#online hate

[whumporama]

Whumpee loved talking about fandoms online before they were captured. When they finally got out and returned to a somewhat normal life, they tried to get back into everything they missed. They are excited to talk about it and share their thoughts!

"Ugh another of these posts? This thing has been dead for months just shut up"

"Yeah we know. Have you lived under a rock?"

"Oh my god wow, original post! Who hasn't seen this yet? Just search for these topics istg people are idiots"

Okay, no more internet for Whumpee, they guess.

[jellyfishfem]

My biggest flex is that I never ever fell for or partipicipated in misogynystic hate campaigns. Not with Taylor Swift, not with Billie Eilish, not with Megan Thee Stallion, not with Ariana Grande, not with Amber Heard, not with Millie Bobby Brown, not with Meghan Markle, not with Hannah Kae Kim, not with Brie Larson, not with the Kardashian family, not with Daisy Ridley, not with Mia Khalifa, not with Doja Cat, not with JKR, not with Amanda Bynes, not with Azealia Banks, not with Selena Gomez and not with Hailey Bieber. Did I forget someone? Women are never held to the same standards as men. Chris Brown, Johnny Depp, Charlie Sheen, Woody Allen, Kanye West, Mel Gibson, ETC, they never even got half the portion of hate that the women did for *checks notes* dating many people…uhh, believing in biology, uhhh… not smiling enough in the movies… uhhh…being visibly mentally ill… yall get the point.

[w2soneshots]

Actress -KSI

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warnings: angst with a happy ending, online hate.

summary: you’re an actress, you and JJ are spotted by paparazzi and the public aren’t happy.

notes: this was based off of this request!! I love this idea so much, thank you for your ask anon😊🤍.

y/username

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enews: actress y/n y/l/n and youtuber ksi were seen yesterday leaving a restaurant. An eye witness stated that they were 'getting cosy and seemed to be a couple'. (📸: Getty)

-comments-

sidemenupdates: omg!!

y/nfanpage21: iconic couple🔥

user3524192: she deserves so much better than him!

user9812034: absolutely not he's so ugly.

user2470195: who tf even is that?🤣

I met JJ a month and a half ago at an event. He was so sweet and despite looking slightly intimidating, he is the cutest little softie I've ever met. He asked me out and I was officially his girlfriend two weeks later. We decided to keep our relationship private as I'm an actor and have had relationships ruined in the past, due to random strangers on the Internet and their opinions. But yesterday we went out for dinner and were pictured by paparazzi on our way out. We have been so careful and were also wearing dark clothes but I assume someone in the restaurant recognised us and so told the paparazzi where we were.

Since our relationship became public the amount of hate JJ has been getting it is crazy. People are spreading stupid rumours and Twitter is full of people talking shit about him and our private life. I feel absolutely awful. He has dealt with lots of hate in the past just from being in the sidemen, but it's nothing like this. He has stopped appearing in more sidemen videos, along with sidemen reacts just because the comment section is completely ignoring the videos and just talking about JJ. We're both confused on why people care so much and are so outraged. JJ is a YouTuber, musician and boxer but people still believe I shouldn't be with someone like him because he's not 'famous enough'.

Today I sat in my apartment when I got a call from Tobi: "hey, what's up?" I asked. "Hi um- JJ... he's been acting really strange today, like really quiet and sorta just kept his head down. We're a bit worried about him." He said quietly. I sighed "I think everything that's been going on has started to get to him. I'll talk to him when he gets home. Thanks Tobs." I said. "Alright, in a bit." "Bye." I put the phone down and quickly clicked on instagram.

y/username

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y/username: this boy is the kindest person I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. If you have a problem with him you've got a problem with me🙂

-comments-

ksi: ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

miniminter: 🥹

y/nfanpage21: so cute!!!

user30597182: I seriously don't know why people cared so much about their relationship, it's their lives?😂

user51932678: I think they look nice together.

"Hey!" JJ's loud voice traveled through my apartment. I stood from the sofa and ran towards him, pulling him into a massive hug. "I saw your insta post." He said as we pulled away. "Yea... I know I should have asked you first before posting that but I-" I rambled. "I thought it was really cute. Thank you babe." He cut me off. I smiled up at him "hopefully all those idiots shut the fuck up now." I said. He laughed "I love you so much." He pulled me into a kiss.

[sbrown82]

There terrible thing about this world is people love to hear negative things. And if you don’t have anything negative to say about somebody, you will make it up.

- Beyoncé

[darklinaforever]

Rhaenyra calling Daemon pathetic makes me happy grace

Don't you have anything better to do than piss off Daemyra fans and specifically me ? What the fuck is your problem ? Do you even realize that most of Daemyra's fans globally loved this scene ? You're exhausting yourself for nothing. You're the one who's pathetic.

[cree-n-jewish-thoughts]

Funny how I don't get death threats (in my inbox) anymore since I've taken away anonymous.

I actually had anonymous spam messages to some mutuals and people who interacted with my blog recent to then. They actually put a link to my blog in the ask to get my attention.

So to clarify, I turned anon off, they went into my ask box, didn't see the anon option, and then went through notes on a couple posts to spam this message in hopes someone would post it for me to see. They literally harassed people with nothing to do with anon and I.

Do you see how ridiculous this is? How far people go to hide who they are?

This is why suicide rates have increased dramatically and not just in teens, this is why online bullying is toxic and is not managed, this is why the anonymous option is toxic, this is what happens when there are no actual consequences for your actions. I'm sorry but my blog being deleted and making a new one is annoying, but it's not an actual punishment. Just because this is a social media platform does not mean that you do not report criminal activity, no matter what it is.

