#oliver rose

[a-casual-egg]

So since I view Tristan as queer, I made up a boyfriend for him in my head called Oliver Rose. [: (click images for better quality)

About him under the cut

Oliver is a gay, ace, and trans asian-american man. He grew up hopping from one orphanage to the other. He also attempted to run away from them and grew up stealing. He's a fast runner and running away from orphanages is partly why. Oliver is quick-witted and will sometimes just blurt out a comeback before even thinking of if he should or not. He's normally pretty sarcastic but is also a sweetheart/big softie, especially when you get to know him.

After WW2, he is part of a transfer student-like thing for rich people's gardeners. Oliver is sent to work for Mrs.Pumphrey while Mrs.Pumphrey's gardener is sent to work for Oliver's boss for a while as both bosses are part of an international gardening society. Oliver experiences culture shock in Darrowby before ending up liking it. During his stay, Mrs.Pumphrey and him form a mother and son type dynamic. He's not as overly-polite as the British folks, so he says the more impolite things that Mrs.Pumphrey and the others can not bring themselves to say even though it needs to be said. In addition to that and his gardening, he also picks up small jobs around Pumphrey Manor and expands his skillset/has struggles with all the new things.

He first meets James and Tristan when they're on a vet visit to Pumphrey Manor, and Mrs.Pumphrey introduces them. James and Oliver have a nice conversation while Tristan, who only recently realized he's attracted to men, finds Oliver very handsome and just stands there staring at Oliver while he and James talk. Then Tristan struggles a bit to introduce himself and be all charismatic while James just looks at him very confused. (Mrs. Pumphrey, who I choose to believe, is an extreme queer ally, knows what's happening, and just smiles to herself). Oliver is nice to Tristan about it, though, and internally finds it quite charming.

The ride back to Skeldale House is silent, with Tristan staring out the window and James wondering how to broach the topic of what just happened. Tristan is embarrassed and later confides in Maggie or Florence, and they kinda just pat him on the back and tell him he's got it bad already. Over time, Tristan and Oliver become friends while Tristan fights down his crush on this man.

Siegfried is not a fan of Oliver for a while. He's concerned that Oliver is a bad influence on his little brother. His worries calm down when he sees Oliver's softer/gentler side. He brings in an injured stray cat and is close to crying about it. Siegfried takes the cat while Mrs. Hall takes Oliver into the kitchen for some tea.

The cat ends up fine and when Siegfried goes to the kitchen to inform Oliver of such, he sees that the younger man's eyes are puffy and that he was crying over a random stray cat (much like he or Tristan might do). Some stuff clicks in Siegfried's head, and then Oliver asks how the cat is. Siegfried explains that the cat needs rest, but she should make a full recovery. That makes Oliver cry more, but he's happy. Then Siegfried sees Oliver gently cradle the cat in his arms and talk to it very softly/sweetly, and Siegfried smiles to himself while coming to the conclusion that maybe Tristan's friend is good, actually.

Later, Tristan and Oliver actually end up dating, and Tristan continues to have it bad. He's does heart eyes at Oliver, especially when he does cool things. Oliver is gentle with Tristan while also playfully teasing him. Tristan gets hurt, and Oliver is like one of the first people to be by his side. He would gently clean his boyfriend's wounds while also making comments in the form of light jabs his way. Tristan would make light jabs back.

Oliver could wake up early and get out of bed and later, (at a time when they would share a bed), Tristan would get out of bed to find Oliver and be upset that Oliver left the bed and left him. He's not seriously upset, and Oliver knows that. He affectionately calls Tristan clingy, and Tristan sleepily mumbles that he is not into Oliver's shoulder. Then Oliver would give Tristan a small kiss.

They're very silly to me (affectionate). I hope you enjoyed learning about Oliver Rose [:

[oliver-rosee]

Oliver Rose - How to Overcome from anxiety

Oliver Rose is a blogger by profession and health lover by passion. Oliver Rose loves to share content related to health, fitness, etc. Anxiety is the most common thing nowadays due to work stress or any other related things. In this post, Oliver Rose is sharing tips to overcome from anxiety.

