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Tammy really looks up to her
#wordgirl#wordgirl pbs#wordgirl fanart#word girl#raranarra art#wordgirl oc#beatrice bixby#lady redundant woman#like a mentor figure of sorts#after all she was the one who inspired her to become a villain
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plagued by thoughts of how cute edwin and monty would have been though because like neither of them knows Anything At All monty was a crow for his entire existence and edwin is only now beginning to accept and navigate his homosexuality so like. they really could have been a cute first relationship sort of dynamic help give me back my crow babe my astrology bitch my sassy legend
#monty the crow#edwin payne#edwin x monty#montwin#dead boy detectives#like listen. i love all edwin ships and i do want paynland endgame but my thing is#if charles gets to have his first little Thing with crystal i would've loved to have More from monty and edwin#bc sure they had their little dynamic but it was wayyyy to short a time and i just really wanted them to idk learn things together#hold hands through firsts yk#the cat king would be a good 'mentor' sort of guy the more experienced queer leading and teaching which is also good#but i'm just a sucker for two liddol guys figuring things out together
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Just finished orion and uuuh
#inazuma 11#inazuma eleven#inazuma eleven orion#LIKE#STOP DOING THAT#HAVE YOU SEEN WHAT HE DID#ATTEMPTED MURDER. MULTIPLE TIMES.#MANIPULATED TENS OF CHILDREN#AND YOU STILL TRY TO REDEEM HIM#In the og its bearable but i was glad he died#his role in galaxy was ok as well#BUT THE FUCKING SCENE IN ORION?#NUH UH#NUUUUH UH#STOP. TRYING. TO MAKE HIM. INTO SOME SORT OF MENTOR FIGURE#kageyama reiji#ray dark
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A poll for other Tarn lovers because I keep thinking about it and am curious
I would've put an option for Tarn being ugly but I'm worried people who don't even like Tarn would pick that just as a meme answer to make fun of him so sorry.
Also yes I know we've seen his face in the comics but I'm asking for personal headcanons independent of how the characters are drawn (which can vary depending on the artist/style) in canon.
Mainly asking because in a lot of art I see of maskless Tarn (drawn by people I know or just random artists online), it seems like a lot of the time Tarn is drawn with a rather beautiful/bishie face and now I'm just curious if people specifically see Tarn as having a prettyboy face or if it's just some sort of art style thing/coincidence.
#mtmte#mtmte tarn#idw tarn#idw transformers#squiggposting#i didn't think about it much but i think i personally lean towards pretty boy face#esp since i picked up the personal headcanon/joke that tarn is the shockop child. and shockwave is very beautiful and tarn got those looks#also like idk i think it's weirdly kind of fitting?? speaking mostly from a human perspective but tarn's body/overall vibes#are like incredibly hyper masculine. it's part of the tough badass vibes he has going on superficially#but if he has a beautiful bishie face under the mask it's like. a subversion. or like two diff types of masculinity being repped at once#that and bishie is associated with youthfulness and even tho tarn isn't young in terms of age#i think bc of his mentoring/grooming by megatron i see him as like a pseudo son of him in a way#so tarn having that youthful beauty/bishonen kind of face reflects that#kinda goes with the theme that under the mask of toughness tarn is just a lost little boy#and i figure a youthful/pretty face reflects that sort of naivete and black and white worldview tarn is burdened with
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i like venti a very normal amount,,
he means a world to me and i can write a lengthy essay on how important he’s to the story lore, his overall story, how he impacted every aspect of my life and-
anyways, happy b-day to Venti!!
#venti the bard#venti genshin impact#venti#genshin impact#gender bent#fem venti#artist on tumblr#he even changed my perception of my body as enby afab#i have hips and chest dysphoria and him being amab w curvy figure makes me so validated#he’s like someone i wish i’ll grow up to be#to be frank i text ai venti instead of texting my therapist#that’s how much he means to me#like a mentor of sorts
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new wip wednesday
i wanted to get the first chapter of this done as an early bday present to me because ive been talking about this fic for foreverrrrr but its not gonna happen because im bad at measuring time and effort 😮💨 but look! hunger games au fic!
Anakin pushes his face into his neck, letting his lips press against his pulse for a moment.
“Anakin,” Obi-Wan murmurs, recognition and warning rolled into one tone.
