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hey since ASAB terms are sort of becoming the next "biological (fe)male". reminder that ASAB terms simply describe what was observed and assigned by someone else when you were born. It is/was your Legal Sex. not everyone who was AMAB is a "biological male". or vice versa.
use more terms that don't exclude people! say perisex/dyadic! there's even alternative single-word terms that mean "biological (fe)male!": say müllerian! say wolffian!
expand your queer vocabulary to better describe various experiences!!! synonyms exist for a reason!! just start Looking Shit Up I promise it's so much fun! I love learning!!!!!!
#obligatory We Are Not Intersex for this post#well. as far as we're aware anyway#(edit like a year later: idiot became aware he's intersex who'da thunk it)#we just recently learned müllerian and wolffian exist#and I think I would like to include intersex folks more in my vocabulary#also because those words scratch my brain /pos#intersex#queer#transgender#lgbtqia#lgbtq#mild take? maybe?
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Dang since maybe like
Fanfic is written for fun
People don’t have to critique it when critique wasn’t asked for 🤪
And basically say that their writing would be better
Wild thought really
I’ll probably delete this later lmao I’m just in a mood
Edit: THEY DONT EVEN USE PARAGRAPHS WHAT THE F UCC
#mild vent#lmao#don’t take this too seriously but like#I wrote this so unseriously#you don’t have to go MAYBE REPLACE THIS SECTION WITH THIS BECAUSE IT WOULD BE BETTER#like ur not pointing out something problematic#ur just inserting your writing to replace mine#smh#fanfic#wattpad#ao3#fandom space#cod#call of duty#x reader#reader insert#task force 141#simon ghost riley#simon riley#ghost cod
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Reaction post to this one because it's been driving me crazy the entire day 😅
I see a totally different thing.
Ray and Fraser are so perfectly in sync that Fraser doesn't even have to chew it all out for Ray because Ray understands Fraser on a much deeper level. Their partnership goes beyond words.
Ray knows Fraser is shaken up (he tells Welsh and Welsh trusts that Ray knows what's going on with Fraser) and that he's working on things on a deeper layer than this case.
Ray hasn't even met Victoria but he knows Scarpa is not to be trusted. She's manipulative and she's playing games with Fraser. He just doesn't know that Fraser sees through it. Even though Fraser keeps telling him.
But Fraser also knows he has this one chance to finally show himself that he is not going to fall for something like this again. Maybe even that he can open up and love.
That he is capable of doing this and not losing himself in the process again. He's learning to bluff.
And he has to do this part alone. Because the other time, it was taken from him by a bullet in the back.
So let me present you the way I see it. Fraser completely trusting Ray to have his back.
Ray being an absolute hero. There was never any doubt in Fraser's mind that Ray would get it, get him.
Song: Lost in Moments by Ulver
#due south#ray kowalski#benton fraser#episode: odds#fraser/rayk#ray vecchio critic#but mildly because its canon that he was shot in the back by Ray Vecchio#im getting a bit frustrated with the RayK being incapable and unbalanced narrative#and im protecting my boy#the guy has 3 citations and his instincts are on point#fraser trusts him without words#and they are both working so hard on their own growth#of course that's messy#but they are doing it together because they want to be a better partner#so much better than being stagnant and just whine about everyone else#ok maybe not so mild but I am tired guys#paul gross did the work to give us queer coded characters after reading fanfic#in the year 1997!#fraser/kowalski#red ships green ships but no ship like partnership#red ships and green ships#benton fraser / ray kowalski#im using all the tags because if you dont want to read my critical takes please just filter
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That moment when you have to let people be wrong about you because correcting them would make you seem like an unbearable show-off
I was at a bookstore with a friend the other day and I was looking at a book in German that I was interested in buying, but then I saw that it was a translation and had originally been written in French
I commented idly to my friend "Sometimes I don't buy a book because it's a translation and I always prefer to read in the original language when possible" and she said in an agreeing-with-me way, "Yeah it would make more sense to read it in English"
and I realized she assumed I meant English when I said "original language"
but I couldn't bring myself to say "Yeah, or French or Dutch or Spanish or Italian or Portuguese or one of the other languages I read..." because like. who says that kind of thing.
