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Why is it that Iâm always the most dysphoric when my sensory issues are the worst I had to force myself to take off my binder and I canât put on a sweater because Iâll overheat immediately and god I want to kill my uncle
#funny how the 14 yr old boy my mom thinks will end up in a racist discord group is the one who misgenders me the least#yes Iâm talking about my brother (aka my momâs sonâŚ)#and no he definitely wonât be racist??#idk where she gets that idea the middle/grade school we both attended was diverse and very anti racist#seriously why the fuck does she think her own child is going to turn out to be some asshole bully when there is ZERO reason to think so#like yeah he threatens us with nerf guns and hits random objects but he also has adhd and is hyperactive and oh. wait#thatâs pretty fucking far from racism!#heâs a little shit but heâs my brother and it pisses me the fuck pff that my mom seems genuinely worried heâll turn out like that#also for any who didnât see my earlier post#my uncle was misgendering me and saying slurs hence the desire to kill#also making incest jokes! didnât mention that but he was also talking about that#at the very least he was against it. I just donât want to hear anything even a little related to incest at my fucking grandmas house#I feel bad because I love my grandma and had a great time this week my uncle just has a special talent for making me want to disappear of#the face of the earth. and he lives with her#I must have jinxed it at some point because this week was going so well#I thought we could put our differences aside and maybe get along#but I guess the added prescence of his sibling#my mom and other uncle#prevented that!#uh rant over#going to keep watching anime and hopefully calm down
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garyâs twin sister, nadine!!
iâm a sucker for the bonnie & neddy episode :â)
#stravacious#i imagine gary dyed his hair pink bc itâs her favorite and then she wanted it done too#theyâd interact with each other a bit more in this world#in at canon bonnie kinda just locks him in a basement bc thatâs all she can do but like. nadine needs to eat#i picture it more like he is her only safe person#she freaks out about other people so gary doesnât bring anyone over#she might be a tablet girlie#sorry if this is too âmiku binder jeffersonâ to ppl out of the at canon loop#their gum lullaby is just some rlly cute song their mom used to sing before she died#in my last at post i mentioned that they lived w their shitty aunt georgia (uncle gumbald) before gary moved them out#maybe sheâs the reason nadine hates other ppl so much#adventure time#fionna and cake#gary prince
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When I say âNo I donât want/am not going to have a partner/kid.â Peopleâs response should not be âOh well you might change your mind.â Itâs not the worst thing someone can say in response but I am sick asf of hearing it.
Yes, it is possible that I may one day not feel the same, opinions and feelings change all the time and it could happen. However. Right now. At this very moment that is not the case. I do not want to date or get married or have children. It doesnât matter that I could change my mind and frankly it isnât anyoneâs business but my own.
To anyone who says this and thinks they arent being rude because they are using the magical âcouldâ instead of a more forceful âyouâll feel differently when you have kidsâ or âyouâll probably change your mindâ it doesnât matter if itâs a nicer way of saying it. Chances are that person you are saying this to has heard that exact thing a million separate times. As one of them, we are fucking sick of hearing it. Especially from family members.
Honestly Iâd even prefer someone to just ask why I donât want kids/partner rather than assuming that Iâll âgrow out of itâ or something. (Of course Iâd rather ppl mind their own business but yknow)
I told you how I feel now, it could change but itâs not your job to point that out. I want you to respect how I feel and stop asking.
(Also ppl who ask or just presume these things with younger girls can go fuck themselves. Leave children alone, stop asking them why they donât want to have children when they themselves are still children. As for the spouse one that is none of your business unless it is hurting them or someone else) (I say specifically girls bc Iâve seen the most of these reactions towards women/girls who say they donât want kids)
#Can it jar#kids#partners#marriage?#Ig#i am aroace#but u donât need to be aro ace to feel the same#aromantic#listen I think kids are great but there are many reasons I do not want one/several personally#This is for my mom aunt grandmother cousin uncle other aunt#Some of you were chill others of you need to stfu#asexual#aroace
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My brother died very suddenly yesterday.
He was the kind of person who always had dozens and dozens of friends everywhere he went because he was easy to talk to and funny and treated people with respect, and his friends ranged in class, race, age, social ability, introversion and extroversion--no matter who you were, he could and would befriend you.
