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Interrogation/torture scenes where Whumper is just as gentle as they are cruel.
Their voice is soft even as they slide a serrated knife beneath Whumpee’s skin, methodically drawing out screams. Between rounds, they crouch on their heels as if calming a scared child, tilting their head to peer underneath a sweaty curtain of hair.
They ask guilessly, as blood drips steadily from the knife in their hand, “Should we try this again?”
#Whumpee’s hitched sob hearing those words over and over until they give Whumper the answer they’re looking for#even if it’s a lie#basically Whumpers who act like they’re dealing with children#it’s so demeaning#it makes Whumpee feel helpless or hysterical#as if they’re the one who’s doing all of this to themself#even when Whumper is holding the knife#the layers to the torture I’m telling you#that’s the good stuff#whump
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"I feel like Gemma was reduced to motherhood/wife tropes this episode and that made it bad" - me when I'm only able to engage with an episode of television in the isolation of my own personal tastes/worldview instead of viewing it within the broader narrative themes of the entire show surrounding personhood, the self, autonomy, womanhood, motherhood, family, and religious hierarchy.
#girl is constantly run down in this episode in ways she actively finds demeaning in a way that is enough to rebel against#what do you MEAN the narrative wants us to view her so simplistically are you DUMB#i think you're the one being reductive here maybe watch the episode again!!!!!!#severance#severance spoilers#7th speaks
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hey btw if you're in the USA at 2:20 p.m. ET on Wednesday, Oct. 4, they're testing the emergency broadcast system. your phone is probably going to make a really loud noise, even if it's on silent. there's a backup date on the 11th if they need to postpone it.
if you're not in a safe situation and have an extra phone, you should turn that phone completely off beforehand.
additionally, if you're like me, and are easily startled; i recommend treating it like a party. have a countdown or something. be surrounded by your loved ones. take the actions you personally need to take to make yourself safe.
i have already seen mockery towards any person who feels nervous about this. for the record, it completely, completely valid to have "emergency broadcast sounds" be an anxiety trigger. do not let other people make fun of you for that. emergency sounds are legitimately engineered to make us take action; those of us with high levels of anxiety and/or neurodivergence are already pre-disposed to have a Bad Time. sometimes it is best to acknowledge that the situation will be triggering for some, and to prepare for that; rather than just saying "well that's stupid, it's just a test."
"loud scary sound time" isn't like, my favorite thing, but we can at least try to prevent some additional anxiety by preparing for it. maybe get yourself a cake? noise cancelling headphones? the new hozier album? whatever helps. love u, hope you're okay. we are gonna ride it out together.
#watching ppl go from being like ''support neurodivergent ppl~~!"#to being like ''if this is going to give u a panic attack ur fuckken stupid''#like..... gets me#yeah man. i know im going to be triggered by it . in the old fashioned term. it is GOING to give me a panic attack. it's pretty much certai#and i shouldn't have to tell u about what i have survived for you to be okay with that.#you can just trust that i ALSO don't want me to react to it. i'm not gonna be having a FUN time.#dismissing that bc you think it's stupid.... like is the whole problem.#these sounds are workshopped by entire teams of people to get you to pay attention and move quickly.#they arent meant to be fun and exciting.#OBVIOUSLY it's gonna set ppl off.#but yeah there's something so fuckken demeaning about ppl being like. well that trigger isn't valid bc u haven't undergone X#dude i have ptsd bc i was abused as a child. like plain and simple. the fact im 30 and afraid of the dark tells you how bad it was.#i shouldn't have to ask u for permission to be mentally ill.#the reason it's a fucking disorder and not a fucking choice is that I DO NOT CONTROL IT.#like how is it any different from when ppl are like ''oh public speaking isn't that scary'' like FOR YOU#for YOU this isn't scary. now if i could fucking eat my own amygdala...
