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Last year marked the inception of my book project centered on the pivotal role of communication within relationships. Over the course of my three-year immersion in communication studies, I encountered various theories and methodologies aimed at enhancing interpersonal connections. Experimenting with each theory in a series of short-lived relationships, I witnessed firsthand their varying degrees of success.
Unbeknownst to my dates, each encounter served as a trial ground, revealing insights into the complexities of human interaction. While some theories proved remarkably effective, others were inconsistent. Inevitably, amidst the experimentation, I found myself emotionally entangled in certain instances, experiencing heartbreak and navigating toxic situationships. It became evident that my intellectual pursuits often outpaced my emotional readiness. However, amidst these trials, I encountered a remarkable individual who proved to be a true blessing. It was then that I resolved to conclude my experimental phase and pursue genuine connection. My forthcoming book will document the plethora of trials and tribulations encountered, culminating in a synthesis of what truly constitutes effective communication in relationships.
#original post#writing a book#effective communication#relationships#spilled ink#spilled thoughts#spilled in writing#new beginnings#spilled words#love#writerscommunity#writers on tumblr#relationship#spilled writing#experience#trials and tribulations#experimentation#experimental#practice#communication#love and communication
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well 🧍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.
#if youre feeling upset or disillusioned i am right there with you#but now more than ever#i want to remind you of the importance of community#check in on your friends#advocate for your friends#protect your friends#protect your community and who you love and care about#and we will get through this#my dms and inbox are always open#even if you just want to vent#im also so sad right now but we have to be strong and stick together right now#(also if youre not american pls understand this affects us all and to not invalidate the feelings of americans)
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Katniss is such an unreliable narrator. She says "Then something unexpected happens. At least, I don't expect it because I don't think of District 12 as a place that cares about me" girl you deliver strawberries to the Mayor, you hunt and trade for the district, when you fell at Prim being chosen someone caught you, when you went to Prim people parted for you, when you volunteered EVERYONE stopped. Idk how to tell you but I think you're a pillar of the community.
#katniss everdeen#the hunger games trilogy#the hunger games#primrose everdeen#hunger games#batcavescolony reads the hunger games#suzanne collins#'now it seems i have become someone precious' NOW? GIRL BFFR you're their hunter girl#and this isn't negative just bffr girl#your WHOLE DISTRICT did the three finger salute that you yourself says means admiration thanks and goodbye to someone you love and on top is#old a rarely used. your WHOLE DISTRICT decided in that moment that they needed to bring back this sign of respect for YOU#...................................................................#idk why some people are thinking i mean this as negative i don't she is unreliable but its not intentional. like when Peeta heart stoped in#CF she doesn't know what Finnick is doing at first cus she doesn't know off the top of her head what cpr is. she also thinks Peeta after the#reaping is acting for the cameras. he isnt we dind out later his mom basically told him Katniss was gonna win and he would die. obviously#shes not doing it on purpose shes just for lack of better words uneducated? as in she doesn't know everything shes not omnipotent#so when Plutarch (? second games guy) shows her his mokingjay hiden watch shes like *wtf that's weird?* then the people traveling to#district 13 show her the mockingjay cookie and explains it and she then goes on the difference between his watch and their cookie#and why does eveyone act as if district 12 is as bad as the capital? they CANT help Katniss and Prim in the way you want. they cant give#them food. none of them have any! and im not putting iton Katniss but they hid they needed food so they could stay together. it sounds like#some of you are in this our world mentally of what people do after a loved one dies (brings food constantly checks on them etc) district 12#cant do that. they dont have food and they're all suffering. you cant give someone food when you have none to give. then theirs the fact#that peeta DID help. Peeta buring the bread and tossing some to her then taking a beating from his mom is a HUGE thing in the books.#he used his resources to help her like you all said someone should.#district 12 DID (rip) care about Katniss before the hunger games. why do you think she was allowed to hunt? or how her trades were good#these are the little ways 12 can shows Katniss they love her. but again Katniss doesn't see this and YES its because she had ptsd before the#hunger games as well. i swear some of you make it seem like d12 was all living a life of luxury and glaring down at Katniss.#other things that show Katniss is in hight standing with at least her people of d12 is her dad was known enough through d12 for peeta dad to#comment on his singing along with his commenting on her mom. also her mom is a healer in the community. yeah her parents arnt the top but#of d12 but they are/were definitely high staning in the Seam.
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#i’ve been thinking abt that cringe post#i think the latent feelings behind ‘cringe’ are shame and sometimes envy/bitterness#same vibes as when six year olds say ‘those toys are for babies’ if they’ve been shamed for their age by older kids#anyway. i think part of the healing process is realizing that shame puts you at war with yourself bc part of yourself is a social being!#and that part of you wants community and acceptance (maybe love). shame is the absence of acceptance#unlearning shame means learning self-love and gaining the confidence to find your people#jerma#cw jerma#(someone asked me to tag lol)
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quick reminder that my own gay ass genuinely supports the hell outta each and every one of you. regardless if i know you or not, im happy to be living in this shithole of a life in the same world with you.