He would scold me for not asking him for help when I needed it, and he would mean it. He taught me to tip well. He loved helping people. He played practical jokes on the new kids at work, including getting one guy to "chop flour" because the flour they had in the kitchen was "too coarse."
He introduced me to some of the best food I've ever eaten in my life. He would always help with a recipe that wasn't working. He would tell me what to buy my foodie friends for their birthdays, and he never got it wrong. He loved meat and whiskey but also wine and fruit and he got me to eat beets even because he knew how to make anything good.
Mostly, he thought that people were all deserving of respect and decency. He was outspoken on this. For all that his friends ranged across demographics, he didn't tolerate anyone being hateful around him. But even then, he was nice about it. He would try to get people to come around to his side. He saw the good in people.
And he was happy. He had finally quit chewing tobacco and managed to stay off it for three years. He had a girlfriend he really liked. The pandemic had put him out of work for over a year, but he was back at his job and doing well and he liked it. He was good at it. And it's complete bullshit that he's gone.
#when I think of him#it's him standing in the kitchen beckoning me over to taste the best duck I've ever had#duck that was catering for a special party#but he knew I was around so he saved me bites of all this spectacular expensive food he made#or it's him driving me to the library after our mom died#and I couldn't figure out how to complete a school assignment#and he picked me up and told me I could always ask him for help#or him telling me my car sucked#and when I asked him why he said he wants a car that can go fast#and I told him that wasn't important to me at all#and his attitude changed entirely and he was like oh then I guess your car is great for you then#or just how much he loved his nieces#no uncle has ever doted harder#or when I asked him what knives I should buy for my kitchen because I was tired of shitty ones#how seriously he considered the question#tw death#I guess#honestly he's the kind of person who is so good with other people I always wondered why he bothered with someone like me#a thought that hurt his feelings every time#he was my big brother and that's all there was to it
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sometimes I like to think about gay people.
#mainly byler#and occasionally luberto#and my great uncle who died before i was born but was seemingly fucking awesome#he was an artist and also had a boyfriend#my mom told me about him but i heard her talking one of our other family members and she said she has one if his drawings#AND SHE NEVER SHOWED ME#but also nick and charlie#thats pretty rare though#byler#mike wheeler#will byers#byler tumblr#will x mike#mike x will#byler endgame#heartstopper#also im using gay as a general term for queer#i know thar nick is bi
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calloway family reunion â§
#ts4#sims 4#I HAD A BLAST DOING THIS#the amount of lore i have for these guys swimming around in my head#too bad i don't know how to logically get it out of my brain#i'm gone now though bye see you in march#unless i spontaneously drop out of school because i can't take this much longer#will answer asks when i get back sorry to keep u waiting#ily đ#also#top row cillian and cathal you know them#row 2 felicity daithĂ's daughter and margot felicity's mother#row 3 the twins aunt rĂłisĂn and their sister who's name i can't remember i'm so sorry LMAO#and finally their mom muireann i LOVE HER#i would like to do a part 2 with the dad n uncles and the twin's other sisters#but they don't fit the prompts and i don't have time!!!#i also really want to make a family tree but plumtree sucks#gonna have to just make one in photoshop#ts4 cas#goodnight it's almost 1am
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the x files au where everything is exactly the same except mulder takes home the child neanderthal from the jersey devil episode and raises them as his own
#you could make this super fun and invoke a sense of deep Guilt on behalf of mulder because he feels he got the mom neanderthal killed#and then you can also make it fun in âc'mon sport let's go throw the ball around kind of wayâ#i imagine him at the library checking out books on early humanoid species and how to parent at the same time#the librarian silently checking the books out and wondering what on earth this man could possibly be needing such resources for#imagine scully's reaction to this. i can't quite place it beyond initial Disbelief and then subsequent trying to be as supportive as she ca#and she would probably be also very Nerdy about the whole thing. because she strikes me as someone well-read on the subject and fascinated#we also know she at least has some experience wrangling children which would be relevant#i imagine a bunch of anthropologists perpetually hovering over the child to study him but they have to be Chill and not disrupt his life#so the kid just grows up thinking they have a ton of really cool and supportive aunts and uncles over all the time#meanwhile they scientists are taking notes furiously as they see if he can adapt to playing a gameboy with the other kids#idk someone probably thought of this idea before but it's funny to me#why would the kid go to him and not someone far more qualified? idk i'm just playing pretend in my brain :)#this thought was prompted by me wondering if you time traveled and brought an early humanoid to the modern era do you think the kid#would still play minecraft? i say yes. probably.#i saw a post about something similar years ago and i wonder about it. i hope you would like cartoons and subway surfers neanderthals.#the x files#txf#fox mulder
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i'm being so fucking serious when i say we need more words for platonic, non-familial relationships.