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everyone say thank you to brianne battye who wrote for both cullen rutherford and neve gallus, two people who would rather fall on a sword than develop crushes but ultimately can't resist the indecipherable yearning of their huge, disgustingly soft hearts
#brianne battye#dragon age#cullen rutherford#neve gallus#bioware#veilguard#datv#inquisition#honestly that's my fav trope of all time in my LIs so i basically worship the ground she walks on#haven't romanced neve yet but she's NEXT and i can't fuuuuucking wait. step on me. kiss me. literally anything#and we already know how fucking rabid i am about cullen#the ex church girl in me salivates over him i swear its demeaning of myself but idc#mine
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Do you think vi was a virgin before The Scene
nah. my girl was in prison for 7 yrs. did u see how quick she DROPPED to her knees like that shit comes from experience yall. she knows what the fuck shes doing sdlkfjsodiaghadlf
#🌧 raindrops#arcane#♨ steamy#truly like no i see the vision for vi being a virgin but at least in my hc shes like... so angry all the time#she DEF started fights and like.... how else to cool off sometimes but with a good hatefuck? mm. delicious#consider prison!vi x thief!reader who gets throne in a few years after vi gets put in#and vi immediately recognizes u like “ur the bitch who stole from one of our jobs” and ur like wow~~~ im honored u rmbr me#shell fuck u against her cell wall w her fingers shoved down ur throat to muffle ur moans#whisper about all the trouble she'd gotten in bc of ur hands while twisting them behind ur back#“not so quick w ur hands now are you?”#or make you finger her but like is super demeaning about it#“what happened? thought ur fingers were supposed to be faster than this -- show me what you got”#dude i need jesus LOL#vi x reader#vi smut#arcane smut#arcane x reader
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the new thing on Twitter is drawing characters into Hot Ones and i’ve been cracking myself up for days imagining Daffy on it because he would be so charmingly obnoxious, and as he’s gesticulating and being a pest he keeps flicking hot sauce everywhere and it lands in Sean Evans’ eye and then Daffy is permanently banned from Hot Ones
#this is such a Nothing drawing so on main it goes#also yes there's no 'oh it's cauliflower' bullshitting No. half of the fun is the horrendous implications of this bird on bird consumption#Daffy most certainly would not discriminate#trying to explain the logic only demeans it.#not bad for a guy that never took a lesson in his life!
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im actually so pissed that the anime production team decided to fuck around with the adaptation because the voice actors genuinely elevated the show so much and i wish they stuck closer to the manga because it wouldve been insane if it was just the manga combined with the voice acting and soundtrack omg. like im reading the manga rn and im at the warehouse scene and i like it better because its just generally more fleshed out and better composed but brad swailes weird little giggle as he says “soichiro yagami?” and during the speech is so perfect and i cant unhear it
#death note#light yagami#actually all of his deliveries in that scene#‘matsuda you idiot! who the hell do you think youre shooting at?!? dont screw with me!’#i also loved the way nears va said ‘no’ followed by ‘youre just a murderer’#the way it was delivered made it sound like he was talking to a dog almost#idk i think the demeaning infliction perfectly fits the scene#WHO ELSE COULDVE DONE IT#AND COME THIS FAR#WOULD THEY HAVE KEPT GOING???#so many good ones#and his growl before yelling at matsuda#perfection#i guess near was right to talk to him like a dog
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"here, your vip seat," rin says as kaiser is infront of them half sitting on the ground...
#rin honey do you want to share something with the class?#guys hes just a girl who ships kaisagi what can i even say 😔😔#thats actually so funny i genuinely thought for a second that rin was telling isagi that#i mean he technically could in a demeaning way#still mad hilarious#bllk manga#blue lock#bllk#rin itoshi#itoshi rin#bllk rin#blue lock rin#blue lock isagi#bllk isagi#isagi yoichi#yoichi isagi#bllk kaiser#blue lock kaiser#michael kaiser#micheal kaiser#kaisagi#my post
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the thing that sets apart hua cheng from most other devotee/worshipper-type relationships in other media is that hua cheng would actually throw himself on his knees and crawl across the floor if xie lian wanted to, he would demean himself without shame because shame comes from the perception that you have done something wrong or foolish in another's eyes, and hua cheng would never see his god's will as either, nor care for anyone's else's opinion
#i was so happy when i read tgcf because this is what i mean when i want hopelessly devoted love interests#too many of these (dark) fantasy male love interests dont even treat her with basic respect#like what do you MEAN they drag her around and demean her#theyre often assholes at best and abusers at worst#there is no devotion or worshipping to be found#''he would kill for her'' but would he make peace with his enemies for her?? would he SAVE his enemies for her??#hua cheng would#hua cheng also wouldnt dream of ordering xie lian around#he told xie lian once not to get involved with the wind and water master but when xie lian did that anyone#all he said was ''thats okay baby i told you before: just do what you want to do ill be here for you either way<3''#he only intervenes more forcefully for xie lian's protection and he clearly HATES doing that#sorry for the vent but im tired of seeing the worshipper trope done so badly!!#where are the statues!! the murals!! the devouring need to be with them!! why arent these men on their knees!!!#hua cheng#tgcf#heaven official's blessing#tian guan ci fu#xie lian#hualian
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Its fine if you see Kanji as straight or use she/her for Naoto. I appreciate how Kanji's storyline is about accepting that its okay to not have masculine hobbies and how queerness and toxic masculinity are linked. I appreciate how rooted in a Japanese subtext Naoto's story is and how your going to have to understand it from a different perspective of a different life. Both of these characters I like and find interesting.
