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Live and work, or rent out, the Egg's Nest. 1896 home and business for sale in High Falls, NY has 5bds, 7ba, 7,305 sq ft, $995k.
Look at how cozy the bar is.
This is so nice.
Huge, fully equipped commercial kitchen.
Dining al fresco.
Residence entrance.
This is pretty, it's been renovated and modernized.
Cute black & white kitchen.
Main entrance to the home.
This is lovely. I like the corner fireplace.
They incorporated nice architectural salvage elements.
Attention to details- beamed ceilings in most of the rooms.
What an interesting bedroom.
Upper floor. This home is so unusual.
Very cute family room.
What a lovely terrace.
Look at this sun porch.
Very nice private yard.
.35 acre lot.
https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/1300-State-Route-213-High-Falls-NY-12440/2056437690_zpid/?
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Why do so many people seem to think sonic has a HOUSE. What do you mean. I'm so sorry he doesn't even own things. He doesn't even really live with Tails
#and you know i dont ship him but i can see potential of some ships but like#dont put them in a house??#this is why most sonic ships wouldn't work unless they're fine with rarely seeing each other#sonic doesn't stick around for long even with his friends he's out theree#yeas they are close and also hes there for 2 days max then he gone#im sorry its just that sonic living in a HOUSE and owning PROPERTY is just not it for me lmfao i just wanted to say it#this bitch owns a pair of shoes and thats that
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It's the penultimate episode, I've got some words for P'Dome that he'll never get to hear but most importantly I'm here to congratulate Peach and Home on not breaking up this episode. So let's get to it!
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We begin with Home being sad looking at their ad while thinking about his gramps trying to teach him the meaning of "home"
But while Pangpang puts it plainly into words
Home is apparently so dense that he still hasn't figured it out
We've been seeing quite clearly, and Home seems to be aware on a subconcious level at least, that Peach and the rest of the squad have become his home. But well, Home the man, clearly put all his character points into cuteness leaving none for intelligence so I guess we'll have to wait for the last (TT) episode for him to finally get it.
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Peach has gotten to know Home very well. So of course he can tell that there's something up with his platonic? boyfriend. (on the first watch i thought this was him fishing for "Home is so sad that you're leaving"-validation)
He's also totally definitely not at all worried about Home. I'd say acting isn't Peach's strong suit but he did quite well with the fuckery they put on so I guess it's a case of the old can't-lie-when-it-comes-to-love.
Despite his utter non-worry he still delegates Home-care to Kan which kind of implies that he sees it as his job to take care of him. (and shows how much he is worried and cares about Home but that's not really news at this point)
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Even Kan is teasing them about their relationship now.
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Sure, their fight turned out to be somewhat staged to distract evil lawyer but the sentiments are nontheless quite real. The familiar territory of fighting allows them to finally speak out their feelings about what happened at the end of last episode. And, surprise, surprise, both are hurt by the idea of being left by the other, of ultimately not meaning that much to each other. (as I said, abandonment trauma rearing its ugly head) At this point, regardless of their relationship status maybe they should just get married so they'll finally feel some security in their importance to each other. (this is almost definitely not a good solution to this sort of problem irl, of course)
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It's a good thing they've been perfecting their nonverbal communication over the course of the show. It comes in quite handy in situations like this.
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Surrounded by the betrayal from his blood family, Home knows there's someone he can always trust.
Peach. And the rest of the gang. His real family. (+ the friends they made along the way)
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This scene was honestly the cutest shit. The way he goes from his legs raised in happiness, to lowerd in disappointment, to swinging with giddieness. The way he's hiding under his duvet to secretly talk to his boyfriend on the phone. Ridiculously cute. This man is so in love. And he shows it like a stereotypical 12 y/o girl.
And Peach isn't any better with his arms on display and that fondness in his face.
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Peach really doesn't want Home to go back to America.
But while he's not getting that reassurance for now (I can't bring myself to believe he'll actually leave. Not after everything, not when the reason for his exile has been resolved, not when he's finally found the meaning of "home" so his grandpa would have allowed him to come back, anyway. And how ironic btw, that he had to come home first and face the consequences of his actions, in order to find his meaning of "home"), at least he gets some surprisingly clear real-talk on Home's feelings.
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Peach is smelling the bs on uncle and he's not looking to become a widower. He already watched Home die once, he's really not inclined to repeat that experience.