#it's odd but i've suddenly been noticing a lot of people underestimating me lately#like i told a friend i was studying compsci/programming#and she started sending me like... links to absolute beginner 'how to start learning to code' resources#which of course is very sweet and i really appreciate her supportiveness!#so i certainly don't want to say 'lol i passed that point 10 years ago but thanks'#or my friends know perfectly well that i'm a language professional and have spent time studying many languages#but somehow they don't seem to make the connection that that translates into having actual abilities?#like i can piece together the meaning of a sentence in russian or chinese and they'll go 'wtf' like i'm a wizard or something#or i've mentioned a few times that i read for fun in various languages but that seems to just go in one ear and out the other for most folk#and they still can't conceive that i would read a WHOLE BOOK in a language that's not german or english#these are just two examples but i've seen it happen with several other things too#and i'm just... not sure how normal people handle this sort of thing?#how do you let your friends know what you're capable of without coming across as an arrogant prick#i'm not seeking approbation and so i don't tend to boast#but i think maybe i err too hard in the opposite direction?#maybe i've been accidentally implying all these years that i'm Very Amateur in all my interests/hobbies#i don't know how to strike a reasonable balance#but it does feel kind of. weirdly alienating. to suddenly realize most of my friends really don't Know me in this way#cosmo gyres#personal#tag rant#i guess what annoys me is that i'm very careful not to do this to others#if someone tells me about a certain interest or hobby of theirs i assume by default that they must know So Much about it#and if i dare to send them or suggest them anything i always preface it with 'you probably already know this but...'#or 'this may well be something that's painfully obvious to someone with your expertise but...'#and i would try to never make any statement or suggestion that implies i think they're at a low level in [whatever that thing is]#so it bothers me a bit when other people don't take the same consideration. i guess.#(not enough to do anything about it beyond blogging with mild annoyance. but hey)
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Such weird responses to your survey. Pleasantly surprised that it’s only a handful, but still. :(
I wish people understood there was a way to go about your internet experience without making it about some sort of discourse 24/7. Very unhealthy.
if people understood that there's a way to just avoid things you dislike on the internet and not constantly engage with discourse and meaningless drama of/with people you don't even know, the internet and society itself would be almost unimaginably different.
#it's because content algorithms got introduced#and the internet got centralized#people no longer had to actually choose what to interact with#and forgot how#so now when people see things they dont like the concept of just like. hitting the block button and closing the tab doesn't even occur#it needs to be an entire callout post and dni banner and blocklist and boycott etc etc#i grew up in the tail end of “don't like don't read” and “don't feed the trolls” type of behavior#so watching the transformation from that kinda mind your business apathy and just scrolling past the most deranged stuff imaginable#and not dignifying it with your attention#to people getting unironically mad over fully tagged and content warned stuff on some randos page#that they have all kinds of filtering and blocking functions for that didn't used to exist#is kinda crazy!#ironically one of the responses mentioned that they don't want content algorithms#way ahead of you kiddo way ahead of you#you don't have to dedicate time and emotions and having a “Take” on everything that appears on your screen i swear (ToT)#set yourself free!!!#i'm just shouting at clouds again#melsounds#*raises hand*#chuchuu agere#chuchuu.net#this actually might be swinging at the beehive as well actually#maybe i'm not being mild mannered enough. i hope taking such a strong stance against this type of stuff#doesn't end up actually attracting it to me (ToT)
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caeru patch notes:
accidentally went missing for a month
it's long hair swag time
#is it really a journey of revenge if you dont give your vaguely masc gnc guy a mild gender crisis?#yin art#yeah sure maintag this too why not#important and valuable image. he's fluffier now.#fallen london#dont ask me how it's that long if he was only gone for one (1) month. maybe it was more months in oc continuity world#maybe lilac gave him some insane hair gel before taking him up north#maybe i just wanted an excuse to draw long hair caeru. actually it's just that last part lmao#if this gets 10 notes i'll put him in a ponytail /j
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I told a man I love cicadas and he said 'the fuck is wrong with you?' and 'cicadas are gross' and doubled down even and said 'they're so annoying! And creepy!' after I said why I liked them so 🧍♂️
#wish i could take my number back#sure this is maybe mild to say but also#man who tf says that when someone says smth is their favorite?#i have cicada tattoos! i love cicadas!!! i put a cicada fun fact in my damn bio!!#oh my god im tired of apps ive been on for like 2 days lets pack it in#im not finding anyone meant for me on there#personal stuff#jfc man#maybe im just sensitive but :( cicadas are so near and dear to my heart
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Some (late) holiday photos of the boye~!
