#nonbinary liberation

[osokasstuff]

["you" is used as general you and isn't directed at anyone personally]

radical take: you can't know someone's agab if you haven't seen the moment of assigning it.

(intersex) people get reassigned with different gender later in life. sometimes after days, sometimes after weeks & months & years passed from birth.

trans labels are not indicative of agab.

body parts are not indicative of agab.

how someone is raised is not indicative of agab.

you can't always know whether someone is trans or intersex by their look.

if someone is visibly trans/intersex, it doesn't mean you can tell their gender by their look and moreso tell their agab (by assuming it being "the opposite" (binary shit) of their gender).

if someone tells you they're trans/nonbinary/intersex/otherwise genderqueer, you still can't tell their agab because you don't know their experience and medical history.

and oh, you shouldn't try to guess someone's agab at the first place.

(i can't believe "you can't tell someone's agab" and "you shouldn't ask someone's agab" and "what is in the stranger's pants is none of your business" are hot takes in the end of 2024 on tumblr).

[nonbinarynow]

It's frustrating to see people treat transmasc and transfem as man/woman or afab/amab because it completely stripped the terms of what their intended usage was: non-binary purposed signifiers of transition direction, spheres of experience on the spectrum and inclusive language for those who were binary and those who were closer to the binary. It's so clear that this is the intention when people generally view the situation as "transmasc, transfem and non-binary." That is preposterous! Transmasc and transfem should already indicate that enbiness is included and prioritised, yet here we are. And then people using them as conflicting opposites like how people view man and woman, and erasing all enben who are not transmasc/fem. Replacing AGAB terminology with it, when that is completely inaccurate and still deeply exorsexist. And then on top of this, due to this misusage of nonbinary terminology, people are beginning to assume that tmasc and tfem are just trans man and trans woman version 2, further perpetrating the idea that non-binary as an identity is simply a "stop off" and people will "stop being afraid to come out as a real man/woman soon." They are forced into binary terms and told to disregard their enbiness.

It is all round frustrating. It's frustrating for me as a transandrogynous person, I cannot imagine how frustrating it must be for anyone who is transmasc or/and transfem non-binary, or any other enban with a binary connection.

The terms have been co-opted to replace the gender binary, but making it "inclusive for nonbinary people". That is a ridiculous idea and an impossibility. Rebinarisation needs to stop. Binary supremacism has to end.

[elderofmars]

yeah...i think i'm happiest as a crossdressing dogboy (he/they). maybe i'm pansexual/panromantic too but i'll figure that one out

i don't think i would want to be trans tbh, it sounds like it would be scary and painful, even without external pressure, i'm just dogboy who likes thigh highs

but i still will fight alongside and be there for transfolk i care about

[isabellascarlett1]

Gender affirming bottom surgery has a lower regret rate than:

- Knee surgery

- Chemotherapy

- Back surgery

- Open heart surgery

- Cosmetic surgery

- Most medical procedures

The regret rate for gender affirming bottom surgery is less than 1%.

[canideformed]

Can perisex trans bootlickers stop claiming that “sex is real, it’s gender that’s fake” or saying that trans people can’t change our sexes “but we’re still our genders” or arguing that your AGAB is inherently anything beyond a singular event in your past, or whatever?

These beliefs harm all sex variant people. I know some trans people may be comfortable not altering their physical sex, but that doesn’t mean the ones who do aren’t literally changing their sex.

Gender affirming surgeries and care were called “sex change” procedures for a reason. This novel re-definition of “sex” as being strictly chromosomes is a transphobic and intersexist response to the increased visibility of trans people. The line of thought was “well, I don’t want them to be able to change their sex! So I’m going to re-define sex as something we can’t (yet) change,” as well as, “well, I want to enforce the sex binary on intersex people, so I’m going to create a system to be able to force them into binary boxes based on whether or not they have a Y chromosome.”

Stop enforcing the sex binary. It is a bigoted concept and it hurts people. Stand by your intersex and transsexual siblings and don’t let us be erased.

[liberaljane]

The commercial visibility of Pride over the past few years has often excluded the voices of those most marginalized.

Digital illustration of a large group of queer people. There are people of all different ages, sizes, and genders gathered around a sign that reads, ‘no pride for some without pride for all.’

