#it’ll also be my first vacation with my bf!!!

[zippityzap]

My trip to London is in a weeks time!!

[awaitingfall]

08.06.24

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I’M SO HAPPY! For multiple reasons - I lost over a pound even when I ate past my scheduled fasting time. I had greasy, fried leftovers from my bf’s parents’ place cuz I didn’t want it to go bad (it was so yummy), and then I had a few bites of gelato which made me bloated the rest of the night - so I was sure I would’ve gained from that. But I ate that magic sweet potato soup for breakfast, lunch, and dinner yesterday. I’m almost certain that soup is helping me lose weight cuz ain’t no way I would’ve lost if I ate my regular diet of eggs on toast and yogurt w/trail mix AND all that extra food last night.

I’m also happy, more so relieved, because the new kid is learning so quickly already. I was able to show him something once and then I had him take over and he went at it for the rest of the day on his own! Of course I stood there for a bit at first just to make sure he got the hang of it and in case he had any questions, but eventually I walked off and did my own thing. It feels good not having to baby someone the whole day 😭 Hopefully he learns everything else just as quickly! We need someone who knows how to work the press for days I’m out sick or on vacation.

I also need to talk to my boss about my raise and when I should be expecting it. He said he would group it into my yearly raise, but that isn’t until mid-September, and I’m taking on these extra tasks now, so should I get my raise now? Idk - I feel bad if I keep asking, but also I want to be compensated appropriately for the new work load that I’m taking on now 😣

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Looks like rain for the next 6 days, but at least it’s out of the 90 degree weather! 😍 Looks like it’ll be 70s & mid-80s for a while. I’m really hoping it stays that way 🧡

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I know yesterday I said I wasn’t going to look at anymore houses…but a new one was posted within our range when I was at work yesterday and I hit up my buyers agent asap to go take a look at it this weekend lol my bf is still butt-hurt over the last house we applied to and got rejected (because ppl are greedy and want over 300K for a tiny 1 bedroom), so to avoid getting his little man feelings all hurt again, he said he doesn’t want to go with me and look 🤪 men really are more emotional and sensitive than women. Like…it’s just a house. We’re obviously going to be applying for a cheap house along with hundreds of other ppl in our same situation. We just need to be patient. But that doesn’t mean stop looking until we have 70K saved up for a full down payment! Otherwise we won’t have a house until we’re in our 40’s 😭 My mom already offered to help us with a down payment, plus we don’t HAVE to put the full 20% down. But it seems like his listening ears stop working when I say stuff that makes sense - he just doesn’t want to hear it. Men. ☺️ Guess he’ll just have to deal with the house that I choose when I eventually put an offer on one and get accepted, all because he doesn’t want to be sad looking for the perfect house with me 🥺 poor thing 😔

I love him, but sometimes he can just be so ridiculous with his reasoning 😭

I just don’t want to get stuck in this apartment for another full year with the neighbors cigarette smells filling up our unit, the wasps coming in to our bedroom (and maintenance saying they’re going to do something about it, but then not do anything and ignore our messages), the bats in our roof, listening to the constant screaming of the other neighbor that we had to call the cops on for child abuse. This whole place is just one big bad vibe 😩

[starjxsung]

hai star, how are you?

ughh! i’m so so sorry your sister had to go through that :((( it really is so frustrating. i also haven’t been able to fully enjoy my vacation (or anticipating lolla peacefully either) bc even if i didn’t fully work things out, i was still stressing. i’m just frustrated bc nobody organized this well. i have a lil fault bc i could’ve reached out earlier but my professors or the program coordinators or whatever could’ve reached out to the supervisors and gathered all the info before just saying i was assigned to the center. they said there’d be other people but they didn’t tell me i was competing (they probs didn’t even know cuz they didn’t even communicate with the supervisors). idk, it’s a super red flag imo from all parts. i hope things do work out in the end. at least my professor said that if we can’t talk it out she’ll find me a new center (bc like i wanna leave so badly but i want my master’s bc if not all this suffering would have been for nothing🥲).

nonetheless, im so so so glad your sister’s internship came through but they handled it sooooo terribly. i feel for her so much. idk why people (especially if they take internships/practicums like wtf) don’t organize their shit!! but whatever, we ball. but it’s been so crazy lately. grad school has been too intense, where can i apply to place lip balm upon the lips of lee know? pls lmk

the move has been kinda stressy bc it’s been raining so badly here and we haven’t been able to clean the outside of the apartment 🥲 but we ballin too.

in terrible news, as we talk about lack of competence, tw: pet loss. as i was writing this message my bf said that the vet told him today that his senior family dog who was in surgery and had a leg amputation due to cancer had to be revived and was at the verge of death. which is so so so sad in itself. as a person that loves my animals more than anything, i would’ve taken the decision to put her down before the surgery but to each their own. but what really pisses me off is that the vet didn’t even do (or offer, in fact) to get her bloodwork done, knowing that she was high risk due to her age, condition and weight. the vet didn’t even do checked if she could survive before scheduling the surgery. and my bf’s parents were very naive and didn’t question it. and man, hate people that have lives in their hands and only care about money. this poor baby is still suffering there as of right now and it absolutely breaks my heart.

