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bnha-trash · 4 months ago

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justice for lov ☹️

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hella1975 · 3 months ago

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would you like to talk about how bad the mha ending was hella

as much as i would love to give like. a comprehensive response i genuinely dont think i can get my words together just yet without it being a constant unintelligble stream of 'AND ANOTHER THING-' and bc it's become quite torn in the fandom on if the chapter was good or bad i want like. an actual coherent response here. so i will reblog this if/when i can word it but know IM NOT FUCKING HAPPY

#paragraphs and paragraphs about the villains' endings alone. hawks hpsc president. midoriya's ending #the fact hero society is barely changed and the changes that do happen feel very much TELLING the reader it happened #as opposed to actually showing us how society changed on it. this is smthn ik people will argue w me about #bc yes it was a 400+ chapter manga arguably showing us how society changed but like. did it actually show that #like do u honestly think any community would watch televised battles between TEENAGERS and bad guys #and have the majority of them go 'gah! i cant help but sympathise with the bad guy who just suckerpunched child extra no.28!'#so like. why are they all suddenly on board with massive systemic reinvention. where's the rage where's the bitterness #this wasn't a story on showing the villains as redeemable and working towards society sympathising with them #and slowly painfully coming to a conclusion where japan was ready to change as a COLLECTIVE #this was a story of showing a group of redeemable villains (first step CHECK) getting DEFEATED IN BATTLE #THEY ALL FUCKING DIED EXCEPT SPINNER AND PRESUMABLY COMPRESS #WE DONT EVEN FUCKING KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO DABI AT THE END ONLY THAT HE WAS PUT IN THE EXACT SAME POSITION #HE WAS IN WHEN HE WOKE UP FROM HIS COMA AND DABI WAS BORN. 'DABI' AS A PERSONA MEANT NOTHING #we still have an abuser who didn't come to justice. we still have the corrupt government body now being led by the guy they trafficked #and abused and conditioned into the perfect soldier. do u think maybe his opinions are a little biased in regards to that gov. body #maybe. perhaps. slightly. and we still have hero charts!!!!!! every kid in the last chap is still obsessed w becoming a hero!!!!#and dont get me STARTEDDDDDDDDD on midoriya being a teacher. 'i think it's cute he finally gets a life of peace 🥺#this way he can help the next generation directly 🥺' womp to the fucking womp he was supposed to be the world's no.1 hero #he barely sees his friends anymore. 'it's realistic to adulthood!' i dont want realism in my superpowered teen and up manga #put them in the avengers mansion NOW #so as you can see i waffled regardless of saying i specifically wasn't gonna do that and some of these points bother me more than others #with some being personal I Didn't Like It and some being i genuinely truly believe it to be bad writing #but my summary is mha ultimately felt like a story where a group of individuals unlearned (eh) the beliefs of a toxic society #and tried to save the people that society failed and then they themselves DID NOT FUCKING SAVE THEM #(i have a hit on the redemption via death trope on the dark web for ten bajillion pounds)#and while yeah that isn't objectively an evil story to tell i think 1) it was done poorly #and 2) isn't what a lot of people believed the premise to be nor what i think horikoshi himself was trying to write #ask #mha spoilers #mha

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byfulcrums · 5 months ago

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i've been thinking about lesbian scott summers because the other day i made a jeanscott drawing where scott was a girl and like. how would it affect her, as a character, and how would it affect her relationship with other people (namely jean)?

scott's already canonically 'nervous' when it comes to his attraction to women. he's always like, "is this safe? it's not, it's not safe" until actively proven otherwise and EVEN THEN he's still like that (whyyy), and sure it might be because of his deadly eyes but add the lesbian into it. this shit takes place in the 60s, 70s, add the lesbian into it

#there is something about how society shapes people and how people shape society that is so hard to correctly show in media #in ways that aren't ooc. uncanny x-men begins in the 60s. bobby has been in the closet since the 60s #they already struggle because of how much the world hates mutants. add the fucking lesbian into it #there is something about the idea of xavier having repressed bobby's sexuality or smth like that because the ppl would hate them more #if they were queer. that i think would be fun to add into the jeanscott (+ xavier and perhaps bobby) dynamic #nothing can keep those two apart. so even if their sexuality was repressed. they still wouldn't be apart yk what i'm saying??#but.... society.......#smth about--#they can't help the fact that they're mutants so maybe queer people can't help the fact that they're queer #but it's the 60s #and they're lesbians #in the 60s #their love would still be the same i believe #but the way they might act upon it. the nature of their relationship. how much they show to the public. etc #all of that would change #the thing is. how it would change #the way society views people and the way people view society can affect how they show themselves to others #i'm not explaining myself correctly but please jst think about it #lesbian jeanscott... my beloved...#marvel comics #x-men comics #jeanscott #scott summers #jean grey #and GOD this isn't even talking about how the writers would. write them yk #like if scott was a girl we can know for a fact that they would not have been canon back then #so we can at least assume they wouldn't be together #until very recently #man this is so complicated #avis' post