But I swear, if another Youtuber or other says in some variation "Thinking Naoto or Kanji's stories are queer means your MISSING THE POINT OF THE THEMES OF TRUTH IN P4" or that as they are in canon their arcs are perfect and not needing any sort of change and are not at all at least a little dated or problematic" I am going to start screeching.
#Hiding in Private is the only P4 Youtuber fan I respect on discourse matters#I may not agree with all of his opinions but his clear research and love of the series mean I can see from his viewpoint in a good manner#Everyone else at least sorta pisses off because it always feels demeaning when they say it#No I am not some evil twitter user getting my filthy hands on your beloved P4#I just think the game has flaws just like every other Persona game#Specifically a certain flaw with how these games are horrible at representing any sort of queer narrative#Tbskyen said it right#I love this series but goddamn is it conservative as fuck#A P4 remake scares me because I don't want more of these damn comments#Anyway Naoki Konishi is peak and the greatest character this game has given me#naoto shirogane#kanji tatsumi#discourse#persona 4#persona 4 golden#Also I finished Naoto's dungeon recently so no spoilers beyond their deadline please#I use they/them for Naoto too#Also if you want proof I've got like at least four exmaples
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ok so do yall think Teru said the “ah, to be young.” line to Ritsu because his time being alone has made him feel more mature than he actually is and therefore believes hes pretty much grown both comparatively and objectively or do you think he genuinely believes that someone who is at most a year younger than him is just that much younger
#this is a rhetorical question btw [half joke]#the third secret option is hes just weird and overdramatic and wanted to say a witty demeaning one-liner as a gotcha#mob psycho 100#mp100#mob psycho manga#teruki hanazawa#hanazawa teruki#off topic but i was so excited for the wig i was overjoyed to see it in action
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Hey I’m rewatching Warehouse 13 and it’s actually good??? I originally watched it when I was like 12, so I figured it would be one of those things where upon rewatching it I would realize it sucked but still get nostalgia from it, but that is not the case.
Sure the effects are lowkey shitty because it was 2009, but the writing?? Especially for the female characters?? They all have depth, internal conflict, unique character traits, individual strengths and weaknesses, it’s amazing!
I also love the world building. Half of it is based in real history and half of it is fully made up but all of it is fun and engaging and I enjoy it immensely.
#warehouse 13#Watching this show and looking at how so many writers write female characters currently#makes the flat demeaning “feminist” “strong female characters” even more pathetic than I thought#like I just needed a palate cleanser or something to realize how bad it’s gotten yikes#there’s a reason this show has more f/f ship fics than any other category by like a thousand fics#even though the gender ratio of characters is fairly even#and it’s because they treat their female characters with respect and dignity#also myca/helena are amazing together but that’s neither here nor there
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Hey, just wanted to reach out to say that I found you pointing out and calling this person was really great and you shouldn't have apologized. It was incredibly true what you said, and to be honest it seems out of touch with the reality of a great deal of the japanese fandom, the nuances and their culture. Also, it was as you pointed out, extreme and may I say rude. I want to mention too that the way it was written, as if entitled of the knowledge and the 'explanation' made it all worse in context of the 'fucked up'. The original poster always gets away by using the 'well-written academic'' statement of their 'metas' as an excuse to do or say and make everyone else agree and if not, uses victim narrative and discourses exactly selecting wording for people to agree on it or feel bad.
I don't know if they tagging you in the way they did made you reblog and apologizing/backing up, but no one thought bad about you pointing it out. On the contrary, a lot of people had been bullied and discriminated by this person when they called them out/disagreed going onto lenghts of sending their friends to harass people, and the other persons can't even defend themselves because they are effectively blocked. To quite a few people in the fandom has been done, even accusing them as 'acephobes' (when they're not) or even Nazis by spreading lies. So yeah, I just wanted to say that. I think you were right to call them out publicly.
