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nattensijus · 6 months ago

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rare academic win i DID pass an exam i thought i'd have to retake??? rare academic win for jana twelverriver <3 literally walked around for a full month thinking i failed it... this is a fun twist <3

#me about ppl who dont follow me:#That means you haven't known the triumphs and defeats #the epic highs and lows of my academic career #<3 #jana.txt #uni tag #now i've gotta go back to my term paper but this is great for my mental health <3

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bunnyboy-juice · 7 months ago

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NO MORE ASSOCIATING THINGS WITH FEMMES ONLY BECAUSE THEY ARE PINK!HYPERFEM FEMMES ARE GREAT AND I LOVE YOU CAMPY FEMMES WHO EMBODY PINK BUT ALSO JESUS CHRIST CAN YOU GUYS NOT GO MORE THAN ONE DAY W/O TRYING TO SHOEHORN FEMMES INTO BEING ONLY PINK UWU BABIES. I AM FEMME AS IN GRASS AS IN DIRT AS IN TREE BARK AS IN WEEDS SPROUTING THROUGH THE SIDEWALK CEMENT. FEMME AS IN GENDER NONCONFORMITY AS IN FUCK YOU MY FEMININITY IS WHAT *I* SAY IT IS. FEMME AS IN DEPTH AND DARKNESS AND WARMTH AND TERROR. FEMME AS IN CAVES. FEMME AS IN LIGHTNING. FEMME AS IN AN AMALGAMATION OF TRAITS THAT I HAVE DECIDED ARE FEMININE REGARDLESS OF WHAT SOCIETY SAYS. FUCK IS IT THAT HARD TO UNDERSTAND?!???

#personal #i am emotional yes #over the years ive had this blog I've made a few posts abt being femme #nd whether they're serious or jokey..... inevitably someone in the tags goes “ohhh yeah bc pink”#or in the case of what inspired this post: someone going “what about the pink ones” on my praying mantis post #and im just.#sick of it. im sick of femme being equated to pink and frilly girlie behaviors.#im sick of femme being equated to skirts and heels. to makeup. to skincare. to pristine nails exactly almond shaped.#im sick of ppl acting like All femmes aspire to this shit. im sick of femms being reduced to this shit.#and i love pink! i love pink! my phone theme is quite literally just black and pink all over.#im just. so tired of any expression of Femme identity being shoehorned into being a Specific type of femininity #especially as someone who DOES get dysphoric wearing skirts. wearing dresses. embodying the femme aesthetic yall are so set on making #if u guys wanna rb this i truly dont care #i just needed to scream #and this is one small thing #but the 2nd largest category of anon hate i have gotten since making this blog is str8 up homophobia from other “queer” folks #saying i cant be femme bc of how i present. calling me slurs (and using them as such) bc they cant understand femme as anything but that #my wife and i have our users in our personal discord server set as 2 different things of anon hate ive gotten #i have had OTHER FEMMES tell me i am not femme. femmes who Know im femme who still call me butch. femmes who ive corrected and been blocked #-by bc of it. the number 1 largest demographic of queerfolk who have me blocked rn is TME femmes who embody pink also #and i dont think its a coincidence at all. (and i know this bc i go to try and follow these ppl bc they get rbed on my dash & i cant)#and ik their blogs arent deleted bc some of them don't block my wife (tall. white. butch) and it cant be politics cause her and i rb #a lot of the same political shit (fuck. i think she rbs More than i do even. this is genuinely mainly a nsft blog)#and usually i don't say anything but im having a bad day so i get to be angry about this and if anyone fucking tries me i will block u #idc if we've been mutuals 4ever. im judt so tired of feeling like i am not Enough as a femme bc i dont embody this shit #im sick of this lameass lip service to he/him gnc femmes etc when the thin white 50s housewife femme is still what is preferred and loved #im sick of this lamesss lip service when y'all feel entitled to theorizing on other femmes genders bc u cant conceptualize a femme who does #wanna be hypetfeminine. im sick of it. im sick of it. im sick of it.#celebrity bun

