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ughhhh it is so frustrating having friends who don't respect boundaries and are constantly in your relationship oh my goodness i want to scream
#my bf and i are in the same friend group#mutual friends etc.#and just. a few of them. a couple.#are constantly in our business#like today. my girl friend p and her bf z were egging MY bf on to hug me. or something. they were just being so immature#and i was RIGHT THERE#and obviously confused?? and disappointed that we clearly hadn't grown up since seventh grade?#also wtf like it's a hug guys cmon#and then later in psych i questioned her (p) about it. and then she kinda half hinted/told me that it was something to do w valentines???#which is in TWO WEEKS?????#and also that's so stupid#because if my bf is doing smth as a surprise#SHE LITERALLY JUST TOLD ME#ughghjsdfhksjdhfkjsdHFkls#it actually pisses me off sm sometimes#it's just so annoying feeling like ppl. your friends. are constantly keeping tabs on your relationship#and it's not like they're subtle about it? i tell my friend (a) about some things. but she doesn't tell everyone or make it weird#but i feel as though i can't trust p bc she'll tell z (her bf). or be super obvious n stuff#or literally TELL MY BF#just. omg.#i want to scream sometimes?!?#i just. don't understand what they were trying to do. and also.#why didn't they think i was gonna see??#i was mid conversation WITH MY BF#WHILE THEY WERE MIMING TO HIM#THEN THEY TOLD ME TO TURN AROUND#WTF ARE WE TEN YEARS OLD OR SMTH#it's just.. disappointing sometimes i guess
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friend wanted to see my tumblr, and when i told him i can’t show it to him bc it’s basically my personal diary he went “oh so I can’t see it but a bunch of strangers on tumblr can??” he literally does not get me. no one will get me like the people in my phone get me
#It’s just so different#even though it’s public it still feels secret and safe. i feel comfy sharing a lot more on here than I do in my actual day to day life lol#in my head I’m also just speaking to myself 90% of the time which helps#if a friend off tumblr saw my thoughts I’d feel so weird ab it#esp bc they might get the vagueposting about certain situations and tell mutual friends#no thank u. this is for me. I’m not about to start censoring my thoughts bc someone I know knows my tumblr#u guys literally saw me have LIVE BREAKDOWNS#meanwhile I’ll have the worst fucking day in history and tell no one about it. I’m already cripplingly private but way more so in real life#this is basically a low stress journaling outlet for me. it’s so important for me to maintain the separation#like this is actually my diary & has been so handy for letting out emotions / articulating thoughts / staying on track !!#& I’ve met so many kind people on here who actually get me. which is so hard to find irl bc I’m surrounded by pre-med gunners/overachievers#who are by standard not very good w emotion & can be competitive/judgmental. or at least it’s hard for me to be vulnerable in front of them#and I’m part of that crowd so I reserve my emotions only to a handful of very close friends#it’s nice to hop on here and express negative emotions!! or positive emotions!! just whatever I want and it’s low stress and people get me#I don’t have to worry about judgment or competitiveness etc etc#like everyone on here is so kind & nice & understanding. & just a breath of fresh air from the types I run w. it’s just nice to have this#so idk that’s why I think I’ll always be strict about keeping the worlds separate. it just works#p
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went to a book swap at a cafe and this note was left in one of the books i picked up ♡ cute
#along with a bookmark !!! clearly an angel left this book#honestly though it was sooo so nice . so many lovely people there and made a new friend and got some books i’ve been meaning to read#while also giving away some of my old books/some i have doubles of etc like !!!#was so so so fun and cute :3 they’re gonna do it monthly too i can’t wait to go again hehe#uk mutuals come visit me and come to the book swap lol#a
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just finished my 1:1 chat with my manager at work and i just found out she used to write DRAMIONE FANFICTION omg…. i wonder if i can get her to read drarry fanfiction in the year of our lord 2024…
#need to get her thoughts on drarry next time#i actually deeply respect dramione bc it was one of the het hp ships i browsed when i was like… 12#in the clurb we all fam etc#and i love when drarry authors write in a solid draco-hermione friendship dynamic bc honestly i do think they COULD'VE been friends#also sorry for being gone. i’ve been dealing with Dramatic Changes at Work and Real Life 😭#I MISS DRARRY!!! and seeing my beautiful mutuals’ beautiful posts!!! and making fic recs!!! life is just CONSUMING me rn
