#meaningful relationships

[devouredbyflame]

Deepening Relationships with the Divine

I see a lot of posts on Tumblr about how to go about having casual relationships, or showing your devotion subtly but never have I seen ways in which those who wish to move on from that realm of being would actually start having a dedicated practice. People don’t need to be subtle to worship the Gods - in fact, most practices aren’t blatant and don’t need to be blatant. It is understandable and often necessary to be in a closet but you can still have a very deep relationship with the Gods while it still being meaningful.

Here’s a list of things you can do to strengthen your devotion with the Gods as well as build and deepen your relationship.

Build a shrine dedicated to an individual Deity and take time to know Them by using it.

The idea that you need to have multiple Deities all the time and worship all of Them together is a very strange way of doing polytheism and it is a more powerful usage of space to have one singular Deity at a time rather than a mix together. People may feel less of a need to be so bent out of shape if they can’t afford offerings for an entire pantheon of Gods if they only have one household Deity and the rest are specific to other tasks or needs. I’m not saying you need to pick one above the rest, but I am saying that when you work with the Gods, it’s not about quantity of your relationships, it’s about quality and how long you actually spend together in a similar fashion.

Design your shrine to be simple.

You don’t need a bunch of things on your shrine and in fact, that won’t make it any more detectable to the Gods or show how dedicated you are as a polytheist. It is not about how much work you put into the shrine to make it more about the Gods you worship but it’s more along the line of what needs to happen when you go to the shrine, what actions you take while you’re there.

Hypothetically, all you need is a candle to light to show that you wish for a Deity’s presence, but to make it more usable and detectable to a Deity, it is recommended you also have an image, statue, or likeness of the Deity. You can also have a bowl or a glass to fill for your offerings. Do not make huge offerings if you are going to forget to empty them out. Only make the offerings that won’t rot should that be the case, and only do that if you know you’re going to throw it out, eat it, or dispose of it shortly after.

Make a plan to go to your shrine at least once a day if not several times a week.

The more time you spend at the shrine, the easier it will be for the Deity to realize your intent of showing interest. It isn’t because you’re more devoted, are special, or show any signs that you’re worth looking into, but rather, the concept is mostly around how much energy is built up gradually over time. Energy is only built up because of the amount of time you spend there and how much meaning is there. It is not some moral issue you should feel guilty about should it not happen.

The fact is, the Gods aren’t waiting around and checking off boxes above your head so when you fail They mark it against you for the rest of your time with Them. They are, however, flawed in the way that They only can go about recognizing the material world based off of the flow of energy and how much is stored that is unique to Them.

Having a journal at your shrine to write to Them in while a candle is lit is a perfect way of building a relationship. The act of writing is a perfect way to build energy.

Keeping a specific divination tool at the shrine for that single Deity to use and to build Their energy around is also extremely important. It has to be unique to Them while also being used and stored at the site where you are making the most attempts at being at your shrine.

It is important to keep the shrine contained in a way that makes sure that other energies cannot get in. So even if you are closeted or must keep it on the low, go to the craft store and get a photo storage box. You only need a few items in there to make it meaningful. Over time, the use of those items will become more and more sacred. You can take them in and out of the box - it doesn’t matter how it’s stored but as long as it is contained and out of reach of animals and other things that can be hazardous to them and also maintain the cleanliness of the shrine. If not a box, a closet, cabinet, or bookshelf that is high up are all good places to keep it.

If you’re going to keep the shrine out in an open space, make sure the environment around the area is kept free from dust, dirt, animal hair, organized and vacuumed around it. Dirt that is built up makes it harder for the Gods to reach you energetically - cleaning the room it is in is going to be required if you have it outside of a container. If you’re low on spoons or live in a place that is impossible, a box is perfect. As long as the items are kept tidy energetically, no harm would be done if you’re not super hellbent on keeping a very energetically and physically pristine home.

Most people don’t have the space to have a dedicated area that is solely meant to remain clean for the Gods it is dedicated to. If that’s you, don’t worry about having it out at all.

I realize I’ve spoken a lot about using a shrine in this post and that is really a very important thing when trying to build a better relationship with a Deity. It isn’t about who you are or what you’re doing, it’s about recognizing the importance of what the Deity needs to get to where you are first before going about creating a relationship. That’s all that matters for those starting out on the path looking for ways of transmuting their effort into a meaningful way instead of basing it off of appearances and looks.

