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helluva boss overrated uhhh
#helluva boss#hazbin hotel#helluva boss slander#yeah its bad#designs are iffy as well#like bruh#leave gay people alone#vivziepop
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One of the most generally useful things to come out of Hbomberguy's plagiarism video and Todd in the Shadows' similar video on misinformation is how they bring transparency to the internet phenomenon of "I made up a guy to get mad at".
Seriously, I've seen people make up a lot of stupid shit on the internet over the years and it's often just a manipulative attempt to paint a group of marginalized people in a bad light.
That's the TL;DR version of this post.
ANYWAY here is the long version
Those videos are mostly about James Somerton's plagiarism of other queer people's work. However I'd like to talk about that 20-30% of Somerton's original writing- and oh boy. It's mostly about complaining about White Straight Women and misgendering well-known trans creators such as Rebecca Sugar and calling Becky Albertalli a straight woman while it's pretty common knowledge that she was forced to out herself as bi because she received so much harassment over "being a cishet woman who appropriates LGBT+ stories".
One thing that irks me especially is how in his Killing Stalking and Gay Shipping videos Somerton brings up how straight women/ teen girl shippers exploit gay men for their personal sexual fantasies. This gets brought up several times in his videos.
Being all up and arms about Somerton being a "White Cis Gay Who Hates Women and Queer People tm" is not that useful because the kind of rhetoric he's using is extremely common in fandom and LGBT+ spaces on Tumblr, TikTok and Twitter. We really don't need to bring Somerton's identity to this since he is in no way an unique example.
It's hypocritical to make this about an individual person when I've seen A TON of posts, tweets and videos where queer people talk about these Sinister Straight Women who are supposedly out there fetishizing and exploiting queer men. It's pretty clear to me that this is just an excuse to shit on women and queer people for having any sexual interests. At worst these comments are spreading misinformation about BL, a form of media that has been excessively studied by both Asian feminists and Asian queer women.
This all sounds really familiar and I think it's good that people are calling it out as what it is: misogyny and transphobia. I'd also point out the potentially racist motives behind being this hypervigilant about Asian media.
People can absolutely be misogynist regardless of gender or orientation. I really don't know why we need to create some kind of made up enemy to get mad at. I actually think it's almost sinister how "anti-fujoshi" people call Slash shippers and fujoshi misogynists or claim that they have internalised misogyny while being dismissive about women's interests and creative pursuits under Japanese obscenity laws, China's censorship, book bans in American schools and various other disadvances that are part of being a queer and/or female creator.
I think we shouldn't be naive about the bad faith actors who want to turn queer people against each other. For example Fujoshi.info mentions anti-gender (TERF, GC etc) movement using this kind of rhetoric as well.
Anyway if you want to read more:
- about the false info around BL fandom fujoshi.info
-There is the scholar Thomas Baudinette who studies gay media in Japan. Here is a podcast with him and the scholar Khursten Santos
-James Welker is a BL scholar as well. Here is a podcast interview about the new international BL article collection he edited.
-I've already talked about this Youtube channel by KrisPNatz and his great Killing Stalking video that actually engages with the themes of the manhwa
- There is also HR Coleman's thesis DO NOT FEED THE FETISHIZERS: BOYS LOVE FANS RESISTANCE AND CHALLENGE OF PERCEIVED REPUTATION where she interviews 36 BL fans and actually breaks down why fetishization has become such a huge talking point in the fandom discourse. Spoilers, it's mostly about young queer people and women being worried that they will get judged and pathologized for their interest in anything sexual.
