#nobody else matters to me

[housewifebuck]

Unfollowing everybody who’s not Kenneth Choi on Instagram

[sillynarcissist]

I hate it when people assume narcissists want to have like high social status or some shit. I only care about looking good in front of people I like the rest of society can get fucked. people with high social statuses are usually boring assholes anyway I do not wanna be one

if you ain't a silly little fella filled with whimsy I do NAWT care what you think. you are automatically less in my mind and I will not appeal to you

[bixels]

tarpit site.

[hiseyeisonthesparrow]

[through gritted teeth, with fists clenched]

When upon life's billows you are tempest-tossed, when you are discouraged, thinking all is lost, COUNT YOUR MANY BLESSINGS, NAME THEM ONE BY ONE, AND IT WILL SURPRISE YOU WHAT THE LORD HAS DONE-

[bisexualcroissant]

thinking about jean and neil being misplaced forever partners and haunting the narrative of each other’s respective main pov. there’s something so tragically poetic about it. they’re each other’s “in another life, maybe” except there is no another life, because only in this draft does jean stay alive. (but wouldn’t it have changed things? if neil had been there by his side?) jean knowing it was foolish, but wondering it anyway: what if? what if he stays? nora saying that neil would have stayed at the nest for jean. neil playing with the foxes as a living reminder of jean’s shattered promise, the ghost of what they would have been: neil’s 3 to jean’s 4, raised side by side, suffering together rather than alone.

he was jean’s misplaced forever partner, an unfulfilled promise jean had stopped believing in years ago.

— and neil’s quiet “jean” gave him a line to follow home.

[torahtot]

you can always tell when someone doesn't have maga men in their life and god it makes me angry.. "if you're nice and compassionate you can be the one woman that makes them realize women aren't mean!" my mom bent over backwards for my dad for 25 fucking years he has plenty of other women kissing his ass and it never changed anything. do you really think that before being radicalized they never knew a single kind woman? they were never friends with a nice girl? alt-right men's problem with women isn't just that they've experienced too many mean women and they need to be shown that women can be nice, it's that they think women are inferior and don't deserve rights and don't understand anything so you can do what you want with them. and it takes a lot more than being nice to show someone that you aren't inferior. this isn't a case of being nice even when it's hard for the sake of deradicalization, it's about spending every fucking interaction with someone trying to get them to see you as a human being with value and a functioning intellect while they just laugh and show you that's never going to happen.

i cannot stress this enough: random women are not just going out and Being Mean to men. ur average guy interacts with plenty of women throughout his life- close women amongst their friends and family, casual interactions etc. most people don't start out being shunned by women, they start out being treated as NORMAL. & when they show their disrespect in normal society, it isn't tolerated, but when they go to alt-right spaces (which they're pushed towards online) they're told they're allowed to be as horrible as they want with no consequences because they're entitled to everything. it isn't "women aren't welcoming and the alt-right is so friendly so i'll become alt-right," it's "women don't let me disrespect them and the alt-right tells me fuck them, do whatever you want, you're entitled to it all" and why would you choose the group where you have to be a normal accountable person when there's a group that will reward you for being a shithead who gives no fucks?

the alt-right can afford to be more friendly and welcoming because they can allow bigotry. this can't work the same way for progressive spaces because we can be as kind & welcoming as possible but at the end of the day we have lines where we have to say "this behavior/speech isn't allowed in this space," and for certain people, that just can't win against a space where you can be as nasty as you want. these posts always end with a disclaimer saying "of course being kind doesnt mean you need to tolerate their bigotries" but what they don't realize and what drives me crazy is that women not tolerating bigotry IS the "women are mean" that radicalized them in the first place. they perceive you pushing back on any bigotry or bullshit as you being a meanie and treating them like they're ontologically evil. the 'kindness' they need to be deradicalized is you letting them walk all over you.

idk what the answer is to deradicalizing them and im sure relationships are part of it but you can be as kind as you want and all it will do is destroy you ime. i cant stand to see people (who have never even successfully deradicalized any man by being nice btw they always speak in hypotheticals and not from experience) double down on telling women to do things that will see no results and only hurt them, especially when any woman who has tried can tell you exactly how it went

[puppppppppy]

its so hard to watch time pass when things like careers and assignments exist. what do you mean im supposed to take that seriously

[catboygirljoker]

hey you ever think about how its implied that you have to be turned into a nobody to get norted, like, every member of the real org13 who isnt literally xehanort or literally possessed by xehanort is a nobody (except maybe vanitas but *gestures* thats a . different can of worms), and the people who were recompleted had to then become nobodies again in order to be in the real org13 and serve as a vessel for xehanort, like perhaps your heart has to be removed in order to make room for another heart,

and then do you ever think about the one character who canonically got norted before becoming a nobody and is still norted even after being recompleted and thus canonically didnt need to become a nobody in order to be norted, and then lose your mind a little bit

