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#personal#no ability to stand right wing politics#i feel pretty demoralized by ppl at work lately#its not anything someone personal did#more like the general system#of people hating enby people#and I have to try and educate/stick to my morals while also not getting ousted at work#i hate being a palatable gay#i want to be myself more#i code switch so hard that its enfuriating#and they dont get that#they believe the right wing shit they see online#they dont notice the cuts that are made to make the person (insert guy who makes stupid arguements fucking OWNED statements here) look good#or how the person they are talking to is almost in tears#i just#i love my enby people and i love my community#and its so frustrating to hear strawman arguements about them being upset about misgendering#bipoc queer and woman and any mix of that are not allowed to be angry or feel anything#i am tired of educating others rn#its just#hard sometimes
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#it's reached a point where i now feel guilty correcting people and i hate it#trans#transgender#enby#nonbinary#trans memes#nonbinary memes#lgbt#queer#lgbtqia#lgbt meme#lgbt memes#lgbt community#agender#genderfluid#genderqueer#genderflux#demigirl#demiboy#bigender#pronouns matter
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I LOVE BEING TRANS!!! I LOVE SEEING THE WORLD IN ITS SPECTRUM OF COLOUR AND BEING FREE TO EXPRESS MYSELF HOWEVER I WANT!!! I LOVE THAT I CAN EXPLORE MASCULINITY AND FEMININITY FREE OF RESTRICTIONS!!!!! I LOVE THAT I'M PART OF SUCH AN ACCEPTING COMMUNITY!!!! I LOVE BEING TRANSGENDER!!!!
#i've been really hating my identity recently so here's some affirmations hope u enjoy#because cis people can fucking suck - even the allies#all my friends at my college are cis and man they make me uncomfortable sometimes even though they don't mean to#but i really do love being trans#i just hate that cis people have tried to make me hate myself for it#but i will not let them#i will not be shamed into hiding myself for their comfort#transgender#nonbinary#transblr#gender stuff#trans stuff#queer#enby#genderqueer
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Let me make this abundantly clear
If you do not support AMAB Enbies, or you think only AFAB people can be Non-binary:
Get the fuck away from me!
#nsft nblm#nsft nb#nblw nsft#nblm nsft#nb nsft#nsft nblw#i will not be tagging this non nsft tags#i fuckin hate some people#alpha rants#reminder that I am AMAB#i don't list it because i think labeling enbies as amab and afab defeats the purpose of us being enby
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I genuinely cannot feel strongly for men so if I react less interested / completely disinterested when I see a guy I can’t project into it’s not me trying to make my lesbian statement I GENUINELY just *cannot* care.
#i get it how people want to see more men in gacha game with 90% women but unless he’s a character i can kin then i….#i cant bring myself to care. genuinely.#which is why i do not try to advocate to see more men in r99#i dont mind if people do but i personally want to see more women AND ENBIES HELLO…???#im not idgaf bc i hate men im idgaf bc i idgaf abt men simple as that#mochats#if we get more male characters ‘Thats Cool’ but also ‘I Dont Care. Goodbye.’#just like how irl i remove myself from the conversation whenever my girl friends talk about dudes#i need lesbian friends fuck#IM NOT YOUR TARGET AUDIENCE
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Loki Wren x Ascended Astarion
Man, I just want to browse the tag and not see nonsense for once. Normalize reposting my own art I guess.
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Loki Wren is Locke's name in the after story. For those unaware, he actually misspells his name throughout the entire game. It's always been pronounced Lo-ki. He made his name up when he was 16 and just got the ability to read and write, lol.
#reblog this to inform a fella#that this is an AA friendly space#I don't hate people enjoying another ending#I generally don't do hate#Its just annoying when I see my friends bullied over a fictional character#and people go girlies girlies and ignore all my queer homies and Enby friends.. hi im gay#ascended astarion#lord astarion#vampire lord astarion#bg3#baldur's gate 3#patch 7 nonsense#vampire#vampire boyfriends#vampire husbands#vampire boyfriend#vampires#astarion#gale dekarios#bg3 astarion#bg3 gale#m x m#tavstarion#astarion x tav#male tav#my tav#bg3 tav#oc#original character#half elf
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MAAAAN THESE SUKUNA ANALYSES... THEY'RE SO GOOD... I've always related to him super hard just on first readings as a trans disabled person who is an ambulatory wheelchair user. I'm incredibly violent and confrontational, too. If I could just fuckin kill the people who dehumanize me constantly, I mean... that kind of power is tempting! The way you read him is so satisfying to my brain, and it definitely makes sense in the text as well. Overall I'm just really happy to see somebody managing to put into words what I subconsciously grasped the first time I watched and read JJK. I was literally internally like "omg omg omg they put it into words!! omg!!!" the entire time I've been reading these posts. I can't wait to see what other analysis posts you've made and if there's other stuff for fandoms I enjoy. Thanks a lot for what you do! People like me appreciate it so much.