-Great podcast about Danmei and censorship with Liang Ge
#Also I don't mean that you can always tell if someone is a transphobe or a TERF based on a couple of things they have said.#My point is that sometimes ok people can have very regressive ideas too.#This is not a call out post about how we should go around accusing anti-fujoshi people#todd in the shadows#hbomberguy#sarasade text#even I've got those “Fandom is mostly straight women fetishizing gay men” comments once and it begins to sound kind of passive-aggressive#when you're a bi woman. Lot of fandom stats at AO3 show that fandoms are montly bi women. who are these people calling straight exactly hmm#also straight women are completely ok leave them alone. I know I know Yes I'm so brave for saying this#cw: transphobia
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it’s wild how some people will be so ready to criticize cis gay men for saying misogynistic things about vaginas…until the topic of gay trans men comes up, and suddenly they switch to thinking it’s totally fine and natural and good for cis gay men to think vaginas are the ugliest grossest most repulsive things in the world. make up your mind, is it bad for them to think pussies are the boogeyman or not? (hint: it is bad, you’re just so caught up in your hatred of gay trans men that you can’t see the misogyny you’re excusing.)
#its literally the same shit but people will act like its Totally Different when its done against gay trans men and not women#yes i did make the mistake of going down a te/hm rabbithole leave me alone#transandrophobia#transandromisia#transmisandry#virilmisia#virilphobia#anti transmasculinity#transmascphobia#trans men#transmascs
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Okay literally no one asked but as a former Hobbit movie hater who has since experienced character growth, I feel compelled to share my thoughts on the movies on my gay little blog.
Listen. There are legit reasons to be critical of these movies. They were made on a rushed timeline, at time where CGI overuse was the thing and there are definitely unnecessary moments. But despite those issues, these movies still have a lot of heart and character and some really wonderful acting! To compare them to LOTR, is unfair I think because LOTR was such an unimaginable success and I truly believe no other movie franchise can do what those movies did. To expect the Hobbit movies to be the same caliber considering the behind the scenes drama and massive difference in timeline is just not it.
Truly I think that the Hobbit could have been much more than it was and it’s sad to see the amazing moments and realize that we could have had movies that were maybe closer to the level of LOTR, but that doesn’t take away from all of the great things that the movies gave us! Despite what he may be like irl, Martin Freeman was a great young Bilbo, Richard Armitage was insanely good as Thorin (despite the change in age) and the other dwarf actors brought a great sense of loyalty, brotherhood and shared loss to their roles. The music is still dope as hell and there are some beautiful shots despite all the CGI.
This is way too long and I’ve not said anything that hasn’t been said before but honestly, I’m so glad that I stopped hating on these movies and have seen the special things about them. Nothing will ever compare to LOTR, but that doesn’t make these movies bad. They’re fun, they’re emotional, they have great characterization and it’s super valid to enjoy them.
Final gay thoughts because I’m obligated, but I struggle with people who argue against Bagginshield with the whole “why does everyone have to make everything gay?” thing. Because Hollywood is so deeply homophobic that we see so little genuine queer representation, so forgive us for enjoying the chemistry we find and making it our own since our society gives us breadcrumbs. If you’re not into Bagginshield, totally legit and fine, but don’t hate on other people (especially queer people) trying to find some romantic love in media that we enjoy. Also no one can convince me that Richard Armitage wasn’t at least somewhat intentionally putting his queer energy into this role, I will die on this hill.
Anyway, TL;DR there’s no shame in liking or loving the Hobbit movies despite their faults and there are lots of things to appreciate and enjoy and I for one, am glad to leave my LOTR purist hater days behind me
#the hobbit#the hobbit movies#thorin oakenshield#bilbo baggins#bagginshield#lotr#I will die on this hill#as a reformed hater#I know no one cares but what is my gay blog for if not to rant about my own takes#let people enjoy things you haters#like I love LOTR more than anything in the world and I know the Hobbit movies weren’t as good but still#they are so enjoyable and I refuse to be a hater anymore#and that’s on GROWTH#life is so much more fun when you enjoy things#okay sorry another tag but it has to be said#someone shipping characters together doesn’t take away from anyone else’s desire to see those characters in a platonic way#like as long as it’s not a clearly problematic ship just leave people alone#like damn we can enjoy things in different ways and no one has to be right#I also love the argument of NO THESE CHARACTERS ARE STRAIGHT#like oh? was that explicitly said? no? well then let people interpret how they will#let’s stop assuming everything is always straight
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Stranger Things x Breakfast Club AU (part ?)