[wickjump]

okay guys im seriosuly really confused and want an answer. genuinely What is a kin. is it like a character you really really relate to. is it some sort of "i identify as/along the lines of this character" ordeal (like either due to being a system alter/having a dissociative disorder/something else or just because why the hell not). or like. "i just really like this guy a lot so they go on the kin list". or like? "i relate to moments they have but not them entirely"?? guys please. i might have asked this before but my memory is dogshit. pleaseee give me a genuine answer.

like i heavily relate to chara and project onto them but i dont identify as or along the lines of them in any way. is that like a kin. is that what kinnie means. would i say inmy pinned that i kin chara because the amount of projection and "me fr" is a lot i think. but i dont identify as chara. i just have like a lot ofsimilar traits and when i was 11 i went "haha me" and im 19 and i still go "haha me". guys please. wjhat is a kinnie PLEASE TELL ME....

[officially-konata]

I hate when people call me a tiktok therian because i wear gear a lot and make masks and shit, because no, i found the term on reddit back in covid and started questioning with hours of research on multiple social media platforms, and have been a therian for multiple years. there is no such thing as a tiktok therian, stop gatekeeping our community, we are should be one of the most accepting communties. should we not? reminder that all therians are valid

[saetoru]

with no disrespect fem doesnt equal she/her tho it would be easier to just say reader uses she/her

bro she’s fem! bc i said she’s fem! like fr y’all nitpick over everything. reader was referred to as suguru’s “sister” and used “she/her” pronouns and had a pussy like that’s very fem to me thanks !!

[rinhaler]

finding it very difficult to unlearn the fact that you don’t have to rush to create things in its height of popularity and you can make things whenever you want

[bunniesandbeheadings]

I was at a brunch with some friends irl, and one of them asked me if the Marquis de Sade was really as bad as his reputation.

And I explained, yeah, he kidnapped some people and did some nasty things, although a lot of his writings depict worse things than he could have possibly have done. (Like physically impossible. Just very gross.)

Like what, they wanted to know.

I jokingly said, “oh, I know some people read Sade thinking that since it’s from the 18th century, his writing can’t possibly be offensive to us in the 21st but no, he’s pretty awful. For example, in one -“ and then I detailed a very nsfw episode which involves sewing needles and syphilis

And one of the men there, I fuck you not, he says “that’s not too intense. I read worst stuff every day.”

The women laugh nervously

But later when we talk about the Ottoman Empire, he tries to handwave a lot of it saying that it’s not really sex slavery, and even if it was, it’s okay and-

Like at this point even the other men were like “dude. Dial it back.”

But anyway, I apparently was hostile in correcting him and now he doesn’t want to be friends with me anymore because I … may or may not have bit his head off. And I hurt his feelings.

And I — I feel bad, because I don’t like hurting someone’s feelings

But it’s also like…yeah…if you think Sade is tame and sex slavery is cool, maybe. Maybe I don’t want to be your friend anyway…

[the-angry-pixie]

the losers love each other moodboards (12/?) - Stozier 🪢

[usuallyobsessedtmblr]

It's pretty interesting to me that akihiko actually seems to resent his family

From all his interactions with every member of his family (apart from his brothers) he seems to be a normal, loving child but in this episode he openly vents to harumi about how much he hates them for pretending everything is normal

Makes more sense as to why he trusts Daiki so much and this episode also serves to show us how much he trusts harumi now

[icannotgetoverbirds]

Share to save a dandruff-haver's sanity

i am making this post because all my life i have been told my dandruff was my fault for not washing my hair correctly and shamed for having "poor hygiene" as a result - this is probably where the bfrbs started tbh.

SO. There are two main types of dandruff!

Dry scalp flakes: these are white and itty bitty! you can probably solve this with a good hair and skincare routine. HOWEVER unless they are bothering you it is absolutely not necessary for any kind of health reason (afaik! disclaimer! i am not a doctor! this is not actionable medical advice nor should you take me anywhere near as seriously as a dermatologist). IS NOT CAUSED BY POOR HYGIENE.

Fungal dandruff: Bigger, yellowish, possibly oily/greasy flakes! Caused by your genetics going Oops All Yeast! Generally requires a prescription antifungal treatment from a dermatologist! ALSO NOT CAUSED BY POOR HYGIENE.

Either way, if you have dandruff, a dermatologist is the one you want to consult if it's bothering you! and frankly, even if it was a hygiene issue, nobody deserves to be shamed for that!!!!! especially considering that there are plenty of people who struggle to shower regularly due to circumstances beyond their control!

AND FOR CHRIST'S SAKE STOP SHAMING PEOPLE WITH DANDRUFF!!!!