Unfortunately he let's Home convince him it'll be fine (and unfortunately Home has retained a lot of that naivete that he displayed when he first met Kan) so he's left behind to worry about Home's safety.
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This plan from the uncle is absolutely evil. To not only kill his nephew but make people, possibly even Home himself, believe that Peach is the one who killed him? To destroy his nephew's most important person in the process, not only worldly by framing him for murder, but also spiritually by having someone (Home!) die from his cooking? I'm sure to Kid this was mostly a matter of hitting two flies with one stone but whether intentional or not this plan is clearly designed for maximum cruelty. And it's made even more cruel by the love and trust Home and Peach clearly have for each other, plain for everyone, even the evil uncle, to see. But he doesn't even grant Home the knowledge of being loved at the point of his death.
Stop trying to bury our gays you pos uncle!
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As a palate cleanser, please enjoy this image of the whole happy family. Including the dads, their daughter + her wife, and ... Suradech!
Lesbian Corner
Kan has been spending so much time with Pangpang that she's internalising her speech patterns.
And THIS is her reaction when Peach calls her out on it. Someone's in luuurve!
#every week i feel like i have hardly anything to say#and then i can barely fit all my screenshots into the post#also suradech: i'm sorry i ever doubted you. i hope you'll be ok next week#it's fine. after they've dealt with kid and grandpa they can all move to chiang mai together#after all peach's new appartment has two bedrooms. so pangpang can finally have her girlpower room with kan#and home can fulfill his pre even liking him dream of sharing a bed with peach#and i guess suradech can camp in the living room? maybe they've even got a pull-out sofa#it works i promise#peaceful property#peaceful property the series#also from the moment kid rolled out his teary confession i was (silently) screaming at peach to not let that man get in stabbing reach to#home and later to trust his instincts and go save home but alas. p'dome wants us all to get stress ulcers it seems
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vector portrait for digital imaging class of RGB!! hey go read The Property of Hate if you haven’t already btw it’s an amazing comic by @modmad that i’ve been hotglued to since my junior year of high school.
big thank you to mod for giving their permission/blessing to wrestle with this horrible tv bastard in adobe illustrator for the express purpose of shilling him and this comic to my unsuspecting class <3
(edit: god okay pls click for fullscreen. hogy shit)
#tpoh#the property of hate#rgb#modmad#there’s a lot more i was planning to do w this but bleeeegggggjhhhh#i don’t own a laptop so i have to do all my hw for this class in the library + i live off-campus + i had office hours that day#7 hours in the library fighting with adobe illustrator on 5 hours of sleep and no food in my body said No You’re Done Now Actually#i have another project coming up that uses this one in it so i’m gonna get to make a diptych of this motherfucker next >:3#tpoh’s been eating my brain again as of late holy hell the hyperfixation clobbered me#what the fuck is my art tag. do i even have an art tag#my art#nox art#there. perfectly serviceable >:p#btw the working file name for this was actually horribletvbastard.ai so . now you know that i guess#yes the halo effect is intentional. no i don’t no how to use adobe illustrate. further questions may be taken outside#anyway THANKS MOD I LOVE YOUR BOY AND YOUR COMIC AND YOUR ART <33333
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so a Yellowjackets AU where mari says something to get herself kicked out of the cabin, and she dies of exposure and gets eaten at the bachanalian banquet instead of Jackie, who LIVES, who's there at Shauna's side when she goes into labor, stroking her hair and letting Shauna squeeze her hand hard enough to sprain her fingers, who keeps Shauna calm enough she has a (comparatively!!!!!!) easier delivery, who is the reason the(ir) baby lives.
who finally, after months of feeling adrift and useless because she’s not a hunter or a butcher or a prophet or a captain (anymore) finds her purpose in the wilderness. who painstaking sews patchwork baby onesies and cloth diapers from the girls' spare clothes (Offerings, not donations). who makes a baby sling from animal pelts and backpack straps. who makes a rattle from sticks and pinecones and some light blue pebbles Jackie found by the lake one day and saved. who makes sure the cabin stays warm and clean for Luke Dylan (from 90210--they couldn't decide whether to go with the actor or the character).
who builds them another shelter from blankets and animal hides after the cabin burns down. who keeps shauna and their baby warm through that first terrible winter and the one that followed.