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obviously we cannot know but i trust your expertise so i will ask anyway: do you think marc cares about the accusations pecco threw alex’s way after misano even though pecco apologised and took it back afterwards? or does he remember still like a particularly predatory elephant and will use it as fuel to destroy pecco next year. i’m kind of on the fence about it
i think he's baseline motivated to eat pecco's heart in the marketplace and then mount his head on his brutalist house's spartan white wall as some sort of fucked up trophy yeah. that's just how he is on a fundamental level. AND theres this subtext to the whole thing where i think he knows that pecco maybe only blamed alex specifically bc it was politically unadvantageous to ALSO pin marc for their portimao clash and he needed a scapegoat in his brain to feel confident going into the closing stages of the title fight... like genuinely marc is obsessed with his baby brother, so theres no way he doesnt fucking remember that and catalog it in his brain as a suprise tool to help us later etc imo. but all that being said, i do marc is invested in keeping things calm in the garage and chill in the eyes of the press, AND additionally i get the vibe that hes just a guy that will match your energy interpersonally. he's a mirrorball. so pecco goes after alex and marc will stand up for him bc hes not a pushover and he loves his brother, but after it all blows over he'll go back to being friendly and cordial in public because thats what best serves everyone involved and because hes not going to be a dick in the face of pecco's exhaustively polite little attempts at small talk
#he WILL remember.......#and again guys. they are not friends lol that is so deeply not the vibe im getting tbh. like love and light but#they ARE waging proxy wars AND theres vale involved and pecco went after the baby brother. AND the title fight next year#and all the journos saying pecco was WAY unhappy marc was chosen. AND they still dont follow each other on insta..... USE UR BRAIN...#sorry. hater corner. this does not apply to my mutuals etc#motogp#callie speaks#asks
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These James and Sirius Unsent Project messages… god.
PLUS these nicknames messages too
Don’t hurt me like this bro
#prongsfoot#sirius black#james potter#unsent project#GODDDDDDDDDD#ao3 tags mutual pining mutual yearning forbidden love first love friends to lovers etc#good lord
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#started typing out a long soppy post as i’m emotional rn but decided otherwise#i just want to say thank you to the community really#this is by far the nicest community i have ever had the pleasure of being part of#and i’ve always had imposter syndrome i guess and other fandoms only amplified that and made me feel beyond useless#and i’ve always had the misfortune of only being known as ‘[person]’s friend’ or ‘[person]’s mutual’ etc#and never as just my own person i guess#and i kind of got used to that? i got used to people only communicating with me to get to someone else - usually someone with more clout-#or followers or whatever#and ngl part of that still fucking stings#and is partly why i joined this community completely anonymous#like i am just anonymous community member fitpacs with nothing more than pronouns#and the fact i have managed to make friends and connections in this community even with that - it astounds me#and it means the absolute fucking world#i’ve never had the feeling of complete acceptance in an online sphere (i’ve dealt with irl aspects in therapy dw im fine)#so i just want to say thank you for accepting me wholly and completely in this community (q/smpblr/ratinhos/huevitos)#i honestly wasn’t expecting the warm welcome because of past fandoms#and i don’t know how ive managed to have such a wholesome experience honestly but thank you#thank you for reading my fics and my shitposts and sending kind anons (remember ‘fitpacs appreciation day’?!)#just thank you for accepting me for me and not expecting anything in return#i may regret posting this tomorrow but oh well#thank you for accepting anonymous community member fitpacs and expecting nothing in return - it means the world to me and then some
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YAYYY
#any mutuals wanna be goodreads friends..... 👉👈#aint much but it's honest work etc.#trb.txt#media blogging
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honestly, i am so glad that a piece of media is finally exploring the unrequited love trope appropriately. everyone always romantisises the shit out of it and talks about how sad and tragic it is, but in reality the idea of someone who has clearly been rejected pining after someone else for years is just uncomfortable and selfish. moving on is the only appropriate response to a situation like this. while, by the way, continuing to actively pursue the other person, especially when they are exclusively involved with someone else, is the most inappropriate one.