#hopper is Vernon in this AU because damn them kids#billy is obviously Bender cause I mean#duh#Steve is Claire cause he’s princess s1 Steve who’s constantly trying to fit in and impress everyone#and then we get to the others#and we’re changing it up#cause we know the breakfast club explores the different challenges teens face#and tries to stereotype them etc#just hear me out cause I haven’t fully fleshed it out#but Jonathan is the weirdo quiet kid who billy mostly leaves alone because he isn’t pretending to be someone else#and Jonathan’s at home problems are his daddy issues and the (sometimes extreme) overprotectiveness of joyce#Robin is here#she’s GAY GAY GAY#I’m still trying to figure out her problems at home#something that causes her to make fun of people/push them away as a defence mechanism#and then there’s Nancy#who’s so afraid of becoming her mother#who everyone thinks is in a happy nuclear family#but she knows it’s all bullshit#and she’s so worried she’s gonna end up like that too#anyway#those are my rough hcs for this AU#my art#doodle of the day#stranger things#billy hargrove#traditional art#Jonathan byers#Jim hopper#breakfast club au
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i know i screamed. absolutely terrifying. who let them in
#THEY WONT LEAVE ME ALONE THEY WONT LEAVE ME ALONE#i cant go a day without posting laughingstock smhhhhhhh#its a Problem#WHY THEM? HUH? WHY?#theyre a gay ship for gay people methinks.#the dynamic they have in my head is Everything. they are both so repressed yet flagrantly fruity around each other#an infuriating push and pull#anyway theyre harassing me within my own mind#i cant go two steps in any direction without them popping up#scribble salad#welcome home#laughingstock#yk their ship name fits even more because theyre both absolute CLOWNS#they are the ENTIRE CIRCUS#watching them interact must be like watching a circus tent burn but in a Funny way#they become absolute jokes around each other i just Know It
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i swear to god i've seen an exactly equivalent number of posts recently with the premises "it's gross to talk so much about how you wanna fuck trans people, can't you be normal about people you don't wanna fuck" and "it's gross to act like trans people are unfuckable and that we're only attractive as a fetish, actually i'm a girl with a great dick and it's fine" & i'm like. rubs my eyes. maybe the truth is that human experience is varied and different people wish to be desired/perceived/discussed in different ways and what's validating to one person feels yucky to another. maybe if someone's form of validation isn't for you then you don't need to immediately assume the worst faith possible interpretation of their words. i mean this in the most constructive way possible bc i do this too and i frequently look back at assumptions i made and realize i'm insane. Just Because It Felt Bad To You Doesn't Mean It Feels Bad To Everyone.
#and just because it felt bad to you doesn't mean it's inherently bad.#i hate being hit on and desired sexually but as long as ppl go 'oh never mind then' when i say so... it's fine if they wanna smash#as long as theyre not making it my problem. theyre not wrong for wanting to fuck me! just leave me alone about it!#people finding girldick hot are not inherently chasers who only like hyperfemme trans girls &#people not wanting to fuck are not inherently finding a person's body to be lesser/other/gross/etc.#like oh my god. please relax. it's okay. we're on the gay and trans sex and celibacy website
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“baby gays treat queerness like some kind of exclusive club they’re always arguing about slur discourse and they refuse to learn their own history-“ SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP
YOU ARE LITERALLY SEEING A SELECT HANDFUL OF BAD OPINIONS IN THE BRAINROT TRENCHES OF TIKTOK AND ASSUMING AN ENTIRE GENERATION OF QUEER KIDS DESERVE HATE FOR IT
JUST BECAUSE YOU CRITICIZE A SPECIFIC “TYPE” OF GAY DOES NOT MAKE IT ANY LESS HOMOPHOBIC
LEAVE THEM ALONE
#I’m so fucking sick of seeing these comments show up in my notifications#‘baby gays don’t deserve hate for this BUT they do deserve hate for x y and z’#no tf they don’t! leave them alone#just like being a kid is different now from when you were a kid#being young and queer is different from when you were young and queer#stop assuming an entire generation of queer kids are horrible people because you gather your opinions about them from the depths of tiktok#god dammit just leave them the fuck alone#being queer is hard stop making it harder for them#trans#lgbtq#ftm#trans man#transgender#transgender man#transmasc#trans pride#donnieisaprettyboy#ftm problems#transblr
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; the sentences " micro labels are valid and can be helpful and validating to people " and " people don't have to specify every part of their identity to you to be valid, and can use broad terms even if their actual experience is more specific " can and should coexist.