Thank you very much for this ask. To be completely honest I agree with everything you said here and don't actually feel bad about pointing anything out. I mainly apologised because I didn't want any potentially poor phrasing from my side to cause unnecessary hostility and because I myself have gripes with this person's behaviour but didn't want to cause a scene.
My honest opinion is that they have a serious issue with taking accountability for their own mistakes and highly overestimate their own intellect. If you're reading this, @thegirlwhorideslikeasamurai, sorry if I seem harsh, but it's true. I saw your post lamenting how you're the only academic meta writer / fan in the fandom and I didn't interact then because I honestly do not care enough to start that drama but with the information Blonndiec has just given me, I think it's necessary that someone calls you out.
You're not an academic. You're not beyond the mental capabilities of other fans. You're actually incredibly childish in your metas and analyses and I am not kidding when I say that I was halfheartedly writing essays more academic than every analysis I've seen from you when I was barely a teenager. I don't know how old you are and I frankly don't care. You're not as clever as you think you are.
Also, don't think I didn't notice that you didn't reblog my correction (link here to my correction and here to their "response" for those who didn't see that exchange) of your post so that you could control what your followers saw of the exchange. You're the opposite of an academic. You control information to tailor the narrative, you don't cite your sources properly if at all, you don't format your posts in anything close to how an academic analysis would be, you make unbased claims, you reference posts and canon material without in any way indicating where that information is from, you reference your own (equally unacademic) metas and your conclusions from them without indicating what post it's from or that it's your own theory this new one is based on and instead present it as a common fact, and I could go on and on and on. Your posts are also riddled with logical fallacies and you talk in absolutes and opinions when there's no canon basis to claim such things. I'm sorry, but that's not academic in the slightest.
To be clear, you don't have to be an academic to post on the Internet. You don't have to be anything at all. You could up front be a genuine idiot with no remorse and that's fine. But when you claim to be an academic and also put down the rest of the fandom for not being on your level, you have to be able to back that up. It'd still make you sound like a prick but at least your arrogance would have a basis. It currently does not.
I haven't personally seen the discussions that Blonndiec is referencing and I'm not going to claim anything definitive (because that would be unacademic of me, take notes) but if what they're saying is true and did happen as described, which I have empirical, if anecdotal, evidence to believe could very well be (a friend of mine has personally been blocked by you after they criticised you without actually mentioning your name which I of course can't prove is the reason for the block but the timing is awfully convenient), you should know that you should be ashamed of yourself.
If there's context missing, feel free to enlighten me and call out any incorrect accusations. You have every right to defend yourself. However, I encourage you to cite your sources since you're such an academic. If you don't, then it's just your word against Blonndiec and anyone else who might comment's word and that doesn't prove anything. Don't misunderstand, acephobia and nazi rhetoric should absolutely be called out but only if it's actually happening. False accusations can ruin lives. I hope you know that.
I'm not a fan of calling people out publicly and, again, thank you for this ask, Blonndiec. But considering many of the issues I've personally seen and those I've been informed of by second hand sources were posted publically, I don't really feel bad about calling this out. I could do a full breakdown of just the insulting "academic" comments alone and how there's no academia to be found in said academic metas and, Samurai, if you give me reason to, I will show exactly what I mean point by point (and academically just to give you an example of even low level academia).
If you respond to this, do it in a reblog. That's what a real academic would do. If I'm wrong and you can prove it, you'd have no reason to not show my post in your rebuttal. If I'm right, you'd have every reason to be upfront about your mistakes and how you intend to rectify them. There's nothing wrong with being wrong but there's a lot wrong with refusing to admit to it in a way that lets others peer review you (academic thing, look it up) and come to their own conclusions about the situation. That's what you did when you just @'ed me instead of reblogging my response. A true academic wouldn't hide a peer review. You'd know that if you were one.
I swing in many academic spaces and yet that doesn't make me any kind of expert and I don't claim to be one because I'm not. But since you want to be one so badly, reblog this with a response and show us all how smart you are. I'm dying to know what your academic take on this is.