Overcoming anxiety can be a journey that involves various strategies and techniques. Here are some approaches that can help:

Seek Professional Help: If you're struggling with anxiety, consider seeking support from a mental health professional such as a therapist or counselor. They can provide guidance, support, and evidence-based treatments such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or medication if needed.

Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Mindfulness meditation, deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation, and other relaxation techniques can help reduce anxiety symptoms by promoting a sense of calm and relaxation. Regular practice can also improve resilience to stress over time.

Challenge Negative Thoughts: Cognitive-behavioral techniques involve identifying and challenging negative thought patterns that contribute to anxiety. Replace irrational or exaggerated thoughts with more realistic and balanced ones.

Stay Active: Regular physical activity has been shown to reduce symptoms of anxiety by releasing endorphins, which are natural mood lifters. Find activities you enjoy, whether it's walking, yoga, dancing, or sports, and aim for at least 30 minutes of exercise most days of the week.

Limit Caffeine and Alcohol: Caffeine and alcohol can exacerbate anxiety symptoms in some people. Limiting or avoiding these substances, especially in the evening, may help reduce anxiety levels.

Establish a Healthy Routine: Maintain a consistent sleep schedule, eat balanced meals regularly, and prioritize self-care activities that promote relaxation and well-being. A structured routine can provide a sense of stability and predictability, which can help manage anxiety.

Connect with Supportive Relationships: Reach out to friends, family members, or support groups for emotional support and encouragement. Sharing your feelings and experiences with trusted individuals can provide validation and perspective.

Set Realistic Goals: Break tasks into smaller, manageable steps and set realistic goals for yourself. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, and practice self-compassion when things don't go as planned.

Limit Media Exposure: Limit exposure to news and social media, especially if certain topics or content trigger your anxiety. Set boundaries around your media consumption and prioritize activities that bring you joy and relaxation.

Consider Self-Help Resources: Books, online resources, and mobile apps can provide valuable information and tools for managing anxiety. Explore self-help materials that resonate with you and incorporate strategies that work best for your individual needs.

Remember that overcoming anxiety is a gradual process, and it's okay to seek help and support along the way. Be patient with yourself and celebrate your progress, no matter how small it may seem.

Feel free to contact Oliver Rose!

[theabigailthorn]

Ya Girl Went to the Emmys

I had a fun time, it was nice to meet cool people and shake their hands and serve a mother slay, etc - AND it was very cool that my cousin Will won for Slow Horses, so proud - BUT

as fun as it was, I know when the chips are down none of the people I met last night (except Dave) are gonna be there for me. They don't know me, even the ones who recognised me and said they follow my work, and that's okay! The people who are really gonna be there for me are my audience. Some of you have been watching since the bookshelf days and even earlier. Now I'm on the red carpet at the Emmys and that's cool, but I know who put me here. You. Especially you, tumblr fanbase. (Best fanbase.)

So here's to many more glitzy events and slay fits, but I hope I always remember where I started and who got me where I am today

<3

[asoftepiloguemylove]

Mikko Harvey Wind-Related in the Wheatfield // Jonny Bolduc open question @jovialtorchlight // Cheryl Strayed Tiny Beautiful Things // @/mkpoet (instagram) // Mary Oliver Count the Roses // Phoebe Bridgers Waiting Room // Fyodor Dostoyevsky // Marie Howe Magdalene Afterwards; "Magdalene: Poems"

[mournfulroses]

Mary Oliver, from a poem titled "When The Rose Speak," featured in Devotions: Poems

[thomas--bombadil]

Goats, tantalized by wintery forest berries.

(rosehips, sumac and autumn olive)

[lackadaisycats]

Lackadaisy Rhapsody ~

The Official LACKADAISY Pilot Soundtrack is now up on YouTube, accompanied by animations of the Lackadaisy Speakeasy house band!

Watch it here!

