#it's not just for npd too

[chaos-in-one]

Friendly (or unfriendly if you're against this) reminder that this blog is supportive of ALL disorders. This blog does not think ANY disorder inherently makes someone a bad person, and is against any disorder being demonized. This blog wholeheartedly believes that a bad person having a disorder, yes, even if things that are also symptoms of their disorder are part of what caused harm, does not make the disorder a "bad" or "evil" disorder or excuse ableism and demonization directed towards the disorder.

Yes this includes personality disorders

Including npd and aspd

Yes this includes all psychotic disorders & disorders that cause psychotic symptoms

Yes this includes paraphilic disorders. All of them.

Yes this includes disorders that cause, or are even characterized by, attention seeking

Yes this includes disorders that directly have lying as a common symptom

Yes this includes dissociative disorders

Yes this includes any disorder with "gross" symptoms

Yes this includes physical disorders too

Yes this includes disorders that can cause loss of control of any kind- control of speech, control of body movement, etc.

Yes tis includes disorders that make someone "look scary"

This goes for literally any fucking disorder. There are not exceptions.

[anti-transphobia]

Personally, I think it's a very fair argument, because it's not only allistic people who violently hate narcissists (and other demonized disorders). Unfortunately there are a LOT of people out there who think awful stuff is okay as long as it doesn't personally affect them. Saying "you wouldn't call something autistic abuse" to an autistic person is to help them more personally connect to the concept of symptoms of a disorder not making you a bad person. To an allistic this is less effective because yes they could very well be just as ableist to autistic people, but there is a LOT of autistic people in the world and it's a completely reasonable way to try to get them to see there are more types of people in the world that needs supporting than them

"You wouldn't call it "autistic abuse", so don't call it "narcissistic abuse".

I'm not a big fan of this argument, because it's not entirely accurate.

It's partially accurate in the sense that people don't usually use the exact phrase "autistic abuse" to describe abuse from an autistic person or abuse that seems like it would be from an autistic person. But there are many examples of people, especially parents, acting like they're the victim of someone else's autism. There are many examples of autistic people being demonized for doing things that neurotypical people get away with all the time.

[doomsdayradio]

YOU call him a narcissist because he's a horrible person I call him a narcissist because he fits the NPD criteria and he's just like me fr

[mushiver]

Me rocking back and forth going "their opinion is valid, their opinion is valid" when I just heard the worst and most wild, foul, cringy, out of pocket take about Ford Pines in existence

[spyres]

apparently the confessions blog is posting dumb takes we have to put it down now

[paranormalbadges]

Would you be willing to make NPD badges? There's a few versions including the one by npdsafe, and two alternatives by npdflag (npdsafe's flag is only found through archives but is the most well known) It'd also be neat to see other cluster b badges too! though im less familiar about the common flags for the others (BPD, HPD, ASPD)

Badges in Order: NPD, NPD, NPD, NPD awareness, NPD (but in pink), NPD awareness

All of these are F2U (free to use) with or without credit! Made with SimplyPlural in mind, but can be used for anything the user sees fit.

Flag Credits:

First Flag is by @/yaoithaqua on X.

Second and Third Flag are by @/npdpositivity on X.

Fourth Flag is by @/npdsafe on Tumblr.

Fifth Flag is by @/lovesse on Tumblr.

Sixth Flag is by @/npdsafe on Tumblr.

[cybergothvox]

Whenever people are like 'my personality disoder does make me (read: excuses me for being) a bad person! It gives me all these mean irrational feelings and urges I wouldnt be bad without!' I'm like.

Did you know you can choose not to act on your feelings

Maybe it gives you urges but it doesnt make you a bad person actually. Your choice to act on those urges does. And its always a choice. Asshole

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Cluster b culture is being scared of getting into new relationships because people get upset when you tell them your diagnosis. How are we supposed to know if they're safe to tell unless we bring it up?

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[faggotthatwilldie]

Everytime a neurotypical tells a borderline “stop making bpd your whole personality”, ten years are taken off the entire world’s lifespan because of the pure brain cell damage in that sentence. ITS A PERSONALITY DISORDER WHAT DO YOU MEAN DON’T MAKE IT YOUR WHOLE PERSONALITY?

[bloodheartz]

Self proclaimed empaths on their way to "advocate for the mentally ill 🥺" by demonizing every cluster b personality disorder

[your-local-narc]

TW: vent, suicide baiting, ableism

Had a rough day today. I was really low on supply so I asked 2 of my friends for some attention and explained why I was asking. One of my friend's friends was there and he was an ass about it. He told me I can't expect attention and if I want attention I should kill myself. When I explained to him that I need supply to not be suicidal and depressed and anxious he told me to kill myself again and I shouldnt use my disorder as an excuse. He kept telling me to kill myself. He's told me to commit suicide before but this time he kept saying it. He said the world would be better without me. Not sure what to do about it.

(Vent continued in the tags)

[cupboard-of-npd]

SO ALASTOR HAS NPD WE CAN ALL AGREE RIGHT

[taxi-boi]

free my man! he did all that shit but he was [stigmatized disorder] coded and all of his actions were the result of ableist/sanist writing decisions made by the author.

[anxiouslyextroverted]

do you have any dsmp neurodivergent headcanons? I have many

YES! thank you for asking!! :D

these are how i personally view the characters + whats canonically stated and I was debating to myself for an hour whether c!Tommy should go in alexithymia or not

[cconfusedkat]

Part 4 of re-designing my old refs! Kallamar,, the squirterrrrrrr 🦑 Kallamar was unexpected for the fourth day tbh I thought i was originally gonna do someone else but it just happened to be him. Not dissapointed though i had much fun writing and drawing her lore 🦑🦑🦑

(Content warning for neglect if reading btw,,)

There's a lot of yapping points. If that wasn't obvious enough,, event organizer came to mind instead of no occupation cuz like. Really what else would Kallamar do ?? She wont have time for being a doctor in this cult NOR would she have time doing anything else !!!! Event organizer it was 🕺 specifically the "events" are mainly just rituals, so sometimes his job intertwines with his siblings. Funny

YAY NOW HCS!!!! 🫶🫶🫶 idk i really like to give him a lot of lore..... it just feels more fitting than the other three.... from one yapper to another

AND OFC A BLANK! I know the text is definitely overwhelming 😭

@/bloos-bloo has made fanart for hir before!! Twice i believe :>c if you wanted to go check that out on her blog !!!!

[enbygunderson]

If you crash a post made by a victim discussing their experiences with narcissistic abuse with walls of text and preface it all with "I have NPD": ...yeah, no shit you do.

Literally no one is saying "all NPD people are abusive", but those who aren't wouldn't be going out of their way looking up certain tags on tumblr just to finger wag and play victim on strangers' tumblr posts.