and one day in 1998, Canadian forest rangers happen upon that American high school soccer team that went missing 2 years back. they find a group of starving teens and a baby, a little over a year old, two of the girls wrapped around him--and each other
and when the rescue team tries to separate them the one with tangled, golden brown hair bears her teeth and Growls
#yellowjackets#shaunajackie#yellowjackets au#premise up for adoption bc Im too busy to do anything more with this#shauna shipman#jackie taylor#in my head: they go back and live at jackie's house#it's bigger + Jackie's family has the $$ to keep reporters off their property so the girls are safer there#when it’s discovered that jeff is the father. jeff--who was raised right--starts going to school part time#while working full time at the furniture store#soon becoming assistant manager#jackie's parents BEG her to go to rutgers. not to give up her future for a baby that's not even hers#that belongs to the bf and bff who BETRAYED her no less#(jackie stops talking to them for a month. not for bringing up the cheating thing)#(for daring to say that LD isnt hers' too)#jackie does eventually go to Rutgers though#but not bc her mom promises to stop giving shauna a hard time#she decides to go when Shauna finally tells her about applying to Brown and getting her acceptance letter days before they left#they never would've been roommates at Rutgers. she isn't leaving Shauna behind. she never has#shauna makes a joke about having a hot meal ready every day when jackie comes home#jeff saves up enough money for a dowm payment for a nice house with a lawn and a yard#for him shauna&jackie and the baby--BECAUSE HE WAS RAISED RIGHT#he and jackie build a backuard playset for Luke (Dylan's his middle name. It's also Jeffs mothers maiden name it all worked out)#yes sometimes they have threesomes#no Randy. Jeff's NOT going to talk about it w you#(he was raised right!!!!!)#a few years down the line Shauna gets pregnant again#all 3 of their parents' heads tilt to the side#but they keep it amongs themselves so they can keep seeing Luke and baby Callie#little house in the wilderness au
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I hate this grandfather and I hate that they just skip over the story of what happened between him and Somkid besides the little POV we saw of them when he was young and I hate that everything gets treated as a joke no matter how serious it is and I hate the curse is that he was a shitty dad who made his younger son feel so unwanted he murdered his father and tried to murder his nephew and that's all we got?
It's so pointless! And so out of step and tune with the way the rest of the show has treated these moments of grief and realization...
Honestly, the grandfather has just always felt out of place int he show to me. He just doesn't fit in with everyone else or the themes of the show and It feels like a lot of was lost in making him so carefree and silly.
I mean, the man literally left his son the least of everything and didn't ever both to tell him that and just gave up on telling him anything when he was still a kid!?
And he had all this pride for Somkid and never showed him any of it and never let him know a single bit and he died and the curse still isn't 'grandpa fucking sucked'?
I mean, actually, I guess the curse is 'grandpa fucking sucked' because if he had stopped playing games for literally five seconds and managed to talk to his son he might, you know, still be alive!?! And not have left behind a completely shattered and broken family that tried to murder each other repeatedly!?!?
Fucking curse, the curse is not telling you child you love them when you have the chance and it's a shitty curse that could have easily been broken but instead was treated like a joke to the end and that was it and well, it's over.
At least there was found friendship and a lot of love in the rest of the show.
#peaceful property#peaceful property the series#peaceful property series#haunted house on sale#that ending just made me sad for somkid#who was forced to live a life where he never felt loved or wanted#because his father was so absolutely unwilling to work on their connection#or explain things#and was more interested in this game than in their relationship as a family#the curse really was him all along#but also yeah all the class commentary that could have been just flew right out the window
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I am so unbelievably pissed off. FUCK HOAs
Oh, my trash/recycling bin can't be visible except on pickup day? Ok whatever fine I hate you but I can deal with this
Weekly inspections?????? FU FU FU FU FU
SECOND NOTICE ALSO WE'RE CHARGING YOU MONEY TO SEND YOU CERTIFIED MAIL OF THIS TOTALLY LEGIT TOTALLY SECOND NOTICE OF WHAT IS ACTUALLY A VIOLATION cue me: checks notes. Hmm. My recycling bin was. on the curb. on recycling pickup day. You know. The day it has to be out. The day it is motherfucking ALLOWED TO BE FUCKING OUT AND VISIBLE.