Gods don’t have eyes and do not see the way humans can. It is necessary that you build up energy as that is what They are and how humans and Deities can interact. Your devotional actions will likely be unseen unless you do them based on the idea that it is repeated, somewhere dedicated to that Deity, or building up a framework of a practice to continue daily.

Not because it’s a moral issue, not because you should feel obligated, but because the Divine are not omnipotent beings who know everything going on and can see everything. Otherwise, you’re not going to get very far in your devotional activities or rituals.

The usage of a dedicated space over time will make communicating with the Gods easier. Consider a shrine like a window in this world for the Gods to look into. The more you use it, the easier it will be for Them to have access to you and the easier it will be for you to hear Them. Yes, discernment is important and having a sensitivity is a great start, but it’s not the only thing that matters in communicating with your Gods.

If you are having issues listening for and hearing the Gods, the problem likely is not just you, it’s that They cannot reach you. The Gods are the most obvious beings on this realm. They are enormous. They take up a lot of space and energy. Those who have experienced Them know that it is not subtle and the more you make it easier for Them to access you, the easier it will be to have Their energy available in order for Them to talk back in a meaningful way and use what’s available in your life to communicate.

Their presence is about as subtle as an elephant sitting in your bedroom. It really isn’t that hard to detect Them once you get the hang of having Them in your specific area in this way. You’ll also know you’re not hallucinating because there is no other experience quite like it. You really won’t know what hit you.

That’s all for now. For more tips on building a shrine or finding more material on this topic, check out my blog.

[omegaphilosophia]

The Philosophy of Minimalism

Minimalism, in philosophical terms, is a lifestyle and mindset that emphasizes the value of simplicity and the intentional reduction of excess in various aspects of life. It is often associated with reducing material possessions, but it also extends to decluttering the mind, simplifying relationships, and focusing on what truly matters. Here’s a detailed exploration of the philosophy of minimalism:

1. Core Principles of Minimalism

Intentionality: Minimalism is about making conscious choices about what to keep and what to eliminate. It involves a deliberate focus on what is essential and meaningful.

Simplicity: The philosophy advocates for simplifying one’s environment and lifestyle to reduce stress and distractions. This can include decluttering physical spaces, simplifying schedules, and streamlining routines.

Focus on Quality: Minimalism emphasizes quality over quantity. This means valuing well-made, durable items and meaningful experiences over an abundance of possessions or superficial engagements.

2. Minimalism and Material Possessions

Decluttering: A central aspect of minimalism is the reduction of material possessions. This involves removing items that do not add value or joy to one’s life.

Sustainable Consumption: Minimalists often advocate for mindful and sustainable consumption. This includes buying less, choosing eco-friendly products, and reducing waste.

Financial Freedom: By focusing on needs rather than wants, minimalism can lead to financial savings and a greater sense of financial security.

3. Minimalism and Mental Clarity

Mental Decluttering: Minimalism extends to mental and emotional spaces. It encourages reducing mental clutter by letting go of negative thoughts, unnecessary worries, and mental distractions.

Mindfulness: Practicing mindfulness and being present in the moment are key aspects of minimalism. This helps individuals appreciate what they have and reduces the constant craving for more.

4. Minimalism in Relationships

Quality Over Quantity: Minimalism in relationships focuses on deep, meaningful connections rather than a large number of superficial relationships.

Boundaries and Prioritization: It involves setting healthy boundaries and prioritizing relationships that bring joy, support, and growth.

5. Minimalism and Technology

Digital Declutter: Minimalism encourages a mindful approach to technology use. This can involve reducing screen time, simplifying digital spaces, and being intentional about online activities.

Focus on Essential Tools: Using technology that serves a clear purpose and enhances one’s life, rather than getting caught up in the latest gadgets or apps.

6. Philosophical and Ethical Considerations

Minimalism and Ethics: The philosophy of minimalism often intersects with ethical considerations such as sustainability, consumerism, and social responsibility. It challenges the culture of overconsumption and promotes a more conscious way of living.

Existential Minimalism: Some minimalists explore the existential dimension of simplicity, questioning the nature of fulfillment and the meaning of life. This can lead to a deeper understanding of what truly brings happiness and contentment.