#'friend' alone just isn't cutting it anymore#it's about how when someone wants to convey that they have a bond with someone that goes deeper than just friendship they say#'you're like my brother/sister/sibling'#it's about how froend groups have the mom friend or the dad friend#it's about how older close family friends are called auntie or uncle or granny or gramps#it's about how in fandom we refer to mentor characters as parents#it's about how these kinds of word choices put family ties on a pedastal#which paves the way for abuse because it comes with the implicit message that biological family ties are inherantly more important#than other kinds of relationships#and also serves to alienate those who either don't have family or who have abusive family#thank you for coming to my ted talk
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#okay random story time i don't know why im narrating this or how i even stumbled upon this memory rn#but i generally do sad vents in the tags and for a change this is a funny one#so back in highschool (i say highschool but i mean junior college) i used to visit this park near my house a lot#i was an sg kid back then and the thing about parks there is that they're kinda beach-parks and they have the best cycling/running tracks#they're also really massive parks so i used to go often. sometimes bicycling. other times walking. yeah. the park was like my sanctuary#anyway. there are quite a few bike rental areas in the park and there was a cute lil shop next to this one particular rental place#and they sold like biscuits and water and icecreams and stuff and i went there a lot#and on one particular day i went there and there was this guy around my age part timing at that shop#now again this might be culture specific bc i dont see it in india but part timing in uni/pre-uni is pretty common is sg#a lot of shops and restaurants employ teenagers to twenty something ppl for part time jobs... anyway im just adding context#point is that i had walked to the park with my mum that day and she told me to go buy a couple icecreams so i went to the shop#and i saw this guy around my age and like. not to be a simp but this dude was so pretty?#like he saw someone had come to the counter so he looked up and shot a smile and i thought i got slapped by sunlight#i could spend the next several lines going on about his pretty tan skin and his glowing raven eyes but this is pathetic enough so ill stop#anyway he saw me and smiled really wide (customer service smile- i thought to myself) and i smiled back and asked for icecreams or whatever#and then this guy started getting chatty right. so he was all 'you come here (to the park) often right? ive seen you with your bike a lot'#see now. the problem with me is that i always think im bothering people. this poor dude was attempting to make conversation#and i was replying with one word answers#and i wasn't even realizing that he didnt want that. bc he kept asking more questions and i. kept. shutting them down.#then when he gave me the icecream he was all 'are you here alone? icecream alone is no fun... i could keep you company if you want..?'#which. he was being really cute about right. but because im so fucking dense i was all 'oh no i came with my mom actually'#and he went 'aw man' in this really cute but faux sad way which i didnt understand at the time and i left and then#after three full fucking days. i realized this man was tryna hit on me?#and then i went to the park like a week later and he was gone. poof. i even thought of asking the uncle in charge of that place#then i got too embarrassed and chickened out#yeah so turns out my neurodivergence neutralizes any sort of rizz that comes my way#i could've been chilling with a cute boyf rn but nođŠ this is my destiny#megumi in the tags
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Wait I just realized.
Everyone has five fingers in episode one.
But later episodes only have four fingers.
I'm not sure why I assumed they had four fingers for the entire series.
#squirrel and hedgehog#it's my mom's birthday in two weeks and my family always wants me to draw a card#I'm thinking I might draw Uncle Gom helping to gather chestnuts#something relatively simple#like from that one episode#they don't have to know where he is from#no one can know about this show other than my upstairs writer neighbor and one family member who knows about it tangentially#that would be way too hard to explain#but how many fingers do I use?#I want him in the original episode one outfit#not the tank top she won't like that#sah#SaH
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richard sits on the couch next to his dad one day. chris is mindlessly scrolling on his phone while richard was finishing up homework. he dropped his pencil down onto his textbook and turned to chris. "dad?"