Oh thank goodnesss you feel this way. Everytime I post always I think of this image.
Thank you for confirming I'm still at secret esoteric knowledge.
Sukuna is very cathartic for me as a character in that way too. He basically gets to act out where I would restrain myself.
It’s funny that you mention you’re trans. At the risk of tipping the scale to mental illness, I think Sukuna is a very gender character. I find his refusal to introduce himself very relatable. He just kind of lets everyone call him whatever. The only time he ever identifies himself is when not doing so could put in his life in danger.
That’s it. “I’m the Fallen/Disgraced One”. I don’t believe he ever refers to himself as a man either. He just uses a masculine speaking style.
I also like how he doesn’t seem to care about being associated with feminine things. The marketing leans into this for some reason, pairing him up with Hello Kitty, which I think is great.
He projects this “I’m too strong to care about gender” aura I’m obsessed with. It might stem from his dehumanization as well. Both himself and other people are not really sure if he’s a curse or a human, so why on earth would he outwardly identify as man? It's not like curses have genders to begin with.
But the moment anyone tries to concretely observe him, like Mahito or Yuji touching his soul, he flips out. That really captures the vibe of “acknowledge my existence, but do not perceive me.” And if you find that relatable you should read Umineko.
Sukuna is on the border of everything, so he reads like an allegory for multiple minority groups all at once.
He’s masculine in his presentation, but isn’t considered human enough to be called a man. That’s very trans of him.
He’s extremely ablebodied at a glance, but his abnormal features make normal day to day life a constant battle. That’s very invisibly disabled of him.
He may be Japanese by blood, but he’s deemed a monster and pushed out from society for not meeting certain physical features. That’s very biracial of him.
#cactus yaps?#JJK as a whole is extremely gender. But saying that aloud makes me feel insane.#This is also why I refuse to use pronouns with Kenjaku. Any gender interpretation of Kenjaku is correct.#That’s why I hate cis people’s obsession with Kenjaku’s original body. Functionally it doesn’t matter.#Kenjaku can be literally any gender and the story validates it in some way.#Kenjaku is genderfluid/genderless because of all the body swapping? Valid.#Kenjaku is a man because of the violently misogynistic disregard for women’s bodies and preference for male vessels? Valid.#Kenjaku is a woman because of the yonic imagery and pregnancy obsession and nurse Kenny? Valid.#But the second anyone claims those things ''prove'' the sex of Kenjaku’s OG body? I’m biting you.#This also annoys me about Tengen who literally turns the reader and goes ''I no longer have a gender.''#People still assign a binary gender to them because their otherwise androgynous human form has long hair and the granny comment.#Enbies just say stuff like that. ''I’m secretly an old man.'' <Words of a creature I know.#Oh and my bestie who is a man will be like ''My gender is also granny.''#Don’t get me started on Uraume either.#Now that I think about Sukuna being a group of 3 dubiously gendered people and being cis makes no sense.#<The scale has tipped into mental illness.#asks#jujutsu kaisen#ryomen sukuna
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If you are an "Odysseus deserves to be crying every day in Calypsos island for seven years." fuck you. No he didn't. Yes, Odysseus is a fucked up guy. No he didn't deserve that. Even if he wasn't my babygirl, pet liar, he would not have deserved that. I wouldn't have said that even to Theseus and I hate that bitch so fucking much. No one, no one, deserves to be a victim!
#also i love achilles so much but a lot of ppl tend to attack my boy oddy cause he was mean to patrochilles#while ignoring that achilles also comited war crimes#most people aren't agamennon but they are not great guys either#i do pretent patroclus was cause he is my silly guy but he likely wasn't#i do hate agamennon as much as i do theseus but i mentioned theseus cause i just reread the myth were he kidnapps baby helen#my girlie could not have a break#greek mythology#the odyssey#odysseus#theseus slander#the only good thing about theseus is his ship#and his acidental participation in creating my otp ariadne and dionysus#and yes I am a dionysus apologist#i'm not a greek polytheist but if i was i would be a dio devotee so easily#not as much cause I love parties and wine but cause i love the freendom aspect#the fact that his cult was for most of it's time in acient greece the place were marginalized ppl went#that his cult was for the foreigners the woman and the slaves#also how he broke greek gender roles i mean he is describes as “efeminated stranger” more than once in the bacchae#also in some myths he was raised as a princess and my enby transmasc heart is just rly happy over it
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I feel like not enough people know this but you do not have to use binders or sports bras to get rid of ur chest. that is not the only solution to it. I have breathing problems and often I can't wear a binder.
anyways I would like to introduce you to kinesiology tape, there's a brand of it specifically marketed towards trans people called Trans Tape, but it's expensive and if you don't live in a safe house/are out to ur parents you can find it on Amazon and works the same for cheaper.
of course not you have to know how to use it to make your chest flat right? well lucky you, trans Tape has public video tutorials on how to apply their tape which is just the same as the tape you hypothetically bought from Amazon or maybe CVS if you can afford it.
