#npd people matter

[luxgraphics]

Gyaru Slang! :D

so i have had this in my notes for forever. and i wanted to share it [most of this info came from OLD blogger websites and a couple of gyaru [[she is not anymore apparently]] youtubers!] i just found the slang interesting, so i researched it a long while ago! anyways enjoy!

Boom

“Wanna hear about my new boom?”

Usually meaning current obsession or interest. Or something they spent a lot of money on!

Co*de

“I forgot to show my latest Co*de!!!”

Usually talking about a latest outfit or favorite one!

Gyaru Coordinate/Coord

“Hi hi Gyaru Coordinates!”

Usually meaning anyone else who is reading/is a gal!

Gyaru Circle/ Gal-circle/Gal-Cir/GalUnit/Gyaru-sa/Gyarusa

“Come to the next Gal-Cir!”

A gathering of gyaru/gyaruo people!Usually out doing karaoke, shopping, purikura (and general photo taking) and going for food.

KS

“I tried to text her but she KS’ed me!!!!!!!!”

Usually a response when someone ignores you, usually on LINE.

YABABABABABABA

”YABABABABA(OMGGGG) That’s amazing!!!!!!”

Usually said when you feel a lot of emotion! So it can be used when excited or annoyed!

Yaguru or yagurareru

“やばばばばばば！山田とデートの途中で彼氏にヤグっちゃった! ” [may not be correctly translated so i am sorry!]

English: Omgomgomgomg! When I was in the middle of a date with Yamada, my boyfriend caught me cheating!

Usually used as a phrase to explain one being caught cheating! Usually used when speaking japanese and not english.

AGEPOYO

“AGEPOYO!!! I’m so excited right now!!!”

A phrase that basically is the Gyaru version of “YOLO”!

Kara-Mara

“Lets go Kara-Mara!”

Meaning Karaoke Marathon!

Uber Irry

“I am Uber Irry!!!!”

Meaning Super Irritated

Uber Pissed

“I am Uber Pissed!!!!!”

Meaning super angry

GL

“He’s so GL!!!”

’Good looking’ abbreviation

Sleep Crazy

”I sleep crazy!”

Basically means they sleep like crazy, like slept well!

Nighter

“I am going for a nighter!”

Basically an ‘all nighter’ meaning stayin up all night

Self-Cent

“You’re self-cent!!!!!”

Basically means “Self-centered”

Majorly Cue

“That’s majorly cueee!!!!!”

Basically meaning “majorly cute” or “extremely cute”

T-ing

“Quit T-ing us!”

Short for “tailing” like followin someone

Hawajew

“I want some Hawajew…”

Meaning ‘Hawaiian Jewelry”

Crushed On

“She’s crushed on Nanami…”

To get a crush on someone

Carried

“Dont get carried!”

Basically means ‘dont get carried away.’

Mad Angry

“Mad Angry!!!!”

Meaning extremely angry!

that is all the ones i had in my notes!!! maybe someone might find some of this slang interesting like i did. i find fashion and subcultures to be really fun to research and gather info on! i have whole giant notes of just that.

[anti-transphobia]

Random reminder that I HATE Plushie Dreadful!! Those mental illness/disabilities plushes? Typically rabbits? There's been a lot of criticism over them about ableism in the past. Personal feelings about disorders being marketed, formerly partnering with Autism Speaks, etc. But one thing people don't seem to notice is the ableism towards schizophrenics, narcissists, and antisocials! This site with a bunch of beautifly designed rabbit stuffed animals decided to make the schizophrenic and antisocial plushes noticably creepier than most others. The antisocial one at the very least came out cuter than the concept art. But the schizophrenic one is openly based on serial killers. And NPD? The official Twitter account made a poll about what the design should be, made degrading comments about narcissists, and liked comments by people making fun of narcissists. In the end, in order to not make the npd plush TOO special or unique looking, made it a plain brown rabbit with a paper crown (openly saying it's because pwnpd aren't actually special or deserving of a real one). When contacted by pwnpd with criticism/feedback, like they say they accept, they ignored it

Ableism towards disorders people find "scary" or "bad" is still ableism!!! It's still shitty!!!

[mr-payjay]

im actually going insane how are there so many people INSISTING pda does not have npd. pda has like the Most textbook npd i have ever seen on a character It's Okay for someone to have npd guys it doesn't make you Evil and Fucked Up

[rabbitology]

sick of egotypicals i think we should just kill them

[silverwarewolf]

I will never understand the way most people seem to hold terrible resentment towards their previous relationships or some lingering something that makes them use the relationship status as a jump rope

[drowning-poet]

"mh matters" people say on social media, believing that makes them a good person, while only including the "pretty" parts of mental illness, that they can twist and transform into a disgusting form of aesthetics.

They draw the line at problems with hygiene.

They draw the line at personality disorders.

They draw the line at paraphilias.

They draw the line at intrusive thoughts.

They draw the line at drug abuse.

They draw the line at alchool abuse.

They draw the line at the reality of most of us that struggle.

Mental illness is not only depression and anxiety. Depression is not only being sad. Anxiety isnt simply being worried. OCD isnt only (or at all depending on the case) enjoying a tidy enviorment. ADHD isnt simply inability to pay attention. Bipolar isnt changing moods/opinion fast.

