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It’s very interesting how people will label based on their perception of you.
#a coworker of mine said I present very femininely#but on here people sort of just assume I’m some flavor of butch because I present more masculine in my personal life#neither is true#my presentation fluctuates every day so I don’t assign myself any particular label#especially butch/femme bc I don’t fit those categories and I understand how sacred of a dynamic it is#I love interacting with people from those groups#but I don’t lump myself with them because that’s untrue for me and I don’t want to encroach on those spaces#I don’t really know where I’m going with this#it’s just been on my mind I guess#I’m not great at binaries tbh but I’m very happy for the people that find a space for themselves in a particular label!#however for myself I just say I’m a lesbian and leave it there#ramblings
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"Trans women are the reason gays/lesbians have rights" feels a lot like "Jesus died for your sins." I don't care and I don't believe in your dumbass religion.
#radblr#radical feminists do touch#radical feminist safe#both are so guilt trippy and neither are true lmao
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I saw someone say a while ago that Jason attacking Tim at Titans Tower was just Tim hallucinating bc he was feeling guilty about being Robin even though Jason's not dead. Which is great, amazing, I think the whole Titans Tower thing is Bonkers, but I think it would be so much funnier if Jason tried to Gaslight Tim into believing the Titans Tower incident never happened, not because he's like evil, he's just super embarassed about it. like Or Tim did actually hallucinate Jason at TT but thinks it was real, so when he tells Jason about it, Jason's so fucking confused, and Tim thinks Jason's Gaslighting him
Tim: Remember that time when you broke into Titans Tower and beat me half to death while wearing a Robin costume from party city
Jason: What? Tim, I know i'm crazy, but I'm not...Insane.
Tim, pulling down his collar: I literally have the scar to prove it
Jason: Bruce told me that was from Clayface pretending to be me, which, might I just say rude. Tim... are you ok? Did you hallucinate me attacking you? like, I know I've done that before, but...
Tim, frowning: I don't think I hallucinating. I was benched for a while after because I had to recover-
Jason: well, you were benched around the time I was dropping hints that I knew who Bruce was outside of Batman, he probably just benched you to keep you safe. You probably were working too many cases with too little sleep and your imagination started to run wild.
Tim: Are you gaslighting me?
Jason: Are you gaslighting me?
#jason todd#tim drake#titans tower#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#schrodinger#they argue about it for eternity#but neither of them check the footage#because they think the argument's so silly#they also never ask Bruce#it would be so easily solved#but if they ask somone they're someone's gonna get in big trouble#Bruce: Jason why are you gaslighting Tim?#Bruce: Tim you need to get more sleep or I'm benching you#Jason honestly doesn't remember a lot from his fresh back to gotham era because he just represses it#so he really doesn't know either#and he's scared to know if it's actually true or not
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don't stress about that opportunity that fell through or that friend you lost or that thing you really want to happen but isn't. as long as you keep your chin up and try try try again, better things will replace your losses. i'm looking at my life rn and actually marveling at how every single thing i stressed about, whether it be an opportunity or a person, got supplanted w another thing that is so much better. it really is true that loss makes space for better things. these days i don't get sad when something doesn't work out. i get excited that i'm now open to so many other possibilities out there, so long as i actively seek them. you never lack. you just transition.