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and to finish it off a little word of advice: that stuff doesn't come off easily. make sure to have some sort of oil to take it off as you could possibly use water but the likelihood that you'll damage your skin goes up because this stuff is waterproof since it's used by athletes. very sticky. so below is a link to a smaller and cheap bottle of almond oil that is safe for your skin, I don't really know much about how you would react if you have any allergies though so I would recommend doing your own research on that if you're concerned about it.
that's a brand that I personally have used, there's probably way better ones that will take it off easier with a little less abrasion but this one is fairly cheap and I was going more towards cheap for people, if you want something better there is other ones going around if you do a quick Google search.
make sure to do a patch test with the tape to know if you're not allergic to the glue that these tapes use before you start using them to make your chest flat. make sure you're not pulling at the tape during the day when dry or wet. make sure that the tape is not pulling your skin taught or that there is any redness while using, if there is please take it off immediately. make sure to stay safe as this isn't a completely risk free alternative, no binding is completely 100% safe, it's just safer for more people and causes less breathing problems and warping of the ribs in the long run. Plus if you find a color that matches your skin tone you could probably wear it without a shirt on or at least with a button up open.
this kind of tape helped me a lot when I had really horrible chest dysphoria, it made me feel normal when binders only made me more gender dysphoric and uncomfortable and in pain. I recommend it a lot especially since you can feel through the tape and it'll really feel like you're flat against shirts, which is an amazing experience
I love you all my trans siblings and please stay safe
#undescribed#trans stuff#trans#chest binding#ftm trans#trans man#trans masc#trans enby#non-binary trans#ugh i hate tagging stuff i just want people to know this because i feel like it's important for people to know that there are other options#Youtube
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I've never fucking experienced misogyny as bad as when it was directed at me from ciswomen. All you idiots hiding behind your 'but male socialisation!' nonsense babble to explain why you think trans people are soooo misogynistic, droves of misogynists in the fucking trans & gay community, have literally never sat down with a bunch of dolled up teen girls & been the only fucking tomboy in the group.
The call is coming from inside the fucking house, people. You all justifying your homophobia & transphobia ain't cute, it just makes you look like a fucking asshole. Seriously, when will people learn that saying 'most people in X group are bad people. No, I'm not being Xphobic, is just true' still makes you a bigot!
#booker speaks#transphobia#transandrophobia#transmisogyny#seriously do you really think saying 'oh transmascs have so much internalised misogyny theyre all such assholes' is cute?#or saying 'oh transfems are so misogynistic they think they can get away with it by saying im a woman'#also saying the same shit about cis gay men is disgusting too#as if there arent some bigoted as shit lesbians out there who make hating men & trans people their entire personalities#key word SOME#there are SOME bigoted gay men & SOME bigoted trans people & SOME bigoted enby people#but yall just wanna be fucking freaks & think uncritically about everything cause you think it makes you cool#for fucks sake when will ciswomen leave us trans people the fuck alone
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Saw a YT vid with the title, "Fandom Can't Handle Asexuality"
You're right, they can't... Because it doesn't fucking exist to them.
#aroace#asexual#enby people arent real either#we're told to stop using neopronouns and to stop being aroace bc 'nobody will take LGBT seriously'#keep being exclusionary#i dont want to be your friend if you're gonna act like that#I'm a genderqueer aroace person who's pronouns are it/its and you're gonna fucking respect that or be called a bigot#this shit has got to stop#also... because it matters#dont be ableist#ever. just dont#one of the main reasons i hate Alastor so much... is the fandom's treatment of him as a character#most of them completely erase his sexuality in favor of shitty crack ships.#I think a QPR with Lucifer or Rosie is a cute idea! but that's it#keep Vox pining for Alastor... that's great too#its like when I tried to erase Porter Gage's Bisexuality.... It was wrong and I've changed (Fallout 4's romanceable companions are cannonic#cannonically bisexual... I don't make the rules) I was just mad because someone had MY BLORBO in a disgusting ship and I got sick of seeing#it... And THEN I learned how to block tags!!!#idk where this is going#i'm just upset that aros and aces and enbys are erased#maybe it's a confirmation bias and i've just spent too long doing demographic research#i HATE demographic research#it takes me to disgusting places#i need to find my sewing patterns so I can refocus my energy into something good
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Nex Benedict's death is pissing me off and I don't even know what I can do about it. Nobody should have to be beaten just for trying to fucking exist. Nobody should have to go through that and yet three girls decided that they did. It's fucking horrific and I feel so lost on what to do about it
Yeah it's really awful and it pisses me off to. Nobody should have to go through that, especially not a kid. I think what's even more difficult about it is that Nex was just like so many trans youth. They loved cats, reading, playing video games, just like any other kid. And they were trans, and killed for it.