on a brighter note, my bf and i have a vinyl collection and i just ordered ateez’s the world ep.fin:will a few days ago. i’m really excited to get it. i’ve never seen a kpop vinyl irl and im really really interested in how it’ll look.

that is my life update of the day. i love you sm. thanks for giving me space to vent and im so sorry for always venting here </333 i hope you’re having a good time nonetheless, you genuinely deserve all that is good in life <3

(this is me btw)

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THI WOOYOUNG PIC CRYINGGGGG why is he so cutie…….. 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

I’m still just so frustrated that you have to be dealing with this :( and even if you feel like you should have reached out earlier, I feel like it was still on THEM to communicate that to you. Like how are you just supposed to magically know what to do considering it’s your FIRST TIME doing this…. it doesn’t add up !!!! it’s almost like radio silence leads to miscommunication and misdirection 🤔 hmmmm

anyways. let me know how it all comes along and I’m rooting sooo hard for you in the meanwhile 🙂‍↕️🫶 you got this bby you’re SO smart and capable and I know you’ll get there !

Oh my god :( I am so so so sorry to hear about your bf’s senior family dog :( it is so VILE that they wouldn’t communicate the risks or offer to get bloodwork done first. Of COURSE all they would care about is rushing a pet into surgery as fast as possible for a big check :( how’s she doing now? Was she sent home? And does she seem to be having any adverse effects from being revived? I am so so so sorry again bby that is so unfortunate and my heart breaks at the idea of a dog going through that much suffering 💔💔 me & momo are sending all our love & prayers your way, I hope she’s able to recover okay and have some more years ahead of her still :(

ON that brighter note, let me know how the vinyl looks !! That is so exciting! I own RM’s Indigo and BTS Love Yourself on vinyl and I’d love to buy more, but my record player broke (it’s just a cheap ass crosley soooo… no surprise lmao) but when I get another one I definitely want to get a few more good ones! My sister’s always dreamed of having Key’s Bad Love on vinyl so I’ll probably snag that for her. And then some Ateez and probably Shinee 🤲 I feel like onew vinyl probably sounds so heavenly frfr

I love you so so much bby and I promise to send all the San & Yeosang pics when I get them this week !! Sending you all my love, hang in there 🫶💖 I love you so so much 🫶💓💖💘❤️🩷 (hello kitty Wooyoung and Hongjoong sooo real)

[utahimeow]

omg ur iwa love language *chef kiss* so good! could u do bf head cannons for him like suga? i would loveeee to know ur thots!

tysm !!! of course <3

NSFW CONTENT MINORS DNI

college bf vibes!! the cute boy you see in the library a couple times and play a game of ‘who can catch each other staring first’ with. you don’t really think it’ll go anywhere— his face is stony as he works, not just concentrated, but his brows are furrowed together in a frown and you’re honestly terrified to talk to him. but one day he trails after you as you leave and asks you if you’re free to get lunch and obviously you say yes because he’s super tall and handsome and pretty and he’s flashing you a cocky smile that you don’t expect

he’s intimidating at first, has this confidence about him that kinda makes you shrink. but one time you accidentally tease him and immediately regret it because it’s borderline an insult… until he responds with something equally as ‘mean’ and you realise he can take some teasing

i’m trying to say he flirts by making fun of you. and it’s even better because you can reciprocate it just as well

your relationship is mostly casual. you don’t say it out loud but he’s just a college boyfriend. one you stay up til 4am texting and steal clothes from and have picnic dates with on campus. you go to some parties together, he takes care of you when you get way too wasted. dating him is fun, but it’s not really an ‘i can’t see myself without you in my life or in my future’ relationship

…until iwaizumi falls. he’s over at your apartment for a date one evening. you’d cooked a pizza from scratch together, giggling as you threw on way too many toppings for it to turn out in any way consumable, then fell asleep on his chest before you could eat it. peering down at you as you slept was the greatest mistake he had ever made. oh shit, he thinks and his body is warm and his heart and stomach are all tingly and it hits him— he’s a goner.

it’s not long before you’re meeting one another’s family, taking vacations together, looking at apartments, having long conversations about getting a cat. in the blink of an eye iwaizumi goes from just another boyfriend of yours to the love of your life

he’s very much a ‘start the day at 7am to go on a run’ guy, but sometimes you can convince him to stay in bed with you. also the best thing about waking up two hours after him is that you always wake up to breakfast

i don’t think he has an extremely high sex drive but when he fucks you he puts his soul into it. eats you out like he’s been starving for years, grasps your tits like they’re a lifeline, thrusts his cock in and out of you like it’s the last chance he’ll ever have to get his dick wet

brat tamer no doubt. he has no trouble keeping you in check, always full of quips that make you back down when you get too mouthy. he’s not afraid to tell you off in front of other people, either. “stop being such a brat,” he scolds when you get a little too close to oikawa. “but it was an accident!” you insist, but he knows damn well it wasn’t

loves shoving his cock down your throat n facefucking you with no mercy <3 he calls you his pretty girl when your mascara leaves black tracks down your cheeks