7. Cultural and Historical Perspectives

Historical Roots: Minimalism has roots in various philosophical and religious traditions, such as Stoicism, Buddhism, and Transcendentalism, which all emphasize simplicity and the reduction of desires.

Modern Minimalism: The contemporary minimalist movement has been popularized by figures like Marie Kondo and the Minimalists (Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus), who advocate for decluttering and simplifying life.

The philosophy of minimalism offers a pathway to a more intentional, simplified, and meaningful life. By focusing on what is essential and reducing the excess, minimalism can lead to greater mental clarity, stronger relationships, financial freedom, and a deeper sense of fulfillment. It challenges the norms of consumer culture and invites individuals to reconsider their values and priorities.

[blood-n-tears]

i-i love you guys . . . y'know (i have no friends on here)

[whisper-dreams]

I folded the napkins into hearts for us! 🥺❤️

[mentalfreedomtherapy]

Video Timestamps:

0:00 - 0:05 | Sunrise over a peaceful mountain landscape Text on Screen: "Is Love a Conscious Decision?"

0:06 - 0:12 | Slow-motion waves gently hitting a shore Voiceover: "Many think love is just a feeling, something we fall into. But what if love is actually a choice?"

0:13 - 0:18 | Couple walking together, holding hands, with another aging couple still walking hand-in-hand Voiceover: "Psychologist Erich Fromm says love is a skill—a decision to connect deeply with others."

0:19 - 0:25 | Soft focus on a couple sitting together at sunset Voiceover: "Love isn’t about possession. It’s about nurturing respect and shared interests, growing together in many aspects."

0:26 - 0:35 | Close-up of flowers swaying gently in the breeze Voiceover: "By choosing love, we cultivate meaningful, lasting relationships that thrive with consistent care—nurtured through deep connection, open communication, and the willingness to grow beyond our imperfections."

0:36 - 0:45 | Dreamy clouds passing over a calm lake Voiceover: "So, is love a choice? What do you think?" Text on Screen: "Is love a choice? What do you think?"

YouTube Keywords:

Erich Fromm

Love as a choice

The Art of Loving

Conscious love

Nurturing relationships

Personal growth in relationships

Relationship psychology

Meaningful relationships

Love and communication

Relationship advice

[siliconvalleyeldercare]

Providing companionship care is not just a service but a cornerstone of home healthcare services in San Jose, California. Beyond tending to medical needs, it focuses deeply on emotional well-being and fostering social interactions for seniors. The presence of a dedicated caregiver can significantly enhance a senior’s life by offering companionship and support, thereby alleviating feelings of loneliness and isolation that are all too common.

[meadowsystem]

I know this all too well.

I have started standing up and saying no. Making changes to everything you have known just for your own health.

Life is too short, if it doesn't bring you peace it's not work your trouble.

The older you get, the more you choose calm over chaos and distance over disrespect. Drama becomes intolerable to you and your peace becomes your ultimate priority. You start surrounding yourself with people who are good for your mental health, heart and soul.

[motivationlinkllc]

In the fast-paced world we inhabit, the demand for resilience has never been greater. Whether facing personal challenges or professional setbacks, cultivating inner resilience is paramount for navigating life’s unpredictable journey. Resilience, defined as the ability to bounce back from adversity, is not a fixed trait but rather a skill that can be nurtured and developed over time.

[wildlyplanted]

How Do You Make Others Feel?

Lately, I have been in deep thought about my connections and relationships.

For me, experiencing authentic relationships and connections, regardless of how long or short, is one of the most important aspects of life – not all connections are genuine. The ones that are, feel different in your heart and gut. That experience of being in fellowship with another human being and sharing a piece of who you are with someone else is special, so being intuitive and discerning about who I’m connected to and who I form a bond with is important to me.

As I’m looking to create new connections, build stronger connections and phase out the ones that lack alignment, these are the questions, I’ve been giving much consideration to:

Does this relationship feel nourishing and inspiring? How does being around this person make me feel? Do I feel seen, heard and believed? – or are my words and feelings glossed over and ignored? Do I feel safe having deeply personal conversations or am I cautious not to share too much and why? Do I feel confident that my privacy is respected? Does this person respect and accept my boundaries? When I say no, do they acknowledge it with understanding or do they try to negotiate with me? Do I feel animosity or jealousy if I happen to receive attention and they do not? Does spending time with this person leave me feeling full, motivated, (insert any positive feeling), or do I feel depleted, discouraged, doubtful, (insert any negative feeling)? Does this person give me solid advice, or do I find their advice questionable? Do I ever question if this person has negative thoughts about me, whether they’re judging me or if they even like me? (This one calls for an immediate phase out).