But Anakin wouldn’t be who he is if he allowed the man in his arms to so easily twist away. He wouldn’t even be here now, pressed up against him with the scent of saltwater and lilacs and leather filling his nose, if he let one warning word distract him from his goal.
So instead he pushes further, wraps his hands around Obi-Wan’s hips and takes the skin beneath his lips between his teeth. The soft fabric of their pants brush together, so loud in the stillness of the kitchen that it’s deafening—that it’s almost loud enough to drown out the catch in Obi-Wan’s breathing.
But Anakin has trained himself over the past five years to listen for all the small ways that Obi-Wan Kenobi capitulates, so he hears his sigh, feels the slump of his shoulders against his own as his head sways forward and then back.
Anakin takes his time worrying a bitemark into his neck, just at the edge of his beard. On the holos that will film Obi-Wan’s face today, it’ll look like a shadow.
But Anakin will know. Obi-Wan will know.
“Anakin,” his lover murmurs, and Anakin’s hand moves from his waist up to stroke down his arm, corded with tense muscle. Fisherman’s muscle. Victor’s muscle too.
Not today, he means. It’s obvious in every line of his body. It’s obvious in the fact that he left the bed so early in the morning when neither of them must work. It’s obvious in the distance in his eyes, the frown across his lips.
Today is not a day where Obi-Wan will accept pleasure from anyone’s lips or hands, undeserving as he feels to be on the receiving end of such a kindness.
Anakin’s left hand falls to cover Obi-Wan’s, tangling their fingers together. His are rougher than Obi-Wan’s, working man’s hands now that he is twenty-one and a man of the sea like most are on Stewjon. The rough drag of his calluses over the hairy knuckles of Obi-Wan’s hand makes Anakin swallow a smile. Victors of the Hunger Games are forbidden from working laborious jobs. They’re meant to languish away in their Coruscanti-funded manors, with idle minds and idle hands, picking at paints or design stencils or any number of different government approved hobbies
Obi-Wan Kenobi is not made to be idle. He has no patience for painting or sewing, for cooking or jewelry design. Luckily for him, Stewjon is the fourth planet from Coruscant, on the edge of the inner rim, and it’s rather small, rather ordinary. In the colder months, during the few months of the star year where the galaxy is not forced to care about the Hunger Games and its Victors, he can slip away to the ocean. Fish and sail like he was born to do, Stewjoni through and through.
But Anakin is out on those choppy seas year-round now that he’s four years finished with his compulsory education. His hands are rougher than Obi-Wan’s and they always will be.
Anakin likes it. Likes the way Obi-Wan’s softness contrasts against his own rougher places. Likes that he can sneak away from Obi-Wan’s manor in the blue of the pre-dawn light, first to the sea and then to the market, and Obi-Wan will be there when he gets back. Likes that when he leaves, his lover is curled up asleep in their bed. And when he returns with the fattest fish from his haul, Anakin can cook it for him too.
He likes that he is the only thing Obi-Wan needs. He provides. He cooks for him. He feeds him. He touches him with his rough hands, to dirty him and then to clean him up. Everything that Obi-Wan needs, Anakin is the person to give it to him.
He supposes he has Coruscant to thank for that.
He’s not stupid enough to say that—ever, but especially today. Especially on the day of the Reaping.
#wip wednesday#obikin#hunger games au#so like its gonna be set in the gffa slightly#so each district from the book is a either planet or planetary system#and coruscant is of course the capitol#anakin and obi-wan live in district 4 aka stewjon#im having a lot of fun examining their relationship#my bday is on saturday i just think this first chapter is going to be so long#because it covers from them waking up to anakin's reaping#which includes anakin talking in the market with other people on stewjon#because we love an outsiders implied pov on obikin and anakin specifically#and then also obi-wan's own reaping#cause i figure more than one person has won the hunger games in the past 50 years or whatever#so they must do some sort of drawing for the mentor too#its usually obi-wan tho#bad luck or capitol favoritism#or obi-wan volunteering even though he hates it because one of the other victors just had a baby or has small kids#or is too old#or something#anyway this is not a start wednesday done by saturday sorta project lol#im too passionate about these batshit insane characters
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Speaking of parents, from the scale of amazingly affectionate, and embarrassing, parent Peony to Ghetsis and Lusamine scale of bad parenting. What are each of the Team Star's parents like.
