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[the-blind-assassin-12]

Well…

I’ve fallen hopelessly behind again. I have so many tags and comments to respond to and so many things saved in my drafts to scream about and so many amazing reads to catch up on and so much writing to finish but things have been hectic (and not all in the best way) so I haven’t had the time I’ve wanted and needed to catch up on things BUT I’m (slowly) going to try to change that.

I’m sorry if you’ve sent an ask or tagged me in a dash game that I haven’t responded to yet, or if you’ve recently posted an update to a story that I haven’t gone unhinged about yet. I’m absolutely not losing interest and I cannot wait to see what I’ve been missing out on.

Wishing you all a wonderful weekend!! 💚

[beastlyidiocy]

i love you people of yharnam 🥺 I really do

[mossy-paws]

Coroika Splatoon but it’s PHIGHTING! Roblox

Hi to my Coroika and phighting fans so how are we feeling about this one

cooked these up in a few hours! These honestly didn’t really take that long at all and were really fun to do since I got to play around with some charcoal brushes (I love doing everything in my power to NOT use midtones lmfao).

I tired to mimic the style of the manga a bit and I think i did relatively okay! I have a lot more of these planned so yeah >:3! Really excited to get to do them sometime

Og Panels:

[dreamsy990]

some of the less nice thoughts about being aroace

extras below the cut

sketch

closeups on my favorite panels

bonus: adios

[jemmo]

i don’t want to jump the gun, but i think hwang daseul might have just done it again. two episodes in to let free the curse of taekwondo and i am obsessed. more than obsessed. transfixed. this show feels special in a way hwang daseul’s touch only can give, and just using these two episodes to compare to her previous works, i love that i can already spot the continuity in the kinds of stories she tells, the messages she portrays and how she portrays them. she just knows how to let her characters exist in harmful and difficult places and show how their experiences affect them while also just showing them as normal human beings. it is so so easy to overdramatise these kinds of stories that have these difficult topics and have it be so surface level, but she has never done that. instead, she shows how those experiences shape a person and how they go about living in spite of them. all the way from where your eyes linger to now, she gives us characters that are wholly themselves and not just the traumas they have gone through and i just adore that. i can’t remember what i was talking about specifically, but i remember talking about this sentiment and how it actually helps to build empathy in an audience as opposed to just showing a difficult topic at the most surface level bc you think that makes it accessible and easier to understand and hence empathise with. i don’t think that ever works. it’s only when you do what hwang daseul does, when you give us characters we can get to know and fall in love with and care for that you help us to empathise with their experiences. it’s hard to understand the weight and the hardship of experiencing something traumatic, but when something bad happens to someone close to you, a family member or a friend, you understand and feel that pain astronomically more. that’s what hwang daseul manages to do. and more so, she makes you feel that while also seeing these people as people. you get to see them away from the hurt, you see them smile in moments of happiness and you see that too with people you’re close to, and you feel even more how special and important those moments of happiness are.

and that’s why, whenever hwang daseul is at the helm of something, i will be seated from start to end with endless boxes of tissues ready. i can’t wait to see what else this show has in store.

[quietlyblooms]

alright, friends, it's time for a lil heart-to-heart.

for quite a while now, i've struggled with feeling like the rpc is an actual community. there's a few things that contribute to this feeling, but it mostly comes down to a lack of interaction and visible interest. sometimes i feel very one-sided in my interest and attachment to my mutuals bc when i see their ooc posts or headcanons, i like them or comment, yet this isn't reciprocated by everyone. i can usually guess who i'm about to see in my notifications, and to be absolutely clear, i'm very grateful for those people!! it's a handful or two of you, but it could be just one and i'd be grateful. it's not about numbers whatsoever but rather growing uncomfortable that not all of my mutuals are all that interested in my character or me.

i write on here to share the excitement of creating with other people. i write on here to create together, too, but i'm also here to share characters and ideas and lore with people i know are happy to hear me ramble. i'm just getting to the point in which i'm questioning how many of you are actually happy to listen, and that's just not a good feeling at all. i'm not a mind reader, y'all. if you don't tell or show me that you care about the things i talk about or even about interacting, there's no way for me to know. eventually, i'm going to question why you're following me if i never see or hear from you, and eventually, i'm going to softblock and move on. that's the only way forward i see right now because i just do not feel comfortable on my own blog. i feel like i'm retreating into this quiet bubble to avoid discomfort, and it really sucks. it's killing my muse.

i'm not perfect. none of us are, and we can't be online at all times to catch every little post. but if we're a community, then we should be supporting each other when we can and liking headcanons, liking/commenting on those lil ooc posts that remind us our writing partners are humans with lives outside this site, reblogging their promo posts, sending in that meme they've reblogged even if we're nervous to reach out first -- if we're a roleplaying community, then we need to act like it. " community " implies connection, and a connection doesn't really begin when you follow each other. it begins when you reach out, even if it's in some small way.

tldr: i think we can all do better to support our mutuals and to connect, and i'm going to softblock people rather than continue to feel unsure where i stand with my mutuals. i won't start until sometime next week, and i won't make one of those " like this to remain mutuals " posts. they're not helpful to me, if i'm honest. if you're worried, just reach out. i'm literally a 4'9'' gremlin who sleeps with a m.unchlax plushie -- i promise i'm not scary despite this post uvu

[triaelf9]

hey folks who interact with creative works online! just a tiny PSA

If you don't like a character, that's totally fine! If you have a different reading of a situation in a show & have issues with stuff that's going on, that's also fine.