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epiphainie · 7 months ago

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i can't with all these "the show is highlighting tommy's jealousy, they're planting seeds that it will cause problems" takes like bffr. he mentioned being envious over the 118's dynamic twice, sure, but in what world (literally how?) would that cause a relationship problem? do yall expect him to be in cahoots with gerrard behind their back and murder buck to take over his life or something?? like even with the hyperbole aside, i genuinely cannot see how they can turn this into relationship drama without going against everything they showed us with tommy so far

#he literally reassured buck about his relationships in that first scene he's fine with it #he asked how buck was doing about bobby because again he KNOWS (he literally has eyes & was there to witness buck save bobby from the ship)#how much bobby means to him like do yall think 6 months into their relationship he will be unable to deal with this and what? demand buck #not be so close with them?#or that he will want to be a part of that too and buck (who in turn reassured him about this in 7x04) will be like #“uhm babe you wanting to be friends with my friends is giving me the ick?”#like whats the logic here #i'll eat my words if 911 can spin this as relationship drama i will #but im also certain this is not going the way you guys think it will #if anything the most logical follow up to this is tommy connecting with these people more as he desires and it being a good thing for both #tommy's character and bucktommy's relationship #ok rant over #911 #bucktommy #tevan #kinley #edit: the only think i can think of is if he feels neglected bc say buck needs to make time for someone else but even that doesn't make #sense because buck NEVER neglected his love interests and tommy is literally friends with all these ppl to a degree so he'd arguably #understand it more than any of his exes (none of whom had any problems with buck #'s relationships within the 118)#i think you're just ignoring the context of these scenes because they paint the bigger picture of tommy being fully accepting of these #relationships so unless something changes drastically (an external thing making him feel insecure about it/buck going too ooc and #neglecting his significant other entirely etc.) i dont see how this can be a problem #mimi.txt

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lee-hakhyun · 5 months ago

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I need advise I'm fairly new to this platform and there is this group of blogs that regularly interact with each other , I'm pretty sure they know eachother on the platform for a while their interactions are entertaining, but I want to know if it's better for me to be a passive spectator of the lore or interact with them , they sometimes respond and are all very nice , I'm just curious if I'm crossing any unspoken Tumblr specific code of conduct

I came across your blog you seem to have similar mutuals , so I was wondering if I could get some tips

idk what others feel but i'm completely fine with people interacting with me. in fact i encourage it!! if someone starts messing around with me i'll pretty much immediately follow. you'd have to go ask the others yourself because i don't know how they feel abt random ppl interacting 🙇

#most of my follows lately have been from ppl who interact w me first #i dont care about whatever tumblrs code of conduct is everyone can make fun of me!!!#ask

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kil9 · 29 days ago

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having a dni is alright but I feel like ppl will just ignore it, it's way more effective to just repel the ppl u don't want to associate with by being everything they hate

#99.txt #this is how i have transphobes stay away from me. i dont have to say dni cos they dont wanna come to my corner in the first placr #hopefuply this also works for attracting cool ppl to my blog #i hope to be around non judgemental ppl mostly. i try to be non judgemental #which i think i mostly am but ofc everyone needs work #may not show as much online cos i come here to bitch about stuff sighsjfjs #but i really want to be like that. unfortunately clashes with my weird psychological tick of always needing an enemy #i dont know why im like that.... but maybe i only judge my enemy but not most ppl #i mean ofc sometimes you have to judge someone or else u will be walked all over #but just like. for harmless stuff #also its weird wheh ppl follow me who have dnis that apply to me #how am i supposed to n i when you i'd in the first place. its almost as if the thing is pointless #also if i rly dont like someones vibe ill just block #i actually block quite easily but luckily i dont have to do it very often cos i dont usually have shitheads coming around me

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puppppppppy · 1 year ago

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i wrote this as a joke because I wanted to strangle a guy watching tiktoks without headphones on the bus, but im genuinely disturbed that we've gotten to a point where convenience comes first. and it depresses me even more that its used to justify and monetize greed