spits in your mouth after he eats you out because he asks if you want a taste and you say yes

wraps his hand around your throat when he kisses you from behind

talked abt this more here but he’s always giving you massages and helping you do stretches because he wants you to be healthy <3 he’s so sweet and caring <3 it’s definitely not because he can split you in half on his cock when he helps you get more flexible <3

blows your back out and then gives you a massage to make up for it

…he gets jealous easily and will make sure people know you’re his girl. hand on your ass or your thigh at all times, the love bites on your neck on full display, whispers in your ear when he knows people are looking. he just can’t help it, he doesn’t wanna share you :(

you don’t wanna share him either. how could you possibly share your six foot, beefy, broody (sometimes), smart, athletic sweetheart of a boyfriend with anyone?

[moonianbbyg]

astrology theory:

this is just a theory. it doesn’t have to be correct but i believe it can be. so please don’t try to argue with me about this because it’s for entertainment purposes only!!

the theory ❦:

for all my babies that always wanted a foreign bf/gf i think the sign of our 9H sign and it’s ruler in our chart could explain the characteristics of our foreign partner we meet at vacation/at a trip!!

list of planets that rule each sign so you can find your 9H’s ruler:

aries - mars

taurus - venus

gemini - mercury

cancer - moon

leo - sun

virgo - mercury

libra - venus

scorpio - pluto/mars

sagittarius - jupiter

capricorn - saturn

aquarius - uranus/saturn

pisces - neptune/jupiter

the sign of your 9H:

their personality

aries: they could be a very sexual person who is protective over you. knows how to fight for you and fight anyone who approaches you (possessive or jealous)

taurus: they need stability and if you can show them you are faithful and a chill person who isn’t too invented into gossip they will fall for you so fast

gemini: the opposite of taurus! be a fun, talkative person. tell them about other people.. they want to be best friends and lovers all in one. don’t be boring, invite them to parties and never turn them down if they invite you to dates. they might even have a very funny personality

cancer: home oriented person who will make you feel loved! they wanna be in your skin to feel connected to you. it might take some time to get them to fully trust you but if you can give them enough attention and be loyal they’re all yours

leo: you will feel attracted to their confidence and their golden aura or vice versa. your energy could be alluring and fun.. they might even approach you first and even if this is just a summer temporary hook up you’ll for sure have fun with them! (especially because your ascendant is sagittarius so you won’t bother being committed right away anyways 👀)

virgo: you could simply just meet them at the library or overhear them talking smart (ik you like that *wink wink*) this might even turn into a long lasting relationship even though you don’t live near each other but if you’re lucky you might !! (if not online relationships are a thing don’t forget that) 

libra: damn this for sure will be just a fling lmao because libras are the queens/kings of short hook ups. but since they are represented by the scales if you can balance them out enough without being boring at the same time they might just choose to commit to you right away!! you will fall for them faster though bc we all know libras are the true charmers LOL

scorpio: well i could just simply tell you this will be a one night stand since scorpios love to explore people and have sex but i feel like you could meet each other at a club. clubs are dark, fun, full of sexy people and mysterious (literally all the things scorpios represent) and they might even feel tied to you right away as well imo

sagittarius: YOU FOR SURE NOT GONNA COMMIT RIGHT AWAY TRUST ME! also sagittarius suns don’t come for me *rolls eyes* i’m not saying this because you’re stereotyped to have commitment issues but because ik very well y’all shy at first so the foreign person you meet wherever could be shy at first but you both know that there’s a connection/chemistry between you.

capricorn: you could just randomly be walking around/shopping and they’ll be the person that will want to pay for you or they could open the door for you when you’re entering a place. i think you might get impressed by that and build a connection soon (depends if you’re meant to be)

aquarius: since aquarius does have to do with technology you might be in a online relationship while you’re on vacation and it’ll turn out you meet them during vacation just while you’re texting them on imessage lol that would be adorable! but if you’re not it could be a random person you’re stalking on ig and you bump into them.. you never know. everything’s possible

pisces: pisces are one of the zodiac signs who are the most creative and have the best style so you simply might just impress some random stranger with your personality/looks and you start talking after that. since pisces is a very spiritual sign too maybe you’ll manifest your perfect partner before vacation so.. enjoy that

the ruler of your 9H in houses

where you meet them

1H: you could meet them while you’re checking yourself out

2H: at a shopping center

3H: they could be the person you ask for directions so you might meet them anywhere where you’re lost

4H: through a family member

5H: could be one of your hook ups at the vacation or at a museum

6H: at a shop or a hospital, in the nature

7H: if you go to a wedding or somewhere you intuitively go to

8H: at a party/a bar

9H: at a crystal shop or while you’re looking at the map of the place you’re at

10H: somewhere while you’re paying for something

11H: through your friend(s)

12H: they might be the stranger who takes care of you if you get extremely drunk so at a club

this post was created by @moonianbbyg on tumblr <3 please give credit if reposting my work.

[rosiecottonbud]

my she-ra movie headcanons/plot ideas 😳👉👈:

Best friend squad is in space! They’re helping out the rebellion against the remaining horde members!!