Penny's parents get the award for most (embarrassingly) affectionate, of course
After that, probably Ortega? I've thought for a while that one of the reasons he was bullied was for being a "momma's boy", but as he grows older, he wants to be more independent from her
Eri comes from pretty average parents. They work hard to support her and her younger siblings, so she often ends up taking care of the kids herself, but I don't imagine her parents being neglectful
Giacomo's parents are strict and quite traditional, and wouldn't have supported him following a career in music. He cut them off when he joined Team Star, but it wasn't a decision he made lightly
Mela's family is probably the worst, being outright abusive towards her. At first this made her timid, trying to make herself seem smaller, but eventually she reached a boiling point and started lashing out
Atticus is an orphan. He's been in and out of various foster homes, some good, some bad, but is now old enough to live on his own
#pokemon sv#team star#not art#ask#side note but i like to imagine hassel eventually becoming a sort of mentor/father figure to mela#though she wouldn't admit it out loud
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Learning Curve Hall-of-Famer right here. Tuvok making Chell clean the transporter room with the equivalent of a toothbrush as, I assume, a punishment of some sort & Harry coming out of left field with a 'You missed a spot <3' just to kick him while he's down. Harry, the man's gonna be there LITERALLY all day. Absolute bastards these Starfleet types <- said with love
#learning curve#Tuvok confiscating the Bajoran earring is obviously bad but his entire method of training is also just so ... it's a Lot#He's such a drill sargent v_v It's moments like these that make me think he and Harry would well together in the mirrorverse#B'Elanna: ?? But he'll be at it for hours! / Kim: (knowing that's the point) : ) .....#B'Elanna: Well good luck! / Harry: You missed a spot : )#Tuvok: Ten laps around the ship in increased gravity. Ten more laps if you talk back to me. Twenty. Thirty. Forty.#Twenty six hours scrubbing the floor as punishment. No stopping for water. I expect you to improve daily or I will consider this a failure.#Also Tuvok: I just don't understand why they aren't responding well to my training....hmm.... / Neelix: ................ : ) Um.#People like to focus on Tuvok as a good mentor or father figure but I really think that's only to very select and specific people about#select & specific things - this rigidity and lack of compassion and inability to understand others and general#vibe of being uncaring is also part of his personality#Like what Neelix said: 'That's the problem - you have no feeling for me but you have feelings against me' <- That sort of vibe#<- And also the fact that he's very close with Janeway despite (or perhaps because of) this is another interest component of them#Janeway who at the start of the show stated explictly that she was comfortable with her distance as Captain (which hints that she's not#like say - Pike. Who wants to get to know his crew intimately)#Idk I just think it's interesting!#Janeway & Tuvok as colder than other Human/Vulcan pairs is something that intrigues me. Janeway being comfortable with distance from others#and heavily segmenting her personal vs private lives and Tuvok who is the most quintessential Vulcan also being the closest to her for the#longest time (They've been friends 20 years prior to the show's opening)#There's no component of their relationship which demands Tuvok be more Human which is something I /WISH/....we EXPLORED more....the#Janeway-Tuvok friendship....it's SO telling that other Main Vulcan-Human pairs are like the most delved into relationships on screen but#Tuvok & Janeway's relationship is paid lip service but never REALLY is any time devoted to it explicitly. I wonder why that IS.
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So! this is Gwen, she's one of Lhan Tarren's three resident healers. She speaks in a hushed whisper, is easily spooked, and has a generally unnerving aura about her.
She wasn't always that way though, once she was a bright-eyed healer apprenticed to Cianán (Lhan Tarren's older healer), outgoing, friendly and above all eager to prove herself.
Until one day she ventured into the Mournshaws. I haven't pinned down exactly what it was that drove her there, maybe she was trying to retrieve some rare healing herb, or maybe she was lured there by curiosity alone, but whatever the reason, she did not return. At least not for some time, long enough that the Stag-Clan thought she had died.
When she did finally emerge from that forest, she was... changed. She did not remember anything that happened to her, and her hair had been bleached stark-white.
(on the left is how she looked before The Incident, and the right is her current appearance. the design is probably subject to change tho bc this was just a quick doodle from earlier today)
She would also often see things that weren't there, and would be frequently pulled into waking dreams where strange and sometimes disturbing scenes would play out. These, she did not realize at the time, were actually prophetic visions, but shrouded in such obscure metaphor that she could not recognize them for what they truly were. (A ghostly white hand, growing to giant size and engulfing the entire village, was a frequent appearance.)