#like we have so many ways of doing things that could help us in the long run but because we're told it requires more work we just cant #its too resource intensive. or maybe its too much to maintain. we have to overlook benefits so money can go into more important things #we teach each other to do things a certain way so it works for everyone but who was it convenient for first? what abt who it might hurt?#i have to wonder if the rules our current system uses is worth listening to or following if it doesnt have our best interests in mind. u an #me and the ppl around us.. would we be better off if i ate my meals knowing the person who grew it wanted to feed others the way they could #feed themselves? and that isnt to say we're going to be happy doing it but i guess satisfied that its helping someone instead of quietly #accepting that itll eventually go in the dumpster behind a grocery store because it stopped looking appetizing or it wasnt on sale anymore #what about building homes so we can shelter each other? what if we were satisfied with what we did because we knew it would be paid back #with kindness? isnt that what we evolved to do?? heal each others bones and tell stories and help each other??#why dont houses come with solar panels or generators unless we find a way to make people pay to use the sun? why is our pooled money used #to fund genocides instead of education and hospitals? whose interests and convenience came first when we started this??#i wont pretend to know the answer because i dont. but we all know we're miserable and im sorry to say that i cant see myself fighting #for a world that wont fight for me too. why do we work if we cant live from it?? why did they stop us from plucking more teeth from our #bosses until they could build more walls around themselves and then go back to underpaying us??#im so tired. i cant even imagine making it to age 70 #yapping #vent

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flovoid · 5 months ago

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WTH. SINCE WHEN I REACHED 1K FOLLOWERS IN SIMBLR WHAT-

#thats insane. THATS INSANE #the crazy part about this is that I dont feel like that number is real. WHO HACKED MY ACC #yk what funny too? even after I got back in sims community I didnt think my posts going to have much attention or I will be making friends-#-its insane to me. especially since my latest posts gets like over 100 notes LIKE YALL STOP #honestly tho im so grateful for all that love yall are crazy and I love crazy ppl mwaha.#also ngl I hope this attention dont last (yes the hell is wrong w me) cuz IDK WHY I FEEL LIKE WHEN THERE IS TONS OF PPL FOLLOW ME #I WILL ALWAYS FEEL LIKE FORCING MYSELF TO CREATE AND THAT YK. LEADS TO BURNING OUT #but yeah my friends dw dw I am now a different person and I always have that mindset that I will post whenever I want #and yes especially w now? my mind likes to createpost w zero dialogue and short stories that is not clear but I just wanna do it. yk #like those edits on tiktoks from shows that u see n have no idea whats goin on but u r lowkey likin the edits #yes that the path im takin now MWAHAHA #anyways I love you guys I genuinely dont deserve this community (but yall are my biggest inspiration too its insane)#rando flovoid shit

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the-red-hoodlum · 25 days ago

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killing people who don’t get an animals consent before touching them &/or ignore when animals are visibly uncomfortable with being touched.

#MOTHERS FRIEND DOING THIS WITH OUR CAT RN IM PISSED.#SHE DIDNT EVEN GIVE TOFU ANY TIME TO SNIFF OR ANYTHING??#Sigh.#tofu came downstairs to see what was up bc person was in the house #But person just immediately started petting her #even tho tofu was visibly uncomfortable and clearly just wanted a sniff test or sm #went to my room asap after that and tofu followed quick on my heels #obvs I let her sniff as much as she wants before petting her (if she even wants fuss) so she had a sniff and very much seemed to want fuss #so I gave her a few strokes and then sorta checked in and she swirled around and bumped her head into my hand (all the while her tail was #pointed straight up with the tip quivering a little every few moments - a sign of happiness/excitement to see a familiar person)#so we had cuddles for a bit until she hopped off my chest to go get water or sm :3 #BUT I DONT GET WHY MORE PEOPLE DONT HAVE SIMPLE WHOLESOME INTERACTION WITH THEIR CAT LIKE THIS??#LIKE. CATS ARE SENTIENT. THEY SEEK AUTONOMY - ESPECIALLY BODILY AUTONOMY. WHY TF WOULD YOU NOT LET THEM GIVE/DENY CONSENT??#like. if you aren’t willing to learn enough about an animal to understand when it’s unhappy at the very least *why* would you interact with #one?? (This person literally has a cat as well.)#idk man these are the same sorts of people that’d probably do the ‘awww just give me a hug! I’m your auntie(/whatever)! why can’t i have a #hug? 🥺’ sorta thing.. like. BRO. It isn’t my/the cat ‘s fucking job to regulate/look after your own grown ass feelings.#SIGH..#just. The fact this person has like.. met tofu once. Lived in the same house as her for maybe 4/5 days one time and thinks the cat is #obligated to put up with her or whatever.#(This is how I imagine people be acting around cats when they’re like ‘idk man cats just don’t like me! Cats are just independent by nature #I’m just stood there having to listen to them shit talk a whole species bc they don’t understand consent (or at least don’t universally #value it - eg; with children; with animals) ANYWAYS. CATS ARE A SOCIAL SPECIES WHO HAVE DEVELOPED TO LIVE CLOSELY WITH AND DEPEND ON HUMANS #THEYRE OFTEN VERY AFFECTIONATE AND LOVING AND FORM LASTING RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR HUMANS AND WILL MOURN THEIR DEATH PROBABLY MORE THAN #HALF OF THE HUMANS WHO ATTENDED THEIR FUNERAL.)#If tofu doesn’t like you I don’t like you mate. I am wholeheartedly willing to cut people off if they act wrong with my cat - like - BRO.#IVE KNOWN HER LONGER THAN I HAVE MOST OTHER PPL IN MY LIFE. SHES GOT ME THROUGH WORSE AND IS ALWAYS HAPPY N EXCITED TO SEE ME.#That cat has done more for me than you ever have! She loves me with her whole fucking soul and I her with mine. If she picks up the wrong #vibes from you/you break any of her clearly set boundaries we are DONE.#(Obvs /nbh - nobody here. & generally lighthearted but uhh yeah needed to rant abt this bc I care strongly abt it and other ppl should too)