#I think the idea that peoples identities have to make sense to other ppl is why mspec gays and lesbians etc are so hated#and misunderstood. Obviously other things too but yk#The idea that people are either really simple and fit into neat boxes or are really complicated and use 100s of labels and those ppl threate#n us#Is stupid#I think really it's just NOT a BIG DEAL !?? Like#let people live#and use whatever labels they want or none. Loads or js one#Js leave them alone. their identity isn't YOURS so fuck off#<3#lgbtqia+#queer#mspec lesbian#mspec gays#mspec#micro labels#actually queer#let people be weird or let them be simple#Js let them be themselves and stop fucking policing their identities or lack thereof#that'd be great thanks
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aww you don't like when people have multiple seemingly conflicting labels about their gender and/or sexuality? tell me more about how black and white and uncomplicated you think people are
#leave mspec people alone Literally why is it your problem#words from the monarch#sorry. i so often see people like 'dont interact if you are or support mspec gays/lesbians' and it makes no fucking sense to me
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hiii, I already adored your art from the comic of metal and hoki and married Kkgai - and to now see you put kkgai in founders time is giving me so much dopamine 💥 any chance you could elaborate on the dynamic between Madara and Gai ? :] how does he interact with the other founders ?
thank you very much for the kind words!!!
(Sorry I took so long to answer this I wanted to finish a lil comic I’ve been working on that basically contains what would have been the first meeting of madara and gai in the fic but that is going to take a fair bit longer so I hope you don’t mind me just answering with some doodles)
first up the dynamic between the founders, gai and kakashi is as follows:
The black haired guy at the top middle is kakashi he actually is in disguise most of the story because he’s trying to be really careful and not alter the timeline too much.
This causes its own set of problems when gai after being told by kakashi to stay put and not interact with anyone (gai was not meant to join kakashi in the past and they weren’t meant to go back so far so kakashi is a bit disoriented) mistakes madara for his eternal rival and interferes with an ambush to help him escape unscathed. Madara witnesses here the 6th gate for the first time and decides to kidnap gai and keep him as a prisoner until he’s figured out what the heck gai did to spontaneously get stronger.
Gai tries to figure out the lest future changey way of escaping and finding the real kakashi while madara tries to figure out gais deal generally. Eventually gai agrees to spar with madara on the condition that madara sends people to search for his rival.
Their sparing matches are actually really interesting! Gai is exceptional at countering the sharingan but madara is a far more experienced fighter both of them are a fan of a good fight so they actually end up growing closer through these fights (this relationship development would actually have been a large part of the story)it doesn’t help that they both remind each other of their respective rivals, so they sort of fall into a closer relationship than they would naturally because they both miss them so much.
Their would likely be dashes of madagai in this story but ultimately they’re not each other’s endgame so it would only really manifest in like madaras musings about what a world where they got together might look like. As well as the occasional crisis of faith from gai where he weirdly feels like he’s cheating on kakashi despite them not actually being together till the end of the story.