#cats#holiday#OUGHH....... barely could even get these edited and posted... my mysterious sickness flare up has been sooo bad the past few#days.. I didn't even go to the usual obligatory family christmas I was supposed to attend (!!! health issue/medical mention in tags below)#My stomach issues basically put me in a constant state of uncontrollable shivering/body shaking + nausea + sometimes rapid heart#rate. and when it happens at night that makes it like.. nearly impossible to sleep when you're violently shaking + you can feel your heart#so strong + you keep having to run to the bathroom every 5 minute to cough and gag#and throw up and so on and so forth. etc. So I went like 40 hours without any sleep almost for christmas eve and all of christmas day#last night I finally got maybe 2 hours of sleep in between the nausea and shaking and stuff. and then today I was able to get a few#hours of sleep in the afternoon. Today I tried taking an anxiety mediciation a doctor gave me in case it was anxiety related (it's apparent#ly used to relax people and works in the moment. rather than like Anxiety Mediciation that you have to take for weeks to see any effect#because I think this isn't actually acting on your brain chemistry it's judt like..a mild sedative or something.) but all that did was make#me dizzy and sweaty lol. I;m glad I slept a little but I'm just still frustrated that I don't feel normal. I started having these#'episodes' (with the stomach issues + shaking + heartrate + nausea etc.) like at the end of october. And usually it will happen for like a#few hours at a time. or i'll lose sleep one day and then be fine the next. but this has been like nearly 3 days of feeling weird. so is#getting kind of annoying... It's funny too because I was so so productive like.. literally the few days before. I was feeling much better#and I was working on my game and blah blah. But then.. random issue flare up out of nowhere of course.. yaayy.... happy holidays to meee lo#I did at least see two random ducks outside of my window in the yard area for christmas. and havent seen them since. So it's like.. hrmm..#pacing around my room nauseous and shakings and etc. but at least... hello.. two little ducks placed there just for me :3c#Now I get anxiety every night which I'm sure doesn't help/could exacerbate whatever underlying genuinely physical issues exist. But after#like 2 nights of 'I spend the night sleepless and incredibly uncomfortable just sitting in the dark sick' then bedtime is like.. dread...#I even was trying slapping myself in the face in desperation to see if somehow that could shock my body out of whatever the hell it was#doing lol.. up at 3am holding ice cubes in my hand and hitting myself in the head and crying from exhaustion and thowing up.. literally#ridiculous cartoon character feeling... AAANYWAY!!! At least I have baby boy pictures. and I have lots of doctors appointments so hopefully#whatever the issue is can be sorted out at some point. I don't know much about ibs but hopefully maybe something like that that I could pos#ibly take medication for and not something more seirous or anything. Maybe there's a food I'm secretly intolerant to or whatever.#And I did at least post a sims holday video actually timed for the holidays so that's something. I havent been productive really latrely#though obviously.. I can't even play games or small tasks when in that state since I'm just SO physically uncomfortable. Nausea and heart#stuff are THE hardest physical sensations to ignore.. BUT yeah... hoping I shall sleep at all tonight. hopeing to get like 3 productive#things done.. at some point... at least SOMETHING... lol..... *** *** ***
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Do you think BF would ever be able to convince Whitty to wear one of those cat-ears headband things?