They bring entrapta, hordak, and wrong hordak with them to relate more to the clones and make them fix their behavior and help them out of the cult. Also bc Shenanigans from the trio 🥴

They work with the star siblings, who are also helping refugees :)

They find catras home planet!! They liberate it and there they meet...

He-man ;;)))

He-man tells them about an unstable inter dimensional disruption they’ve been picking up on :0!!

They track it and try and decipher it, and it’s Angela!! surprise

So he-man’s team does work wrangling something they need, best friend goes to the core of the problem and tries to fix it, while entrapta and The hordaks work as “the guys in the chair”

I don’t really want he-man to have that big of a role, so maybe instead of he-man it’s the star siblings if it would be too distracting to Introduce more lore? Idk

Anyways bfs on a mission

At some point glimmer & catra are separated from bow & adora towards the end of the journey

At some point there’s a justified argument where glimmer yells at catra about how it’s her fault that her mother is trapped in the first place. Catra apologizes but it doesn’t rlly do anything.

So when they get trapped together it’s awkward

Anyways glimmer gets hurt and for some reason she can’t save Angela, maybe it’s just because her magic works differently, but catra still has some of the heart of etheria left in her, and she uses it to combat the pocket dimension that angella is trapped in because they’re both first ones tech? Kinda cute 😳

The important thing is catra is the one to save angella at great personal risk, selflessly fixing her mistakes after her redemption arc.

Maybe the heart starts to glow in both adora and catra, and adora starts to panic because catra is alone and she’ll die if she uses the heart alone, and she’s freaking out trying to get to her but she can’t.

We think catra is going to take on the power of fixing the dimensions alone and she won’t make it, it’ll destroy her.

But then glimmer stands up and takes her hand.

She looks at catra and hugs her, catra doesn’t hug back, stunned by glimmers rush of affection.

Glimmer: “you did bad things. You were a bad person. But there’s a reason adora always saw light in you, and now you’re showing everyone. You’re choosing to do good. And I can’t say I can forget what happened and how much you hurt me, but I’m proud of you.”

Catra tears up and hugs glimmer back, as the light swells around them.

Together they’re stable enough to enter the dimension and save angella.

Tearful reunions as bow glimmer and adora all squeeze angella

As angella gazes warily at catra, glimmer is the one who speaks up and goes “I’ll explain later, but, she’s a friend” and angella shakes catras hand with a soft smile. Catra will take it for now.

They return to etheria in time for netossa and spinerella’s princess prom.

Micah and angella reunion 🥺💕

Scorpia and perfuma aren’t together yet because lesbians are useless but it’s obvious that they’re getting there and they flirt awkwardly

Soft end of the night moments with glow and catradora reflecting on their journeys. References to the princess prom when catra was bad. Jokes are made.

Angella, gesturing to bow and glimmer dancing flirtily:...are they—?

Micah: yes

Angella: oh, FINALLY :)

Idk how but double trouble is required to be there creatin havoc because I love them and I say so. I think they and frosta would have a fun dynamic pranking the ball.

Swift wind in a bow tie

Scorpia and sea hawk sing a duet and it’s lovely and some celebrity cover of it plays during the credits.

Mermista and perfuma are both #1 fan girls. Very cute.

Movie ends with adora and catra planning a vacation to visit he man and find out more about adoras history, while bow and glimmer stay with Micah and angella, but they won’t be separated for long.

That’s all I got which is a lot I have a lot of feelings.

[chels10621]

GOOD BYE 2020!

Hiya everybody! 

Well, this is the last blog for 2020. It’s been a rough year and I know I’m not the only one. 

Not going to lie, I am so HAPPY that it’s over. As I look back this year, it’s been a rocky road but it did have it’s wonderful moments. The BF spent six weeks in Alaska for work, only to come home and be stuck at home for 10 months, unable to go back to work. From January to May, I worked from home and it was awful. In March, the first couple of weeks were great working from home. After that, it was boring and I was losing my mind. Unable to go anywhere. Not even go to the gym to work out and keep my sanity. The week of Mother’s Day was by far the worst. Having a Zoom meeting with my manager along with HR to inform me that I was being furlough for two months along with no pay. As much as I was worried about money, the BF made things a little better. 

With a lot of convincing, we decided to take a trip to Colorado and spend a week and half with his brother and sister-in-law. We had a such a wonderful time. I took a lot of pictures, did a lot of hiking, and sight-seeing while we were there. The weather was absolutely amazing, and I kind of wish it was like that in Houston. Wishful thinking. During our drive home, we stopped in Oklahoma and spent a couple of days with my granddad. 

After our wonderful trip to Colorado, the BF surprised me with tickets to Alaska (roundtrip too!) for a couple of weeks. He flew up the weekend of Father’s Day for work reasons. At the end of June, I get a call from my manager informing me that with uncertainty with reopening the office, HR decided to extend my furlough another two months. So, we updated our plane tickets from two weeks to an entire month! I literally spent an entire month in Alaska, seeing things I NEVER thought I would be able to see. Moose, sea lions, sea otters, etc. Going fishing for pink salmon, red salmon, hailbut, rock fish, and trout. Oh, and seeing a grizzle bear 200 feet from us along with her two cubs. Meeting all of the BF’s friends and friends of the family who he grew up with. The weather was wonderful too. 

