#its cognitively dissonant!
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sped teaching classes so far are all like "it's incredibly important to have an empathetic, understanding, and flexible learning environment to affirm and uplift every students differences in a trauma informed and anti-ableist manner. Anyways here's how to conduct compliance based activities that will make your students pass for Normal™️"
#not super looking forward to the ABA course as an ABA disliker#i have a nuanced view of it but it evens out to a net negative#i understand the Why of why i need to know how to do ABA for like. legal and compliance reasons.#i just. dont think it aligns with the professional ethics put forth by the program!#its cognitively dissonant!#maybe I'll have a different opinion when i get to the course but. Im not excited#badger rants
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#mother cognitive dissonance#mother cogdis#giegue#niiue#been listening to ghosts in flight all day#its such a good ost . they did an amazing job#how i feel like rn being hyperfixated on a game that is FIFTEEN YEARS OLD#CURSE OF NO CONTENT ANYWHERE#forced to make my own content but its ok . that means i can do whatever i want 🫶#love and peace 🤞
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i been thinkin bout sampard a lot in terms of their values n morals n like. i feel ppl dont really address the fact that they are very much on opposing sides a the law in terms of what it would mean for an actual established relationship. which ofc is fine who cares but it Interests me so much like
at their cores they Do share a clear care for other ppl and the planet they live on. but gepard is very much a by the rules, follow the law, justice driven character who will follow laws to a T. its integral to his character. Opposing this is Sampo though like. he's a criminal and he messes woth people and we can argue that he isnt evil but he IS unlawful and orchestrates scams that harm people to arguable degrees.
i think the solution i see to this dichotomy the most is sampo turning a new leaf n becoming a Good Civilian but tbh i'd argue that his criminality is just as integral to his character as justice is to Gepard's. ive said before i cant imagine him ever changing into a Good Boy but i genuinely mean it.
i just think it'd be the most contentious aspect to their relationship like. that gepard believes the law is always moral and just, sampo doesnt see the law as always moral nor that He should always be moral. i dont know fully how they would actually parse that n i wanna explore it
#im jus thinking#sampard#honkai star rail#this is what i mean when i say they r great opposing characters#because they arent opposing in terms of evil and good#they are both Good under it all. its more like. the hero and the anti-hero.#i kinda sorta plan to address this a bit in my doctor fic but not hugely. just like#sampo cannot stop being a criminal just as gepard cant stop being the captain. what does that mean?#like imagine the cognitive dissonance that must give gepard holyshit
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fantasy high sophomore year: *a whole episode about confronting your deepest fears that massively calls you out and fucks with your head*
five minutes later
fantasy high sophomore year: 'you're gonna shit in my mouth and you, sexy rat, are gonna fuck me or whatever'
#the cognitive dissonance#the whiplash#what a fucking episode#to have fabian have to deal with this as part of his fears. and riz's was to have a nap in a comfy bed instead of following a trail.#(granted thats a Vast simplification for them both and doesn't do either justice.#but its just wild to think about how many places this eps gone to)#also dw im fine/safe. just standard spiraling. happens all the time#cw mental health#dropout#dimension 20#d20#d20 fantasy high#fantasy high#fantasy high sophomore year
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stop telling me facts about gojo—i dont want them Anymore
#she just learned hes a dog person#but he goes to bed at 4am just like me 🥹🥹🥹🥹#delete later#his parents are alive sounds like a lie#i assumed the entire gojo clan was Dead for some reason#me loving gojo forever#someone: he likes dogs#me: oh my god but like how much-#no no its okay if ur a dog person i just dont wanna hear about it lowkey nicely politely please#ive just met one really annoying dog person and it-#gojo can change my opinion on dog people-#witnessing me go through cognitive dissonance on the spot#maybe i just dont want his parents alive bc ive been drawing their son naked#this is the worst fking facts list of all time wtf-
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its crazy how coming into clinical social work, i really just thought I was up against systems and cycles of trauma....but it turns out i'm up against those two things AND other therapists. the amount of work spent correcting mistakes from other clinicians--whether with clients or during the classroom--is fucking crazy.