"yeah, bud?" his eyes lift from his phone to richie. "why is my name 'richard'? it sounds so old, bleh."
chris chuckles, ruffling his son's hair. "well, don't tell yer mom," he begins and richie perks up at this. he loves secrets. chris leans into richard's ear. "i just wanted to call you 'dick'."
richie's face literally looks like this
and then his eyebrows contort to confusion. "wait a minute- how is a nickname for 'richard' dick??" he raises a good question. the corner of chris' mouth turn down. "uhh i dunno actually, that's a great question."
tags: @leah-loves-lilies@latinasforchrizz@stargirlsturniololover@junnniiieee07
#i had this conversation with my mom the other day bc my uncle's name is richard lol#đă⥠ăËâ chris sturnioloăâË âš#chris sturniolo#sturniolo triplets#christopher sturniolo#chris sturniolo x reader#sturniolo
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feeling slightly vindicated watching an RAS interview bc keep getting this feeling from the drizzt books that theyre very italian-american (as in, i see a lot of things i recognize from italian culture in it, but influenced and changed by american culture) and he said that he based off the culture of menzo partly on his hometown and then the sopranos/godfather which confirmed it to me
also he pronounces menzoberranzan the way i used to before someone else corrected me JKNDSKJFKDS
#i used to pronounce it MEN-zoh-buh-ran-ZAN#but then i got told its MEN-zoh-buh-RAN-zan#for those wondering what i recognize abt italian culture (so far)#a BIG emphasis on family and religion#the pressure to create big families with lots of connections to other family units#emphasis on showing yourself as not only being religious but actively involve yourself in religious affair#and chasing approval of god (lolth)/ saints (the yochlol) /higher religious figures (high priestesses and the baenres)#people will react with high disapproval and often shunning or rage at someone rejecting the religious order or even just the suspicion of i#and of course the enforcement of gender binaries with set roles between women and men#pretty interesting too that in nearly all families i know including my own the wife/mother is always the most religious figure in the house#with many being actively involved in the parish (my mom's a cathechist lol)#while often the men range from neutral to disinterested to outright agnostic (rarely atheist tho)#which is very similar to how in menzo the women are the ones in religious power#the american part is the heavy emphasis on showy fights and large scale battles#a focus on individualism over the collective#and the big family part often coming more as a âcouple and possibly lovers having lots of childrenâ#rather than also the extended family of grandparents uncles aunts and cousins often living nearby#or straight up together and sharing family activities#legend of drizzt#bani.txt
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not to be emotional on main but my granparents are on their first ever trip abroad they could afford on their own and they sent me a picture from the airport and okay maybe i am emotional
#i said first ever they could afford bc they were on one trip before but my mom and uncle paid for that#they've been living off my granpa's pension only for so many years. and they've never had a lot of money anyway#because our dear country told my grandma her work doesn't count and she won't get any pension <3 but my mom fought hard for it#and my grandma was granted pension this year!!!! so their income doubled and that's like. mindblowing for them#and we convinced them to go on a holiday and now they're on a plane to italy with my uncle :') it was their dream to see rome#and i'm sitting here like. I LOVE YOU YOU DESERVE IT SO MUCH PLEASE TAKE LOTS OF PICTURES#AHHHHHHH#yeah i got teary eyed :')#also my other grandma!!! just texted me saying she loved the japanese book i gave her and also clowned our government in one message lmao#i'm just full of love for them tonight#k.txt
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woke up feeling so homesick today. but instead of being homesick for one place iâm just homesick for my family
#my uncle who lives in belgium my other uncle who lives in jordan my momâs relatives who live in california etc etc#my belgian uncle especially is like a father figure to me but in the typical iraqi experience this is all scattered family#ofc they all lived together in iraq at some point but that was before my time#weâve had very rare family reunions but i never got to experience the whole extended family in one place thing many times. life is busy#i got the chance to visit my uncle very frequently as a child but itâs not the same anymore#i miss him i miss him. i rly wanna visit him but i have so many things im juggling here all the time#theoretically i could visit my momâs relatives in cali for a few days but i already go there during the summertime anyways#& frankly no one comes close to my uncle. its him i wanna see the most#p
