#life planning

[thefemigirl]

✤ What To Add To Your Vision Board

Visualize what you want these 6 areas of your life to look like in the near future.

( 1 ) FINANCIAL a. What is your ideal annual income? b. Describe your ideal home situation to look like and its location.

( 2 ) CAREER a. What kind of organization or role do you envision yourself in? b. What type of projects or tasks are you passionate about doing?

( 3 ) RECREATION a. How do you prefer to spend your leisure time? b. Which hobbies or interests are you actively pursuing?

( 4 ) WELLNESS a. In what ways do you care for your mental, physical, and spiritual health? b. What kind of diet do you follow to stay healthy? c. What activities help you maintain your fitness?

( 5 ) RELATIONSHIPS a. How would you describe the quality of your relationships? b. How often do you connect with friends and loved ones?

( 6 ) PERSONAL LIFE a. What personal goals are you striving to achieve? b. What habits, values, and boundaries guide your daily life?

Remember: you can build your vision boards any time of the year.

[mars-paws]

My current life plan (I will elaborate if asked)

[chaoticccmind]

Being in your mid 20s is so weird. Like some of my friends are having kids, buying a house or opening a business and im just sitting here getting depressed over life, getting drunk on weekends and dont know what to do with myself.

[sweaterkittensahoy]

This came across my dash as we were in Missouri for Sean's grandma's funeral, and I am 1) so grateful I saw something that made me laugh and 2) was so relieved to be able to tell Grandma's affairs were well in order when she passed.

Hey you know how I said I was going to make a workbook on the kind of bullshit you need to do when someone you love dies? I actually did that.

HERE IS THE VERSION WITH LOTS OF SWEARING AT THE USELESS, SHITTY SITUATION YOU’RE IN.

HERE IS THE VERSION WITH A FAIR AMOUNT OF BLACK HUMOR BUT NO CURSEWORDS.

Featuring Helpful Sections such as:

Death Certificates – What you need, why you need them, and how to get them

Prepare to spend a long and miserable time on the phone

What the Everloving Fuck is Probate

Some Simple Dos and Don’ts

Shitty Mad Libs – Templates for writing Obituaries and Memorials

How to plan a non-religious death party

So you suddenly have to become some sort of hacker or some shit

This is an eighteen page book that you can print out, download, share, and give away; it is meant to be used to collect information about funeral planning and account management after a death OR you can use it BEFORE you die and give people information so they’re not stuck playing Nancy Fucking Drew while trying to keep seventeen cousins who crawled out of the woodwork from gutting each other in front of the fucking casket as they argue about who’s inheriting grandma’s favorite dentures.

It’s not exactly cheerful and it’s full of things that are probably going to feel really fucking raw if you’re processing a fresh death.

I’m sorry! I love you! Death is shitty! I’m trying to laugh about it a little and I hope you can laugh a little too because otherwise we’re all just going to cry together.

Good luck!

(in memory of my weirdo mother and her weirdo siblings who all died too fucking young and left me holding this flaming bag of dogshit)

[inkskinned]

it's extremely critical that you see the photo of the perp walk for luigi mangione as being propaganda. i've seen so many people wave it off and instead fawn over his looks. and trust me, i know it ended up being kind of pathetic and weird - but please don't brush it off as a "modelling opportunity" for him. it's a fucking terrifying message the police are sending.

i want to make a few comparisons here, in case you're not from the US or familiar with why the perp walk thing is something to pay attention to. just to set the groundwork for why this is a purposeful, unusual, and cruel act by the nyc police - for why this is not a common occurrence and for why that matters.

the prosecution alleges the show of force is due to the charge of "terrorism." for comparison, in june 2015, tsarnaev was found guilty for the boston marathon bombing, which killed 3 people and injured hundreds. his actions are considered to be an act of domestic terrorism. i have spent the last hour looking through google for pictures of similar to mangione's perp walk - and so far, i have found zero. i also just do not personally remember a moment like that, despite living in boston at the time.

they allege that luigi is a stone-cold killer who carried out a longterm plan, making him particularly dangerous. again for comparison: in nyc, recently cory martin was found guilty of the killing of brandy odom. the murder was planned and premeditated to steal insurance money. and yet no staged perp walk. why didn't her life matter enough for a "show of force"?

but mangione gets paraded by a veritable army of police officers as if he is a rabid animal. for a single citizen who allegedly killed one other single citizen, the "largest perp walk ever" occurs.

so what is the "strong message" that the mayor and the police were trying to send here? the mayor speaks as if mangione is already convicted of terrorism. there is a very thin number of people who feel threatened by the CEO's death. none of us felt like mangione needs to be under massive armed guard.

the message is that you shouldn't resist. they are trying to "make an example" of him - that if you behave badly and kill a single rich person, you'll be treated as if you killed hundreds of people. you will be treated worse than a man who was found guilty of terrorism. you will be considered guilty without trial. the message is that the rich are a protected class, and you cannot touch them without massive punishment. they are trying to prevent a revolution by showing dominance and force against you.

the message is that the police are a puppet of the wealthy and that the law is not equally applied across class disparity. it is "some are more equal than others." it is "one life is more precious than another."

the show of force wasn't for luigi. it was for us. it was a warning. they are trying to remind us who is really in control.