It's horrible and awful and sickening that this happened and WE WILL NOT FORGET THEIR NAME. Stay safe everyone, and look after yourselves as much as you can.
#trans youth#our trans youth experience#trans kids#transgender#enby#nonbinary#trans#queer#protect trans kids#protect trans lives#trans people are people#trans genocide#hate crime#child death tw#tw murder#mental health#nex benedict
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I want so badly to be more masculine leaning androgynous. Like masculine enough that if I wear stereotypically feminine clothing I’ll be perceived as a boy/androgynous
#I have no clue if there’s a way to medically transition#I always see posts that are like:#people don’t want to go on testosterone to be twinks! they want to be big hairy men!#and as an enby who’s considering medical transition I uh#I’m one of the people that really just wants to be an androgynous little fellow#:| I hate myself#I wish I could just want to look full masc#then I wouldn’t have this ongoing debate in my head#transmasc#trans#transgender#nonbinary#enby
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I hate living in America because weekly I go through the paranoid fearful hell of remembering that project 2025 exists, know that it will literally turn my life into a shit hole due to it turning anything that republicans don’t like illegal, know that the literal first promise is making anything they see woke child porn, see if ANYONE else actually cares (they don’t), learn even WORSE shit that will come out of it, cry because no one cares and most people will vote in a republican and it will probably go in affect, knowing I can’t do anything besides scream into the void for more people to at least hear about it (I’m a minor), stop because its making my mental health awful, rinse repeat see you next week.
anyone else?
oh yea heres the fucking plan, its 1000 pages, happy reading
https://thf_media.s3.amazonaws.com/project2025/2025_MandateForLeadership_FULL.pdf
#america#paranoia#lgbt#leftist#lesbian#gay#bisexual#transgender#aromantic#asexual#trans#nonbinary#diversity equity and inclusion#enby#people of color#abortion#I HATE IT HERE#THIS HELL COUNTRY THAT WANTS TO MAKE ITSELF A DICTATORSHIP#FUCK AMERICA
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Have some Nightshade!
#transformers#maccadams#Earthspark#nightshade#Earthspark nightshade#people hating on nightshade?#jokes on you chucklefucks#cuz it makes me wanna do more nightshade content#lgbt#lgbtqiia+#non-binary#enby
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The degree of RAGE I feel every time I listen to an interview with and/or about a nonbinary person/character, and the interviewer just is allergic to they/them pronouns. Like. My dude. My good bitch. My brother in Christ. The whole POINT of this conversation is the enby thing. How are you failing THIS badly?!
#this dude bringing up an enby actor to an enby actor and using ONLY she/her pronouns for like two straight minutes#they should not HAVE to say ‘them. them.’ to correct you. you should be SO on that#I mean do better in general but ESPECIALLY in these circumstances#it’s so apparent when people just. refuse to try. and it’s fucking infuriating#also for this man to be talking about a movie that is LARGELY about gender expression and being nonbinary#and just be constantly reducing it to a 'love story'#like. no. it's not that. i mean you can take that out of it if you like (that man was AWFUL so i choose to uh. not.)#but the story was ABOUT gender. and gender presentation. and gender identity and looking a certain way but BEING a different thing inside#and to reduce that to 'a love story' to ensure this story is given half to this man who frankly does not narratively deserve it#is such a dude thing to do. to write and then to see in the finished product. whereas a queer person. an enby person. is gonna be like.#well. LOT more going on there actually. the 'love' is a weird complex backdrop for the actual things going on.#anyway. apparently that's my soapbox for the day#just reminds me of a few famous queer female movies where the story inevitably becomes ABOUT the bland white man who somehow convinces them#to sleep with him/date him/whatever. like. i. hated those movies as a teen and i hate them now. let non-men have their stories without dude#if they must be there do NOT pull the focus from the non-men to make sure the cishet boys aren't left out. this isn't for you. stop it.
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