#non binary boy

[microplasdick]

I just saw a “women only wear makeup to appease/ appeal to men” take mentioned in passing

Haven’t seen those chucklefucks in a while, thankfully

I only started playing around with makeup in my early/ mid 20’s

My blorbo in eeby deeby, I was rocking raccoon emo eyeshadow for Christmas Eve dinner at my family’s

Who was I wearing that for when my parents actually gave me the side-eye to the tune of “you look stupid, why are you doing this?”?

Seriously, who else of not me was I wearing that for?

[dravenistired]

we were watching a show and I started singing one of the songs- this mf turned the volume down on the actual show because ‘I want to hear you sing’ he said

im not crying shut up you saw nothing

[futuristiclovezr]

i want to look like my skyrim character. the short pulled back hair. WAIT I HAVE A PIC

this was the morning on my wedding in skyrim. but i want to look like them so bad. like i look so pretty.

[genderqueerdykes]

listen to me: you can love and support trans men and trans women at the same time. you can love and support transmasc and transfemmes at the same time. you do not have to make things into this-or-that decisions. you do not have to turn everything into us-vs-them, friend-vs-enemy, sports team ass dynamics. transfems and transmascs are not at opposite ends of ANYTHING, and we will never, ever be enemies or polar sides that cannot intersect or co-exist peacefully. you can support more than one type of trans person and distribute that support equally. i promise you fucking can.

[xferal-fairyx]

Where my freaks at?

[spideyboy-ul]

Et j'aimerais ajouter : Quels privilèges ???

Je subis la misogynie chaque jour en plus de la transphobie et elles sont souvent de pair, mon genre masculin ou neutre ne change rien à mon vécu de personne sexisée et opprimée, j'ai vécu des agressions, du harcèlement de rue, des injures sexistes/lesbianophobes/transphobes, et des violences physiques, y compris dans ma propre maison.

Mon genre masculin ne me donne pas de privilège ; bien au contraire, c'est une raison supplémentaire pour les débiles de s'en prendre à moi, de vouloir me réduire à une condition de ''fille parfaite'' que je ne suis pas et que beaucoup de personnes AFABs et/ou perçues comme femmes subissent.

I don’t think I have ever seen a post about transandrophobia saying that their issues were MORE IMPORTANT that trans womens’. Every post I’ve seen has always been more along the lines of “hey stop erasing trans men, we are also being killed and attacked”.

But I’ve been told 3 times now that “trans men have privilege, trans women have it harder so shut up.”

Y’all are literally proving our point that you don’t care about trans men.

All trans lives are important motherfuckers. Trans men don’t magically get privileges just because they’re men.

[upmala]

for me, Murderbot should be played by Vico Ortiz. look at them

the gender. the eyebrows. the empty stare. do you see it

[agendercryptidlev]

We need to talk more about the transmasculine suicide rate.

There's a common saying that every transgender suicide is a murder, because it is the lack of acceptance in society that leads transgender individuals to commit suicide at such a high rate, this is true of trans men who have the highest suicide rate across all gender identities:

[image ID: a stylized graph depicting the percentages of considering & attempted suicide for different gender experiences.

Cisgender boy/man: 28% considered suicide, 8% attempted suicide

Cisgender girl/woman: 37% considered suicide, 10% attempted suicide

Transgender boy/man: 59% considered suicide, 22% attempted suicide

Transgender girl/woman: 48% considered suicide, 12% attempted suicide

Nonbinary/genderqueer: 53% considered suicide, 19% attempted suicide

Questioning: 48% considered suicide, 14% attempted suicide

end ID] ID by @tstomboy

Trans men are not receiving the support they need, and many of them are not surviving because of this. We need to make sure that mental health support and suicide for transgender individuals is as inclusive as possible for these transgender men who are at the highest risk.

We need to ensure trans men feel safe and welcome within the queer community as isolation is one of the more exacerbating factors on one's mental health. We need to make sure resources for victims of sexual violence are inclusive of transmasculine individuals, who face the highest rate of sexual abuse and yet often have to recloset themselves to find support. We have to love trans men because society shows them nothing but hate.

Check in with the trans men in your community, you may just save a life.

[hemogoblin46]

i've seen a few posts talking about the common transmasc stereotype of: "he/they soft boy who likes cavetown"

i dislike this stereotype as much as anyone else, but i still think we should respect those who do fall into this stereotype. most people who identify with this are young queer teens who are trying to just live their lives.

a lot of transmascs gravitate towards cavetown's music because there's not many other artists or communities with people like us. especially one's as welcoming and usually positive as the one created by cavetown and his fans.

[futuristiclovezr]

want this so much. wanna be seen as a boy sometimes. not like in the binary but in a non binary way.

like i’m a genderfluid “boy” if that makes sense

id feel so validated

Boys who arent afraid to be seen with you or admit theyre your boyfriend >>>>>

[butch-bf]

say hi to the butch version of uncle jesse from full house 🫶

cis men, minors and terfs DNI.

[wolfertinger666]

ref sheet I did for my headmate Cj

(they/he) 🐕💞🏳️‍⚧️

[justdavina]

She's just AMAZING!!! I absolutely LOVE this wonderful transgender woman! Her dress is so pretty! Isn't she just gorgeous?

[one-hell-of-a-showtime]

Hey, a blog I used to follow (nonbinary support) reblogged a post talking about how “trans men are the men of trans people” and I really advise all of y’all to stay away from them. It scared me, because I’ve been following them for some time, and they’re supposed to be for nonbinary support. You cannot support nonbinary people while also being transandrophobic. You can’t. I unfollowed them, and will probably block them like I did with another blog, a popular sex ed blog, and I’d really advise y’all to do the same. Trans men are men, but they are NOT privileged over other groups because of them being TRANS MEN. Nobody is privileged for being trans!

[genderqueerdykes]

i got to thinking about something i said... going to turn these into prints, stickers, shirts, buttons, etc. soon. thought folks might like this, i'm way more pleased with the design than i thought i would be (: consider adding more flags too!

happy pride to everyone who refuses to be cisgender (or cissexual!) in the face of a world that demands we bow to their needs. we do not owe anyone cisgenderism or cissexuality- we owe it to ourselves to be who we are instead.

you can buy these prints here on a variety of items!

[xferal-fairyx]