#my status

[pseudonymphomania]

You guys have NO IDEA how busy I've been this month.

Two Obey Me zines, my kinktober activities (31 days of hot hot DiaLuci), Diavolo birthday month, creating a new identity on Bloopsky, redoing old work, creating new works… grind is real 🥹 it’s a good thing I love my sexy anime mans.

Due to Twitter fuckery, I will no longer post stuff there (sfw or nsfw acc) other than screenshot reaccs, derpy sketches, on-the-spot doodles for friends. The great thing about Bluesky is that it's got the vibe of Tumblr with the appearance of Twitter and both my sfw and nsft (labeled) can exist side-by-side because people can only see nsft if they've opted to see it. Such a great middle ground versus outright forbidding like Tumblr or allowing but supressing[?!] like Twitter. (ergo some people don't label their stuff there for fear of supression lmao make it make sense)

For adults, I currently have 21 Kinktober DiaLuci illustrations posted on my nsft Twitter (uncensored!) and 6 days on the back burner, but I redid my earlier days for Bluesky and Patreon exclusively. I'll slowly be posting them all on Bluesky.

Anyway, transparent call-to-action, but if you've liked my work so far, sfw or nsft, please follow my Bluesky or consider becoming my patron. For no commitment, you can tip my Kofi where I'm raising money to make OM Tarot Cards (78 illustrations!) Or commission me, sfw or nsft!

Anyway, it's been a crazy time. Thank you all for your support since 2023!

I also have my "Thanks for 69 Followers" Art Raffle on Bluesky, in case you need one more reason to go there 😊

[murumokirby360]

Hello...

I have nothing to post any items, but here's something to say...

I'm... Not in the mood for this date. It was supposed to be my calm and collected for today's Autumn season, instead I'm... Pissed off 😠, so sorry for my rude vocabulary. 😓😔 From seeing the wrong car for Aace (HE'S DRIVING A FORESTER STi [SG9], YOU IDIOT! 😡), to being jealous of my siblings, and even my entire depression... I wish I want a cry myself, but I can't... 🥺😭

BTW: I missed out the "Suicide Prevention Month", this September. Even if I'm late, I'll try to be careful not to be s****** from my serious emotions, and seek help from professionals (by dialing your local hotline 📞☎️). 😥😓 And you could be the same as I am, just in case. Even you, @coda-archive. You're not alone, and I'm always here for you, and you should do the same to me. 🥲😊🤗

Well, that's all for now...

[gori--demora--skellydemora]

((I finally got him!!! Also, yes I made it to Tennessee on the same day!))

[vanillainwater]

Update!! Again!!:

Hurricane Milton is officially over and honestly, it wasn’t as destructive in my area as I had assumed it would be. Honestly fooled us. But, we’re all okay and I am back at home! Only thing is we don’t have power right now, but it’s okay, it’ll likely be back up soon. There’s a lot of people around here working to restore power.

Honestly the worst part was having to see my cats so stressed during the 3 hour car ride to safety. Two of them were just fine but one of them cried the whole way. 😭

[howlingday]

Progress report:

Of the 78 drafts I have of all my WIPs, I have completed a total of 13, of which 11 are asks, and 2 are original pieces.

[cheezwhizthecursed]

Bruh I'm just at my desk looking at my fanfic document after orientation for this prestigious thing and somehow... I'm thinking my life is a fever dream or something.

[stingrachelmha]

Hello, Toshination. Follow for more Dad Might truthing

[inkskinned]

the thing about some men is that they want you to remember, at all times, that you are underneath them. that with one word or look or "joke", you will stay beneath them. that even "exceptions" to the rule are not true exceptions - the commonly cited statistic that one in eight men believe they could win against serena williams.

women's gymnastics is often not seen as real gymnastics. whatever the fuck non-euclidian horrors rhythmic gymnasts are capable of, it's often tamped down as being not a sport. some of the most dominant athletes in the world are women. nobody watches women's soccer. despite years of dancing and being built like a fucking brick, men always assume they're faster and stronger than i am. you wouldn't like what happens when they are incorrect. once while drunk at a guy's house i won a held-plank challenge by a solid minute. the party was over after that - he became exceedingly violent.

what i mean is that you can be perfect, and they still think you're ... lacking, somehow. i hope you understand i'm trying to express a neutral statement when i say: taylor swift was the possibly the most patriarchy-palatable, straight-down-the-line woman we could churn out. she is white, conventionally attractive, usually pretty mild in personality. say what you will about her (and you should, she's a billionaire, she can handle it), but a few things seem to be true about her: 1. she can write a damn catchy song, and 2. the eras tour truly was a massive commercial success and was also genuinely an impressive feat of human athleticism and performance.

i don't know if she deserves the title of "woman of the year," i'm not debating that in this post. what i am saying is that she was named Woman of The Year, and then an untalented man got onstage at the golden globes and made fun of her for attending her boyfriend's football games. what i am saying is that this woman altered local economies - and her dating life is still being made into a "harmless" punchline. the camera panned, greedy, over to her downing a full glass of champagne. congratulations taylor! you are woman of the year! but you are a woman. even her.

fuck, man. write better material.