[manojnaironline]

Today pictured a year ago

A year ago, I imagined what my life might look like today—and remarkably, it’s turned out quite close to that vision. I’ve always been someone who thrives on detailed plans and meticulous execution, much to the mild irritation of my wife and son 😄. Planning things to the smallest detail has its perks. I’m rarely caught off guard, and I feel in control. On the flip side, my tendency to…

[nirajnanal]

Making investment decisions solely based on Tax implications is a sure way to disaster.

[ardnasl]

Good tool for reflection

[jiejing-lifechanyuan]

Strategic Life

XueFeng

(Edited by Kaer)

Using the best building plan, employing the most advanced machinery, mobilizing the best construction workers, and applying the highest quality materials, such as steel and concrete tiles to build a skyscraper on sand, what will happen? The result will be a crushing failure. Why? Because there was a strategic error - you can not build a high-rise building on sand, and even if you could and did, a single breeze would collapse it.

If it is strategically wrong; any tactical success is equal to zero. As in the example above, the building plan, the advanced machinery, the excellent construction workers, the high quality materials and other tactical successes will ultimately have zero value because of the strategic mistake.

Strategies are overall planning and designs. Tactics are specific measures to achieve them. If the strategy is wrong, then even the best tactics are ultimately hopeless efforts.

Sun Tzu’s, “The art of war” includes strategies and tactics; Life also includes both. The so-called strategic Life must grasp and operate Life from the macro perspective, or Life must first have the right ideal with the right directions and goals, otherwise no matter how diligent you are, how hard you try in your lifetime, you will end up fruitless.

I once drilled a well in a remote village in the Binga area of Matabeleland in the North Province of Zimbabwe. First, I mobilized all the villagers and built nearly 10 kilometres of road and we cut down the trees that blocked the vehicles along both sides of the road, then trucks loaded with the drill and other materials and workers entered the construction site in a formidable array. Hundreds of villagers cheered like thunder and supported us with great enthusiasm. After two days of drilling down to a depth of 90 meters, not a single drop of water had been found. The drilling failed. After having taken so much labour and having invested so much money, the result in the end was zero. Why was that? The reason lies not in tactics, but in strategy. In other words, the drilling point designated by the geologic and hydrographic staff was dry. In a spot with no water, no matter how many human and financial resources you invest, or how excellent the drilling experts you have mobilized are, you will never drill out water.

While taking a course in marketing, an American professor told us the story of an American shoe factory that wanted to set up a branch in Africa, so they sent two market researchers to Africa to make a survey of the shoe market. One researcher came back and reported pessimistically that there was no market for shoes in Africa because African people did not wear shoes. Another researcher came back and reported optimistically that a huge market for shoes existed in Africa because none of the African people were wearing shoes. In this situation, what should the American shoe factory have done? This leads to the strategic issue. If the strategy is correct, then there will eventually be huge profits, but if the strategy is wrong, it will drag the shoe factory down.

Most African women do not wear socks and if someone were to import a container of socks to sell in Africa, he or she would be making a strategic mistake.

Recently, I found a pinch of black slags on the white floor tiles in my bathroom. The situation remained the same the next day, even though the gardener cleaned it every day. Today, I bent down and took a closer look. It turned out that dozens of tiny ants were making nests along the edge of the floor tiles against the wall. I felt very sad about this because those ants had made a strategic mistake. The bathroom is very clean and having a food source would be a big problem. Would it not have been better if the nest had been built in the lawn or under the tree roots in the garden?

It might be a good idea to build a gem processing factory in Siberia, Russia, but building a soy sauce factory would be a strategic mistake.

Now let us come back to the strategic issues of Life.

· The first strategic issue of Life is to give play to your strengths and to do the things that you want to do.

If a profession is not right for you or if it does not make you feel comfortable, then do not force yourself to do it. You would be better off staying idle than forcing yourself to do it because this is a strategic issue. Once you make a strategic mistake, your whole life will be trapped into building castles on sand.

Had the Nobel Peace Prize winner, Mother Teresa not helped the helpless and lonely people, but rather studied radioactive elements like Marie Curie, she might not have accomplished anything at all. Likewise, if Chen Jingrun who took the math crown pearl by solving the Goldbach Conjecture had been sent to be the manage the marketing Department of an HR firm, it could have ended up in a complete mess.

If a person is tone-deaf, but wants to learn music or wants to be a singer, then they would be making a strategic mistake of Life.

I have a distant uncle. He became an apprentice to a carpenter at an early age. Three years later, he could not even make a chair without help from his master. That is to say, my distant uncle had made a strategic mistake of Life. He was not born with the material to be a carpenter.