However as exciting as all this may sound, we wouldn’t be able to do all this with help. Also, trusting in God that he would take care of us. Take care of our struggles. We knew that we wouldn’t get an opportunity like this ever again, so we took it.

After doing wonderful trips all over the world, it was time to come home and settle. Money was starting to get tight. Still unable to go back to work for the both of us. However with luck and prayers, an opportunity came around the corner. My company came to me with a NEW job opportunity with better pay. Since October, I have been working FULL TIME and I can’t thank enough to them for giving me this chance to come back to work and bring home the bacon! Also, the BF flew back to Alaska to go back to work FINALLY along with better pay and with benefits a day after Christmas. I truly believe that 2021 is OUR year. Our year to shine. 

As we look forward to the New Year, I hope and pray that it’ll be better and hope that this STUPID COVID doesn’t halt any exciting opportunities. Such as wedding invitation, new babies being born, family vacations, etc. 

So with that being said... GOOD BYE 2020 AND HELLO 2021!!!

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[hamliet]

So you’ve pretty much become my go to for help in real life things bcos u give the greatest advice and wise master sage vibes. My older sister who’s in college (we hv a 6 yr age gap) got a bf and I felt really happy for her at first bcos he’s a actually a really good person. But now I’ve started to feel so jealous and angry, I feel like she spends all her time with her bf and now that she’s come home for vacation she still spends hours talking with him. Idk if this is normal or if I’m just being

Clingy and dumb abt this. I really love my sis and want the best for her but I get the feeling that she’s always ignoring me now

Awww! Well, to be clear, I don’t think I’m all that wise lol, but I hope I’ve learned a few life lessons that might help others. I also hope I keep learning them.

Well, congrats to your sis! But I definitely don’t think you’re just being clingy and dumb. It really is likely a situation where you both need to adjust: yes, she has someone new in her life and as a result he will take up more of the time she used to have for free before. It’s normal to feel a bit sad about that. With time (assuming the relationship lasts), these feelings will abate. 

However, it’s also the case sometimes that people overly invest in new relationships and neglect the relationships they already have. I don’t know your sister so I can’t say that this is the case for sure, but it definitely could be. Having a new relationship is exciting, but it’s important not to pour all your energy into only one relationship without clear communication to your other important relationships. I think if she hasn’t had many experiences in relationships, that’s also fairly normal--it really is about trying to find that balance, and it’ll take time for your sis. That said, that doesn’t make your feelings invalid or dumb. 

So, whether your sister is tipping too far into the side of ignoring others for her BF or not, I think my advice is the same: talk to her! She’s your sister, and it sounds like you two love each other. Your needs and wants are valid just as hers and her bf’s are. 

Plan out what you want to say to her (i.e. ask her “hey, can I talk to you later?” and maybe set a time). And then tell her how you’re feeling. These conversations can be tricky, though. Begin with (and stress) that you think her boyfriend is a good person and you’re happy for her. And then when you tell her how you feel, emphasize “I feel” statements, rather than “you do this” statements (the latter is accusatory and can put her on the defensive. For example, you might say, “I’m so happy you’re seeing a good guy; you deserve it! I just miss you a lot while you’re away and was hoping to spend more time with you while you’re home on vacation. Is there a way we can arrange to spend some time together one-on-one--maybe without phones?”). Emphasize what you want from her, not what you don’t want her to do (spending time with her vs. her ignoring you). 

Good luck!  

[far-away-destiny]

About planning to see each other

This is a topic I've been planning to talk about for a while but didn't exactly know how to approach the topic. But now that I just learned that my friend @thepurpleinternetprincess is gonna be seeing her love this coming summer, she just gave me the inspiration I needed to write about this!

So, obviously, when planning to see each other is a very exciting event. Doesn't matter if it's the first or 20th time your planning a trip, it's always very thrilling. BUT, it's also a very important and sometimes complicated thing to do, that's why, when we start planning a trip we really gotta think about every single detail through.

First, think about all the factors affecting your life: if you live with your parents (my case), or if you have your own place, if you're gonna be working/studying during the planned dates or you will be in vacation, think about when you will have enough free days to really enjoy your time together, if they can stay at your place (or your parents), if not, where, what activities will you do with them, how about food, etc.

There are many things to think about than just looking for a good date and buying the airplane tickets. Obviously, looking for cheap airplane tickets is a whole other important and most times hard thing to do (I'll probably talk about this in another post), but other important things to think about is what they will do during their stay and how to take care of them.

Sure, some of you may live in the same country, but some of you may be from totally different countries. When inviting your loved one to your country you really gotta make them feel welcomed and not worry about anything. Yes, it can be scary going to a whole new country to meet someone you met online, but if everything (or most things) work then you can get through it.