and im proud of you, i know in my heart just how beautiful, amazing, talented, smart, and worthy you are and i hope you can see that too🏳️🌈🌈
#lgbt pride#lgbtq community#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtqi community#pride#gay#lesbian#bi#pansexual#asexual#arosexual#nonbinary#transgender#genderfluid#love#love is love
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#intimacy#intimate#relationship#couple#love#relationship goals#couple goals#romantic#cuddles#curvy body#coulpe aesthetic#romantic couple#cute couple#couple aesthetic#could be us#us#when us#cuddling#cnc k!nk#cnc free use#rough cnc#k!nk#k!nk community#bd/sm community#bd/sm kink#bd/sm daddy
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backshots in front of a mirror, asking "who's that pretty girl" while I make you watch 🫠
#txt#love#text post#cnc k!nk#couple#bd/sm blog#bd/sm community#bd/sm daddy#cnc free use#choco typing
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On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you want to suck my girl cock? 🥵
Can pm me on my telegram channel
@valqueen65
#mtf trans#trans artist#trans beauty#trans community#trans cult#trans man#trans rights#transgende#transparent#transsexual#trans#transgender#trans nsft#trans pride#trans woman#transgirl#transisbeautiful#transmasc#transfem#so hot and sexy#oldermen#same sex love#daddy's good girl
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kees the feesh 🧜🏽♀️(siren au is consuming my brain!)
#ichiro's doodles#bg3#lae'zel#shadowheart#shadowzel#ty to the shadzel community for lovin on this au rn 🙈💕💕💕#y'all are fueling me! much love!!#okay off topic but like the water lookin like mountain dew baja blast als;dkfjlaskj but its also my fave color lowkey#and any j&a stream enjoyer's out there? lol kees the feesh is for y'all#siren au
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there is a love in which i will always know you, just incase you forget.
love elizabeth s.
#original poem#original quote#poetry#writeblr#love elizabeth s#my poem#short poem#quotes#books#dark acadamia quotes#love poems#love poem#love quote#love#love letter#romance#poem#poems and poetry#daily poem#word gasm#dark academia quotes#aesthetic#dead poets society#poetblr#writers community#writers of tumblr#poets on tumblr#writers on tumblr
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DONT BE AFRAID TO COMMENT ON OLD FICS DONT BE AFRAID TO COMMENT ON FICS IN A FANDOM THE AUTHOR MAY NO LONGER BE ACTIVE IN. IF THE STORY IS STILL UP LET THEM KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS IT MIGHT JUST BE THE REMINDER THAT MAKES THEIR DAY.
SINCERELY SOMEONE WHO JUST GOT A REPLY THAT MADE ME WANNA MAKE THIS POST
#reject modern fast fashion fandom culture#comment on shit from 2012 to scare and or delight the author#anytime I see ppl reading my haikyuu fics I wanna cry with happiness#being reminded of fics and then looking and realizing I still love them is a true gift#COMMUNITY BITCHES THIS IS WHAT THAT IS
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Video Timestamps:
0:00 - 0:05 | Sunrise over a peaceful mountain landscape Text on Screen: "Is Love a Conscious Decision?"
0:06 - 0:12 | Slow-motion waves gently hitting a shore Voiceover: "Many think love is just a feeling, something we fall into. But what if love is actually a choice?"
0:13 - 0:18 | Couple walking together, holding hands, with another aging couple still walking hand-in-hand Voiceover: "Psychologist Erich Fromm says love is a skill—a decision to connect deeply with others."
0:19 - 0:25 | Soft focus on a couple sitting together at sunset Voiceover: "Love isn’t about possession. It’s about nurturing respect and shared interests, growing together in many aspects."
0:26 - 0:35 | Close-up of flowers swaying gently in the breeze Voiceover: "By choosing love, we cultivate meaningful, lasting relationships that thrive with consistent care—nurtured through deep connection, open communication, and the willingness to grow beyond our imperfections."
0:36 - 0:45 | Dreamy clouds passing over a calm lake Voiceover: "So, is love a choice? What do you think?" Text on Screen: "Is love a choice? What do you think?"
YouTube Keywords:
Erich Fromm
Love as a choice
The Art of Loving
Conscious love
Nurturing relationships
Personal growth in relationships
Relationship psychology
Meaningful relationships
Love and communication
Relationship advice
#Love as a choice#The Art of Loving#Conscious love#Nurturing relationships#Personal growth in relationships#Relationship psychology#Meaningful relationships#Love and communication#Relationship advice
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To be seen is not to be loved. But to be loved is to be seen and understood completely.
#poetry#writeblr#writers and poets#writerscommunity#spilled poetry#spilled thoughts#spilled ink#writers on tumblr#writing#original poem#original poetry#poem#poets on tumblr#poetryblr#tumblr writers#original writing#for writers#inspiring quotes#inspiring words#love quotes#quoteoftheday#life quotes#quotes#beautiful quote#poems on tumblr#tumblr writing community#recognizingthevoiceless#bitsofstarglow#poetryslutsreloaded#writer stuff
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Two types of people on Queering the map:
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When Bruce gets injected with truth serum
"Who's your favorite"
Everyone looked at Jason.
"Out of the four of us," he clarified. "Who's your favorite?"
He, Dick, Tim, and Damian turned to Bruce curiously.
"Well..."
Bruce proceeded to go on and on for over 3 hours about how he didn't actually have a favorite and how proud he was of all of them, only interrupted when Alfred walked in and Bruce started about how he was the best butler-dad ever.
None of them could honestly say they weren't at least a little teary.
#bruce loves them so much but doesnt communicate it very well#bruce wayne#batfamily#the robins#tim drake#jason todd#dick grayson#damian wayne#alfred pennyworth
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