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shadowinthetreesbutcooler · 1 year ago

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red team are FULLY going feral im so here for it, cellbit vouching for cannibalism and getting excited, baghera wanting to build a dirt shack and everyone wanting to crawl into a cave and chase people through the woods

#qsmp #qsmp liveblogging #end of the event the other two teams are gonna have interpersonal conflicts to worry about #meanwhile red are having trouble being reintroduced to their own society because they went completely rabid #if they do get all the eggs back chayanne and tallulah watching their dad burrow even further into the wall and snarl and hiss at people as #they approach #missa's avoiding own home at first not just for fear of being a burden on his husband and family now but bc he hasnt had his rabies shot #cellbit gets EVEN WORSE somehow and roier dives down the rabbit hole with him not because purgatory made him feral but bc it made him #bloodthirsty and he loves his husband ESPECIALLY at his worst #leo gets back and doesnt notice a change at first bc her dad always barks at ppl and wants to hunt bbh for sport but the eating ppl is new.#if pomme finds out her mother nearly gave up on saving her shes distraught until she sees the state of baghera #living in a dirt shack and eating human flesh #charlie gets back to eggxile with a new craving for human flesh and a new distrust for codeflippa bc hes said it out loud now and knows in #his heart its not her but how can he let go when he has nothing but her and the other cannibal freaks he trauma bonded with in purgatory #jaiden would be more upset about cellbit killing fed workers but by the end of the 2 weeks she gets him a little now. shed never turn on th #federation ofc but she gets it a little bit.#and differences aside green and red have all bonded now over a shared murderous rage towards bbh lmao #pac is afraid not only of cellbit but all of red now. too afraid to leave the lab.#you get the jist its 2am im going to bed lmao #(lying)#qsmp spoilers

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naamahdarling · 5 months ago

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#life isn't fair and that's okay #like we as a society could do better and THAT is unfair but that isn't LIFE itself #so our cat dying is hard but I don't lament the unfairness because there is no controlling that #i accept it #because the whole time we have had him has been so beautiful and the fact that we ever knew him is so unlikely #it almost offsets it in a way #that loving them is always stolen time because they are so temporary #but that doesn't mean I'm not falling apart and scared and trying to do the right thing with almost nothing to work with but love #and my boyfriend isn't okay because raleigh is his heart cat and as best i can tell is his first heart animal #and he has never had a pet loss like this #and supporting him through it has just been love and helplessness dancing hand in hand #unable to change anything #i can do this emotionally but materially we just...ran out of everything this month #and for the first time in a long time we are going to be completely dry BEFORE we can cover pet expenses #and i know it wasn't irresponsibility it was just a storm of bullshit happening all at once but i still feel so terrible #i wish there had been a way to do better enough to have made a difference #it doesn't tear me apart that my cat is dying it #tears me apart that his mouth hurts and I have to beg for help to feed him #i wish it wasn't him #i wasn't expecting it to be him #and i feel terrible about that too

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lavenderjewels · 6 months ago

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feel so validated it was confirmed gojo killed the higher ups because I loved the page turner shock in chapter 223 of seeing the higher ups slaughtered after Gojo lightly talking to Gakuganji

#so many people thought it was inumaki/yuuta or kenjaku………#jjk spoilers #jjk 261 #I may not be in that massive server anymore but I can feel happy knowing my understanding of jjk was right #<- saying this as someone who barely talked to anyone ever #I remember thinking it was Wild that gojo killed all of them but still maintained the higher ups through Gakuganji #like it was very in character for him. he’s a whole complicated mess of identity and strength #treated as a tool. the pinnacle of jujutsu. being proud and happy that he’s at the top but detached from everyone #the symbol of the society he’s trying to reform. but the whole things rotten from the foundations #killing the higher ups but propping gakuganji up as the leader #wanting his students to experience youth and be seen as humans but disregarding his own humanity #everything with geto. he’s stuck in a sort of stalemate where nothing changes and the cycle of tragedy continues #hoping yuuji breaks out of it but we’ll see #I mean it’s just a classic case of tragedy #dumping all this in the tags of my silly validation post #gojo satoru