mm well don't see why not lol
have a vaguely related-but-not-really doodle I guess bc why not ha
#bombeep#whittyxbf#slightly more actual answer: no matter what it is if bf is persistent enough whitty will probably cave eventually#bf being his one biggest weakness and all that ridiculously corny stuff lmao#and really a cat ear headband is really quite a mild thing to ask for and tbh I don't see why whitty would mind it much to begin with#au-wise at least lmao#so ye anyways#pose dumb and silly making it not really relevant to the ask itself but eh they got ears on I guess so hm#ye idk#not feeling very creative atm lol#ye they look silly with some parts being extremely lazy but ignoring that maybe it's a cute doodle still so eh good enough#take it or leave it#enjoy or don't#whatever floats your boat#fnf au#fnf shipping#boyfriend#whitty#bf#I draw what I want#ask is a few months old so ye sorry for late reply and all that but ye#thanks for the message#thanks for the suggestion#even if it wasn't really an art ask it sorta motivated me to doodle something anyways so thanks for that either way lol#stay groovy friendo
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In light of chapter 86, while I doubt this will actually happen anytime soon as it would put Yor's secret at risk, I kind of want Yor to shyly offer to teach Loid some self defense or offer to train with him so that he doesn't get hurt as much by the next unruly patient he has to deal with. I like to think that Loid would accept her offer for one reason or another - he'd either find a way to 'for the mission' it or perhaps he'd think back to the tennis arc and recall how training with Yor helped him there and decide it's a good idea to take her up on the offer. He's been slipping after all and maybe this would help him get back into fighting form? While he could decline out of pride or fear of outing himself or drawing too much attention to themselves or something, I still prefer to think he'd say 'yes' if she asked
#spy x family#just a small thing I'd like to see#maybe it would eventually lead to flirty sparring#but this is a slow burn so I think it'll take a while to get there#twiyor#spy x family manga spoilers#spy x family spoilers#sxf spoilers#spoilers#spy x family speculation#loid forger#spy x family ramblings#yor forger#spoilers just in case even though this is pretty mild#chapter 86#mole arc#i mean he'd probably say yes to just about anything she asks for
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Good news and bad news
I am so proud of my progress and I am very very happy with all my recent pages
...my ulnar nerve is not, however
#ermmm#small break time maybe#its very very Very mild pain and isnt constant#so if it subsides within the next 24 hours then i will take that as an invitation to draw <3
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One little known fact about Sherry is that she has a ridiculously high spice tolerance. The Sinners find this out on accident when dining out at a restaurant of Hong Lu's choice, where he tells them about a certain spicy mustard served there that they can dip their food in.
Most of the Sinners are incapable of handling the sting but Sherry just keeps eating the mustard. She's in tears and has to keep scrunching up her face, but she absolutely loves the burning sensation whenever she takes a bite. Hong Lu, of course, is very happy she likes it, and Ryōshū is mildly impressed she can handle it, but the other Sinners are a bit terrified of just how much spice Sherry can handle.
