#now it’s happening with asexuality
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petirrojito · 5 months ago
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I hate having ‘realisations’ about myself cause it’s stuff I already kinda knew but was in denial about. Like when it’s explained to me I understand but I’m smacked with the reality of my identity will affect me. Or more importantly it will affect ppl around me
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imaginaryskeleton · 6 months ago
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Recently started identifying as aro (aroace but I already id'd as ace) and now 2 of my friends are in love with me I feel like there's a curse going on
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moopermoment · 7 months ago
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some asexual icons i made involving three canon asexuals i love so much :]
agent: allo/panromantic asexual 💙 siffrin: allo/nblm asexual 🤍 mirabelle: aromantic asexual ♠️
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inkmage13 · 21 days ago
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Did anyone else go through the "weird girl" to "queer girl" to "butch lesbian" to "butch is my gender" to "oh fuck i'm a man" to "actually I'm completely nonbinary" to "actually I'm transmasc and also mostly gay" pipeline or did I have an original experience with that one
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beesinspades · 1 year ago
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happy pride month from vash the stampede!!!! 💜 seeing all the ace vash art makes me so happy I wanted to contribute!
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chaotic-carnifex · 6 months ago
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Hey aces. Taking back your tag from the bots is important, but it should not come at the expense of the aromantic tag. Please stop talking about the Asexual Tag Bot War in the aromantic tag. Please stop putting posts that have nothing to do with being aromantic in the aromantic tag.
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trappedinmymind · 3 months ago
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Just came across a quote I saved back when my mental health was at its lowest that said "before you can love someone else you have to learn to love yourself so there's no chance of that happening"
Update from years later: No but actually yes
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braidedhades · 7 months ago
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just found out that non-aromantics actually have feelings towards the people they decide to have a crush on. Apparently it’s not like, “hmmm should I consider this person for dating? what are the pros and cons here?” Or like, “I want to be really close friends with that person” But it’s like an actual emotional response or something? An emotion that is different from the “I wanna be really close friends” emotion??
also I just figured out that I’m aromantic
#I’m also ace but I already knew that#Shout out to Jaiden Animations#Never would have figured this stuff out this quickly otherwise#asexual#aromantic#aroace#My first “crush” was Carmen San Diego#I was 18yrs old and that “crush” lasted 2 days#Turns out she wasn’t as pretty when she wasn’t wearing her signature outfit#I didn’t actually have a crush on her I just really liked her outfit#I think I just decided that “ya know I should’ve had a crush on someone by now kinda weird that it hasn’t happened yet”#And then I just picked the first pretty girl I saw#She’s animated so I guess that made it less weird than having a crush on a random stranger#But like there were no actual romantic emotions there#Didn’t know that there were supposed to be any but oh well#The whole “I wanna be really close friends with that person” thing really threw me off for a while#Cuz I thought that was what romantic attraction was#But apparently it’s not???#Too confusing we should just get rid of romance#Honestly my idea of the “ideal romantic/queerplatonic relationship” should have tipped me off sooner that I was aro#It was “a close friend who lives in the same house as me but we have separate bedrooms and sometimes we cuddle on the couch but not…#… always and we don’t hold hands or kiss or anything but we just act like really good but close friends because that’s what I think a…#… romantic relationship is two people who are really close friends”#might delete later I dunno just kinda rambling and I’m really tired
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sarahhasthoughts · 1 year ago
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people say asexuals aren’t oppressed but whenever i talk to my dad about my asexuality, he brushes it off and forgets the conversation ever happened
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mayday396 · 11 months ago
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Imagine being AroAce, and then you have a great intellectual talk and Relationship with Athena then BOOM she turns up one day and be like, you have a Demigod kid
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"Mommy/Daddy, how was I born?"
"Uhhhhhm I found you under an Olive tree"
Athena doesn't pay Child Support, never visit, probably doesn't tell them on the monsters and how to deal with them and loads of crap
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prunesthehippo · 10 months ago
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Aroace furina for the win
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xan-the-emo-trans-man · 1 year ago
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I find it really funny how most queer and/or neurodivergent friend groups start out as cishet neurotypical friend groups and then everyone slowly starts realizing they have autism and realizing they’re queer
Like we all flock together. We all just kinda find each other like Pokémon go
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raaorqtpbpdy · 8 months ago
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Superman 🤝 Asexual ppl
getting compared to plants
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theworld-at-a-standstill · 3 months ago
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The hot girl urge to
[push myself to the absolute brink physically and emotionally just to achieve something in life because I refuse to die a nobody]
is currently drunkenly fist fighting my urge to
[take 4 melatonin and pass tf out because I got shit to do tomorrow and my brain isn’t working]
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thelivingdeceased · 1 month ago
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something super silly is the fact that i’m constantly told “you’re still young !! you’ll start liking romance eventually !!” in response to me telling people i’m aromantic when in reality the older i get the more repulsed i am by romance 😭😭
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butterflieswhisper · 1 month ago
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tori sitting on the stairs is so. the lighting in heartstopper is awesome big fan of the blue/orange. is tori also depressed in the show i still think it would be so fucking funny to offhandedly mention her school burning down
#whisp whispers#charlie is the focus here yeah but if micheal gets introduced it does mean that solitaire is relevant#meaning 'toris school got set on fire bc some guy was that obsessed with her' and 'tori tried to kill herself' is like. possibly canon#and i think it's SO funny that there is a very large chance that all that Happened and just isn't being acknowledged#noooo charlie don't kill yourself ur so awesome&cool haha.... uh. oh hi tori. you can like. die i guess idk. not gonna stop you#like it really is just brushed past entirely in the comics. which is sad but also extremely funny like. conceptually. my older sister#almost killed herself in a state of mania. oh well. she has a boyfriend now though so that's cool!!!#<-well. depression i guess. some mixed of sleep deprivation mania and also just normal depression. she's awesome#i hope the ferris wheel coming out scene gets adapted. please please please please please. please. if that scene gets changed#because isaac came out first i'm going to .do nothing probably. but mann. man. tori spring 'im asexual' scene please. please. please.....#these tags are not relevant to the post anymore really. sorry for heartstopper posting my irl i usually talk abt oseman to hasnt seen it yet#um. circling back to my original point. if her depression is canon how do you think she feels sitting there knowing she can't get help#bc the resources need to go to her brother and she can't draw attention away from him. tori's tumblr makes an appearance also that was#scary. what do you mean tumblr is on tv in the year of our lord 2024. hello? .anyways brought it up because#'anon asked: who's ur best friend? / probably my brother. sad.'#man. she's so awesome. me if i was cool and british and a girl and had a brother and also if my school burnt down
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