#motivations for life

[furiousgoldfish]

In the last poll, I asked people what their primary motivator was, and a lot of people answered 'Unknown', which is a perfectly good answer, especially if you're young, and you haven't figured it out yet. There's a lot of fears in developing a goal because what if you don't have what it takes to reach it, or you're unable to move towards it? It's a scary thought to decide on a goal and then find it impossible.

In abuse we're often told we cannot reach any possibly goal, and any idea of happiness is stupid to even consider, even the most undemanding, common and achievable ones are put our of reach and into the area of impossible. So, I'm going to list some scenarios that fall into the area of possibilities, and I want you to think about whether any of these would make you happy:

You can vote even if you didn't vote 'unknown' in the last poll! If more than one appeal to you, pick your favourite. It's okay if the scenario feels too fictional, unachievable or unreachable, just pick whatever you hypothetically feel would make you happy.

[golden-letters]

bitch this is all you’re gonna get. this life, this face, this body. you better not ‘maybe in another universe’ your way out of everything. sit your ass down and face this. go make tea and have a picnic and read a goddamn book. kiss your loved ones, send that damn text, and hug your siblings. this is all you’re gonna get.

[needtotalkilllisten]

[thereadmind]

[authenticity2025]

[emilybraydenblogs]

I confuse people. i have a happy personality and a sad soul. i'm bold but shy. i love deeply but sometimes i feel heartless. i'm healing and hurting at the same time. i'm dedicated to growth, but i self sabotage

[nondelphic]

“you’re a writer, can you explain your process?” yes. first, i panic. then i procrastinate. then, in a fit of productivity at 3 a.m., i create chaos.

[capric0rn]

[thoughtkick]

No-one will love you exactly the way you want them to. You just have to let them do their best.

Unknown

[perfectfeelings]

I owe myself the biggest apology for putting up with what I didn’t deserve.

Unknown

[bunnie-tells-stories]

If you’re having writers block…READ!!!! CONSUME MEDIA

I feel like I don’t hear that given enough as advice for writers block..just read? Watch tv? Movies? Find inspiration in media.

Writers block is a lack of inspiration, so go collect more.

[wedarkacademia]

[resqectable]

Please don’t expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.

Sylvia Plath

[quotefeeling]

Remember, being yourself is the only way to find out who truly cares and loves you for you.

TheGoodVibe

[thereadmind]