What is NOT fine is to ACTIVELY SEEK OUT fans of the characters you don't like and talk shit about them, the characters they have feelings about, or the content they've posted b/c you, Freddy McHatesalot really needs to tell everyone how much you dislike a...fictional character.

You are totally welcome to consume content in your own space in whatever way you see fit. It is disrespectful of the fandom space to try to drag other people into your space and interact with you if they don't want to. And dunking on a character in writings or art of them is fucking rude as hell to the person who put work into into the creation they made out of some feelings they were having.

Also. side note, it is possible to enjoy a character who is Wrong About Some Things or Isn't Doing The Right Stuff In The Right Situation. Sometimes it's possible to like a character and disagree with them, and shitting on people b/c you can't see what they see in a character is pretty trash garbage and is 90% of why I just make silly little art for me and my own silly feels and hope folks get a chuckle or some enjoyment out of it too.

[daily-reminder-to-click]

Here’s your reminder

Free Palestine🇵🇸🇵🇸

[deleteddewewted]

Update + Supermarket Romance Part 6:

The next part will be posted tomorrow or maybe tonight. Keep a look out!

[odericevertz]

uni neighbour is on sportsblr too 😭

[opens-up-4-nobody]

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[iristial]

The first three episodes of Gavv got leaked and deleted (Toei is prepared with their filming schedule :o)

From the thumbnails alone, the main Rider boy looks so Aruto-coded and it does good things to my heart. I almost want to see him do an Aruto ja naito (･ω･) Though I need to plead for this guy to not snap like a tree trunk every fourth business day. It's fun to watch in retrospect - and somehow a testament to acting skills - but it's heartburn and stress in real time lol

Junko Komura might be the lead writer? If that's true then this is going to be so fun! I've wanted to see her hand at a Rider series because I adore LuPato, I like a good chunk of Komura's humour, her dramatic beats get my brainworms and tears rolling like no tomorrow, and while I skipped Zenkaiger I did adore Stacey with every pathetic bone in my body. Stacey fancam mode was such a wonderful time <3 Maybe that means I'll get the toku ikemen I've been wanting for a while...? xD

Then again, the deal breaker could be the suit designs. I've noticed with Reiwa toku that I tend to skip series if I don't like a good portion of the suits (though I do want to see Revice and Donbrothers someday), and Gavv is - well, something so far lol We'll have to wait and see!

[queersolarpunk]

aanyone got some advice for how to save a house from damage from cold rooms?

Soo, I live in a house with my sister and her husband in Germany (it's their house) and we haven't had consistent heating for weeks now. By now, I think it's been two weeks without any heating. So far we were lucky and the temperatures stayed very high for this time of year and we're going to the gym for warm showers (I got so sick of cold showers, they suck and the water feels seriously icy).

Anyway now we got to the situation that the heating likely can't be repaired (even though we paid so much already to try and get it fixed) getting a new one will take at least a month, likely longer. Temperatures are gone drop next week. All three of us work a lot so we haven't had the time to do the research we should've done but I just realised the risks there are for the house apart from our discomfort (which I would've been fine with). But I read that with low temps inside below 15°C there's a risk of condensation and mold and of course with lower temperatures where the water can freeze the pipes can get fucked. We're probably gonna get an electric heater for at least one room, but there's barely used (not fully renovated) rooms. We're gonna be so insanely broke if we put heaters in every room (and we're gone need that money to get the new heating installed).

Anyway, I just had the hope with the type of people around on Tumblr (weirdly specific interests etc) anyone might have some advice/ reblog with the tags to bring it to the people that might have advice

[nyxi-pixie]

genuinely going to explode if i see another person say they miss skk

[unheavenlybody]

desperately trying to adapt my mindset so that instead of worrying that someone is secretly mad at me/hates me/that i've inadvertently done something wrong i just let it go. cuz logically if they're not willing to clearly communicate that i've upset them then it's not my problem & i can't dwell on it... and i could actually just be stressing over nothing... that would be the healthy thing to do wouldn't it??? but unfortunately i'm failing LMAO send help

[blushy-tigerrr]

vent in tags sorry

cw: mention of loss