so. 1) not a violation
I have sent them the trash AND recycling pickup schedules, which are DIFFERENT, btw
I have disputed the fact of the violation
I have disputed the linking of this "violation" to a previous violation MONTHS AGO--their "first notice" in this case was a "Courtesy Notice" LITERALLY 5 MONTHS AGO and they've done so many inspections since then and my bin CLEARLY WASN'T OUT IN THOSE INTERVENING MONTHS so WTMFH
So I am posting like a crazy person here instead of sending the absolutely deranged email I almost sent (I did send a slightly less deranged version with the disputes, and requesting a hearing)
OMG. It has been. Less than one hour since I learned this fun fun news. My bin was out YESTERDAY, y'all. YESTERDAY. I am going to blow a gasket
#it's a relatively privileged problem to have (omg i have a home truly i am grateful) but it's still a goddamned problem and i'm allowed#to fucking complain about it#in case it needs to be said#*rolling my eyes*#i advocate for free/actually affordable housing for everyone who needs it because we ALL deserve a safe secure stable home#whatever type of home that may be#it is absolutely goddamned ridiculous that megacorps can buy all the housing#rent it out at extortionate rates and evict people willy nilly#and we're talking about a “housing crisis” and not a “STOP LETTING CORPORATIONS AND BILLIONAIRES HOARD ALL THE HOUSING” crisis#goddamn.#ha elect me president (ahaha don't do this i am not a good public speaker) and I'll push congress to pass some really neat legislation#hey be more direct: elect me to congress (ahaha don't do this) and i'll WRITE some goddamn nifty legislation and yell about it as long and#as loud as i can until people start to just fucking say yes to make me shut the fuck up#(i know that's not how it works. again. don't actually elect me to a government position)#exemplia gratis:#No individual person shall own more than 6 homes UNLESS they pay a Housing Market Shrinkage Fee for removing viable housing from the market#why 6 and not 2? 2 is a lot! it's excessive! but having A vacation home shouldn't be a crime. Having 5 vacation homes is ridiculous and#awful and whatever but it's not likely to be the source of all our greatest “housing shortage” problems. no. I'm aiming for the absolutely#monstrously greedy and egregious motherfuckers who---ok#hang on. how many homes does the average min and max homeowner own? I would like to see data on that. but anyway#the next part of the legislation:#Homes owned >6 shall be charged X% Housing Market Shrinkage Fee UNLESS they are rented for affordable (15% or less than renter net income)#housing and are actively occupied by said renters. Rented out and charging more than 15% of renter's net? still gotta pay up.#EMPTY housing >6 shall be subject to an additional Y% Housing Market Shrinkage Fee (tax? should I call it a tax?) which increases with ever#month that the housing goes unoccupied. no one living in it? sell it rent it or pay the fuck up. and still pay the fuck up if you rent it#for way too goddamn much money#but like. less. we only REALLY hate you if you sit on empty houses that you don't even let anyone use#ok that's individuals. now onto BUSINESSES#ok so immediately it gets a little complicated cuz like presumably there's rental management businesses that don't own the rental propertie#that they manage BUT there are also companies that just outright own a shitfuckton of housing and THIS is the truly egregious monstrous sid
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the only reason anyone would willingly choose to live in sunnydale is that the property value is really low. which begs the question, why the fuck is cordelia living there? isn't her family supposed to be rich or something? i know cordelia's dad was committing tax fraud, but if you're going to get rich by stealing from the government you might as well use the money to not live on a hellmouth.
#something something the property value is low which is why a single mother who works at an art gallery can afford to buy *that* house#then again i think hank is a successful businessman of some sort and he was probably paying alimony and child support#but still it's a big ass house#and that's probably a big reason why joyce chose sunnydale beyond destiny or whatever#but literally why would rich people live there#cordelia chase#btvs#buffy the vampire slayer
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𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝒶 𝒷𝒶𝓉𝒽 𝒸𝓊𝓅.
𝒾 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝒶 𝒷𝒶𝓉𝒽 𝓈𝒽𝑒𝓁𝓁…
𝓌𝑒 𝒶𝓇𝑒 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓈𝒶𝓂𝑒.