i totally get we're all on different journeys in terms of being clinicians. but it is insane finding out day after day of therapists and clinicians saying the worst things ever to clients. demeaning them, telling them "it's all in their head", the racism and the ableism and harm that is caused. like no fucking wonder people are afraid to seek therapy (on top of the accessibility issues). while i'm a little biased and think that at the very least clinical social work training focuses on viewing people within their environments (so not engaging in the medical/individualist models of practice that a lot of counseling programs focus on), that doesn't mean it gives every person the skills to be an effective therapist. i'm also not saying i'm the best clinician ever--I'm literally in training--but boy! it is jarring seeing how some of my peers interact in class and wondering...is that how you are with your clients??
my social work program at the very least also has a focus on anti-racism, but i know students from other programs and some of them don't even mention racism AT ALL and focus entirely on diagnosing people "correctly", or finding the perfect form of therapy to use on a client. but man, what none of these programs teach are basic life skills. wanting to be a clinician isn't enough, especially considering that an inhumane amount of people in my program are 1. so nervous about making mistakes that they lose scope of their practice 2. have so much internalized racism/white guilt to work thru 3. or they have absolutely no listening skills.
again, im not trying to make it seem like I am the number 1 clinician in the world ever. I don't even have a psych background or bachelor's in social work. my reasons for going into social work are quite selfish (I want a job that is very flexible, easily transferable, and can be done in different contexts), and the helping people part is just a plus. i'm just saying it's very jarring seeing other people in training and realizing they too are working with clients. i have conversation after conversation about these issues with other BIPOC/queer/marginalized clinicians, so I know i'm not the only person worried about some of the people that will be out of this program in a few years practicing on their own or with vulnerable populations.
#muerto talks#just rambling#maybe im just a hater virgo with a strong sense of justice#i am just forever perplexed#learning that some of my classmates believe that you can be racist to white people is crazy#learning that some of my classmates are rude and dismissive to BIPOC students but they work in BIPOC communities#learning that some of my classmates weaponize their mental illnesses as an excuse to act shitty to professors classmates or clients is craz#there are zionists??? trying to be social workers??????#i literally have classes with zionists#some people r doing a whole ass career change because they had a spiritual calling to help people??#again not saying im such a great clinician im in training just like the rest of my program#but you cannot like tell me to even try to be hopeful about some of the people who will be my collegues in a year#because i have no hope for them#and its going to take making serious mistakes for them to maybe snap out of it#and that fucking sucks#nothing in my body feels safe around those people#like idc maybe im an elitist with impossible standards#maybe im the one asking too much from these people.....#the cognitive dissonance is real in these people man
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tired of early 20-somethings acting like harry potter was never good or had no value in its day like shut the fuck up half of you weren't even there when it peaked
#sit with the cognitive dissonance like the rest of us or shut up honestly#was it a product of its time yes#was it's author a very basic neoliberal white lady from a country with a long and unchecked imperialist history yes#was the story influenced by said neoliberal worldviews and unexamined biases obviously#does any of that make it a bad story or an unimaginative world no#you can pick apart any fantasy world if you try hard enough#harry potter was a good telling of the hero's journey written in the format of seven mystery novels set against a fantasy backdrop#we can certainly talk about its flaws or how the author's biases leaked onto the page#but stop acting like it was never good and there was never a reason those books resonated with people#it's condescending for one thing and again- if you're younger than like...24-25 you didn't actually experience the heyday of the books#if you're 25 now you'd have been like 8 or 9 when the last book came out and probably weren't reading them yet#you might remember the latter half of the movie era but you have no idea how much it was the BOOKS that drove its popularity#never before and never since has any book series had the fanfare that harry potter did and that didn't happen for no reason#so find a way to make peace with that instead of acting intellectually superior because you grew up with percy jackson instead#this 'well MY generation's preferred childhood book series is morally superior to YOURS so I'm better than you' shit drives me up a wall#like get over yourself honestly#...sorry had to get that off my chest there was this youtube video and it was irritating me
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the amount of zionists that are into dropout content is funny but not surprising bc i feel like the dropout audience is rlly attractive to weird tumblr liberal zionists. its just very funny to see them get angry in the dropout tag that this company does not support them. lmao.
#read the post and theyve lost their minds.#theyre like. ummm whats happening in gaza is bad but its not a genocide#the cognitive dissonance is insane.#dropout
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the BEST thing about the marc/pecco/vale toxic triangle of psychodrama, public relations, and gentlemen's sporting rivalry is that pecco could and should just text valentino to stop it. but he absolutely never ever will under any circumstances
#he wants both of their respect and approval too bad....#motogp#callie speaks#now would vale stop it hm i dont think so. but he might CHILL JUST A LITTLE if pecco is like hi. the press are absolutely on my ASS#but no hes too busy trying to be daddy's special princess/avenger AND maintain a calm relationship with his future teammate its SO funny#next year is gonna be vale shit-talking marc from 1 foot away in parc ferme and then marc and pecco making small talk in the cooldown room#just like insane levels of cognitive dissonance........