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cararata · 12 days ago

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I'm trying to finish watching bnha bc i never did and i'm also starting to really like the chatacters again but that fuckass ending is ruining my experience and also bakugou is still there

#i like bakugou but i also dont #bnha #boku no hero academia #boku no hero #bnha anime #bnha manga #bnha shitass ending #deku really did all of that for NOTHING #the message of the whole series was basically give up lol you will never get to do your dreams also die lol #and edeavor got a happy ending damn 😭😭😭😭#AND THE LEAGUE OF VILLIANS GOT FORGOTTEN AND HERO SOCIETY STAYED THE SAAAAAAAAAAME #I MEAN IT CHANGED A LITTLE BUT NO ONE WAS LIKE IT WAS OUR FOILT THE LEAGE OF VILLAINS EXISTED WE GOTTA SO SOMTIFBEJF #also they sent children to war 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭#if im wrong dont tell me thats y im rewatching the anime all i know is that that ending was ass i hate you horikoshi #those people that complained about jjk ending dont know real pain

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mariemariemaria · 10 months ago

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Does anybody else feel like mental health awareness has done very little to help them in material reality

#i was gonna say done nothing to help but that seemed too harsh #like there definitely is more knowledge about it now. maybe more people feel comfortable speaking about it which is good #but personally i don't feel that. like idk. workplaces will post about mental health awareness and then do nothing to help employees #the same w universities. my uni cut back the already meager mental health support #and then the government is doing absolutely fuck all as well #like idk im just back in a place i thought id gotten out of long ago and i still don't feel comfortable talking about it with people #maybe that's a me problem or maybe it's cultural or something idk. but in the 10 years ive been depressed (🫠) i don't think it's gotten a #whole lot better. teenagers are still dealing with the same shit i did and they're still not being taken seriously #women's mental health is not even spoken about.....anxiety depression sh eds etc are still ignored or seen as hysterical behaviour in women #or just normal esp with disordered eating. society hasn't changed people still want women to be stick thin and weak #like i know 10 years is a short time and there has been massive improvements in mh awareness if we look back over the past 50+ years #but idk i just think that it hasn't gotten better for a lot of people #i think specifically of belfast and like god. the amount of trauma there is the amount of homelessness the amount of substance abuse #drug abuse in particular that has gotten visibly worse over the past decade or so*#and i connect the dots n see the 2008 recession + a tory gov defunding the nhs + dehumanisation of homeless people & addicts + the troubles #+ ptsd + generational trauma + a negative peace + classism + paramilitary drug dealers + parties linked to those paramilitaries #and its like hmmmm i think we live in a society. and a mental health approach based on individual actions like journaling and meditation #isn't the way to go. or at least is not the be all and end all which is what a lot of mental health awareness raising seems to promote #*visibly worse on the streets. it was always a problem ofc but even a decade ago my parents never imagined it would be as bad as it is now #and it's become so normalised. i do think there's less individualism here than there seems to be elsewhere which can be good and can be bad #but i think we are becoming more and more individualistic. slowly. there's still a sense of community here but i do think it's changing #and callousness towards homeless people is one of the most obvious examples of this.#love when i put a wee asterisk in the tags of a post. like i have A Lot To Say lol

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imabiscuitinthousandworlds · 5 months ago

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i got so caught up in the euphoria of creating a detailed and super cool world that i completely forgot the story has a horrid fucking ending. (i just wrote the end and i'm sad)

#a biscuit's rambles #i cant change the end though #everything is set for that #i mean maybe i discover an alternative when i write the actual story but. anyway i do like it #its just sad #also it opens all doors for my mc to be really fucking unhinged #they had enough of a life before to behave with sense and consciously fit into that society and keep certain things about themselves down #they kept secrets and they kept them well #now? no sense of danger no idea about life or society no fears #just the urge to do something they dont even know and nothing to make them think about it #they are now so much worse and much more dangerous and completely unhinged #its so funny to me. this wasnt the plan but i started writing and they woke up and chose violence