#/j /silly#jokes aside i highly recommend working with seashells. they have such gentle and beautiful energy#each type even has their own properties just like crystals!#sea witch#siren witch#witchblr#witchcraft#magick#water witch#i want to live in the ocean
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the batman's grave #1
[ID: Bruce Wayne and Alfred Pennyworth talking in a den. Alfred is sitting on the couch as Bruce is starting to enter a room from behind a bookcase. He announces, “I have to get to work. That unexplained death.” Alfred groans, “Here we go again. Can't you just get into the head of the killer, like those detectives on television? Seems much easier.” Bruce (dramatically) replies, “I can't think like a killer, Alfred. I can only think like a victim.” Alfred starts to pour himself another glass of whiskey as he stares at Bruce. He starkly tells him, “You immerse yourself in the dead, Master Bruce. And you come back each time a little less alive. The only thing your grave is missing is a date.” Bruce continues to walk away. END ID]
#i love when they're so bitchy to each other <33 shows they care#if you dont care its easier to watch someone work themselves into an early grave#but alfred who started this comic in cleaning thomas & martha's grave on the wayne property#and the fact that bruce already literally has a tombstone waiting for him right next to them...#being a bit of an ass shows he cares <3#also bruce whos on the way to fully immerse himself in the death and ‘live out’ their death to solve it#‘killing himself’ over and over to bring justice to the victim in a way he wont allow for himself <3#still an awful comic wouldn't recommend at all#c: the batman's grave | i: 1#crypt's panels#bruce wayne#alfred pennyworth#alfred & bruce
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Here's an interesting property- The Henderson Castle is an 1895 Victorian in Kalamazoo, MI. 14bds, 16ba, $4.998M. The Henderson Castle hosts weddings, events, corporate retreats, group dining, murder mystery dinners, haunted history tours, bachelor/bachelorette weekends, family reunions, cooking classes, wine tastings and much more. It's turn-key, so it must come fully furnished.
Look at this gorgeous original entrance foyer.
Wow, huge entrance hall. Look at the original millwork. It's magnificent, the ceilings, moldings, stairs.
There are many dining rooms. The description says that it's ready to make money the first day, for the new owners, so I guess the staff comes with it.
Look at the chef that conveys.
Wow, they're leaving that statuary?
Several dining rooms.
The bar is beautiful. Look at the ceiling.
They show the pantry but not the kitchen. It looks like a combination of commercial & vintage.
The powder room has a baby changing table.
The antiques are worth millions, alone, if turn-key means they're leaving them.
Beautiful stairs to the 2nd level.
This is amazing.
This bedroom has a table for 2.
The en-suite has Victorian touches. Look at the plumbing on the wall.
A beautiful bedroom. I wonder what's up the stairs.
Gorgeous terrace.
This dining room has a pipe organ.
This was one of the murder mystery dinners.
More gorgeous stairs to maybe a private venue dining room.
Amazing - a hot tub on top of the roof.
And, this is a guest house.
Another hot tub in the garden.
Beautiful grounds on 3.21 acres.
Set up for a wedding. What a place. Look at the silver roof on the tower.
https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/100-Monroe-St-Kalamazoo-MI-49006/303785141_zpid/
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yay a week until my 29th bday ✨🔥😎🔥✨
#about myself#heldig life stories#birthday#it's hard to believe that a year ago in that same period of time i wrote my last will haha#the only reason i didn't make an attempt on myself was my hyper responsibility 'cause i wanted a notary to approve my last will#so my beloved ones would have no problems with my property and my corpse after i die#but i had no time to do so and then my husband led me to psychiatrist and she confirmed i'm having a suicidal depression all my life#after i described my habitual living she was shocked that i managed to go so long without any medication just on my inner will itself#just because i constantly pushed myself forward from 'you need to go everyone counts on you'#but then it was awfully worsened by my long term burnout due to constant work crunches to the point when my inner will became not enough#and i stopped functioning like a normal person completely: not eating not getting up from the bed not wanting anything except disappearing#now i'm on antidepressants and it feels like i'm awake from a living time nightmare#it would have been so much easier if someone gave me antidepressants back then when i was 14 and tried to take my own life for the 1st time#fortunately unsuccessfully#so it will be another happy birthday to me that i wasn't supposed to live haha#don't be like me pls don't ignore yourselves and your condition and instead take care of yourselves dudes <3#go to the doctor if you need to it's neither scary nor shameful - it can literally save your life#hug you all tightly
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i dont wanna go back to work tomorrow i wanna look at penis animations....
#hopefully work wont be too bad this week we'll see#i have a full week off so 9 days including both weekends in a couple weeks so im kinda looking forward to that#wont be able to totally relax obviously cus i dont live on my own yet#but still#maybe i'll actually try to book a property viewing during that time idk
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Whenever people ask for remakes, reboots, re-adaptations and stuff they always defend themselves like "I am a big fan of the original. And it is a film that just NEEDS a remake" or "they are making a live-action adaption, but I just KNOW it is going to be better than the last time they did it!" And every time it turns out it is going to be shit. Newsflash. These things will NEVER if RARELY be as good as the original. Learn to practice satisfaction with a single edition of the story.