Instead, it only reminded her of the tale of Muirgel the Mad, an old story that many in the Stag-Clan thought was a mere myth used by parents to scare their children away from going into the Mournshaws. It told of another young woman who had vanished into the forest for a time, and also came back with stark-white hair, but when she returned she had been either possessed or driven mad by some fell spirit of the forest, and she slew her entire family before she was driven away into the night and never seen again.
Because of this, Gwen does not believe that her prophetic visions are visions at all, and instead thinks they are bouts of madness or symptoms of a fell spirit trying to take over her mind. So believing herself to be a danger to her clan, she locked herself away in her home for months and refused to come out for anyone. She also abandoned her apprenticeship with Cianán as well, as she thought her cursed presence would only do more harm than good to their patients.
It was around this time that Celeair found his way to Lhan Tarren, and with great difficulty as well as a solid wooden door between them, managed to befriend her.
the plan for her currently is that she and Celeair will go on an adventure through the Mournshaws together in order to track down the spirit responsible for Gwen's disappearance all those months ago, and through that find that her current state is not a curse at all but a benevolent spirit's misguided attempt at giving the Stag-Clan a boon in the form of glimpses into the future.
Once she understands the reasons behind her visions and no longer fears them, she can finally begin to discern their meanings and use them to help her clan. She also returns to her apprenticeship with Cianán, and is a key part in helping Celeair adjust to Dunlanding culture and better fit in with the people of Trum Dreng
#I just think she's neat#I like her :>#and Celeair needed more friends in Dunland besides Margim. considering he's going to like. live there. he's GOTTA have a social circle#so it made the most sense for him to befriend the other healers in Lhan Tarren#and I was looking in-game and noticed that the unnamed healer NPC had like stark-blonde hair which I thought was pretty striking#so one thing led to another and that's how I got Gwen#Cianán doesn't have as much of an interesting backstory tho.#he's just an ageing healer who acts as sort of a mentor figure to both Gewn and to a lesser extent Celeair#Celeair is already an experienced healer in his own right but he can probably learn a lot of new things from Dunlanish healing traditions#anyway yeah I hope you all like her :)#lotro#lotro oc#OC Gwen#celeair
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dear god that would be turbo cringe or whatever, but seeing all those annoying little things in fics over and over again really makes me want to write one in which they're not obligatory funnymoments but rather like, words that have meaning and weight and so on
#shrimp thoughts#like. 1. characters acting all cryptic and condescending when their friend who isn't aware they're queer and in love comes to them for#advice like 'oh figure it out yourself baby :)' that's so obnoxious. this is a romcom not a hero's journey you're TWENTY not a Wise Mentor#2. characters acting condescending and rolling their eyes soooo hard about how their friend hasn't figured/took them so long to figure out#they're queer because it was so obvious! how can you be so dense! or: how can you be IGNORANT of kink matters (that we never told you about#3. characters making retching noises and complaining how disgusting/gross their friends are once they get together. the friends aren't#like frenching or fucking on the dining table but just smiling at each other. free pass at homophobia nonetheless ig#4. characters reacting to any sort of doubts/internal conflict their friend has with 'omg who cares just do the thing! stop overthinking!'#ETC ETC#so many times i've started reading a good fic with an otherwise engaging characterization only for the writer to pull an Easy Fan Favourite#like one of the above and like ggggghhhhhhhhhh#if it was one (1) character in one (1) fandom or even just a type of characters i wouldn't mind AS MUCH but it's everyone whether it makes#sense for them or not. is this guy calm and sensitive? doesn't matter! he's going to do and say the same things a silly chatterbox type#of a character because telling your friends they're gross for being a couple is universal now#OH i almost forgot. everyone's having kinky sex of many different kinds but react like twitter teenagers to any mention of sex in general#'ew! TMI! i don't want to hear about all the insane shit you do in your bedroom! not in front of the children! not while i'm eating!'#'just read better fanfiction' look i'm TRYING i'm TRYING OKAY
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I believe that IF Silver IS a descendent of Sonic/Shadow/Amy/anyone else, he's a descendent via adoption because the only Sonic character that I accept having kids is Vanilla.