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faaun · 3 months ago

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ok let's catch up quickly

#so i went on a few dates w this guy. long hair beautiful face kinda looked like a girl (good) said yes ma'am when i told him to do smth #(also good) film student great at photography including candids. made a sheath of leather for a sword pin i have . et cetera.#he asked to cuddle and i was like iggg and then i felt Nothing and i was like ohhh yh ok ok yep lesbian #like he meets almost all my criteria but. yeahhh no . also at the end of that date he had some weird takes. anyway broke up w him and told #him actually im p sure im a lesbian (again) and he was like yk thats the second time this has happened to me this week but its ok bc ive #fallen for this girl from berlin. and then we cooked together. anyway . met a beautiful butch lowk in love w her. weve been on (1) date.#have two exams in a few days havent studied enough going to like end it all basically. my research partner kicked me off our research #(expected(it was always skinda sketchy)) which was devastating + it happened in a lidl 15 hours into a journey from bordeaux #to go back to the UK. my friends were kinda busy paying for baguettes but also they heard this whole exchange and are kinda mad at him #my friend of 10+ years is coming over in a few days. my evil ex situationship person that i decided to stay friends w because i kept #insisting they are a good friend and not evil and also extremely beautiful? turns out shockingly enough they were evil. tried to fix them #and then i realised due to their entire friendship group being ppl like me (Every Single One of their friends are ppl they met on dating #apps then led on then dumped and proposed staying friends w) and are collectively extremely attracted to them and not over them they #keep validating the most diabolical shit they say/do to hace a chance w them. they broke up w their ex and the way they keep leading #this poor girl on and making her heartbeeak worse and saying that they want more power over her and want her to beg for them back etc...MY #JAW HAD DROPPED esp bc i didnt even know the ex was in the picture BECAUSE ME AND ONE OF OUR FRIENDS (that they also dated) HAD JUSR SLEPT #NAKED TOGETHER IN THEIR BED W THEM. GIRL. anyway that is the least of the diabolical stuff they said but no we are moving onnn #this was b4 the beautiful butch btw. anyways . i have a mitski concert tmrw i think?? idek anymore #i used to have a crush on this guy very briefly and then it disappeared and then i realised if he fundementally changed everything abt #himself then maybe id like him but ofc i didnt tell him that but i still think abt it sometimes but anyway thats irrelevant now bc 99% sure #even if he did id still not find him attractive (lesbianism). please recommend good overnight moisturisers btw i have super dry skin #right. the friend of 10 yrs. we had a hard convo abt why she essentially bullied me in year 8 and it made me highly bitter but i also love #her and ik things are diff now its been like . Many Years . and shes going to stay a while I HAVE TWO EXAMS I DONT HAVE TIME but i love her #its fine. i think i might just switch into medicine and do the whole become a neurosurgeon thing (which was my plan B) bc plan A is looking #kinda impossible rn. I WANNA TALK MORE ABT WHAT THE EX SITUATIONSHIP PERSON SAID but i wont bc i dont wanna be too mean but also . MY GOD #i had a conversation w a philosopher friend about whether i have a moral responsibility to try to fix them bc unleashing this on society #feels wrong and he said 'probably but...run' so yeah im not talking to them atm. second date w beautiful butch on monday btw IDK WHAT TO #WEAR. she said she likes fems. im just gonna wear the shortest ralph lauren skirt i have w the cute leg warmers and hope 4 the best #its 1:15 AM im abt to drink coffee and start studying bc what the FUCK man. also almost finished watching the boys its very good #one of my best friends is struggling rn it is breaking my heart i want to take the burden from her i miss her very much

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hella1975 · 2 months ago

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what’s crazy is that in not a very long time midoriya will be 20 and he will realise how young that truly is and how scared and clueless and searching he still is at that age and the same will be true at age 21 and 22 and 23 but shigaraki is already dead

#saw that one art of tomura in his loser gamer era and had to pause bc he truly does look SO FUCKING YOUNG AND SMALL #i think midoriya truly does know that shigaraki was too young to have gone through all he did and be doing all that now #but it’s not the same as actually hitting that age and realising #like that exact feeling of hitting the age of a book protag you used to look up to #and realising they weren’t this all powerful being. they were a child. they were scared #he needed just one person to reach out a hand and no one did until it was too late #and he knew none of it would have even happened if he hadn’t caused such a fuss first. nothing would have changed #like a child only receiving attention because of a tantrum #he forced a better society at the cost of himself in his entirety #and he was only fucking twenty.#🚬😐#mha #mha spoilers #shigaraki tomura

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piplupod · 4 months ago

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feels like the isolation is a gushing wound and going to the centre is just a small bandage. i think perhaps i am not really ever going to feel okay unless something miraculous happens. i am retaining some semblance of sanity now that I'm leaving the house and socializing with non-family more than once a week, but i am still hurting more than I can really tolerate and I don't know what to do about it. there doesn't seem to be a fix for this that I can enact.