Yes, the truth is people struggling with their mh can be abusive. They can also not be.

Some disorders have a bigger chance of its symptoms causing harm, but looking for help and trying to get better should be rewarded.

A person isnt evil bc they have npd or aspd.

A person isnt disgusting bc their symptoms impact their hygiene.

Someone's intrusive thoughts do not define them.

Lacking emotional empathy doesnt make anyone a monster.

But most ppl (those whose speech is based on lack of information) are not ready for this conversation.

[tempestvista]

I don't have NPD/currently know anyone who has it in my circles so feel free to correct me on anything here but

It is actually so fucking frustrating how much people demonize NPD. It's all acceptance and tolerance until it's shit like Borderline or Narcissistic. I really don't understand why people are so full-throttle with every bad concept being attached to NPD. Is it just because it's easier? Easier to not do the work, to just stigmatize a disorder? Easier to make a community dedicated around "narc abuse" instead of just, I don't know, calling it fucking regular abuse? Because abuse is just .. ABUSE??

And labeling something [specific group] abuse is a slippery slope in itself imo but I doubt the people who will shove anyone who has done anything bad to them ever (from petty friendship drama to genuine traumatic events that I do empathize over) under a label that they actively continue to demonize would have the nuance for that conversation

People out in the world with this disorder exist. They aren't monsters. They aren't cult leaders. They aren't flirting you into your own death. They have hobbies and interests. They cry alone. They eat food. They get drinks with friends. They go to work. They listen to music. They exist the same as you and I, albeit with a different disordered reality.

Why are they suddenly the out-group because YOU need a scapegoat for your unhealed trauma?

Why are they considered violent and manipulative when instead you could.. just call the awful people/things/etc. you're talking about .. violent and manipulative alone?? Like nine times out of ten NPD is mentioned it wasn't even fucking relevant/mentioned or stated to be present beforehand. It's used as a bold speculatory buzzword to indicate something people dislike versus being treated as a genuine mental deficit that people have to navigate on a day to day basis the same way one does with depression, bipolar, schizophrenia, agoraphobia, etc. And that's not to say those disorders (or any, sadly) are treated with the proper care and respect they deserve and need, however it is (at least to me) SO rare to see people open up the conversation to people with NPD.

And the fact that some therapists will even mistreat and/or decline patients who have NPD? (Again, this isn't an NPD only thing, but still. ) Can you imagine constantly being told you're the worst kind of person alive, trying to receive treatment for it, and not even being granted THAT? Not even being heard out by a LICENSED—I'd say professional but there's nothing professional about that kind of behavior—individual?

Also, again... not like therapists and the psychological and medical industries are free from ever being awful or targeting groups (POC see this on a constant basis), denying treatment, what have you, I'm just talking in the case of NPD here.

Like man. This thought pattern is SO grossly reductive and malicious, even if unintended. And also, where's the fucking proof? Evidence? Basis for this??? Hello??? Books on how to manipulate people??? These aren't fucking Gotham villains, they're PEOPLE. Why are we dehumanizing them? More to the point, why are we associating things and people that have nothing to do with the label- with the label!?!?! And that's still somehow tying into demonizing the disorder because of this constant back and forth/association! Oh my god

Trained for it all like there's an NPD Olympics 😭😭😭 world cup of narc supply 😭💀

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd culture is finding out that you experienced like, literal grooming when you were younger and not being able to stop thinking about it (because yk) or talking about it because now! now people care about me! ill be accepted in trauma groups now because i was taken advantage of by a guy LITERALLY twice my age! i matter!!! (this is important because anything else ive experienced that could count as ‘trauma’ to me, doesnt count and i can even list anything because it Doesnt Count)

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[ersatz-introspective]

ppl, especially low/no-empathy ppl, who talk to ableist anti-pd cluster b abuse believers with the upmost patience & understanding are so crazy (/pos) for that because what

how do y'all sit there and level w/ them just. so much.

i know it's kind of necessary bcs even if they don't listen to us anyways, they're only gonna think we're 10× worse if we don't walk them through the spiel w/ hands held (which we're not even owed to do anyways) but like i can hardly see myself doing it

so like

respect

[npdiluc]

The urge to completely ghost all my friends cause they've been talking to me a bit less than usual

[spacedustmantis]

sigh. yet another incredibly improtant self discovery that i won't be able to tell my parents about....

[sillynarcissist]

I hate it when people assume narcissists want to have like high social status or some shit. I only care about looking good in front of people I like the rest of society can get fucked. people with high social statuses are usually boring assholes anyway I do not wanna be one

if you ain't a silly little fella filled with whimsy I do NAWT care what you think. you are automatically less in my mind and I will not appeal to you

[undeletable]

The antisocial/narcissist urge to victimize oneself and cry ableism after learning, via search engine autofill, that some people want to know if people like us are vulnerable to communal yawning.

[narcopathyfiles]

yesterday night i made and submit a cv for job applications. was kind of alienating feeling? i realized how many of my skills were not acquired by socially acceptable means. i feel like when i get interviewed i can't make myself look professional to save my life. i don't know how much of my outer personality can save my ass on that

[ink-man-sam]

They hate me for my neurodivergend swag (extremely angry all the time, threatening and insulting people for the smallest things, guilt tripping and emotional manipulation)