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time to settle this once and for all
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#earthbound halloween hack#homestuck#alterniabound#mother: cognitive dissonance#Undertale#super smash bros ultimate#smash ultimate#ssbu#pesterquest#megalovania#Tbh I never finished reading Homestuck (just lost motivation to do it and never got it back) but I like its version the best I think#idk something about the guitar.#Youtube#Edit; I meant to set this for a week not a day oh crap-
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Truly wish mangahood fans would just tell first time Brotherhood watchers to read the manga first to get all the context they need to make Brotherhood suck 1% less, instead of suggesting the broke-ass, tired "watch 03 until it diverges" nonsense.
These continuities do not line up. They do not click into each other. The characters in 03 are fundamentally different from mangahood, the events of fma 03 from episode 1 are fundamentally different to !the manga! let alone to Brotherhood. The way alchemy itself works is fundamentally different and that's pretty obvious when you compare mangahood and 03! So how are you going to funnel newbies into mangahood by feeding them half of 03?
I know we're all hoping new fans are as incapable of engaging with what they're actually watching as most existing fma fans, but it would make far more sense to prepare them by having them actually read the source material that Brotherhood is actually adapting, not an anime that Brotherhood has nothing to do with.
#fma fans continue to ignore glaring details/differences in world building/entire changes to characterization all in order#to fully project what they want to see onto their preferred media#media literacy is not this fandom's strong suit and every day i have to be reminded of this fact#''the 03 debacle'' PLEASE lmfaooooo#the debacle. truly. the debacle of... not being the manga? which we can solve by having new ppl READ the MANGA? what a concept.#is this post kind? no. is this post helpful? if fma fans can pull their heads out of their asses and read sure. otherwise no.#is it cathartic for me though? only barely#i'm the sort who tends to be very ''do whatever you want with stories and media'' but the way fma fans cannot figure out how to square#a poorly paced adaptation with its source material so instead they veer into an anime adaptation that's doing its own thing & lambast it fo#INTENTIONALLY being a different beast; yet treating it as essential for the anime that's adapting the manga is mad annoying#JUST READ THE MANGA#actually engage with stories on a deeper level? No! Cognitive dissonance your way into a fanon-approved Platonic Ideal Fullmetal Alchemist!#fma#vent
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its really awesummmmm to have body image problems in the world that we live in even trying to “eat healthily” always feels like subjecting myself to a disordered form of eating somehow because my palate is so rectricted already but when i just eat normal stuff that i enjoy like fucking TOAST i start feeling like im going to be killed badly and i overthink every meal choice i make and the amount of ambient Food Noise in my brain at all times is so overwhelming it makes me sick esp when all my “body positive” friends and family are always talking about diet this and diet that and protein shakes and what have you because it’s so insanely normal to do so and my algorithm wont stop showing me healthy cooking videos and talking about protein every meal, diet matters more than exercise, carb replacements tofu pancakes shut up SHUT UPPPPP!!!!!!!!! FUCKK
#i gained a lot of weight on my antidepressants and i cant just stop taking them but it is like fucking up my brain soooo bad to exist#like my brain knows its fine and normal but it doesnt even matter like i live with so much cognitive dissonance it’s become unreal#plus im on the Apps so my physical appearance really does have a direct impact on my life so im always thinking about it all the time#and it curtails with me being a picky eater which i feel like is heinous and morally weong on my part and i feel such an immense GUILT#about it while also being aware i cant really do anything about it yayyyyyy#and then even posting about it feels wrong because im like maybe externalizing it is worse blah blah blah#just feels like something is REALLY wrong with how i think about myself but theres no way to deal with it because#having that mindset about your body is literally the normal state of affairs in everyone else like#personal#flumps. i need to go do pilates now. i guess.