First of all, one of the most important things to think about before purchasing the first airplane ticket you see is the timing. I might be stating the obvious but I'll still say it, the best times to travel are summer and winter, or at least whenever both of you are free for at least a week. Yes, summer and winter are high season times and the plane tickets are expensive. But you know, at least for the first couple of times seeing each other, it's worth it!

Deciding where they'll be staying is a very important detail. If you're living with your parents you'll obviously need to ask them for permission. If they refuse, although it'll make things harder, you can still work it out. You'll have to have them stay at a cheap local motel or something similar. Obviously, we don't want them to have to spend any unnecessary extra money, so I'd recommend that you help pay for their stay if necessary. It's only a nice thing to do. Regarding this part, I know how it can be with unsupportive parents, but believe me, when they see your partner is literally going the extra mile just to be there with you, they'll see they're really committed and I'm sure next time they visit they'll let them stay at the house.

Oh and another thing, if you're seeing each other for the first (couple of) times, don't expect either of your parents to let you sleep in the same bed xD I mean, if the parents let you then you're just fine! But I'm just saying, in most cases, that doesn't happen. It took my parents a long time before they let my BF sleep with me xD

Moving on, if you're on the receiving end, the one welcoming them, you really need to think about a schedule. Write at least the general ideas of what you will do with them from the moment you pick them up at the airport. And that's another thing, will you pick them up or have them come to you through some other transportation. But back to the activities, you can plan these together beforehand so you can make the most of your trip, or if you'd rather just chill and do everything randomly and unexpectedly then that's fine too!

Yes, I know planning trips can be hectic, but believe me, it gets better. Once you and your partner figure out what works best for both of you you'll be doing all this very easily and wanting to make more trips per year! I've already become a pro at purchasing plane tickets. Also, becoming a member of a specific airline really helps and will come in handy in the future as you accumulate miles!

So, these are just a couple of ideas and tips to take in mind when you are planning a trip, be it your first or 10th trip, thinking about all these factors is very important. I might talk more about some things like how and where to find cheap plane tickets and the sort. If there's anything you want me to further explain/talk about please let me know, or if you just wanna ask me something you're more than welcomed to! After all, this blog is to help in anyway I can and support those of you who are in a long distance relationship. Because despite our circumstances, we can also enjoy our relationship and be genuinely happy in it! 💗

-Kimiko (君子)

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hii hun~ 187,179, 171, 169, 168, 165, 160, 153, 149, 147. 145, 134, 131, 125, 118, 114, 108, 104, 98, 75, 68, 66, 56, 55, 45, 39, 37, 29, 22, 20, 6, 2. Sorry for sending so much!

hiiiii

187: My pet:

i have three cats and two fish and im love,,,,,, 

black cat who yells at me and is named patches bc of the white splotch on her face

lil gray cat who is really dumb and timid named mysti

big ol fat cat rocky i lvoe

and my fish are Nod and Inkwell

179: Spongebob can:

wh...at....?? whats the question

171: Do you play an instrument?

i really shittily play piano and violin but im better at singing lol im even in a band now ;))) in case yall didnt know

169: Love at first sight:

I don’t. That’s not love, it’s lust. But I don’t believe it has to take very long to fall in love

168: Luck:

Not necessarily, but I believe that sometimes bad or good things are attracted to our energies and thus mimics “luck” and “karma”

165: Aliens:

hhnnhfhadfhs ive answered this question like 5 times yall

im not sure, but it would make sense considering the size of the universe

160: Soul mates:

I do, sorta. But I don’t think we all have only one soul mate.

153: Drunk or High:

Drunk, definitely. Being high sounds really unpleasant but being drunk isn’t thaaat bad its just the afterwards that is lol

149: Hot or cold:

cold bc with cold you can just layer up but you can only take off so much clothing

147: Autumn or Spring:

autumn uwu

145: Night or Day:

i like night more but its also the time when the emotions get the worst lol

134: Singing or Dancing:

singing uwu

131: Small town or Big city:

big city bitches way more cool stuff

125: Chocolate or Flowers:

probably flowers

118: Abortion:

I’m pro-choice. I think there’s lots of reasons to abort, including simply not feeling that you’d make a good parent. I probably wouldn’t have an abortion, despite not wanting to have kids, but thats because of a lot of personal reasons lol

114: Back stabbers:

oof

108: Designer Clothes:

way too expensive considering how ugly most of them are lol

104: The future:

probably wont turn out how i want it to, but it’ll be better than the present either way.

98: Took a vacation:

ive only been on one vacation in my life and it was like 3 or 4 years ago and we went to disneyland

75:  What are you going to do when you grow up:

move in with my boyfriend. Get married. Be an artist and/or in a band. Travel a lot. Might fuck around and get a medical/psych degree if i ever get over how troublesome school is

68: The worst sound in the world:

styrofoam

if someone touches it and it makes that noise i freak out its like my fucking kryptonite

66: Last time I cried:

yesterday over stardew valley bc its SO WHOLESOME im soft

56: Favorite web site:

god i dunno t*mblr.com ig

55: Your dream vacation:

uhh..... ocean. one of them. hotel or cruise. water. pretty. bf w me.

45: One thing that makes you feel great is:

being nice to others uwu

39: I would like to move to:

probably denmark. pretty and bf. less problematic.

