - Swamp Session

[bacchuschucklefuck]

no more fan-ta-sizing about it! everything's already changed~

[peteytheparrot]

The Book of Bill is great Bill and Ford get a divorce so Bill goes to a bar, gets drunk, and cries

[thatonedudeinthecorner]

Happy pride month to these two specifically I can’t believe that Merthur is real

[savagegood]

enemies to lovers? and they were teammates - and roommates? men’s sports have nothing on women’s sports

and this particular guy... cry harder (imagine if women's sports had the funding, visibility and accessibility men's sports are gifted):

[sundaybrainrot]

“my silver cowboy” I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE.

[drchucktingle]

honored by the kind words of asexual buds just now learning about my NOT POUNDED BY series. you should know that while BURY YOUR GAYS is a love letter to fandom and creation, it is also for my ace buds and a rallying cry for ace validity in queer spaces

that is not an AFTERTHOUGHT with the book. when i set out to write BURY YOUR GAYS i was specifically thinking about the ace buckaroos who trotted with chuck and helped guide me through the first few NOT POUNDED BY BOOKS. i wanted to write something to honor their fight

[huachengsromcom]

People call Heaven Official’s Blessing / TGCF a slow burn but Hua Cheng is literally courting Xie Lian like they are DATING. Slow burn who??? They’re sleeping next to each other on straw mats and Xie Lian’s offering to cook him dinner and they’re bantering across THE HOME THEY SHARE like a bunch of desperate hussys

San Lang LEAVES XL WITH A KEEPSAKE OF THEIR TIME TOGETHER SLOW BURN WHOMST

They have A DATE in HC’s armoury where they HOLD HANDS and XL pets San Lang’s quivering sword I-

Hua Cheng basically throws himself at this man he’s like you want a sword?? All of them ?? You want ALL THE SWORDS?? Fuck it take the whole room THE WHOLE ROOM JUST COME VISIT I WILL CLEAN THEM FOR YOU

Like he isn’t the king of a whole realm with shit to do

And this is just the first half of the first book—again I ask the world SLOW BURN WHOMST

[die-o]

It took me millions of years to finish, but they took millions of years to get here, so I think I'm justified. also i did just finish 113 and i need to say, on a related note and in light of that episode, hey Robbie?? is this your play EVERY new character? congrats honestly

[nadja-antipaxos]

"Dante doesn't go to heaven because how could he do that after he's just been walked through hell by Virgil. How would he leave his side after that? How would he accept those systems that he just walked through? That in another reading, he doesn't accept the legitimacy of this place and he doesn't go on into purgatory. He stays put and he says 'If you can't go, then I won't go either'.

Hozier talking about "Hymn to Virgil" last year during the YouTube Premium "De Selby Part 2" After party.

[whydooldpeopletalk]

Speaking as someone who's been outed many, many times, by both "allies" and homo/transphobes, some of yall are way too comfortable sharing other peoples' queer identities.

"But what if I'm trying to be funny?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if I'm an ally?" Doesn't matter

"But what if the person I'm talking to is an ally?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if I'm queer?" Doesn't matter

"But what if the person I'm talking to is queer?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if the person I'm talking about is a stranger?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if it's really obvious?" First of all, ew. Second of all, Doesn't matter.

"But what if they didn't come out to me, I just figured it out on my own?" Doesn't matter.

"But what if they're getting misgendered?" It's just as easy to say 'actually she's a girl' as it is to say 'actually she's transgender and uses she/her'. If that person is pretransition, it's also easy to just bite your tongue and not say anything.

Unless that person has explicitly given you permission to share that information, you DON'T. No matter how certain you are that everyone is accepting, no matter how noble your intentions, it's not your information to share. Getting clocked sucks, getting outed sucks, and they're both an invasion of privacy no matter who's doing it.