#operating from an abundance mindset is changing my life truly#i used to fight to convince myself of it but now that i see it happening in real time? it's so true and i'm soothed by it#this isn't even coming from a manifestation or religious angle bc i'm neither of those things#i just believe that a good attitude and strong work ethic can get you places if you don't let failure stop you#and don't allow the noise (other people's opinions) to weigh you down#text
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i really do think there’s a huge disconnect on here w/ people who have never used tiktok as to what it actually is and who actually uses it. the number of people i’ve seen call it a “teen dancing app” is actually insane. it has not been a teen dancing app since i was in high school, around 2016 - 2020. the main communities i saw on a daily basis were 1) black history/anti-racism educators, 2) high school & college teachers sharing in-classroom strategies and frustrations with the education system, 3) local/state political leaders giving real-time updates on behind-the-scenes government decisions, & 4) community activism & leadership. like tiktok is an adult platform. almost every person i interacted with was my age or older. and yes it completely depends on your fyp and how you interact with the app, yes there’s still teenagers and dance videos and literally anything else you can think of. but these communities of adults aren’t insubstantial at all, they have literally millions of interactions on a daily basis. there’s about a million other types of communities that i could name just off the top of my head, because the range of users was SO diverse and thriving. it’s a long-distance community tool, just like any other social media—and honestly much better than any other social media, because it relies primarily on the kindness of strangers. i saw at least 5-10 videos today of queer people in rural areas panicking because they don’t have any access to queer community on any other platform or in real life. and before i end this i do want to say i think tiktok is coming back, i think this is a highly orchestrated political move, etc., but i do know it won’t ever be exactly the same. people are panicking about free speech violations because tiktok was a place where people fucking SPEAK. i have never seen mass mobilization and communication in this same way for as long as i’ve been alive. it is the people’s app, not just a silly teenage thing. if you’re not on tiktok and never have been, please stop talking about it like you know anything at all😭
#idec if i look stupid for these posts i am fucking Mad#it’s not about doomscrolling. be so fr. i’ve had a time limit on for years and i’ve done perfectly fine#people’s jobs were on this app. small businesses were on this app. fucking CULTURE was on this app#project willow? bisan in gaza? like this is the most interconnected and fast-moving source of news we have#literally straight from the ground. from the places where it’s happening#i know i can still read news. that’s not the problem.#the problem is that i have nowhere else to see the videos from my minnesota legislator who’s been giving daily updates on the republican#coup in the house of representatives. like. do you see the problem.#not to mention half the news sites are paywalled anyway.#and i saw someone say that this forces us to foster irl community which is true again. but you can still have irl community at the same time#as long-distance virtual community????#my best friends are long distance. if all social media went dark i could never talk to them again.#like we are in the fucking 21st century. we should be able to have both.#anyway. sorry for all the ranting lately except i’m really not because i am fucking PISSED#i’ll be on rednote and youtube for a while except neither of them are really the same.#genuinely nothing was like tiktok fr. i miss it already#tiktok#tiktok ban
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you. N and volo's massive parallels. you understand yes?
#doctor's orders#n harmonia#volo#pokemon#this was on my old twatter acc that got suspended :(#but i still think of it daily i was right#god complex. inferiority complex. mommy/daddy issues. neither of them think they are capable of being loved (by their pokemon who clearly d#i want everyone to be happy except for me because i don't deserve it#BIG DREAMS. BIIIIIIIIIIIIIG MISGUIDED DREAMS.#life ruined* by the narrative foil protag who is also a child who appeared out of nowhere.#and after all that they do give the protag their blessing to make THEIR dreams come true :(#they also both have a somewhat unclear fate. for N at least until bw2 i guess but volo's fate after the trial of sinnoh#was written so ambiguous it's actually almost funny. yeah let's imply that he's immortal killed himself and got his life back together and#reproduced all in the same breath. who gives a shit. fuck this guy (me) in particular
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It's not logically sound to act like non human animals have some special understanding of what humans are or do too - much less the human morality which could result in some judgements. I know different cultures have different beliefs about the general sentience of non human animals, but there's nothing to suggest that say your average theriform deer is judging a human hunter any more than it judges the hungry theriform wolf. Theriform cows don't understand climate change. Theriform birds don't know what the human species is up to as a whole, they're not watching the news. Humans and other animals just exist, the only one judging humans is other humans and nonhumans raised with human level understanding. Stop anthropomorphising non human animals to fit your misanthropy.