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@katkastrofa, circa 40-ish hours ago: Hey, what if our newest bunch of OCs adopted a baby from one of the other brothel girls who knew she couldnât afford to raise one? That would make for some fun shenanigans :D
Me, with a notoriously non existent sleep schedule, instinct of self preservation or concern for my poor wrist: Alright, bet. Watch how fast I can make you fall in love with this hypothetical baby >:)
Daneli as a gentle and loving caretaker-turned-adoptive-mother is something that can be So Personal, actually, and originally I was going to leave it at this quick sketch, but then I got carried away thinking about what this child will grow up to be like raised by this little gang of misfits, soâŚ
Here she is!! A little older and so, so beautiful, I need more of her in my life immediately, sheâs way too precious
And, because I wouldnât be me if I didnât also add a sapphic element to this absolute cinnamon roll, a small crack ship that Iâm only half serious about for when sheâs a little older still:
All in all, we may be getting impossibly far from canon, but I for one already cannot get enough of sweet darling Kumisai <3
(I fully drew three pieces from scratch in 9 hours I cannot feel my brain or my hands anymore send help)
#my art#artists on tumblr#the legend of korra#original characters#jinora#wow. nia drew a canon character? what is this?? who was I replaced by???#but joking aside. a small explanation for this crack ship#originally it was me editing my timeline and realising that Kumisai would be around 14/15 during book 4. the same age as Jinora#so my mind immediately went đđđ and I decided to go for it#since in sotrl I sorta implied Jinora had a gay awakening by watching Suiren. so.. why not go all out and make her another baby queer?#no offence to Kai. what they had was rather cute tbh. but it felt kinda out of nowhere and just added for the sake of parental drama#plus she was a young girl meeting someone her age for the first time. of course she got a crush#doesnât mean she has to stick with it you know?#anyway. as for how they would meet. Midori could introduce them :D#Kumisai is Daneliâs daughter. whoâs a friend of Summiyaâs. whoâs Zaheerâs sister. whoâs Midoriâs uncle. whoâs friends with Jinora#and spirits know Jinora deserves to act her age a little more often. she has way too many responsibilities on her shoulders#so maybe Midori would think that a friend her age would do her some good#and donât even try to tell me these two wouldnât be absolutely adorable puppy crushing on each other. look how cute Jinora turned out here#might be the first time Iâve drawn her? not sure. maybe I did before but it was A LONG time ago. 2019 ish#but okay. enough rambling about Jinora. back to Kumisai#I donât really have too many headcanons about her yet. but sheâs probably rather happy and carefree#having a large support system as a result of being raised communally#I think she considers Daneli her mom and the others are her aunties. auntie Shezan in particular is a notoriously bad influence :)#and maybe one day sheâd get to meet her bio mom. but only if thatâs something both of them want. not sure yet#I feel like sheâs rather disconnected from her water tribe heritage since everyone around her is Earth Kingdom. save Phailin whoâs half FN#but she still has small hints of blue in her clothing. the colour matching her beautiful eyes. maybe she is curious about her bio dad a bit#since unlike with her bio mom no one knew him and canât tell her anything. thatâs bound to come as a natural curiosity at some point right?#maybe that can be part of her story when sheâs an adult. trying to find her bio dad. but ultimately it doesnât matter that much#because Daneli is her mom and the only parent she needs <3 Iâm really just throwing out suggestions here to fill the tag space#kaaatttt come discuss all this stuff with me I waited all night for you to wake up >:) distract me from my grandmaâs tv watching
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I love how many dads MK has.
Like there is never enough dads. He will never run out of fully grown men who collectively question why there is a (debatably) 20 year old, fellow man, walking around with nothing but a stick and some anxiety, and why they fricking care so much about if he's eaten breakfast.
#Everyone is entitled to their own hc#And oerhaps its just my daddy issues#but i persist#Wukong? the father who left to get milk but genuinely does everything to return in time to give his son a questionable pep talk#Pigsy? the father whos actually a single mom who works two jobs#Tang? The only father in the house who tries convincing the others they dont need to shove a flamethrower in the face of some random#That is until that random says smth bad about his son#Then no one can stop him#Will disrespect your whole bloodline#Macaque? the father whos actually an uncle but thinks hes the only competent person in the entire house#Purely cause no one else taught the kid how to properly kick someone's ass (kill them)#six eared macaque#macaque#lmk#lmk mk#lmk sun wukong#lmk pigsy#lmk tang
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