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orcelito · 3 months ago

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Being in a data governance class makes it so weird to watch the shit that tech giants are continuously pulling. I see them mass data scraping for AI training and I'm like. But Wait. What about GDPR??? Hello??? User privacy and right to access/correct/delete??? I know that's an EU thing but other places have their own data protection acts too!!! And they're pulling these moves that communicate such flagrant disrespect and irresponsibility for the handling of user data.

In the IT courses I've taken, they've taught us something that's really stuck with me: "Just because we can doesn't mean we should."

My data governance professor keeps emphasizing that as IT personnel, we will need to have a much higher sense of integrity than most other fields bc we have access to SO MUCH SHIT. IT and tech industries are so under-regulated bc of how relatively new it all is and how slow the law moves. But people in charge of handling user data should keep in mind that this is data about Real People, and capitalizing off of it is a violation of privacy.

But tech giants don't care. They'll keep poking and prodding, trying to capitalize off of users' data in order to earn as much money as they can. Data regulations like GDPR exist, but they don't cover everyone, and tech giants are more of "Do First, ask forgiveness later". Or in this case, pay the fines later. Bc if they violate GDPR, they Will be paying fines. And maybe they'll even change the way they handle the data... for EU citizens.

The rest of us are fucked tho. Tech giants really don't care. They just view us as assets to profit off of.

#speculation nation #just thinking. i kinda hope my data governance professor brings this up on Tuesday.#i want to hear her thoughts about it.#but yeah im entering into a field that will grant me so much power within my organization(s)#thats where the integrity really matters on a personal scale. bc im not gonna end up running any tech giants.#but i Will be one of the IT guys who can access like. everything? in a company.#maybe not everything everything. depending on how well the company has their data system structured.#access controls and what have you. hopefully an average IT person wont see like. highly classified data and whatever.#but in a lot of companies IT ppl can just do Whatever.#another thing she taught in my data governance class is how to spot warning signs for insider threats.#aka ur fellow IT workers. or even just normal employees who arent following safety protocol as they should.#aactually it's wild how much of data privacy rides on the integrity of those involved.#kinda scary. people behind the scenes in the tech world have way too much power.#and so many of them dont treat that with the care that it deserves.

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ookikufurikabutte · 17 hours ago

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secret for you all: i don't go by zack anymore. haven't for a long time. but i'm too lazy to change my art tag so idgaf.....