"animals know we are trespassers on their land" "animals fear humans because we sully their beautiful domain of nature" "this animal that killed someone was seeking revenge for our collective actions" "all animals secretly mock us for having worse senses and being weaker and clumsier" "animals are more emotionally intelligent than people" "humans are not natural and animals always know"
YOU'RE STILL PUTTING HUMANS ON A PEDESTAL! YOU'RE STILL GIVING HUMAN AS A SPECIES OF ANIMAL SPIRITUAL SIGNIFICANCE! YOU ARE BEING UNSCIENTIFIC ABOUT ECOLOGICAL REALITY! YOU ARE A BEAST NO MATTER WHAT!
#it's also just really invalidating and depressing to act like therefore a nonhuman who looks human can never be accepted as their species#and a red flag if you suggest nonhumans are so special that theriforms treat us better#neither is true
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Jason: Chill out, Tim, it's fine, dude.
Tim: That was the last thing my mom said to me before she died...
Jason: Oh God, I'm so sorry-
Bruce: I thought you said the last thing your mom said to you was "Eat your veggies"?
Tim: I lie a lot.
#neither is true in case youre wondering#tim drake#red robin#robin#chaotic tim drake#batfam#jason todd#red hood#bruce wayne#batman
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#guys i dont know what to type here#can you believe it?#me??? speechless???#neither do i#so i must ramble#look at him#he's just there#upon the table#looking pretty#thats why this is justlookingpretty.png#bc thats so true#can you believe it??? can you believe this is *him*???#*the* *android* sent by *cyberlife*?????#Connor pls behave your deviancy is showing#Machine Connor would never look so relaxed#dbh connor#detroit become connor#connor detroit become human#detroit become human connor#connor rk800#connor dbh#detroit become human#detroit: become human#detroit rk800#detroit: bh#d:bh#dbh screenshots#dbh rk800#rk800
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valentine, you're a horse ❤️
#my little pony#mlp g3#wish-I-may#wish-I-might#ok so. I'm gonna ramble for a sec#normally when I post on valentine's day I complain in the tags about being single. but I won't this year!#I've recently realized I'm definitely somewhere on the aromantic spectrum. and that I'm perfectly content without a partner#in the past I've described myself as 'emotionally unavailable' or having 'commitment issues' but neither of those things were ever true#I'm a very loving and loyal person!#I've always been extremely affectionate with friends and family but unable to have the same level of love for potential partners#unsure if I'm just demisexual/demiromantic or actually aroace but I'm definitely not the default settings type of gay lol#I'm a big fan of romance and sex in fiction! but irl? 😅😬 idk about that fam! idk!#hypothetically I would like to have a gf one day and maybe fall in love but now I understand why that may not happen#or atleast is gonna take a while. and that's fine :)#tldr; if your top song on spotify last year was Cupid by Fifty Fifty it's time to do some soul searching lol#happy valentine's day!! 💕
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It's been said before, it will be said again, but it's still worth saying: the fact that art centering on straight romance is allowed to just be bad, but art with queer romance in it always has to be indicative of A Serious Problem With the Way We Tell Queer Stories makes being a queer person making queer art deeply stressful
#just saw smthing about red white and royal blue#and like i never watched/read that one so maybe everything ppl say about it is true#and i never watched heartbreaker or love simon so maybe those ones are also genuinely a sign of a serious problem#but idk. the fact that this happens every damn time makes me think that maybe queer stories are being held to different standards#and it's exhausting writing stuff while having a chorus of voices in the back of my head saying i'm misrepresenting my own identities and#making the whole community look bad by writing mediorcre romance#and knowing that even though i'm neither straight nor a girl there WILL be ppl calling me a straight girl fetishizing queer relationships#lgbt#queer community#writer stuff#idk what else to tag this#asexual#bisexual#nonbinary#venttag
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Tim and Jason go on a roadtrip.
It’s not entirely intentional.
It starts as a case, both of them following separate leads and ending up scheduling their takedown of the operation at the same time. They literally stumble into each other and Tim gets a good wack in before realizing it’s Jason.
