#nor do i have a therapist

[skelejester]

hey chat i just wanted to hop on here and let you guys know that the new semester of uni is KICKING MY ASS!!!! i hope to post some of the work i make in class if it's not total dookie... but i won't really have time to make a lot of original works :(

stick around for more cool work sometime in february maybe idk

[idontmindifuforgetme]

The whole “be responsible not for other people’s feelings but to them” distinction is so so true… at some point you need to realize that other people’s insecurities really are their responsibility & dimming or contorting yourself to make them feel better helps neither you nor them. Firstly, bc they need to realize what they’re doing and grow up. And secondly, bc you’re not just compromising on a one-time thing. You’re comprising on who you are as a person. I don’t want to look back when I’m older and stay stuck wishing I held my ground despite people’s projections or asserted my presence more or didn’t apologize so much for who I am. I really just want to own everything (the good and bad) & continue doing what makes me happy

[plushie-lovey]

Alright so. I'm getting into junk journaling. At least, I'm going to try to! I have a plan to start myself off with 2, one for personal/random shit so I don't feel so confined, and one focused on my plushies!! Not every one of my plushies will get a page but I will dedicate a page to whoever inspires me in a particular moment. I may not share every page right away. But if I fill in an entire journal I will try to show the finished results of what I created! I will also be doing this at my leisure because this new hobby is an outlet for my creatively and mainly my emotions. Shout out to @ cafe-mouse for inspiring me

[snekdood]

men are inherently traumatized under the patriarchy bc they're pressured or forced to conform to the standards of manhood, which to put very simply, is to never express of feel emotions, which makes them bad at socializing, thus rendering them eternally isolated.

[forgotn1]

I think what I need is someone in my life who will give me comfort and reassurance not just without me asking, but before I even get to the point where I feel like I need to ask. I want to feel understood well enough that they know without me saying it. Or maybe I just want to feel safe enough with another person that I can feel comfortable asking for it.

I don't think I've ever felt safe or comfortable and now I don't really know how to. Those were luxuries I have not been afforded in this life.

[licorishh]

Most people really don't seem to understand that friendship is a two-way street.

They expect you to wait on them hand and foot as they rant about and constantly pour on you either their issues or their passions and when you finally have something you'd like to talk about you get a "Man that sucks :/" or a "Cool" in return.

Find somebody who doesn't do that. Then you'll have your best friend.

[rigginsstreet]

i feel like for most of this year ive gotten good at repressing my depression + general anxiety that just always lives within me lmfao but that only means that i am about due for a massive fucking breakdown soon and boy... do i feel it building :) tryna keep it together throught christmas i want to enjoy my presents first then we contemplate offing ourselves

[ajxrn-archive]

I’m going to. rip my fucking hair out.

[bunnypansy]

as a gay guy, I love the obey me bros and I love ur writing, but idk I just feel so upset reading m!mc x lucifer works because he's like totally my type, but for some reason I feel as though he would never be attracted to another guy. it just makes me so depressed while reading amazing writing like yours that provide content for amab, trans and masc presenting people . Like ill read the work that include him with a female or woman mc and he just seems so in-character, like he truly loves her, but with a guy mc (or even Diavolo!) he feels so out of character and that he'll be homophobic like those typical traditional masculine men. I I feel as though he'll tell me he's not into men if i ever tried to flirt with him and idk beat me up (jkjk) like there's this inner part of me that knows 'Lucifer would never set his eyes on another man', 'he's only gentlemanly to females', and it's only reinforced by the sheer amount of lucifer works that contain fem!mc x lucifer content, as if even those authors know deep down that Lucifer is straight. Sorry for venting, i just want to know that your work in the fandom is appreciated and that i can overcome such internalized hate…

...I appreciate the compliments, but don't send me asks like this, please.

[kaurwreck]

I cannot relate when people talk about being unable to distinguish comorbid symptoms, at least not to the same degree. I have mine fairly parsed, including where they overlap and exacerbate each other, in part because of how aggressively I've pursued treatment while also staggering it in such a way that allowed me and my psychs to identify the separate disorders.

[thatscarletflycatcher]

One of my friends taught middle school for a year. She was working with extra-age students of difficult backgrounds, but otherwise her working conditions were the best one can aspire for: she had a colleague in class with her at all times. Both were paid full hours for teaching half the course. They were paid 3-4 times the planning hours of average teachers.

She gave up after a year and preferred to do shifts at a factory.

Another friend -whose fiancé is a teacher- pointedly refused any offers I made for over a year of helping him take some teaching hours. He'd rather do anything else.

[punskiii]

my friend just told me I walk autistically and that's the first time someone has told me something like that, and then he went "has seriously nobody ever told you that before??" and it made me laugh so hard lmaooooo

[non-un-topo]

Should I see a therapist for my unexplained contempt for my Heterosexual Family Members and their wedding planning and their baby-craziness y/n?

[caffeinatedopossum]

Crying my eyes out over hurtful things the ai characters say to me. I'm so normal

[whisperofthewaves]

this will be the first time I ever went to the cinema for the same movie twice

[tim-hoe-wan]

It’s nice that some of you think I’m mature and knowledgeable enough to give you serious advice or give a psychological explanation. But I say this with love, please go see a therapist instead of a tumblr blog who has not even hit quarter life.