honestly part of the reason im not a fan of the ideas of silver being a descendant of other characters we already know is because i just dont see why its necessary for them to be related ..? idk i just dont think anything that could be gained from him being shadows kid or sonics descendant or whatever is worth losing part of whats already compelling about silver and also making things super confusing. plus none of the pairings of already existing characters people have suggested as silvers bio parents make any sense, usually because its impossible from a timeline perspective but also because theyre always picking characters who would NOT have kids either in general or with the specific people theyre being paired with
#i also just kinda have a hard time imagining most sonic characters who arent already parents (so. most of them) wanting to be parents#it just does not feel right to me#i guess part of it could be an age thing . being a parent is an Adult thing and most sonic characters are not adults#so imagining them doings things that only adults do by in universe standards just feels strange and foreign to me#even though these scenarios would obviously take place a couple decades into the future#but also even when specifically thinking about it through the lens of ''would this character want to be a parent when theyre older''#the answer is usually no or idk#because there are a lot of characters where it just doesnt feel like it fits them?#sonic and rouge are a couple characters i can name off the top of my head who i know for sure would not have kids.#shadow im not so sure about either. yet he is the most common choice for silvers bio parent. pain#thing about shadow and silver is i think a timeline where shadow is actually around to meet little silver and is like#a mentor/older brother/guardian figure of sorts does kinda have potential to be interesting but i dont really want that to be made canon#but shadow straight up being his dad? idk man. not really into that. shadow being his biological dad? ABSOLUTELY not into that .#people having the present version of shadow whos a teenager barely older than silver being a dad to him?? weird as hell. no#asks#also part of what bugs me about the shadow as silvers dad stuff is people pretending its anything more than a baseless headcanon#like im not saying all headcanons have to have proof behind them but people act like the shadow as silvers dad thing#is an actual plausible theory that could be true and has tons of evidence? when it really doesnt ??#i feel the need to specify that im not trying to police what people do or aynthing just sharing my opinions
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:))) ieriyn having a normal one
#see the thing is. since the grove defense he’s loosened up a lot#he’s less afraid. he’s stronger. he’s funnier and more open. he’s spent a lot of fucking time with gale.#and he knows no one is coming for him but he’s still sort of like.#in his mind his mission is Get Rid Of The Tadpole. because for all of his ego he does Not think he’s capable of taking down the absolute#his vague plan (he is not a details person.) has been like remove tadpole and then find a way to contact his mentor#(the real one. not the one who has been appearing in his dreams but just a little bit wrong.)#because if anyone can figure out what to do about this or like be able to mobilize The Powers That Be to stop it it’s him#(ieriyn may be growing as a person but he still believes in the ability of authority figures to actually do good. lol)#but this? elminster aumar showing up#with directions from mystra herself for gale to sacrifice himself for the good of everyone? well that changes things.#ieriyn may still be lost and confused but gale was the first person willing to give him a chance#the first person (aside from his mentor) who looked at ieriyn as someone whose magic is powerful and worthwhile.#ieriyn is not going to lose him. he’s not. so suddenly he’s no longer trying to figure out#how to get someone else to solve this. bc someone else may think gale’s sacrifice is a solution#but not him.#so i think this is where his mindset REALLY shifts like he’s been on his way there but this is the catalyst. he’s well and truly done runnin#g#he’ll do it for gale.#oc. ieriyn#漫言#z plays bg3
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family tree fun facts
Dawncloud is Badgerfang's maternal half-aunt :)
#its funny bcus Badger and Dawn knew each other as 'kits' and were friends-ish#straight up they only have like a 3-4 moon age gap. maaaybe 5#BUT there's also a 3-4 moon age gap between Badger and Blossom... thats so crazy and messed up#like how did that affect Badger mentally. a kid his age got pregnant and gave birth so quick#that he was literally barely older than their kid#and is now dating their kid lmao#this is also only really possibly thanks to how quickly cats age btw. i dont think this is possible with humans quite#badger also views Copper as a father figure and Dawn as a sort of mother figure bcus thats like how close he is w/ Blossom#he's not just their son-in-law but their son#and Fern and Wolf approve and honestly prob view Blossom as their kit too#and also yes BadgerBlossom are half-cousins lol oopsies#and he mentored his half-second cousin!#family trees make me go crazy i love it#lolling thoughts#shadowclan#copperclan#badgerclan#badgerfang#badgerfang lives au#burning thistles#burning thistles au#bt family tree#shadowclan family#copperfam#badgerfam#badgerblossom#blossomtail#dawncloud#bt trivia#random