The reason they stumble into each other is because the case isn’t in Gotham.
Jason, who has been piecing shell companies together through physical evidence, had driven to all of the stops along the way because hunting down a digital paper trail looked like it would’ve taken too much time.
Tim, who figured hacking wouldn’t take as long as it did, but eventually found the main base of operations, had taken a flight out for the final pieces of evidence.
When the op is finished, Jason takes Tim back to his hotel, because he actually has a place he’s staying and didn’t go straight for the base. They’re both kinda beat up and have a couple more threads to work through to tie their respective information together, so they stay at the hotel for another day.
There is little small talk, but not none. Jason says he’ll go get coffee from the lobby. Tim says that stuff is always shitty and Jason makes fun of him for being able to rank hotel chains based on their coffee quality. Tim just says that’s because Jason isn’t as well traveled as he is. Jason laughs in his face, saying with all the time he spent abroad, he’s sure he’s been around more than Tim.
They talk about domestic work they’ve done too, places they’ve been for cases between here and Gotham. Trying to one-up the other in terms of experience. Jason even mentions cases he worked back in his Robin days, which Tim recognizes from his stalker days of following their busts in other states.
They really believe that’s all they have to say on the matter. Jason even offers to drop Tim off at the airport. But by then, they’ve also discussed how neither of them have anything pressing back in Gotham. How they had each planned on taking a few days after this op to reset a bit.
Tim asks which way Jason is taking back to Gotham and critiques it. Tells him to stop by different towns and check out things that Jason laughs at him for mentioning. They snipe at each other the whole time, and before they really realize it, they’re on the road.
The whole thing is begrudgingly happening. They’re siblings, there’s a fair amount of fighting. There’s minimal “emotional” conversation, but it’s there. Unavoidable in how they each bumble through each other’s trauma. They stop at tourist traps, listen to shitty radio stations, they tell stories of previous cases and places they’ve been with friends, small family diners, switching off driving, aiming for potholes to catch air, sleeping in the back seat, driving under the stars, sleeping in shitty motels, buying their siblings joke souvenirs.
They talk about Titans tower, the pit, Shelia, Bruce. They judge Discowing and Damian. Jason asks about Steph, Tim asks about Catherine. It’s small snippets of thoughts about the most meaningful things. They are dancing around it and also finally talking about it. Getting it all out in the open.
When they get back to Gotham, it changes a lot of small things. They still hash it out occasionally, but everyone notices the change. How much more casual they are around each other, hanging out off-hours more often, working together on more ops.
They’re brothers and they act like it.
#jason todd#tim drake#batfam#batbros#batsiblings#batman#burying the hatchet wasn’t intentional but no one’s complaining#dick and bruce are jealous. alfred is ecstatic. tim wonders if this would work with damian#fics on this topic can’t decide if they hate each other with all their baggage or have somehow solved all their problems#neither is true. they still fight about things but some of the threads of resentment take a while to unravel#and being trapped in a small enclosed space for several days goes a long way in working things out#roadtrip therapy for the boys. but also a comedy because they’re sarcastic assholes and deserve to bully each other#it’s not like they hated each other before the trip but they weren’t close. afterwards it’s easier. conversations are lighter#part of why it worked was the spontaneity. it wouldn’t have worked if it was planned and they don’t know how to explain that to the others#redhood#red hood#red robin
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Something I noticed in the confession is that they don't REALLY respond to what the other is saying
Crowley says "run away with me" and Aziraphale says "come with me to heaven"
Both are saying "be with me" but neither stops to figure out why the other wouldn't want to go
Crowley says "you can't leave this bookshop" and Aziraphale says "nothing lasts forever"
Crowley thinks he ended it.
Aziraphale says "we can make a difference" and Crowley says "good luck"
Both are leaving. Neither stayed until they could agree, or at least understand each other
Aziraphale says "I need you" and Crowley says "no nightingales"
Aziraphale thinks he ended it.