#part of me wonders if going to the centre is helping or hurting more #but i think it's definitely helping more. however it is definitely also hurting/making some things worse #i just wish I could be operating at the same level as most of society #and i feel so egotistical when I talk abt this #but like. why am i always so fucking aware of every single thing going on #and everyone else is just painfully oblivious #I AM USING HYPERBOLE. ITS NOT EVERYONE. i know im not the only person ever lmao #when i got my autism diagnosis i thought oh good okay so THIS is why im such a freak #and now I've met so many other autistic ppl irl and um. no. no thats definitely not it still.#yes its probably part of it but im also just. so fucking traumatized i guess idk. i hate this so much #i just want to be the same and fit in and not be analyzing everything and be able to actually speak my mind #and not be so kind and polite and respectful all the time and be able to say shitty stupid things without thinking anything of it #im so tired of being the only one who seems to care so much about everyone else's comfort and feelings #but also at the same time i would hate if i acted like everyone else bc i know how shitty it makes people feel #and people are always so happy to see me because I am useful and make them feel good and comfortable and heard #and that matters. that means a lot to people i think. but also I am not a person. i am a tool.#and I'd really like to be a person #i somehow feel like im operating at a higher level/awareness than almost everyone irl and also way below everyone at the same time #like im so hyperaware of everyone else more than most ppl but im also so socially inept sometimes. and just... idk how to be a person.#i dont know i just want to not be like this. its so lonely and tiring and i want to matter to people #i want them to like me for more than just what I'm able to do for them. I want to be liked for Me i guess. but Me isnt likeable maybe #Me is uncomfortable for people. Me is a trembling cornered prey animal with a longing to tell stories but is too afraid to do anything #and so Me just exists in a hollow shell made out of people-pleasing and fawning and mirroring everyone around them #and then i get lonelier and more isolated and nothing really changes. but every time i try to crack open the shell a little it goes badly #like i genuinely dont think its my paranoia. i think it is not Safe for Me to exist properly.#i am too sensitive probably! but it does very much feel like a raw wound that peope jab aggressively at when i open up a little!#boy howdy i sound like such a wuss. i mean i probably am one fjfkdl #i just feel like I keep trying to fix things and improve and try new things and nothing ever really works well #my counsellors have always commented on how impressed they are at my willingness to try things #and its like ?? yeah ! ofc i am going to try things! maybe that will be smth that finally helps!

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mostlydeadallday · 4 months ago

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are you ever so lonely it feels like acid under your skin

#today sucked #i had a good week #i was doing okay #but i got a little too personal talking about something and it all came roaring back #spent an hour or two crying and still don't feel any better #i can't really express how much i want a different life than this #i want to be someone else i want to be SOMEONE at all #days like this feel like I take up no space and weigh nothing and i could just disappear and nothing would change #i hate being so fucking isolated #and the fact that society is full of lonely people makes me feel even worse somehow #you're not special. we can't fix this. just suffer #rant tw #vent tw #elletalks

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tofixtheshadows · 5 months ago

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kbru is my favorite male character in DM and it's sooooo disheartening to see how eager people are to misunderstand him. i know this is the white website but there reaches a point where i'm like. you have to be actively misreading the words on the page to think he's actively sinister.

even when he's at his lowest opinion of ls (BEFORE MEETING HIM! BC AFTER MEETING HIM HE HAS FAITH IN LS THAT DOESN'T EVEN MAKE SENSE TO HIM), it functions as a glimpse into what other people think of ls/the party writ large, AND WHY WOULDN'T YOU WANT THAT. it's so interesting! our characters don't exist separate from everyone else; they have reputations!!! kbru's judgment being incomplete is the POINT!!!!!!

kbru is SO important and he's SO kind and compassionate and i'm so tired of people thinking that he isn't. at the end of the day i don't blow up about it bc i know ms kui and i share opinions about him since i can comprehend the words on the page but it's so frustrating sometimes nonetheless. you're so brave for briefly ending the vagueposting... i salute you

Every day I try not to blow up about it and every day I mostly succeed because I am thirty or forty years old and I'm trying to be an adult, really I am. I'm trying not to pick fights, I'm trying not to be the fun killer, I'm trying to be nice. Especially because, frankly, I don't have a lot of backup in this regard. So I'm trying the soft approach instead, which is just unhinged blogging I guess. But if more people see my posts and associate the sympathetic thoughts I put out there with him rather than the mean and unfair ones, maybe fandom will get a little more bearable.