#sorry to any moots and followers reading this for going off like this#this has just been weighing on me for a long time#i have absolutely zero issue with someone just making posts about a thing they like and things they think about#it doesnt have to be any kind of academic in the slightest#citing sources is not necessary to be a part of fandom#but when you make such a bold and demeaning claim that actively puts down the very fandom you claim to be part of#im gonna get pissed#we are not your underlings and you are not better than anyone else#maybe this is my inner jantelov shining bright here but this is exactly what the modern jantelov is for#calling out people who think theyre better than the rest based on nothing but arrogance and ego#trust me this is not how i usually try to sort problems but ive had it and i think everyone should know#ive personally fallen victim to the “explain away with half baked arguments and appeals to emotion” tactic from people#its very easy to want to give people the benefit of the doubt#so as someone who knows and has experienced how easy it is to fall into that trap i want to point this out to those who might not notice#its very easy to miss#but i didnt miss it this time and im not letting anyone else miss it either#when you start forgiving this type of behaviour youre only a step away from letting them walk all over you#suddenly youre wrapped around their pinky and you wont notice until the light from the exit dims so much that you cant see at all#ive been there#im not letting you go there too#to be clear this isnt a this person issue but you have to catch this behaviour the moment you see it otherwise youll catch it too late#im only being this up front about it because i want you to be able to recognise when someone actually dangerous does it#its a kind of pipeline#i want you to notice in time#ask#yuri on ice
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it really fucking annoys me when people act like aziraphale only wants the angel version of crowley . i mean , yes . aziraphale still sees the angel in crowley . but an angel who didn’t ask to fall and didn’t deserve to fall . and an angel isn’t all he sees crowley for . i mean , he wasn’t pining friends with crowley for 6000 + years holding out hope that crowley would become an angel again or only seeing angel crowley because crowley isn’t like any of the angels aziraphale knows . he’s crowley . he’s not angelic or demonic but he’s crowley , and that’s what aziraphale loves .
#it’s literally so demeaning to his character it makes me SO fucking mad#aziraphale might’ve found angel crowley beautiful but he loves current crowley .#that’s like saying crowley would only love aziraphale as long as he’s an angel#it’s stupid as fuck sorry#azicrow#aziracrow#ineffable husbands#ineffable bureaucracy#ineffable idiots#ineffable fandom#ineffable divorce#ineffable partners#ineffable lovers#ineffable wives#ineffable spouses#good ineffable omens#aziraphale#crowley#aziraphale x crowley#crowley x aziraphale#good omens#good omens 2#david tennant#michael sheen#neil gaiman#lgbt#lgbtq
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Boruto would be 1000% better if Sasuke left Konoha for months at a time but visited in-between them.
If we want ss to actually be a proper relationship Sakura and Sarada can travel with him once a year so they actually like. Have a real relationship. Probably should happen during March so he's there for some important dates. Sakura could spread medical ninjutsu and heal poor villages, Sarada could learn about other cultures and actually have a whole family. Sasuke doesn't have to be in a village that activelly assisted in the ethnic cleansing of his clan for long at a time and can replace the memory's of empty houses and ghosts with spending time with family and hanging out with his friends. Then he can leave after a week or so when it gets a bit stressful.
Also i think they should get a cat.
There we go! I fixed Boruto. Everybody clap for me now!!!
#Chat let's just pretend the Ōtsutsuki don't exist for me#I LOVE Indra and Kaguya and the others are there I guess but I simply do not have the time to fix ALL of Kishimotos mistakes#I'd simply be here too long.#sasuke#naruto#moldy-flowers#Boruto#Sasuke uchiha#Sakura Haruno#sarada uchiha#I guess#Never thought I'd see the day when I actually use Boruto as a tag in a non demeaning manner#Also!!! Something Seven deadly sins did right with its sequel Is they didn't make Meliodas' and Elizabeth's child the mc#Even though they're literally a half demon half angel half human hybrid which is every 2010 oc ever#Boruto should not have been the Mc#Sarada (or a different new child I really have no attachment to her) should have been the mc#SASUKES Daughter as the mc??? As a sequel to Naruto?? That would literally be so fire#Also it'd have to be a daughter bc. Literally Sasuke is a girldad and I don't care what anyone says#Pro Sasuke#Anti Konoha#Once again not really anti Konoha but it runs in my veins gotta tag it sorry gang
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The fact that "broke college student" is a stereotype in the US is indicative that there's a problem.
#not helpol#personal#I'm just feeling salty#it's incredibly challenging finding a job that doesnt demean you as a person entirely#when you don't have a college degree yet#so you sit there struggling through college trying to pay off thousands of dollars in debt#and there's virtuall nothing you can do but try your best#and frankly that stresses me out beyond belief
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