#and if you so desperately desire more YOU create content for that!#because no doubt the work of fans will always be better than whatever a bunch of execs only marginally interested in the property will make#seeing this with how some ppl reacted to the percy jackson series#seeing this with the current impressions for the upcoming avatar the last airbender live action series#and now with a megamind sequel#squack
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MiqoMarch Day 27 - Comfort
Tucked away at the farthest end of The Andron was a room larger than the others. Primarily it was intended for storage but, given the circumstances, Krile thought the space would better serve as an apartment of sorts; comfortably shared between three of her dear friends.
Some extra shots of the build for fun!
#miqomarch#miqomarch 2024#ffxiv#g'raha tia#y'shtola rhul#wolgraha#wolshtola#y'shtola x wol#miqo'te#three cheers to krile for being literally the nicest friend#i tried my best to turn arsays apartment in mist into a pseudo old sharlayan type zone#basically arsay doesnt own any property in canon and has been setting up a room for herself in places shes been allowed to#ie the pendants at the crystarium and the rising stones#but since no one really goes to the rising stones its really lonely for arsay to go there at the end of the day#shes been crashing in the annex since endwalker anyways#and now that graha is working for the students pretty much permanently all the more reason to give them an actual living space#with enough room for yshtola too of course!!#and at the farthest point in the building so there's a modicum of privacy :)#i dont think kryle was expecting arsay to reno the place but Arsay had a lot of free time when she was recovering from ultima thul#a lot of it was stuff she transferred over from her room in the rising stones lol but theres new pieces from her endwalker adventures too#WOL posting#Arsay Nun
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aye can i get a fuckin uuuhhhh
break. on my burger
#shit chat#family cw#got sicker than i have been in years my bank closed my checking account on accident work is nightmarishly busy#and my mother is sending strings of long voice memos in the family group chat again#i simply will not be listening to them. at most i'll ask my dad or brother for the sparknotes version#bc her pattern for the better part of this year has been radio silence. no attempt at communication whatsoever#and then BAM like 5-10 min worth of voice memos screaming crying sobbing shaking#I DON'T KNOW WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO FORGIVE ME. I'M CRAWLING ON MY KNEES ON THE DESERT FOR A HUNDRED YEARS REPENTING#WHAT THE FUCK IS FAMILY FOR YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING AND I'M SUFFERING SO MUCH AND I'M ALONE BECAUSE#MY FAMILY ABANDONED ME. I HAVE NO ONE. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID BUT I'M BEGGING. I NEED HELP I NEED MY KIDDOS AROUND ME PLEASE I'M DYING#followed by several minutes of sordid updates on her shitty miserable life#which is tbf pretty shitty & miserable. she's extremely physically disabled & mentally ill#her partner had a severe stroke a couple months ago and is still recovering. they've both been in & out of hospital#neither working. partner's adult son who lives with them is the only income in the household#partner's permanently disabled mother also lives with them. plus 2 large dogs 6 cats and 3 each of chickens & ducks#they're in court suing their landlord bc he's trying to evict them but the property is an uninhabitable shithole to begin with#but like. whenever i do make the mistake of responding to one of her groupchat tantrums#she's just like 'oh you know me im a survivor :) i just miss yous is all :) now that you're here i'm gonna bitch about my life for an hour#and ignore everything you have to say and show active disdain & boredom whenever you tell me anything about yourself or your life :)'#and if i offer help she refuses it#like it's just a bid for attention. expecting unconditional love and absolution and salvation from us bc That's What Families Do#she doesn't actually seem to give a shit about any of us as real people. just this ironclad delusion of unconditional family support#that she frankly has not earned#my brother actually did go visit her in the hospital on thanksgiving. driving 2hrs out of his way to do so#and she was a raging passive aggressive bitch to him and threw the gift he'd brought her back in his face#ma'am i know you're Going Through It but so are the rest of us & frankly you've given me zero reason to want to interact w/ ur caustic ass#plus this is petty but yet another way in which she doesn't listen to me & makes no attempt whatsoever at genuine relationship#i've told her numerous times that responding to groupchat voice memos is hard for me. that i love & miss her#and if she wants to see me or needs help or whatever to please contact me one on one either by call or text#nope. refuses to respond to/initiate individual contact. ONLY traumadumping in the fam chat. TLDR MY MOM IS A DISFUNCTIONAL TOXIC NIGHTMARE.
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