· The second strategic issue of Life is to comply with time

Sowing in spring harvesting season in autumn is correct. If you want to act at times inverse of nature, you will be punished by the Tao of heaven, "Those who suit their actions to the times are wise."

Yiwu people of Zhejiang Province, China are called the Jews of China because they have a shrewd business acumen, however during the Cultural Revolution, they were often criticized as models of walking on the capitalist road, so their shrewd ability could not be played out.

I knew a very talented man who remains in prison after more than ten years because he was involved in a democracy movement. This was not a bad thing and it was totally above-board, so why is he in prison? Because what he did was ill timed. In other words, he wanted to pick and eat his watermelon before it was ripe and he made a strategic mistake.

· The third strategic issue of Life is to always place yourself in the right position and not to "overstep".

If it is your duty, you make sure to be conscientious and earnest to do it well and never to try to shirk your responsibility, but if it is not within the scope of your duties, keep your mouth shut, do not gossip, and pay no attention, even if the sky falls. What responsibilities do you have as to whether the country rises or falls? You have a responsibility to be a good citizen. According to the teachings of Jesus Christ, “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?”　

I have several colleagues who often criticize the decisions of the leadership as well as the work and behaviour of other colleagues. Ultimately, they were a nuisance and could not play out their strengths, and so ended up complaining but unfulfilled.

An assistant General Manager was very talented and could have had broad future prospects, but because he was too critical of the decisions of the General Manager, he was soon dismissed. That is to say, a person, no matter how capable they are, must be sure to place themselves in the right position. Every man should confine himself to his own duties,otherwise, it is "overstepping".

· What is the biggest strategic issue in Life?

Jesus tells us clearly, “For what a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world,and lose his own soul? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?”That is to say, the greatest strategic issue of Life is the issue of the soul.

From novels, history, and reality, we learn that many people have lost their souls for money and wealth, many have forfeited their souls for power, and many have lost their souls for fame and lust. These are all strategic mistakes of Life. Similarly, many people have forfeited their souls for their families, their ethnic groups, their religious or political parties, or for their countries. These people have also made strategic mistakes of Life.

Everything is but a game. Only the soul is real. The issue of the soul should always be kept in first place because everything revolves around it. In this way, "Once the key link is grasped, everything else falls into place.” Now, everything is clear and everything else in Life is to play the game. You have developed a mind which does not abide in form, sound,smell,taste,touch and dharma. And the Tathagata comes.”

That is the Life strategy of great wisdom and intelligence.

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May Wisdom, Peace & Love from the Greatest Creator be with you.🙏

[rhys-ravenfeather]

Seeing as how, at this point, I don't even know where I want to live, I decided it might be easier to make a list of places I know for a fact I don't want to live, and go from there:

Belize

New York (and probably New Jersey)

Florida

California

Honestly any state that doesn't have all four seasons

Australia

There are definitely other places, and I'll probably update this list over time, but for now I mostly want to stick to places in America, for a couple reasons.

Also, for the record, this isn't meant to be a slight against anyone who lives in any of these places, these are just places I would prefer not to live myself, for personal reasons. For example, I've wanted to visit Australia since I was a little girl watching Crocodile Hunter, and while I would still like to visit the continent at some point, as an autistic person I wouldn't even be able to live there.

[brotherneville]

"Five Good Tips" - Thought for Today, 6/20/2024

“Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones.”Proverbs 3:7-8 (NIV) Practical Steps for a Healthy Life Routine: Balanced Diet: Nourish your body with wholesome foods, remembering that moderation is key (1 Corinthians 10:31). Regular Exercise: Incorporate physical activity into your daily routine, honoring God…

[00venator]

Life plan:

>get published >become famous >fight JKR in a maccas parking lot >internet famous >get enough money to buy tumblr >fix the fucking hell site >get into politics somehow and fix the fucking politics

[mydayswithtarotbystella]

Crafting Your Ideal Life: A Step-by-Step Guide to Setting Personal and Family Goals

Figuring out what you want out of life, your family, and setting goals for yourself and your family involves self-reflection and envisioning your desired future. Here’s a step-by-step approach to help you clarify these aspects: 1. Self-Reflection Identify Your Values: What principles and values are most important to you (e.g., honesty, compassion, creativity)? How do these values influence…

[boxofoxberry]

HE DESERVED IT!!!!!

[cryptixotic]

Be real with me. You're sitting in a bar and a 𝔴𝔞𝔯𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔡 𝔬𝔣 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔢𝔞 with a massive sword rams into the door. Do you or do you not laugh

[runaway90s]

Short Term Goals (next 6 months - 2 years)

-Get my finances in order

-Record my first three albums (at least)

-Be healthier

-Travel

Short to Long Term Goals (next 5 years)

-Go back to school and do it sustainably (finally get my bachelor's)

-Marry my Twin Flame

-Buy a house

Long Term Goals (Lifetime)

-Have children

-Write my memoirs

-Own a house down south so I can be a snowbird