#or any other tags for that matter #was never a kin thing either if anyone was wondering #i needed a name after my old name tasted sour when i tried using it irl #i just use 'mimi' everywhere else #but tumblr has all my tags w/ zack in it and i am too lazy to change them rn #coincidentally i was just playing crisis core at the time and was like... ill try it cus i legit didnt have a name for a while & it was #stressing me out trying to come up with something #'zack it is' i said. and now im like. fuck i dont feel like changing my tags now #idk it felt like some ppl would treat me weird because they thought i kinned mr fair but i was like. uh no...#the vibes were off when i was doing a meme where it was like 'is (name) more a dog name or a human name?'#whatever that site was where it told you if more people were named a specific name or more dogs were named if #and i put in zack because that's what i was going by & then everyone who followed me for my art was like #'puppy zack real...' or some variation about mr fair and i was scratching my ass cus im like.... it wasnt intended to be about him #anyway im pretty sure a while after that i stopped going by it when more ppl followed me for my ZC art #mimi is nice tho its cutesy but my goal in life is to be a hairy man

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aalghul · 20 hours ago

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not to be biased but the talia fans on comic twt are the only normal people. everyone else posts screenshots of tiktoks all day to get angry at and fights over powerscaling/popularity etc. but talia fans on there just mind there business until it comes to racism re: al ghuls

#and im not totally biased bc i dont participate in comictwt whatsoever. talia just happens to have fans who arent addicted to being losers #like they were on there talking about ra's and talia being constantly described using outright or implicitly negative wording while the #(mostly/functionally) white part of his family who get unanimously positive descriptors.#and that was crazy to me bc it's very obvious to notice but most ppl ive seen disagree anyway bc their minds shut off over racism.#the rest of comictwt i believe is upset abt tom king's ww (justified) and the few others i saw are in fact just posting tiktok screenshots #to get upset over. and it's always a ss of the same type of annoyance too. youd think theyd get bored as a collective but no. and then there #was some noise abt whether comics are or arent easy to get into and no you cant say there's nuance or it depends #either u think it's as simple as picking up a manga or u think it's so complicated no one should ever try #lord free me from dctwt i dont even follow anyone from it (except like 2 mutuals)

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gifti3 · 1 month ago

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gabriel and mc, enemies to lovers would have been so good tho

#its not gonna happen ever #like ever #but i saw some ppl cooking earlier this year with gabe and mc (where mc turns out to be god)#and omg #OMG #the squandered potential for it in the game makes me kinda sad lol #ik there was that card with him tied up #but i mean like actual feelings developing #also i dont have that card and never will lol #the only way it could happen properly too would be if mc turned out to be god (as stated above) or gabe fell and became a demon like luci #tho i still want him to have that stuck up attitude he has #but now hes forced to bring himself “down to their level” since hes no longer an angel if that makes sense #anyways yea that was in my head today #ive been very talkative today...#follow for more random opinions about whatever things i play #alSO i dont think this would be feesible with the type of mc we have (well at least with the fallen gabriel)#like we need an mc who is like kind of charming for it to work right imo #whb #whb gabriel #ALSO i just think gabriel is really gorgeous and really would have loved proper romance with him and then h scene obviously lol

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toytulini · 7 months ago

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me, stupidly and weirdly resistant to listening to audio books vs reading a physical book for no real reason: man i wish there was a way to like, read a book while i crochet like i do with tv shows and movies and podcasts

