#now it’s happening with asexuality
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I hate having ‘realisations’ about myself cause it’s stuff I already kinda knew but was in denial about. Like when it’s explained to me I understand but I’m smacked with the reality of my identity will affect me. Or more importantly it will affect ppl around me
#talkin#this is about queer stuff btw#it was the case with my gender I played around with it online#until I verbalised to friends that I think I might be a man#and it helps that they are immediately supportive#else I would just go back into the closet#now it’s happening with asexuality#like I’ve known but now others in my life know so it feels real#but that is also confusion about what being ace is so idk
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Recently started identifying as aro (aroace but I already id'd as ace) and now 2 of my friends are in love with me I feel like there's a curse going on
#its bc im really sexy#they know im aro and idm them openly havign feelings for me#i think its fun#one has openly said to my face#the other has heavily implied and flirted#but i think its funny that only now when i consider myself aroace#this has happened#aromantic#aro#aroace#asexual#lgbt#lgbtq
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some asexual icons i made involving three canon asexuals i love so much :]
agent: allo/panromantic asexual 💙 siffrin: allo/nblm asexual 🤍 mirabelle: aromantic asexual ♠️
#meepo art#penguinronpa#club penguin#in stars and time#siffrin#isat mirabelle#too shy to do a double ping soooooo#agent + penguinronpa is created by tofudemaru on tumblr#siffrin + mirabelle + in stars and time is made by insertdisc5#sorry my isatheads for constantly showing off my penguin blorbos. it will happen again#also these were made for international asexual day but i didn't post these until now so rip lmao#also i was planning to draw more characters. ie my ace ocs but i lost motivation so double rip
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Did anyone else go through the "weird girl" to "queer girl" to "butch lesbian" to "butch is my gender" to "oh fuck i'm a man" to "actually I'm completely nonbinary" to "actually I'm transmasc and also mostly gay" pipeline or did I have an original experience with that one
#growing up as a queer person is a wild time#and on top of all that happening i also at some point realized I'm asexual#trans#transmasc#queer#nonbinary#lgbtq#shitpost#i will also always fight for expansive definitions of lesbianism because how can you tell someone that theyre being a lesbian wrong#because of my own personal experience#also i am an adult now and solid in my identity dont anyone try to infantilize me
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happy pride month from vash the stampede!!!! 💜 seeing all the ace vash art makes me so happy I wanted to contribute!
#trigun#trigun maximum#trigun fanart#asexual#vash the stampede#trimax#re: charms if it happens shipping will be from belgium jsyk!!#he makes me so happy!!!#AND WHAT IF I TEAR UP?? WHAT THEN????#you guys i didn't know something i made could make me feel this way#i spent an embarrassing amount of time on it sdfjbkln#i'm posting it now because if I don't i'm gonna spend another 5 hours on it#granted i could still end up tweaking it and just editing my post bUT STILL#for context i'm not great at art i barely ever draw but i want to improve so i decided to draw one vash every day of june#i've been seeing a little bit of improvement and when I drew this one he was pretty flawed but also he made me so happy that i was like#ok i'm cleaning it up and fixing it digitally#and now 12+ hours of work later here we are#ANYWAY ANYWAY I'M RAMBLING#THANK YOU FOR THE ACE VASH ART THIS MONTH YOU GUYS INSPIRED ME PLEASE KEEP IT COMING#it clears my skin waters my crops#also pls don't follow me for this i post art once every six months at best you'll be disappointed!! i'm a writer first and foremost#anyway gotta go draw today's vash weehee!#bee draws#ace vash tag
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Hey aces. Taking back your tag from the bots is important, but it should not come at the expense of the aromantic tag. Please stop talking about the Asexual Tag Bot War in the aromantic tag. Please stop putting posts that have nothing to do with being aromantic in the aromantic tag.
#acespec mafia#asexual#ace#last time it was ace day‚ now it's this#the aro tag is not a discount ace tag it's a separate tag for a different identity that many of you happen to be
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Just came across a quote I saved back when my mental health was at its lowest that said "before you can love someone else you have to learn to love yourself so there's no chance of that happening"
Update from years later: No but actually yes
#Guess what past me we love ourself now#But also you're aromantic so (romantically) loving people still doesn't happen#aromantic#aro#aromanticism#aro pride#aroace#aroace pride#asexual aromantic#I remember the quote really resonating with me when I was younger#Kinda eye-opening as to how much progress I've actually made since then
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just found out that non-aromantics actually have feelings towards the people they decide to have a crush on. Apparently it’s not like, “hmmm should I consider this person for dating? what are the pros and cons here?” Or like, “I want to be really close friends with that person” But it’s like an actual emotional response or something? An emotion that is different from the “I wanna be really close friends” emotion??