So yeah hopefully that illuminates the dynamic a bit more :]
here are some silly doodles:
#kakagai#my art#madagai#answered#more of this to come I’m afraid#I made izuna so angry here cos I find it funny but he got layers I promise#it’s just I’d need to write an entire post about his arc in the story alone#Also kashi has so much going on in this I couldn’t even get in to it#he’s from further in the future than gai ill leave it at that#I forgot to mention gai has no idea who madara is#Which may seem a bit odd because he’s one of the people that founded the village#but if gai can forget his name after nearly dying fighting him I don’t see why a younger gai would bother remembering him#Thanks again for the ask#I really love ranting about this story:)#time travel au
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I made them kiss before he left :<
Characters: Icarus & Ven Spoliers for Grave Mistake This one is a lot shorter than most and also my first time writing ship stuff in a really long time but have wetbirds kiss, but still be tragic
Icarus and Ven are in the hallway, Icarus knows they are alone now with their father and this is the best option for Ven. Even if they wished for him to stay, wished that the one truly good thing that comes out of this base, this group doesn't leave them. But they understand.
But it doesn't stop it from hurting as Ven walks to the exit.
"I kind of wish we could have been something" Ven spoke the weight of all he has learn present in his voice.
"Wait!" Before Icarus even knew what they were doing they ran up to him. "If-if we could be something then-" They pulled Ven closed and kissed him on the lip. His lips were soft was the first thing that Icarus noted. The second was that Ven was pulling away from their embrace and that it was him who deepen it. Icarus was the one to leave it, slightly embarrassed but content.
"I-i'm sorry, I should have asked, and not just done that, but your leaving and-" It was Ven who kissed them going slightly on his tippy toes to reach their mouth.
"It's alright Icarus, I just wished we could of had this for longer" Tears went down both of their faces.
"Yeah… Stay safe out there."
"I will, Bye Icarus"
"Bye, Ven." And now they truly were alone.
#They deserve to kiss#at least before ven leaves them alone#theses two have wormed their way into my head /pos#anyways#wet bird#wetbird#sherbertquake56#fablesmp#fsmpblr#fsmp#fable smp#icarus morningstar#fablesmpicarus#c!ven#venear atlan#ven fable smp#venear#they kiss#gay people#tragic gays#their so tragic#/pos#writting#fablesmp fanfic
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#art timeee#sorry I havent posted in a while havent had anything I felt good enough to share#this isnt great either but like#it's something#this story or rather this particular line has been playing in my head on repeat#I know they likely werent so close in canon but I wanted them to be leave me alone#please ignore the fucky ass anatomy#sherlock holmes#acd holmes#the devils foot#acd johnlock#gay people
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the art demons won :)
#digital art#project sekai colorful stage#proseka#akitoya#akito shinonome#toya aoyagi#toya tenma#because he’s a tenma#project sekai akito#project sekai toya#tumblr not destroy the quality of my pictures challenge#gay people REAL#their cover of aun no beats literally will never leave me alone#sega hire me to make song art but with the characters of proseka#sega hire me to draw gay people#prjsk#pjsekai#i literally cannot think of any other relevant tags
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“why is there a swing set in ‘lovestruck’?”
“if you have to ask… we have to have a conversation”
oh they sooo have held hands on the swings before silly little teenage dream crush behavior bfs
#i hate gay people why#leave me alone#dan and phil#dnp#phan#phil lester#amazingphil#daniel howell#danisnotonfire#danandphilgames
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im genuinely looking into making tullfric standee and shaker charms someone please lobotomise me?
#talking#skyrim#general tullius#tullfric#ulfric stormcloak#it would be so funny#so fire#i just gotta make the assets#i hope these old men die btw#i do not want to fuck that old man i want to see him dead on the street#no bcs people are literally like “haha yoire obsessed bc ur attracted to them” to like tease me and thats just not true#theyre like horrible fucking things that wont leave me alone#i study them like animals#i want them dead. superhell for gay old t4t yuriyaoi whatever the fuck is happening here shit#im gonna throw up i hatw them i hate them
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