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#going insane bc i have about... 3 ideas. circling my head rn but all i can do is panic about homework#anyway isn't it so nice to find a new playlist or album to put on repeat? im having that moment rn#and i just say that bc i keep trying to figure out how to add more to that trolls au#some sort of like... retiredish idol bakugo and upcoming star you getting involved somehow#like i want to say you're dating beforehand / he's kinda your mentor and you inspire him to make more music or rejoin deku#but i dont feel like that's exactly it.....#i also like agent you with bakugo trying to put out something solo#and it turns out ur the one meant to sing his new songs#like I DONT KNOW#anyway#just know im thinking about yall and my asks and my ideas <3#love u good night mwah#wish me luck on my work#might be a tight next two weeks#but who knows... i love procrastinating#caitie blabs
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Me: idk if I really wanna go on T
Also me: if I started T early I would've been such a hoe 😭
#imma just be here in this corner chillin. feel free to join#me but if you're annoying then fuck off#idk#maybe in an alternative universe i'd have less hang ups#remembering the gender euphoria i felt at 16 wearing a trenchcoat (it was cold and rainy) and a baseball cap and being perceived as male#actually i think i got pictures from that day. went to visit a temple and window shopped with my host mum#but ngl going on t is a commitment and i do question whether it's the best path for myself#at this point i've gotten used to seeing the same face in the mirror for the past 12 years. even changing my hairstyle felt drastic#(i wore the same box braid style with a george washington ass ponytail from the ages of like ~10 to ~19. basically my entire adolescence lo#with very occasional changes. and tbh i might stick with the same hairstyle i have right now until i'm 30. i'm open to like changing my#overall style but hair styling stresses me the fuck out. since i never learned how to like do natural hair and i'm not dextrous at all#(can't braid for shit) it usually ends up being. taxing oily and expensive. so now i wear my hair the same day 24/7/365)#i also have to remind myself too not to compare my life journey with others. counsellors and mentor figures have been telling me this for s#long too but i'd sometimes scoff at that (inside my head tho). and like i don't mean to be like an nlog/nlop (??) about it like ppl have#their own struggles and all. but i mean for instance (outside of tumblr) being lgbtq+ makes you a minority. maybe a significant minority#these days but a minority nonetheless. being a poc in a white environments you'll simply navigate the world differently compared to your#white peers. similarly with navigating the world as a neurodivergent person. whether “formally” diagnosed or not#similarly with being a second gen immigrant#and this probably seems obvious. it is. but for so long i've had pretty high standards for myself (although i didn't always see those#standards as high) and try to nitpick my way towards some sort of ideal#basically i've made peace with the fact my identity isn't quite “set”. and preparing for the possibility that it might stay that way for as#long as i live. my specific life circumstances conditioned me to wave away certain mainstream societal norms. so. why should i start#accepting these norms all of a sudden with open arms when they have never served me and have only caused me undue stress. and it's not like#i don't got other shit to stress about either. channeling my inner 12 year old energy. relearning how to be more unbothered#uchiha-gaeshi's life crisis#status: ongoing#uchiha-gaeshi overshares#gender crisis#txt
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'found family' is about friends being like or even just being family. it blurs the lines between friends and family. what it isnt is making the characters be family instead of friends, even if you dont actually involve nuclear family words
#people talk about the annoying assigning family terms that dont fit but ive never seen anyone mention this#it really seems like thdyre not interested in anything that doesnt compress into the most basic relationship box#'if its romance thats a definitive relafionship type and reason to care about eachother. its close and not romance it must be family'#setoously how is basic friendship too nebulous and uncomodifiable to yoy#why are my typos getting so much worse lately#anyway it does come off as just as flattening of the relationship when thdy describe the relationship as just 'found family not friends'#like its a general vibe and stuff not a way they can relate to each other in itself? they still have to have an actual relationship?#which could be sibling figures or friends or mentor or whatever but they cant be Just 'found family' like just saying friends would work mor#like there can be friends that arent found family and stuff cause friendships like the most basic way to relate? just people who hang out#but even though nebulous sort of family could be a way to relate to someone it isnt the way fandom use it
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