#to be clear i do not mean like mutual pining supposedly unrequited love situations where the person hasn't been rejected and just assumes#that the other person doesnt feel the same because of self esteem issues etc etc#i mean when someone clearly does not recirprocate but the other person just continues on obsessing over them#only friends the series#ofts#archer watches ofts#ofts: ep 4
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it's a strange but nice realization that suddenly you do find yourself in a place where you feel secure in your friendships and valued by the people who matter to you. even when i still find myself in a situation with new people and i feel like the odd one out, i don't care as much as i used to and i find it easier to still make a connection with a few people (most people are friendly!!). if you're a teen or in your early twenties and you feel like you'll always be on your own or not have any lasting friendships that feel completely safe, you're wrong cause that's gonna change. you'll know more about yourself, as will your friends, and these things do get easier. and if this happens "later" in life for you by whatever standard you measure that, it's never too late but you gotta seek out the help you need to make sure you find yourself worthy of all of that (spoiler alert it came free with being born)
#friday night ramble i guess!!!!!#just feeling really grateful tbh#it's not like my friendships in high school were bad#most were okay/good#but blah blah in the closet etc etc#but then my graduation year did kinda suck#but i always had the feeling that my people were out there and i'd find them in college#call it optimism but i think it was surprisingly realistic for 18 y/o me to think#anyway#ended up finding a lot of my people in this fandom too#so shout out to con friends and mutuals i talk to sometimes daily#yall make life so much more bright ily#god another ramble in the tags lol who asked for this
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I tried to update my like intro/bio thingy a bit since I haven’t posted in a while but here’s the more important part I think:
I don’t rlly post a lot anymore but I want to get back into tumblr so I’m tryinggg
stuff about things I’ll be posting, probably a lot of deep stuff because a lot has gone on in my life (mainly friendship stuff that could probably also be considered relationship stuff, emotional things, questions that I ask myself and stuff like that).
Alsoooo I LOVE music atm. Like I am constantly listening to music. I haven’t binged a tv show or watched movies in a while but I still love them and want to get back into them. I’m watching the office rn!
Umm I think that’s it but I need to remember to keep doing things on tumblr because I actually loved it but I moved onto instagram which I’m kinda obsessed with rn.
#music#queen#gay#bisexual#lgbtq+#queen band#greyhound#freddie mercury#brian may#john deacon#roger taylor#supernatural#life update#mutuals#life#friends#drama#trauma#tv shows#movies#marvel#rock music#classic rock#dad rock#nirvana#eminem#girl in red#etc
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Something so interesting to me about the way they are depicting Gibeon's close friendships, while Amethio still doesn't have such bonds with others yet.
#something about gibeon having deep bonds in the past and doing things like fistbumps etc..#having a close relationship with lucius full of mutual respect/acknowledgment and his group of friends all aiming for the same destination#while amethio doesn't have such friendships yet.. (whose fault is it ww)#though amethio is starting to allow others to be close to him.. and he is starting to have friends in a way.#(him not rejecting zir when he said they were friends in ep 68)#i wonder if he'll have a bond like lucius and gibeon did in the past with someone. it'd be neat (just without the tragic ending part)#anyway. really like the contrast between the gibeon we've seen up until now (cold and rejecting his family)#and the one we're going to see in the upcoming episode (much warmer and closer to others)#i like what they're doing with gibeon's character so much.. i love him.#i like that they're depicting the og explorers in such detail and gibeon's character too#as we need to understand gibeon's past in order to contextualize amethio's existence#also the next ep makes me wonder if they'll explore amethio's character the same way eventually#if they ever want to show his backstory. panorama view ep and flashbacks etc.#(i really hope they will. i am curious and want to know more about his character)#hz075#gibeon#character notes#episode notes
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fanghua & wangxian parallels: 2/?
"人生得一知己,足矣。 In one's lifetime, to have one zhiji, that is enough."
being each other's one and only 知己 of their lives
#莲花楼#mysterious lotus casebook#fanghua#fang duobing#li lianhua#the untamed#wangxian#陈情令#zhiji in our current time of censorship is romantic coding/subtext!!! it is what both the untamed and word of honor have chosen to use to#bypass censorship to hint at something deeper in the relationship of the main leads than what they were allowed to show onscreen#this is fanghua being implied romantic! coding! subtext! etc!#also in a deleted scene llh calls fxb his zhijiao (very similar to zhiji) many eps before this - he reciprocates the mutual zhiji bond!!#fanghua wangxian parallels#link is to my friend's tweet; the originally tweeted this but they don't have tumblr so they gave me permission to post it here
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I was thinking there aren't enough memes catered to third parties on this site (ex. two muses talking about a third) which imo make rp flow so much smoother sometimes bc it feels more realistic for interactions to not start & end at only the two people directly involved, but then I realized... blud, you have a meme sideblog. You can literally make your own dreams come true