[rainbowpopeworld]

(Quote from David Tennant is from this video and the photo is from Staged)

[transsexualfiend]

If you are trans or consider yourself an ally to trans people PLEASE learn about DIY HRT and learn about the myths associated with it. Even if you're already on HRT. Even if you aren't on HRT. Even if you never plan to go on HRT. The more you know the better ally you can be to trans people in these upcoming months. The more people know, the less harmful misinformation will be spread.

[officialleahhayes]

My biggest desire right now is having my cock sucked:

Hit me up on telegram lovelies @OfficialLEahHAyes

[jasondamien93]

[nonbinarynow]

Introduction

(note: this introduction is subject to change. Apr 2025)

You can call me R. My pronouns are he/she, or they/them, or zhe/hir. Pick a set and stick to it. My "about me" is below the cut.

I am here to help those outside the binary show those within binary systems show that we deserve liberation. We are suppressed and oppressed by the bourgeois gender and sex binaries, leading to many issues such as exclusion, a lack of civil rights due to legal invisibility, exorsexism, intersexism, targeted violence, corrective surgery, not knowing out history, corrective SA, internalised oppression and so much more. We deserve better because we are beautiful. We show that there is a life and a world outside of these binaries, these binaries are not the be all end all of human existence, never have been and never will be.

This blog is multifaceted with specific focus on lives outside of gender/sex binary, our communities and our issues. There will be nonbinary theorising and promotion of others' theory too.

Since I assume myself to be perisex, I will not make any posts myself about intersex experiences, and will only reblog from intersex liberationists. If anyone wishes to submit specifically Intersex NOW posts, they can do so though my submissions box.

↓ About Me ↓

I am Black.

I only fluently speak English.

I assume I am perisex.

I am an ambonec bigender person; both an androgyne and neutrois.

Despite this, I mainly identify with my androgyne identity

I experience dysphoria and hope to transition.

I am trixic.

I am a Marxist

I believe in Anti binary action and liberation.

I believe in the inherent allyship between all those outside of the binary. (mainly intersex and nonbinary communities)

I believe nonbinary oppression is rooted in class struggle and cannot be seperated from it as the gender binary originates as a bourgeois tool.

[whereserpentswalk]

Transandrophobia goes beyond just being dismissive of trans men, it's this culture within the queer community where transmasc and afab enby experiences and culture are regularly hated and dismissed by the rest of the community. As well as the way any hint of female sex on someone who isn't a woman is hated. Not to mention the insane amount of transphobia + homophobia trans mlm face within the queer community.

Like just look at how every fandom (lemon demon, fnaf, TallyHall, Undertale, backrooms, etc.) gets hated and mocked by the internet the momment the fandom becomes majority afab trans people. I've seen this happen in real time, where fandoms go from being seen as cool and interesting, to being dismissed as weird and cringe, the momment thos shift happens.

Or the way transmasc and afab enby bodies are treated. The way transmascs are bullied for not having body types considered masculine. The searing hatred most people here seem to have for any afab trans person who isn't on T. The way passing is celebrated as a moral good. The way twink has been a polite way for some people to call trans men girls.

Transmascs and afab enbies deserve love and kindness. And they also deserve human respect. Please if your an afab trans person reading this: I love you, I respect you, you deserve to be respected, and treated as an adult able to make your own decisions, you deserve to have your body treated with respect regardless of appearance and for people to be normal about it.

[isabellascarlett1]

Your Intersex Awareness Day reminders that:

- Micropenis jokes are intersexist and not funny

- Intersex genital mutilation (IGM) is still allowed in nearly every country

- AFAB TransFem, AMAB TransMasc, Cis Trans, and Cis Non-binary are important terms for many Intersex folks

Include Intersex folks in your activism.

[mogaimagic]

Reposting this on tumblr so that no nonblack queer’s coin soulgender

[drmichealmorbius]

Hi y'all! I am a queer 2nd-year college student doing a project on improving trans rights. Part of this is collecting data from real trans/GNC people about their lived experiences. If you are a trans person, please complete this survey, and reblog or spread it around to other trans peers, I would really appreciate it!!!

Even if you aren't trans/gnc please please please reblog for a bigger sample size!!!!!!!!

TW: mentions of verbal/physical abuse

[flower-tea-fairies]