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Spirit animal SQH
#svsss#shang qinghua#but mainly I'm just here to vague post LMAO I don't like to vague post its not very effective in terms of venting but#but basically I guess I'm becoming hyperaware of my like... cognitive dissonance codependency and derealization ee#also my general laziness ig and where it overlaps into executive dysfunction or whatever like I may genuinely have some issues but#I am also a lazy son of a bitch jfjfkgkg and i need to figure out how to figure it out so I can work on both in more effective ways hhggg#oh yeah but basically the thing to remember for later is the silence in the call and the immediate unmute and chat activity once I left#I should remember this and stop interacting I think? I should try to give em space I think I'm being too clingy or something#or maybe my own silence is too awkward and dampens the call? I was kinda just spacing out and not doing anything so I get its kinda weird#LMAO so I should just like try not to be in call for those times mm#I just like being in call with my friends jdhfkg but I suppose its not very good either#I overindulge I suppose another friend pointed it out to me before too haha but fjfjjt its just easier than facing bouts of dread by myself#eehh and that's why I gotta do something about my Metnal Ailneses hfjfj but ngl I don't really know how to go about it...#I get embarrassed looking stuff up djfnfkg and half the time I don't even know what to look up I just draw ?s and I give up#I suppose I also have commitment issues too but that ones not new which is an issue of itself aaaaaaaa#man idk idk I just don't really get it I guess djdjfjf and I've got existential dreads and think maybe it doesn't really matter whats wrong#cause there's no point to fixing them because ultimately I'm gonna die alone and a failure anyways? so like ehfjgkg idk#its depressing and I know its like sabotage cause my brain is being a little silly a little goofy and its not a shared sentiment#with the better half of me and the entirety of my friends but yknow its just ee harder sometimes to believe in the optimism ig#and i can talk about it somewhat normally and without like having a ✨️break down#but yknow djfjgkg I'm very emotional a person ya? I think sqh is relatable for gods sake 💀#irrationality sentimentality nihilism and existential dreads... wanting to die because living is too hard despite all my hopes for living...#just the ol regulars yknow?#and another thing... do I talk to my friends about these things? I vent them out here a lot but what do I really want?#I'm not strong enough to keep it to myself clearly but I'm also too proud to share these thoughts? I dump them out in the open and for what?#whenever someone reaches out with concern and care I don't respond in kind and refuse to elaborate?#so like what do I want with this? I guess I want someone to know I'm going insane half the time I'm awake? but not do anything about it?#that's pretty unfair I guess... and stupid I think I do want to share my thoughts with someone but I'm too scared of the ramifications#and that my pride can't stand the fact I might be looked differently by my friends even tho the image they have of me is already quite silly#man.... idk.... I'll come to conclusions myself and do nothing about them so I guess that'll happen again aah idk idk idk
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I just wanted to shove some lights here idk yes i watched cyberpunk edgerunners after putting the show off FOREVER and i liked the lighting in the scene david got the shit beaten out of him in the first episode lul
#library of ruina#project moon#lor#roland#roland lor#if you are curious about the show#it highkey sucked after the 8th episode#the timeskip was already weird#WHAT DID THEY DO TO DAVID BAHAHAHA#having an oc named david and then talking about the edgerunners david is giving me cognitive dissonance lmao#BUT EITHER WAY#show is ight up to maines death or however you spell his name#i dont rember#okey yeah uhhh seee yaaa!#have some good hydration sometime its important#see ya fellas!
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goyish leftists be like:
"i stand with all opressed people! except jews (((zionists))) who arent opressed, actually, and deserve to be killed because they are evil, greedy, lack empathy, and secretly control the media.
anyway happy hanukkah to those who celebrate!!! 😊😊😊"
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finally on s13 and jack is the best character in the whole world i love him so much i’ll protect him with my life. in other news i want to kill dean winchester
#also THEY FUCKING KILLED CROWLEY???????? WHAT#i’m not phased by anyone else cause i know they all come back#but. what the fuck#dean every two seconds to his brother who spent years thinking he was destined to be evil because of something about him he couldn’t change:#wow jack is literally evil and we should kill him. he’s LUCIFER’S KID.#sam who was lucifer’s vessel: 😐#Deans cognitive dissonance is literally astounding he just doesn’t think about that#and its completely understandable sam isn’t going to bring it up because like. every time he’s ever gone Hey dean maybe we like Shouldn’t#jump at killing people who might be evil :/ deans been like Sam what the fuck that’s so awful of you why would you even say that why are you#betraying me��…….#or dean’d be like Yeah well you did like almost end the world by trusting that demon so🙄#or maybe he would actually listen! who knows! but sam doesn’t know either way#spn#supernatural#liveblogging spn#oliver talks
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