He is very important to me so I will not stop!

#reminder that I'm white and I find all of this pretty obvious so idk man #society tries to make the machinations that uphold whiteness and the need to constantly pivot back to whiteness invisible #but once you know they're there nothing should stop you from seeing them. and it changes how you view the world forever.#it's at your job it's at your school it's in your paperback it's in your fandom it's definitely in your anime etc etc #there's no such thing as man-made neutrality. everyone read COLLABORATION: A POTENTIAL HISTORY OF PHOTOGRAPHY #oh my god wait why is it $85 #sorry I got off topic #dungeonposting #Dea answers #Dea's anonymous friends

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posletsvet · 1 year ago

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Nothing from what I've learnt this morning is true, I'm gonna cuddle up with my cats and stay in bed all day and daydream about everyone being alive and happy

#jjk #jjk leaks #jjk 236 #the most cruel thing of all is that gojo never got to claim the happiness of his youth back #all he ever knew in his life was being the strongest and fighting #gege goes around saying things like what gojo truly lacks is the sense of self #meanwhile gojo was othered throughout his entire life for what he is #he was slaughtered for what he is #he was sealed for what he is #he was left fighting alone because of what he is #gojo coveted change but he himself remains a static symbol etched into the narrative #and now he dies and his death is nothing but a symbol a cautionary tale for others to derive meaning from #at the end of the day gojo is a case study of a romantic hero archetype #he rejects established conventions because they suffocate him as much as his strength does only to be rejected by his society in return #he is the center of his own existence but still carries ideology which has others placed at its core #and he dies for his ideal forever estranged from the world he's put in #and it is all in vain #and it is the cruelest thing of all #and it can't be true it's not true it's not true it's not true it's not true #i need to go scream in the woods #me: it's devastating and terrible and makes me feel sick. i'm emotionally overwhelmed and would not be prepared to talk about it for weeks #my brain: okay but what if we analyze it–#apparently my coping machanism is compartmentalizing #the narrative never pretended to care about gojo as a person his character introduces a body of meaning and that's it #and it's how it's supposed to be honestly since he's not the main character he adds to the narrative but he isn't supposed to drive it #but it still aches so bad #he dies so that his ideal can live on he is not a person he is a narrative's symbol and this is as far as objectification can go

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satoriberry · 10 days ago

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tha terf paradox of promoting acceptance of oneself's biological nature and not changing it for societal ideologies but then turning around and criticizing any person that has a different perception of their biological nature that doesn't immediately enter the "male or female" binary hmmm,,,,

#berry.rambles <3 #does this make sense #like #ok cool. lets remind women that just because they're gnc doesnt mean that they have to transition (which isnt a malevolent idea at all imo)#but then the second a gnc woman (that's consciously aware that society sees her as a woman) decides to go by she/they or anything else #she's suddenly the woke version of not like other girls???#HUH #what does that even mean #do you people realize that some women just dont really care about the language used when they're talked about #like its not a “distancing myself” from femalehood (??) thing its literally coming to terms with the fact that language is not rigid #i go by any pronouns because i literally dont care #im a girl i know that #but im not gonna flip out if you call me he or they or she or it #like i have bigger problems didya think about that for a second!!!#this idea that any kind of personal uniqueness/individualism is ALWAYS patriarchy-related is so???? yes the patriarchy doesnt care but #why shouldnt we care about what the women feel too???#its so insane how they'll talk about eliminating the patriarchy/distancing themselves from it to weaken it #but then the second a woman talks about her unique experiences as a female and how it differs from other women's #they jump into her comments/reblogs talking about “yeah sure whatever but remember you'll always be seen as nothing but a female”#“men don't care about that so you might as well not even view yourself as unique or different from other women”#“patriarchy doesn't care about (insert gnc/trans thing) cause you're still female”#literally using the patriarchy as an excuse to lump all women into a monolith #i dont wanna be with other women #some of you are dumb!!!#traditionalists. conservatives. zionists. religious women. liberal women. libertarians. nationalists. some of you are vile im not gonna lie #some women reject class consciousness as women #thats on them #some women think that their societal condition is natural. thats on them unless they change.#you'll never get everybody on your team #which is why instead of yapping about this nonbinary person or that he/him lesbian

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