This is why

[utsukurou]

No Emily you're not a 'girlboss' for saying 'kill all men' chronically, and no Max you're not a 'sigma male' for saying 'women should go back to the kitchen'

[hussyknee]

Apparently Zionists are harrassing Sudanese people who're risking death to post updates from their own genocide because they can't tell the Sudanese flag 🇸🇩 apart from the Palestinian one. 🇵🇸

Mfers 1) can't even identify what they hate so much, 2) can't leave any Black people alone if their lives depended on it.

[abby118]

Just a reminder you don't have to interact with me or my blog(s) if it upsets you so much. I can't believe I have to be saying this again but I promise no one's holding you at gun point to look at it(them). You're most welcome to block me, and if online interaction causes you that level of offence then maybe you should take a break and log off, just saying.

[jjongolese]

this is my first petition, and i’m pretty hopeful that people may see it and reply- (i’m sorry if i’m not too literate — english is not my strong suit)

(cw // content mentions dec 18th, mentions of suicide and cyber bullying)

[systemserendipity]

Endos are fake, just a little reminder for your brain rotted ass who is as stupid as a rotten fish.

Sir, this is a Wendy's.

I'm not even mad. But at least come up with an original insult if you're gonna actually bother to harass somebody smh lol. Or at least make it legible. I had to re-read that a few times to even understand what this meant.

Also, poor you, butt-hurt by random people on the internet. Was that good for you? Cuz at least it gave me a laugh, but you seem stressed. Here, have some tea.

[mastreworld]

I hate the thought that people hold back from posting their thoughts, feelings and creations out of fear for bullying. I also understand it and can't blame anyone for protecting themselves. I just hope they don't integrate the hate and start to think they're wrong for being who they are.

[mgeist]

Taking Action Against Antisemitic Hate: When Content Moderation, Self-Regulation, and Legislation Fail

The explosive growth of antisemitism in Canada since October 7th is well documented with shooting at schools, the need for a regular police presence at synagogues and community centres, arrests on terrorism offences, and protests targeting Jewish owned businesses and communities. So in that context, some antisemitic graffiti at a bus stop in Toronto over the weekend might have been just one more…

[darklinaforever]

You do harass people hun. You write shit on here, you send asks and leave replies. You steal other people's writing. You are basically a professional troll and you are on so many people's blocklists it's insane. Like you go back years to season 1 shadow and bone with your disturbed behaviour and people are still making the mistake of arguing with you

You are completely crazy...

But it's not big deal.

Continue to accuse me of baseless things if it makes you feel good about your miserable life.

I don't harass anyone. I don't plagiarize anyone either. I'm not going to send anonymous requests to people or to myself and then respond to them either.

You don't even have proof of what you're saying damn it's crazy !

But I have a clear conscience and I know what's going on, and look in the mirror before talking about harassment !

And I've had disturbing behavior since season 1 of Shadow and Bone ? What the fuck are you talking about ?! Because I'm pro Darklina / pro Darkling and anti Malina / anti Mal Oretsev ?

You need to fucking calm down. You don't have the same opinions as me ? You think what I write is shit ? Well move on ! It's not hard ! Yet you seem strangely obsessed with me...

[brasskingfisher]

So here's how my evening's been going.....

Me: Sees radfems saying men can't be feminists/inherently uphold/support the patriarchy.

Posts on tumblr: Hold on. The patriarchy harms men too, I know because I'm one of them.

Radfems: shut up! You're part of the patriarchy stop trying to make feminism about men!

Me: I'm not. I'm pointing out that men can be victims of the patriarchy too and feminism isn't a gender exclusive movement.

Radfems: you don't know you're talking about! You deserve to suffer because of the patriarchy! Also kill yourself!

[forfoxessake]

On hate

I made the mistake of actually trying to talk to people about the problems of online hate in fandom (and overall online hate) over the past week but it’s a pointless exercise, they just want to see people as evil. They are completely missing the point of what this band stands for. We sing songs about there being no evil/good dichotomy. Songs about how we are all mostly just trying to do our best and learn how to do better by looking at our bad sides and mistakes. 

The point is, if you can’t see people as being able to change and grown and learn then I just can’t imagine how you look at yourself. If you devote your time to hate than you do more harm to yourself than to anyone else. Hate it’s a powerful all consuming feeling that we need to be careful of. 

Hate has repercussions, you could be in the right and the other person in the wrong but as soon as you start a movement based on hate you are a part of the problem.

Jon Ronson wrote about this exact movement in 2016 before it even got named cancel culture,  “So You've Been Publicly Shamed”  it’s one of those books that are hard to forget and will make you think about how you interact with the internet. 

Another recent media that is even more related to fandom’s interaction is Donald Glover’s “Swarm” (2023). I’m still halfway through it, the shows makes me super anxious and afraid. It may seen outrageous but when we joke around or say something on the internet just to be funny, we have no idea who might be paying attention. Or what they might do. So many celebrities have been murdered or stalked before. Why would we think we are not a part of the problem too just because we are not doing it ourselves?

I'm not saying we should accept everyone’s mistakes or that some people don’t need to be accountable for what they have done. Things can be better and we need to find a better way to communicate that. But it’s definitely not by starting a hate blog, stalking or sending death threats. 

If anyone bothered to read this and wants to talk and share your own thoughts feel free to do so!