#I have wanted to make this post for MONTHS‚ but I couldn't find a good way to phrase it ...#but tonight I discovered horseradish has the same flavor and produces the same sensation as that mustard‚ and it all finally came together#Hong Lu is absolutely delighted when he finds out Sherry likes spicy food‚ by the way--he's happy to share something with her#I like to think he really likes her but never knows how to get closer to her--she seems so intimidating to him#I love imagining him going‚ ''Wow! You have a really high spice tolerance‚ Sherry!'' while everyone else looks on in horror#except Ryōshū--I can't imagine her not handling spice well#but the other Sinners ...?#*maybe* Outis would be able to handle mild spice‚ but not to the same extent as Sherry‚ Ryōshū‚ and Hong Lu#... she'd be impressed‚ too‚ I think#oh--and I can't forget Yi Sang ... he could handle some spice for sure#also‚ once he gets over the sheer shock of Sherry being able to eat the spicy mustard‚ Heathcliff does think her reaction to it is cute#p: writhing in the hellfire of a powerful brush 🔥#p: strange encounters take place in a secret dream 💎#si: to a great mind‚ nothing is little 🤎#LCB Sherlock#limbus oc#scattered pages
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Even with all the brotube fanon worldbuilding in this episode and the op sith, I think the one thing that might put me out of joint is the idea that Master Sol can't sense the difference between Mae and Osha. ....But on the other hand, I can totally understand why they would want to include Mae impersonating Osha, because what else are you gonna do with identical twins on opposing sides
#the acolyte spoilers#some mild salt#but come on that's Osha's Master! He should know. ..........I guess it's a bit early to complain.#maybe he'll notice super quickly#but then that squanders the body doubling plot!#unless she takes him out on the ride home =/#oh no
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i can't even tell if i FEEL bad or if i'm just going through the motions of someone who feels bad in order to convince myself that i do
#because like. i'm probably fine. i can't imagine i'm struggling particularly worse than anyone else#i really think these are just normal mental issues. like i guess slightly low self-esteem and prob mild depression or whatever. but normal#if not better and more cope-able than normal!! than average i mean!!#like in terms of the mean negative feelings of the human population. i think i am probably experiencing far less than other people.#but also i feel like i want sympathy SO badly that i. tend to say and do things to imply to myself that things are#worse than they really are. maybe.#and all the pretending has convinced me that i'm ACTUALLY doing poorly and deserving of sympathy.#when really! i just ACT this way!!! no mental illness necessary!!!!!#don't take this too seriously. anyway. i'm feeling really dazed today. really really hazy.#hello world
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the concept of any of the good bl adults coming to find hunter and luz in the worst timeline without vee is very funny to me like.
darius shows up at the door and luz practically screams his name with delight and when hunter sees him they hug?? and poor camila has no clue what the fuck to do abt this.
is this man from the cult. is he the cult leader. did HE lock them in the basement for thirteen years. should she be beating him half to death. should she say hi and shake his hands. should she call the police. what the fuck is up with his hair. ?? why is he thanking camila for taking care of them??? is he another cult escapee?????? wait- THE EARS?
Scream. camila so rapidly doing calculations in her head like "okay, luz clearly isn't afraid of this man, this definitely Isn't the person who scarred and tried to kill hunter. but she obviously knows him very well and he's about my age, he was definitely an adult when she was kidnapped, was he..... has their cult been kidnapping Multiple Generations Of Child???? was this guy also kidnapped as a kid?? did he genuinely take care of them or have luz and hunter just developed stockholm syndrome for the kinder-seeming 'good cop' kidnapper??"
and she gets through all of this before being like "wait a second. why do he and hunter have the same fucking ears."
#camila's thoughts stopping at 'is this hunter's bio dad??' and then she doesn't know where to go from there#but darius isn't threatening the kids and if he does anything skeevy camila can beat him to death with a baseball bat so. okay#here's an adult who can maybe give her details about wtf happened to the kids. since said kids remain unwilling to explain shit#hunter having a Black dad would be a mild surprise but not in any way that would affect how camila treats either of them#especially considering she's assuming hunter has a weird form of albinism. that can affect ppl of all races it's not that unusual#poor camila working So Hard to take everything in stride all the time..... i love her so much....#replies#toh#princess luz au#princess luz au worst timeline#camila noceda#darius deamonne#hunter toh#luz noceda
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this cold is weird because it actually just skipped the running nose stage completely so I can't tell if I should still be resting because it's going to get worse or if this is already almost over
#like physically i feel like i do when i usually slowly get back into it#all of this has become harder to decipher since covid too because i think that mildly messed up my lungs#so colds take longer to fully recover from#it'll be generally over but I'll still be coughing at slight irritations for up to two weeks and unable to do sports#and like rn i feel like the day before i decide it's over? but I've only been sick three days? usually it's like seven minimum?#i mean it's very cool if it's over now#or you know tomorrow#i think the smartest thing is if i do like cleaning and shit today and maybe some mild studying#that'll help the mental state too which is still kinda fragile#jae says stuff
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