Aziraphale says "I forgive you" and Crowley says "don't bother"
That's the one that sticks.
#ineffable husbands#day 14 trying to point out that Aziraphale isn't “”the true monster“” here#he screwed up. but neither is the monster#good omens#aziraphale#good omens season 2#good omens spoilers#crowley#aziracrow#good omens 2#good omens finale#crowley good omens#they communicated about what they need but not what the other needs#and they want to need the same thing
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i think half my issue with most sladick fic is that they really enjoy seeing dick grayson be a little maiden who gets the chance to Let Go and simper and whine etc etc and god knows i understand the appeal of seeing that man cry. but i think sladick is at its most potent if slade is kind of an asshole and in return dick is channeling all the unbridled fucking rage he has never been able to unleash upon one (1) bwayne and subsequently is making that murderous old man’s life into A Living Hell
#they have an on again off again thing that lasts about eight months#sladick#dick grayson’s situationship ends up with a body count in the thousands#i think that man TOPS FROM THE BOTTOM and i think he is INSUFFERABLE#they breakup eight times (once on public tv) and everyone else decided around breakup three is was firmly None Of Their Business#anyway. this is also my ideal setup for an ill advised rebound with one jason todd that ends in true love and neither of them are happy abt#sylv speaks
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arthur hearing merlin say he will not follow arthur to camlann and while he is upset, he still can’t bear the thought of just leaving merlin behind. arthur writing a letter and leaving it for merlin to read if he never returns. arthur falling in battle and merlin holding him as he passes. merlin not returning to camelot and remaining in ealdor for years before he is able to return and see his friends. he plans to stay but the moment he sees the citadel, he knows he won’t be able to. merlin wandering the streets of camelot and the halls of the castle like a ghost. this is arthur’s kingdom. every stone, every wall, every blade of grass, every tree has his name etched into it. the entire city is arthur. merlin finds himself turning to speak to arthur but he’s not there.
finding gwen who is ecstatic to see him and plans to offer him the position as court sorcerer but merlin refuses. he explains how he sees arthur everywhere. gwen confesses she feels the same but derives a sense of comfort from it, its as if he’s still with her. merlin saying it feels haunting, like it’s taunting merlin with arthur’s presence but never giving it to him. merlin saying he has to return to ealdor and take care of his mother. gwen telling him to be safe and asking if he’ll return to visit. merlin only managing a weak smile before walking off and gwen mourning again knowing that’ll be the last time she sees her best friend.
leon carrying the letter arthur had written to merlin for years in the hopes that someday he’d see him again to give him the last thing arthur wrote. running into merlin in the halls and greeting him. offering him the letter and explaining that arthur wrote it for him. merlin shakily taking it but being unable to open it. he keeps it preserved in his bag but never reads it. he won’t be able to take it. he knows it. merlin carrying it with him for years, decades, centuries. by the time he finally works up the nerve to unfurl it and read it, the parchment is so old it crumbles, the ink has faded so its almost illegible, and the language has long since died so merlin can’t understand it anymore.
#bbc merlin#merlin emrys#arthur pendragon#sir leon#queen guinevere#gwen#guinevere pendragon#fanfiction#fanfic#fic ideas#prompts#angst time babey#idk wtf the letter says#and neither does merlin#and i think thats the true tragedy of it all#merthur
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if I could go back in time my top advice to my younger self would literally be don’t get into fucking situationships
#And situationships don’t even have to be ur dating but ur not exclusive#It can be ANYTHING .#like a situation where something between two people is ambiguous#It’s such a waste of time bc regardless of what’s really happening#I feel like it actually is true that there is an ideal window of time for things to be elucidated#Like in neither direction#Either u date or u don’t#but that in between state is so dangerous bc u don’t feel like it’s truly harmful to u if ur not committed yet#But it actually is bc the limbo stage is so addictive#It’s such a time drain and when it’s all said and done and u look back it’s not even fun
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