[shihlun]

“I miss my records…“

Gregg Araki

- The Doom Generation

1995

[a-ramblinrose]

“But first and foremost, I learned from Whitman that the poem is a temple—or a green field—a place to enter, and in which to feel. Only in a secondary way is it an intellectual thing—an artifact, a moment of seemly and robust wordiness—wonderful as that part of it is. I learned that the poem was made not just to exist, but to speak—to be company.”

― Mary Oliver, Upstream: Selected Essays

[aprill-99]

Character A: “The real tragedy was the friends we made along the way.”

Character B: “Don’t you mean ‘treasure’?”

Character A: “No. Having to care about other people has been a real bummer for me and my personal goals.”

[lady-arryn]

ONLY MURDERS IN THE BUILDING (2021-)

(requested by @withered-rose-with-thorns)

[a-casual-egg]

A simple little fic because I wanted to write about Tom

[dragons-and-magic]

According to my studies... The Engines are cats.

Giant metal cats. Need proof? Allow me to present my case.

Exhibit A: Zoomies.

All those time the engines felt the need for speed and went hurtling down the tracks like they've lost their minds? Cats do that too. In some cases, the end result can have the same level of property damage.

Exhibit B: Swatting. Also known as, aggressive/panicked shunting.

Thing doesn't work right? Smack thing. Cats do this all the time. Engines do too. We see this a lot when they interact with trucks. Something looks scary/wrong about that truck? Or it's acting up? Get that away from me!!! *Rams Truck, sending it flying*

Exhibit C: Aversion to water.

Most cats don't like water. Neither to engines. Even if it's not enough to put out their fire. They just hate it. There are obvious exceptions of course, like James. (But he's pretty much the engine version of an overly pampered house cat, that gets baths everyday, so that makes sense.)

Exhibit D: Flying things are bad.

Percy and Harold. James and the Hot Air Balloon. Need I say more? Cat's like to chase, attack, and eat flying things. They hate them with a burning passion.

Exhibit E: Neatniks.

Most engines like to stay clean, or at least get cleaned up after the hard work. They hate hate messy paint, dirt, and mud. Sound familiar? James is the perfect example of this. He's like that cat that licks itself everytime you pet it, because you "messed up it's fur". Lol.

Exhibit F: How did you get in there???

Cats seem to get themselves in the weirdest places. So have the engines. They are almost always found in the weirdest predicaments. And certain engine on Sodor, has done this MANY TIMES. How he managed to get clear on the other side of a mountain without tracks? Good luck trying to figure that out Topham. Pfft.

The engines are cats. I rest my case.

(Note: This is not to be taken seriously. This is just silly posting. Thank you.)

[reasonandfaithinharmony]

"David, who carries the trauma of an emotionally unavailable family and a string of bad relationships, is hesitant to reveal too much of himself, preferring to present a curated image. Reassuring her skittish son, Moira tells him, '[Patrick] sees you. For all that you are.' So when David needs to extend an olive branch to Patrick, the clearest way to tell his boyfriend how much he trusts him is to make a public spectacle of himself — to let himself be seen."

– TV Guide:  Schitt's Creek Captures the Unexpected Joy of Being Seen (June 22, 2020)

Schitt's Creek:  Town for Sale (1x13)  |  Sebastien Raine (3x10)  |  Dead Guy in Room 4 (4x01)  |  Open Mic (4x06)  |  The Barbecue (4x07)  |  The Olive Branch (4x09)

[fannyrosie]

Camouflaging at the botanical garden

These were taken in late July, on a warm day where my mom and I went to walk around the Montreal Botanical Garden. (Photos by my mom, edits by me)

Outfit rundown: The Swing by Fragonard Skirt: Baroquepetrock (an EGL Livejournal user who did handmade commissions back in 2012) Blouse: second-hand Olive des Olive Hat: vintage Cat bag: second-hand Achachumu Muchacha Belt: Axes Femme Shoes: second-hand Queen Bee Parasol: old Alice and the Pirates Brooches: vintage and handmade Rings: vintage and second-hand Michal Negrin

[mr-ch40s]

got bored, made Weezer blue album edit with homestuck beta humans, and trolls.