also I just figured out that I’m aromantic
#I’m also ace but I already knew that#Shout out to Jaiden Animations#Never would have figured this stuff out this quickly otherwise#asexual#aromantic#aroace#My first “crush” was Carmen San Diego#I was 18yrs old and that “crush” lasted 2 days#Turns out she wasn’t as pretty when she wasn’t wearing her signature outfit#I didn’t actually have a crush on her I just really liked her outfit#I think I just decided that “ya know I should’ve had a crush on someone by now kinda weird that it hasn’t happened yet”#And then I just picked the first pretty girl I saw#She’s animated so I guess that made it less weird than having a crush on a random stranger#But like there were no actual romantic emotions there#Didn’t know that there were supposed to be any but oh well#The whole “I wanna be really close friends with that person” thing really threw me off for a while#Cuz I thought that was what romantic attraction was#But apparently it’s not???#Too confusing we should just get rid of romance#Honestly my idea of the “ideal romantic/queerplatonic relationship” should have tipped me off sooner that I was aro#It was “a close friend who lives in the same house as me but we have separate bedrooms and sometimes we cuddle on the couch but not…#… always and we don’t hold hands or kiss or anything but we just act like really good but close friends because that’s what I think a…#… romantic relationship is two people who are really close friends”#might delete later I dunno just kinda rambling and I’m really tired
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people say asexuals aren’t oppressed but whenever i talk to my dad about my asexuality, he brushes it off and forgets the conversation ever happened
#now that i have a boyfriend this happens like once a week#i love being invalidated#asexual#asexuality#aspec#acespec
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Imagine being AroAce, and then you have a great intellectual talk and Relationship with Athena then BOOM she turns up one day and be like, you have a Demigod kid
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"Mommy/Daddy, how was I born?"
"Uhhhhhm I found you under an Olive tree"
Athena doesn't pay Child Support, never visit, probably doesn't tell them on the monsters and how to deal with them and loads of crap
#pjo#just imagine athena kids being born from AroAce Partners#that wil be terrifying#pjo athena#pjo annabeth#annabeth chase#athena#greek mythology#can you imagine your Family meetings and you're AroAce woman how the hell are you going to explain that you have a Child now#AroAce Boys might actually have a Harder time#because people will think the guy caused this to happen#aroace#percy jackson#percy jackon and the olympians#percy jackson disney+#aromantic#asexual
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Aroace furina for the win
#this popped into my head and is now my forever headcanon#thats how most of my headcanons happen#furina#genshin impact#fontaine#aroace#aromantic#asexual
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I find it really funny how most queer and/or neurodivergent friend groups start out as cishet neurotypical friend groups and then everyone slowly starts realizing they have autism and realizing they’re queer
Like we all flock together. We all just kinda find each other like Pokémon go
#I was in an all gay friend group in middle school#And was still like#Nah I’m straight#Then I got a girlfriend lol#My friend group now is 90% queer and neurodivergent#Mostly autistic and adhd but others sprinkled in there too#How does this happen??#Can queers sniff each other out or smth#They know before you know bro#mlm#gay#mental illness#lgbt#Lesbian#bisexual#pansexual#asexual#lgbtq+#queer friend group#Autistic#adhd#audhd#actually neurodivergent#Queer#Queer pride
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Superman 🤝 Asexual ppl
getting compared to plants
#this is in reference to animal man#which I'm reading right now#but he does basically photosynthesize so I'm sure this is not the only time it's happened#superman#dc#ace#asexual
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The hot girl urge to
[push myself to the absolute brink physically and emotionally just to achieve something in life because I refuse to die a nobody]
is currently drunkenly fist fighting my urge to
[take 4 melatonin and pass tf out because I got shit to do tomorrow and my brain isn’t working]
#i’m not doing well but slay at least i’m hot#<- I say this with greasy af hair and a full on breakout happening rn#gifted kid burnout but I never ‘burnt out’ because I barely reached a smoulder and then petered out because sad bitch hours hit early#and now I need to prove that I’m still worthy and able to create and devote myself to something#because god damnit I miss being a child prodigy because at least I was good at something#gifted kid burnout#idfk what im doing#idk what to tag this as#i’m mentally unwell#i’m just a girl#not really but yeah#aroace#aromantic#asexual#idk how to tag this#genderfluid
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something super silly is the fact that i’m constantly told “you’re still young !! you’ll start liking romance eventually !!” in response to me telling people i’m aromantic when in reality the older i get the more repulsed i am by romance 😭😭
#idk why people keep saying this to me#like idk how much older i need to get i feel like something should’ve happened by now#this was a draft from march but its still true#ive been saying i dont wanna get married since i was nine#and people still insist i just need time#aromantic#asexual#aromantic asexual#aspec#aromanticism
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tori sitting on the stairs is so. the lighting in heartstopper is awesome big fan of the blue/orange. is tori also depressed in the show i still think it would be so fucking funny to offhandedly mention her school burning down
#whisp whispers#charlie is the focus here yeah but if micheal gets introduced it does mean that solitaire is relevant#meaning 'toris school got set on fire bc some guy was that obsessed with her' and 'tori tried to kill herself' is like. possibly canon#and i think it's SO funny that there is a very large chance that all that Happened and just isn't being acknowledged#noooo charlie don't kill yourself ur so awesome&cool haha.... uh. oh hi tori. you can like. die i guess idk. not gonna stop you#like it really is just brushed past entirely in the comics. which is sad but also extremely funny like. conceptually. my older sister#almost killed herself in a state of mania. oh well. she has a boyfriend now though so that's cool!!!#<-well. depression i guess. some mixed of sleep deprivation mania and also just normal depression. she's awesome#i hope the ferris wheel coming out scene gets adapted. please please please please please. please. if that scene gets changed#because isaac came out first i'm going to .do nothing probably. but mann. man. tori spring 'im asexual' scene please. please. please.....#these tags are not relevant to the post anymore really. sorry for heartstopper posting my irl i usually talk abt oseman to hasnt seen it yet#um. circling back to my original point. if her depression is canon how do you think she feels sitting there knowing she can't get help#bc the resources need to go to her brother and she can't draw attention away from him. tori's tumblr makes an appearance also that was#scary. what do you mean tumblr is on tv in the year of our lord 2024. hello? .anyways brought it up because#'anon asked: who's ur best friend? / probably my brother. sad.'#man. she's so awesome. me if i was cool and british and a girl and had a brother and also if my school burnt down
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