On the flip side, I’m also reflecting on the kind of experience I’m creating for those I have relationships and connections with.

Am I’m creating a meaningful experience for others? Am I being the friend I want others to be to me? What kind of answers to the questions above, would others give about me? How do I make others feel? Is a relationship with me an added value to someone else’s life?

No one is perfect and there is always room for being a better person. I think that if we know we don’t value a relationship or vice versa, it just needs to end. If we do genuinely value a relationship, we should care to understand how we make others feel, how we relate to others and reflect in both words and matching actions the same thoughtfulness, love, grace authenticity we want from them.

Where you can find me/how to contact me:

IG: wildlyplanted

YouTube: Wildly Planted (this is a work in progress, but I’m finding direction)

Email: wildlyplanted@zoho.com

[sproutedlavender]

Hello wonderful people! Recently I've noticed that a lot of people don't know how to have conversations anymore. Like, can we please have ONE conversation without saying LOL or IDK???

Anyone, before I begin and ongoing rant about text talk, just wanted to let y'all know that if you're looking for tips on how to have more meaningful conversations for stronger relationship, check out my post!

I discuss the best ways to start a meaningful conversation and really connect with people.

Happy reading,

Andie 🥰

[lanarkissa]

On a quest searching for love prepare to be patient: we are not always getting what we want.

https://youtu.be/xxvvpefz1VY?

[ranjith11]

5 Essential Dating Tips for Discovering Your Perfect Match! | Soul Of Love

Welcome to Soul Of Love! Discover 5 essential dating tips for finding your perfect match in this insightful video. Know yourself, communicate effectively, identify deal breakers and must-haves, engage in shared activities, and embrace patience and timing. Subscribe for more valuable insights on your journey to a meaningful relationship. #souloflove #datingtips #perfectmatch

[cryptidorchid]

Okay, but Scott being unsure whether the Third Life marriage question was talking about him and Jimmy is so funny to me.

Scott: I mean I called him my husband the entire season and explicitly said "we're married" and wrote "Beloved Husband" on his grave... which could mean nothing

[bloodbruise]

college barista james falling in love with college radio host regulus through song.

james tunes into the campus radio every tuesday night—not because he’s really into finding new music, but because regulus is the voice behind it. regulus’ show is all late-night jazz, obscure indie tracks, and that smooth, low commentary that james could listen to for hours. the first time james hears it live, in person at the café, he nearly spills the iced latte he’s making all over himself.

he isn’t completely pathetic, though—he flirts a little, drops hints here and there. memorizes regulus’ favorite drink so it’s always waiting for him when he walks in. asks about why his favorite songs are his favorite. still listens every tuesday as he falls for him more and more.

james has never called into the show—he wouldn’t know what to say—but regulus’ voice still fills his dorm every week.

one night, regulus runs a quiet segment where listeners can request songs and share a few words. james, maybe a little tipsy from the cheap wine he and sirius scored by charming the lady at the corner store, finally decides to call in. he keeps it simple, asking for a song he knows regulus loves—"the only love song he can tolerate," as he once told james. when “the boy” by the smashing pumpkins starts playing, james hears regulus laugh softly into the mic, a sound warmer than any wine. “someone out there has good taste,” regulus says, and james feels his heart skip.

on air, regulus doesn’t let on if he knows it’s james, but the next day, as james makes his usual coffee, regulus gives him a small, knowing smile—like he just might.

[aubiz1]

What Is Vulnerability?

Vulnerability is one of the most powerful yet overlooked elements of human connection. It’s often misunderstood and can be seen as a sign of weakness, when in reality it’s actually a strength. By understanding vulnerability and its role in creating connections, we can open ourselves up to deeper relationships with those around us. At its core, vulnerability is about exposing our true selves to…

[motivationlinkllc]

The importance of meaningful human connections often takes a backseat. However, the art of interpersonal growth remains a cornerstone of personal and professional success. Embracing and mastering this art can significantly impact not only your relationships but also your overall well-being.