#toy txt post #my reasons are irrational you dont need to try to talk me into it. i KNOW #its very silly of me #imagine how much reading i could get done. but alas. Feels Bad #even listening to a more. uh. Story type podcast or fiction like nightvale was a bit difficult to start for me. i like nightvale now i #listened. but i worry that is clocking in my brain as an Exception 😔 maybe it would be easier if i tried some nonfiction books? scary #i also struggle with single host podcasts apparently even tho im also ehhhh on the kind where the structure is the host Interviewing a #different person everytime? maybe it would be okay with a nonfiction audiobook tho cos it would be getting read by a narrator and not sound #so much like a guy ranting into a mic which makes me feel a little insane. altho propaganda doesnt necessarily always sound like a guy #ranting into a mic so idk. i could probably make it through if i can find a nice book about like. parasitic worms. i could tolerate #feeling like im falling into sigma male affirmations videos for worms i think. wormffirmations are allowed #*to clarify i dont listen to those but listening to better offline makes me feel like im morphing into the kinda guy who does and i hate it #which feels unfair cos he is RIGHT and the podcast is good but i need there to be like a cohost there to break the tension of the Ranting #sometimes he has guests on? but its not quite the same #i think the format i like best is either like 2 or 3 regular cohosts discussing things within a specific topic #OR. 1 host whos like infodumping to the other host who knows nothing about the subject. OR. 2 hosts info dumping to each other about #different aspects of the subject. OR. 1 host who brings on fun guests to infodump to them about a subject. and then obviously the subject #needs to intrigue me. ex. sawbones well theres your problem (I HATE THAT THIS ONE IS BEST EXPERIENCED ON YOUTUBE😭 I WANT THEM TO JUST DUMP #ALL THE SLIDES INTO A BIG BLOG POST SOMEWHERE AND I CAN CHECK IN AND FOLLOW ALONG THAT WAY WITHOUT HAVING TO HAVE MY PHONE SCREEN ON THE #WHOLE TIME!!!!!!!!! but. im listening for free so its unreasonable to demand more of them BUT ALSO I FEEL LIKE JUST COPYPASTING ALL OF THE #SLIDES INTO A BIG BLOG POST ISNT THAT MUCH MORE EFFORT THAN EDITING A WHOLE YOUTUBE VIDEO? WAAAAAH. THEY DONT NEED TO BE TIMESTAMPED OR #ANYTHING JUST THROW EM IN ILL FIGURE IT OUTTTTTT #anyway. also more than 3 hosts is really pushing my ability to keep track of voices.#anyway: sawbones wtyp tpwky behind the bastards scam goddess #(which is true crime adjacent but focuses mainly on scams and isnt copaganda and laci is funny and cool)#common descent pod completely arbortrary maintenance phase if books could kill #deep sea podcast has more bringing ppl in to interview them about shit than i personally enjoy but i put up with it cos i do like the hosts #and the subject

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everylastbird · 3 months ago

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The hate for Billy Maximoff on twitter is insane lmao. Like, Agatha herself is a manipulator and murderer, I think she can handle an overpowered teen lashing out for a few minutes

#and i like her character for the record! but if youre gonna stan a morally dubious character have some perspective i beg of you #he wouldnt have even killed her! she would have been banished ie made to rejoin her son in the afterlife #also ngl pretty uncomfortable with the way ppl are starting to toss twink around like an insult around him all the time #like...really dont enjoy seeing comments about how he is a twink followed by 'who deserves to die'#anyway billy maximoff get behind me #i have been waiting for so many years to see you in LA and ppl lashing out about a child not being nice to their former kidnapper #100% of the time arent going to ruin that for me #spoilers #agatha all along spoilers

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lowpawly · 6 months ago

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I feel like csm pt 2 is gonna be twice as long as pt 1 and also nonsense and insane. I'm saying this because we are 20 chapters away from reaching the length of pt 1 and I cannot see it wrapping up anytime soon. remember the second chainsaw man plot point

#txt #either fujimoto is making things up as he goes along or he is having the time of his life #csm #thank u to ppl who followed me for su and now watch me talk about manga you dont read

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pickled-flowers · 3 months ago

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Every time I go to a party I'm reminded that it's not that I can't interact with people, it's just not a desire I have :(

#i always feel so guilty when ppl i just met are like wow u seem so cool! because im really not!#im good at masking and making people feel comfortable! its got nothing to do with my personality unfortunately #no version of me is as true as who i am by myself and idk i feel like a fraud for being nice?#ive had many people be disappointed when i just. dont want to hang out #im not a 1 on 1 person i hate being alone with someone #even with people i dearly cherish i just cant find myself comfortable when others are around #and its not about them either i think im just not compatible with social interactions #im not really looking for advice btw like this is just something im coming to terms with #i love people i truly do i just cannot exist properly around them #anyways fat bear supper was really nice :')#the mashed potatoes??? they were so fuckjng good like bro you dont understand #and shoutout to the ppl who made a salmon lasagna that was so good as well #friends played a beautiful beautiful song they made (if they end up putting it on spotify ill share it here its about a cow named Margot)#anyways i guess soft reminder you never know what people are struggling with regardless of how functioning they appear #(mashed potatoes recipe is as follow: unpeeled potatoes #+whole milk+butter+rosemary+thyme thats it thank u)

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