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[lipikkawrites]

If life can remove people you never dreamt of losing, it can replace them with someone you never dreamt of having.

-@lipikkawrites

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[tofixtheshadows]

So I've been thinking lately about how Mithrun is Kabru's dark mirror (more on that another time- it needs its own post), and I thought it interesting that one of their parallels is that they were both cared for by Milsiril, but in opposite directions. She took Kabru in as her foster after he was orphaned and tried to convince him not to become an adventurer. On the flip side, she helped rehabilitate Mithrun specifically so that he could rejoin the Canaries.

And I kept wondering: why?

For Kabru, obviously she loves him a whole lot- despite any other shortcomings in their relationship, I do believe that.

So I get why she tries to convince him not to go dungeoning, and, failing that, at least prepares him as thoroughly as she can.

But why help Mithrun? She used to hate Mithrun, but after realizing what a secretly twisted person he was, she actually thought of him more positively (oh, Milsiril). So it wasn't as if she held the kind of grudge that might motivate her to make his already-depleted life even more miserable by sending him back to the dungeons. And it wasn't that she felt bad for him either, since she didn't visit Mithrun for the first ~20 years of his recovery.

The Adventurer's Bible says that Utaya was the impetus for Mithrun returning to the Canaries, but Milsiril is the one who made the trip to see him and tell him about it.

Why would Milsiril work so hard to get her old coworker back into fighting fit? Why encourage him to return to such a dangerous lifestyle, when she was the one who chose not to mercy-kill him?

That last panel is such a crazy thing to hint at and then never elaborate on. Without it we could have just thought that Milsiril wanted the Canaries' work to continue without her, even if it seemed out of character. I think some people even assume she's just a natural caretaker as a foster mom and handwave it to include nursing Mithrun too. What could Milsiril's suspicious motives be? What does she gain from Mithrun joining the Canaries that isn't an altruistic desire to see dungeons safely sealed? Feeling a sense of responsibility for the work she left behind isn't an ulterior motive.

My theory is: Milsiril, knowing that Mithrun was empty save for the burning desire to face the demon again, wound him up like a clockwork doll and pointed him back at the dungeons.

Hoping that he'd eliminate the biggest threat to Kabru's life, before it was too late for him.

Milsiril the puppetmaster.

[bebx]

when someone says, “after all I’ve done for you…” they are revealing that what they did “for you” was not for you at all, but for their own need to control you.

their “generosity” was a contract with hidden terms to make sure you always owed them and to guilt trip you into doing something for them in return.

a reminder that if someone really loved you, their generosity should and would be genuine, in the sense that they’d never bring up what they did for you to remind and guilt trip you into doing something for them. all the things they’ve done for you, they would’ve done them because they loved you, not because they wanted you to owe them.

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[monicafinias]

Because truly the only way to truly enjoy the soft life, is when it comes with commitment!

Most men with money have broken the code, they know if they dangle a few shiny things in front of us, we are sold. But all it os is, he takes what he wants and leaves us empty with just a few high end restaurant experiences, a purse or two and nothing else.

The damage to our hearts can not compare to what we get.

Let’s be sober minded in 2024, and not take the bare minimum.

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[we-were-us]

To truly understand the meaning of being in a polyamory relationship- is to experience it yourself.

That's the only way you could ever even remotely know what it's like to love more than one person and make the choice to choose them both- instead of breaking their hearts, by tearing them apart.

[shemanifesttt]

Pick the photo you are drawn to. When you find this it's the message you need to hear.

Deck used is the Sexual Magic Oracle Deck

1. Scarlet johnanson- Conquest card

Im getting sexual magic. You are using your sexual energy to attract things into your life. Some may be celibate and that is making you attractive because the energy you have put towards partners who probably were not worthy of your energy or you felt disempowered with is now focused on you. You are using that energy to manifest the life you want. As well as the sex life you want. You becoming empowered and have zero desire to let others to come into your energy that are not in tune with themselves and bringing their best version of themselves to you. Love this energy. Keep your standards, don't waver. You will get the best, because you believe you deserve the best.