a guy gets onstage at a college graduation and despite the fact like half the crowd is made up of women, he spends a significant proportion of it warning these people - who spent possibly hundreds of thousands of dollars on their education - that they were lied to. that the "real" meaning of femininity is motherhood. that they shouldn't rest on the laurels of that education-they-paid-for but instead throw it away to kneel at a man's heel. imagine that. sweating in your godawful polyester gown (that you also had to pay for!), fresh out of 4 years of pushing yourself ever-harder: and some guy you've never met - who knows nothing about you - he reminds you this "win" is a pyrrhic one at best. you really shouldn't consider yourself that extraordinary. you're still a woman, even after years of study.

god forbid you are not a pretty woman, but if you are pretty, you must be dumb. god forbid you are not ablebodied or white or cis or straight or good at swallowing. you must be beneath a man, or else they are not a man. the equation for masculinity seems to just be: that which is not a woman or womanly (god forbid). anything "feminine" is thereby anathema. to engage in "feminine" things such as therapy, getting a hug from a friend, or crying - it is giving up ones manhood. therefore women need to be put in their place to ensure that masculinity is protected.

this is something i have struggled to explain to terfs - they are not doing the work of feminism, but rather the patriarchy. by asserting that women and men must be (on some secret level) oppositional and in conflict, they also assume that being a woman is akin to being another species. but bigotry does not stem from observational truths or clarity - that is what makes it bigotry. there was nothing in my childhood that made me fundamentally different from my brother. we are treated differently nonetheless. to assert there is some biological drive that enforces my gender role is to assert that women have a gendered role. men do not see women as equal to them not because of biological reality - but instead because the core tenant of the patriarchy is that women aren't full, realized people.

we are told from a very young age to excuse misbehavior as a single man's choice - not all men. it is not all men, just that one guy. all women are gold-digging bitches who belong in the kitchen - but if a man is mean, bigoted, or violent to you, it's just that particular guy, and that means nothing about men-as-a-whole. it is only one guy who got mad when you gently rejected him. it is only one guy who warns her this trophy is heavy, are you sure you can hold it? it is only one guy who smashes her face into the cake. it is only one guy talking into a mic about hating our bodily autonomy.

i have just found that they often wait until the moment we actually seem to be upstaging them. you sit in a meeting where you're presenting your own findings and he says get me a coffee? or you run to the end of the marathon and are about to finish first and he pushes your kids out in front of you. you win the chess game and they make some comment akin to well, you're ugly away. we can be the billionaire and get the dream life and finally fucking do it and yet! still! they have this strange, visceral urge to say well actually, if you think you're so great -

it's not one just one guy. it's one in eight.

[cloudberrytroll]

Or did she learn to be colder when she got older and now she saves them the pain?

[camiliar]

The Surgeon and the Statue

I'm getting top surgery tomorrow :3

[pseudonymphomania]

I’m running two art raffles for fun and fancy!

Safe for work (tumblr and twitter)

🔞 Nsfw (my other twitter) [adults only]

Good luck and feel free to ask questions :)

First place gets first choice! All fandoms welcome.

Ends April 30th

[murumokirby360]

Friendship over with @Coda-archive [a.k.a. MiekoKoruka] (, once again) 😔

Hello, I have some bad news... REALLY BAD NEWS. Due to his major mental health issues (both mental & physical), I decided to sever ties with "Coda-Archive", and his entire active social media sites. He can't stand or control his behavior, anymore. He blocked on deviantART, Tumblr, and even Twitter (which, I rather not say "X"). I tried to help him to cheer him up (REALLY HARD), to no avail. So... I had no choice but to let him go, move on, and hope for the best for him, and seek help from someone... But not me, I'm so done with him, forever...

*Sigh* Man... First was my major depression, and now this... 2024 could be my worst year, besides 2022. 😓😞 But, you know what, make me SUFFER... And soon, the WORST THING has yet to come before I dust myself, stand up my own two feet, and I'll moved on my life. 🚶‍♀️

To my trusted friends, hope you could cheer me up, and make me happy. Which, that's all I want. 😥😔

Well, that's all for now...

[gori--demora--skellydemora]

((I did my nails and I'm heading to the lake tomorrow so, expect no likes, reblogs, and or posts till I get back ok?))

[vanillainwater]

Update: Do not worry folks, we are going to be evacuating as of today. We don’t have another place to stay, but we live right on the cusp of where the hurricane’s direct path is supposed to hit, so a bit more south and we should be in the clear. Stay strong, soldiers! My 3 cats and 1 dog will be coming with us, obviously!

(I’m not strong lol, this shit’s actually terrifying ahaha)

[operationslipperypuppet]

there’s really nothing to say about this

[infinityinakiss]

okay, so you know that theory that series 14 is a tv show, that's why there are so many fourth wall breaks, etc, etc. well, what if we had a weeping angels episode this season? it's the climax of the episode, ruby and the doctor are surrounded by angels when...nothing happens. they forcibly close their eyes just to check, but the angels aren't moving. the doctor does his signature rambling as he tries to figure out what happened, and then it dawns on him. he turns slowly, stares directly into the camera and says "oh. it's you. all of you. you're why they can't move." the doctor starts jumping around, shakes ruby for a bit (and ruby's just like wut the hell is going on), does a thing with the sonic screwdriver before starting to run when he suddenly stops and turns back. looking directly into the camera, he says "don't blink." and then he runs off to save the day.

couple minutes later, he tells ruby to stare at some angels that were out of frame by saying "babes, the camera angle's changed."