37: Candy:

uh.... oreos or fruity suckers

29: Singer:

billie eilish, king princess, or frank iero tho technically hes a band

22: Animal:

k,,,kityy,,,,, owo

or fox

20: Holiday:

spook month

6: Flower:peonies!!

2: Dog breed:

teacup husky-pomeranian mixes uwuwuuwuwuwu

s’okay i love answering stuff lollololololol

[imasecdos1978-blog]

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[steamishot]

april

sitting in my small studio apartment on a sunday, and it’s raining out. getting used to actually expecting rain frequently vs. in LA where we’d rarely have to do a raincheck. i still feel like i’m in a slump, but trying to push myself to be more active. i think i’m burnt out from my current lifestyle. traditionally, most people refer to being burnt out from their jobs. but i think i’m feeling burnt out by not having much of a work/life balance. doing the 95% of the household management/cooking on top of a full-time job, and not having a good way to de-stress (b/c lack of quality time with partner, still budding friendships, and being far away from family and LA friends) is finally getting to me. i miss my family T.T and having the comfort of a family. 

i again revisited this conversation with matt and mentioned how spoiled he has become. i’m starting to see my mom in myself. my mom’s very proactive in the household and is very nurturing, sometimes overly nurturing. for example, she’ll always pack me a bunch of food every time i go on a flight. she always made dinner for me when i was working. besides my own room, she took care of cleaning everything else in the house. and i know she is happy to do this as long as i’m good to her. i was happy to take care of matt too, until he started taking it for granted and demanding more. this past weekend, we got into a fight after i brought up the imbalance in our relationship and the majorly differing expectations we have of each other. he’s currently on two weeks of night shifts so, again, never a good time to have a discussion like this. i got a whiteboard to write out his exact chores and now have implemented a “punishment” if he doesn’t do them - he’ll have to do his own laundry LOL. hopefully this new method is helpful... i’m so looking forward him progressing onto his third year of residency (oct 2021), because it means he should have more free time.

they say when times are tough, to try and remember who they were pre-residency. sometimes it’s difficult to remember. sometimes all i see is an always exhausted and stressed out grump who is miserable. the only things we do for “fun” is play ubereats/caviar/seamless (we actually get very good deals for food)/pick up food, sometimes workout, and watch movies. we live in one of the most fun cities in the US but can’t use it to our advantage right now.

i’ve decided to not to be cheap and give therapy a try via kaiser. next step is to call in to make an appointment.

some highlights:

vacation/visiting family in june, yay! 

selling my current couch and buying a sleeper couch

retail therapy - i honestly have rarely shopped out of sadness, but i get the appeal now. although, i’m still responsibly shopping i.e. can still return the items and no shipping fee.

had a really nice day at the park yesterday with my bumble girls. it’s such a nice feeling to just sit on the grass and absorb all the sunshine, something i took for granted in LA. also, it was refreshing to be around less miserable/not miserable people (or at least people who need to put on a front)

planning to go on a hike with bumble girls at the end of the month. now we have a total of 9 girls (incl me) in our group chat.

had a somewhat fun weekend with matt when he was on easier rotations last weekend (although he wasn’t fully relaxed, bc he had a test and an upcoming 2 months of hell)

will work on being more brave/not letting the anti-asian american hate paranoia get to me. will remind myself that this has always existed, it’s just getting more media attention now. all i can do is be vigilant, but it shouldn’t stop me from living life

will keep applying to jobs

we had our first guest at my apartment, S! i made her a latte and breakfast. i’m also very grateful to have met her and she seems to be a solid friend.

update: very spontaneously invited my parents to NYC next month and they are down. i booked plane tickets and chinese tour spots immediately. it’ll be my mom’s first time ever on the east coast, and my dad’s first time visiting in 30+ years. we will be going on a similar chinese tour that i did by myself but with the addition of niagara falls. i’m so excited and happy. gabe and his bf daryl will also come visit sometime in the next two months! mae & husband supposedly said they will aim for july/aug (but this i’m not too certain about bc she tends to be flaky on trip plans lol). 

i’m so looking forward to spending time with my parents and have friends visit. my soul has warmed up because of this lol. 

[mingyaus]

[ latest update ]

bang chan rough drafts ii

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You cannot create a spin-off, re-post, alter, or translate my original content without my express permission. For example, putting up one of my stories on Wattpad under a different name is not allowed. 

[ key ]

❤ = x reader | ♕ = crack | ☀ = fluff | ☂ = angst | ❣ = bullet point | ☺= ongoing series | ☻= finished series | ✈ = fr admin jay

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vacation bts  ❤ ☂ ☺ - pjm kth

bts @ night ❤ ❣

the times  ❤ (mostly in a friendship way) ☂ ☺ -  intro

➫ ur emo and lonely w out ur bffs bts

[ k s j ] 

( sorryyyy...but i have stuff abt him somewhere in my drafts folder. also he’s in “bts @ night”)

[ m y g ] 

last min bf  ❤ ☀ ☂ ☺- ch 1 > ch 2 > ch 3 (finale, coming soon maybe...)