2. Sade- Awareness card

Im getting intuitive energy. I feel a partner or people you are dating feel you are psychic. Your intuitiveness is very high. You may have been interested in tarot or channeling messages. Im also getting coaching, like a life coach is something you are pursuing or interested in. You are very good read of  Bullshi*t. When you feel something is off listen to it. That is a gift of yours. Im feeling a partner around you or person that thinks this connection you have with the universe is beautiful, but makes them a little nervous, because they don’t feel  as connected to the universe as you. Don’t push them to be like you, but if they ask you questions about your beliefs and spiritual practice don’t be sacred to share. Also, don’t hide or feel ashamed of your gifts or spiritual practices. Be authietcally you, that attracts the right people. I also want to say you may attract all kids of people, but that’s where your intuitive knowing comes in. Also, do a lot of energy clearing with yourself and take a moment everyday to connect with yourself.

3. Hilary banks- Healing card

I want to say you have been on a journey. There could have been a past you walked away from surrounding heartbreak, not having the highest standards for partners. Your self worth may not have been high. That was the past you have worked/ working on reversing all of that. You may be working on your self concept. You could have been listening to a lot of content about feminine energy and hypergamy and implementing  that content into your life. Also, see you have a slight similar energy to pile 1 in the fact you may not be having a lot of sexual encounters right now, because of your standards. Your standards may be linked to if your partner is showing up finically in the way you desire to feel comfortable to take that intimate step. Again, keep your standards. Don’t let anyone pressure you and make sure they are backing their words “promises” with action FIRST!

[coachbeards]

thinking hard on mr. coach "if a relationship lasts longer than five minutes, it loses its flavor" beard...being right by ted's side for at least since college. which, given clues, is probably about thirty years. who canonically bounces from relationship to relationship, but (according to brendan hunt's q&a session) chose within three days to follow ted to london. how he's notorious for being single, and letting his competitiveness or whatever end relationships..........("i did it again." "before the game before the dame?" "yep." "when're you gonna learn, coach?")

but that doesn't happen with ted.

beard might've yelled at ted for his "selfish" acts/his own desire to win...but...he's still there. he still showed up to work the next morning, right beside ted, like nothing ever happened. because the same reasons why beard left romantic relationships before isn't enough for him to leave ted's side.

how...the biggest threat to their relationship isn't anything platonic. it's a romantic dynamic beard has found himself in. because beard having a romantic partner is the only thing that would distract him from ted. not another friend, not a job, not anything other than...a romantic partner. ROMANCE is the biggest threat to their relationship, and it's on beard's end.

brendan "beard would follow ted into hell" hunt saying that beard's more focused on being with ted than nurturing his own relationship....yeah.

that ted saved him, so he'll always be there...and the reason he's not is because he fell in love with --- someone other than ted. like beard falling in love is the one thing keeping him from paying attention to all of ted's struggles...presumably like he would back in kansas. because from episode one we see him worry about ted. episode two we see him noticing the shaking hands, so he tries to calm ted down before it can turn into a full fledged panic attack. and now beard is changing, and yeah...for the worse, because he's in love with jane. because that abuse is poisoning him, and this time, ted isn't saving him and fixing him, because ted can't right now. hm.

beard loves ted. and he loves jane. and those two loves are driving factors for beard's character...because they are the most important people in his life. jane thinks ted's a threat to her, and honestly...she's probably right for thinking that. not that she's going about this correctly, but she's not necessarily wrong for locking on that ted is extremely important to beard. because he is. before she entered the picture, ted was his most loved. he dropped everything because ted asked him to. he doesn't do relationships, but he'd follow ted anywhere he ever asked him to. he's competitive, and that's lost him partners...but ted's still there.

ted is the most important person in beard's life, regardless of what romance beard is having. he just needs to realize that, and find his way back to ted's side where he belongs. brendan says that beard is a rock for ted, that he's full of love...and right now, that love is so misplaced. he's giving it all to jane, when it's ted who got it first.

[lipikkawrites]

When its finally your turn,

I hope you understand why the wait was necessary.

-@lipikkawrites

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[iammissingautumn]

okay but like is it too spicy to say tashi duncan is such a clear aroallo in my mind or will my others aros boo me off the stage

[quotelr]

Do the things you like to be happier, stronger & more successful. Only so is hard work replaced by dedication.

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[dreamgirlglowup]

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[monicafinias]

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