#◜✧ . ❪ ooc. ❫#I remember back in the day (<-2016ish) we all used to yap about each other's dynamics in-chara; for example friends would tease one another#about their alleged crushes; strangers would ask one another if they've seen [x/y/z] whether it was a friend of theirs or sb they want dead#and I recalled this today bc I saw one of the. idk maybe 5 total?? memes of this sort again... I stood there as if struck by lightning#Obviously I think it's especially great to do this organically/unprompted but I feel like a lot of people are (understandably!) shy about#bringing up one muse of theirs in an interaction where that muse isn't the main focus. I get it!! But imo it feels sm more lifelike#to experience those tiny details 🥹 I know at some point it was considered cringe (??) to use one muse to ask a mutual abt their other muse#(ex. me using Tobias to ask sb's muse about Elijah; me using Ango to ask sb's muse about Nikolai etc; you get the gist!)#but frankly........... WHO gaf about what's cringe & what isn't in this day and age 😭 I think we should all bring back being cringe & free#especially since these can be great drivers for BOTH the side dynamics (the people talking could become better friends) AND the people#from the main/primary dynamic whom they're talking about (a third party could help drive this dynamic further/make them realize things etc)#Once I get my break (real soon!!!!!!) I might work on making more of these memes bc starting w smth prompted may make it easier#for people to jump onboard & then later down the line we can eventually start doing stuff like this out of the blue too 🫡#And speaking of creating memes... I don't usually tend to; but if any of you guys ever have suggestions for memes you'd like to see#but can't find anywhere/can't find enough of? Lmk and I'll write them up for you so you can rb them & live the life of your rp dreams 🫡
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OHKAY uhhh going to conk out I thinkk ehehahbshbfhbg// today felt long (VERY GOOD THOUGH) but side note alsoalso...!!!!!!!! 💥💥💥 hello mutuals hopefully you each sleep well
#💥.txt#or are sleeping well.#or are australian. and awake. which a..... large sum of my mutuals are (both)#giggling hello. hiya 👋#also off topic really dizzy worried etc. hoping that my awkwardness lately hasn't sounded like disinterest and it's keeping me. UP ghuh#if the universe is good HOPEFULLY that will dissipate before I conk out hahabhsnjfbj it's just the shadow realm after me again#hi if you've talked to me lately and sounded messy there is a large chance I like you reallyreally dearly and care about you lotssss#ttthhatt is alll............ helllloo friends and mutuals and suchhhh I admiree you eachhh..........#puts my head in my hands and sighs................... it is bedddtimeee
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The pokemon anime subreddit fascinates and frustrates me on equally deep levels
#smiling and blinking innocently. long tags ahead :) being normal :)🌸☀️☘️✌️💐#i'm such a 'minding my own business' person in fandom. i feel like my usual reaction to seeing takes I disagree with is#'well. people probably hate some of my takes so whatever'. perhaps even the ones i'm about to share#but. man.#it's like a portal to 2010 forum discourse but goh and serena are there this time.#deeply fascinated by the repetition of old ship wars too????#what do you mean we're still having legitimate 'but drew and gary are mean' discourse 😭#i mean by all means they should keep arguing because mostly i'm just glad that the wider pokeani sphere remembers drew at all#but that being said i wonder what kind of rivalry these people would have wanted instead?????#because there's other rivalries we could point to where they weren't air-quotes 'mean'. but we have those and people ignore them lol#because they're-imo- usually less engaging and dynamic. except for dawn and zoey who have never done anything wrong in their lives.#like we COULD give everyone the supportive happy rival experience a la may and grace or whatever but that's just not the SAME#and augh. taking psychic damage and trying to be normal but that's the THINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG OKAY#are Gary and Drew needlessly mean in early episodes? yeah lmao. i'm not arguing on that. they suck ❤️ completely insufferable.#b u t#there's that line. right. the line where it slowly slides into backhanded compliments too and giving that motivation-#-for their rival to work harder and the fact that they want that reaction and attention from this one person so badly.#like shipping aside I really do think that the friction of the Gary/Ash and May/Drew rivalries is what made them GOOD.#and yeah sometimes it was out of line but also that's just how the dub is as a whole tbh. they just said whatever shit they could 😭#AND BACK TO THE BEING NICE THING. Ash and May both got growth from their nice rivalries but not what they got from Gary/Drew.#it's different types of growth and lessons and they needed both kinds from different sources. I'd argue the rougher rivalries taught more?#regardless of your opinions on the characters themselves you can't deny that Gary/Paul/Drew/Harley/etc- the rivals that pushed A&M-#had the biggest impact on their growth over the rivals that didn't push. note that 'friends' and 'rivals' are different categories for this#I'm pitting. like. gary and paul against morrison and ritchie and not against dawn or pikachu or brock or whatever. different convo.#but it was growth out of spite to be better than the jackass rival at first and then that CHANGED INTO MUTUAL BETTERMENT#AND WANTING TO BE BETTER ✨FOR✨ AND ✨WITH✨ THEIR RIVAL. OKAY. (re: gary and drew specifically)#and as a result of all of this. drew and gary did get better to be fair!#well gary did kind of just start picking on goh instead gjkhsdkfj (joking) but ykwim.#DAMN IT I'M OUT OF ROOM AND IT DELETED A WHOLE ASS PART 2 THAT I HAD TYPED OUT#fine. i'll make this its own post at some point because i yearn to yap on about it
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