➫ The world’s bigger now. Humanity has gone beyond Earth and inhabited many other planets. Earth has basically become this uninhabitable, over-studied wasteland, yet some people still have a dangerous curiosity for their home planet, including you and Min Yoongi. 

entrepreneurs au (☺): the flowers (feat. jungkook) ❣ 

entrepreneurs au (☺): the flowers pt. 2  (feat. namjoon) ❤ ☀ ❣ 

self-driving cars (feat. young k) ♕!! ☀

agust (lyft )d(river)  + pt 1.5 ❤ ♕ (may turn into a casual series...)

[ j h s ]

i only love you in the springtime ❤ ☀ ☂ ☺

➫ this is a wip. it’ll be out farrr in the future bc im slow. tho if u want jhope stuff rn check out  “bts @ night” or “ a guide to guides: bts’s jhope”

[ k n j ]

entrepreneurs au (☺): the flowers pt. 2 (feat. yoongi, it’s really just abt yoongi btw)  ❤ ☀ ❣ 

[ p j m ] 

sides  ❤ ☀ 

vacation bts ( ☺ ): vacaychimchim  ❤  ☂ 

[ k t h ] 

vacation bts ( ☺ ):  v-cation ❤ ☀

bday camping drabble  ♕ ☀ (friendship fluff!!)

[ j j k ] 

john john cock @ ________  ❤ ☀ ☺

➫ a series of times when jungkook’s name gets messed up on accident (bc Americans kinda suck). the first four are queued to be posted throughout this week.

...starbucks pt. 1: welcome  

...not a starbucks for once: johnny

...starbucks pt. 2: t-o-b-a-n-g-t-a-n

rUde  ❤ 

vveeb ♕ ❤

entrepreneurs au (☺): the flowers (feat. yoongi)  ❣

[ lucas ] 

tradition  ❤ ☀ ☂ ❣

nearest (tradition prequel)  ❤ ☀ ❣

most h8td ❤ ☀

[ johnny ] 

tol  ❤ ☀

[ mark ] 

bacck 2 u  ❤ ☀

as seen on im (ft. third wheel johnny)  ❤ 

[ bang chan ]

bang chan @ night  ❤ ❣

casinoneverhaveiever  ❤ 

bang chan rough drafts i  ❤

bang chan rough drafts ii ❤

[ all ] 

drugstore au   ♕ ❣ ☻ - 1, 2, 3

[ wonwoo ] 

entrepreneurs au (☺): the architects ❣

[ mingyu ]

entrepreneurs au (☺): the architects ❣

[ seungkwan ]

bday mess  ❣ ✈

fake quotes

[ m x m / bts + day6 ]

self-driving cars (suga x young k of day 6)  ♕!! ☀

[ entreprenuers au (svt + bts) ] ☺❣

➫ in which some of your favorite kpop idols exist in an au where they own businesses

the architects / mingyu + wonwoo

the flowers / suga + jungkook - 1, 2 ( feat. rm, ❤ ☀ ❣)

bts holiday fic recs 

a guide to guides: bts’s jhope 

joshua bday memes  ✈

[janiedean]

book meme

tagged by @robb-greyjoy and @cafeleningrad thank you both! <3

1. Which book has been on your shelves the longest? Uhm. Uhm. That’s... a hard... question... but I think the collection of Irish fairytales I really was into when I was like seven? I probably have older stuff than that but not on my shelves (it’d be stored somewhere) and not that I re-read at this point.

2. What is your current read, your last read and the book you’ll read next? The current read is Stuart Kaminsky’s The Howard Hughes Affair in the Toby Peters series because I need light reading and twenty-four books of down on his luck PI in Hollywood in the forties always dealing with old hollywood cinema stars is exactly what I need for light reading.

Last read: it was the previous in those series, You Bet Your Life, or if you don’t count that it was some medieval history book.

Next read: I’d like for it to be Stephen and Owen King’s Sleeping Beauties but it’s most likely gonna be either roman history or medieval history, again. Or possibly the fifth in that series but it’s really quick reading so. xD

3. Which book does everyone like and you hated? I’m gonna almost quote Damien who said P&P (which I...uh... don’t like lol) and say Emma which is still the Most Insufferable Thing I Ever Read In My Entire Life. P&P is less insufferable but I don’t get the fascination and mist likely never will.

4. Which book do you keep telling yourself you’ll read, but you probably won’t? Idk I eventually get to everything I mean to but I should have read War and Peace like years ago. ONE DAY. XDD

5. Which book are you saving for “retirement?” None, I save anything longer than 500 pages for when I’m on vacation but who even knows when I’ll get to retirement, so...

6. Last page: read it first or wait till the end? I ALWAYS WAIT UNTIL THE END I NEVER CHECK THE LAST PAGE are we srs it’s the last one for a reason

7. Acknowledgements: waste of ink and paper or interesting aside? Always fundamental. I always read acknowledgments. Though I don’t do the mistakes of reading afterwords before the book because I spoiled myself the ending of The Murder of Roger Ackroyd because I had to read the afterword first and I was an idiot xD

8. Which book character would you switch places with? ... honest? Rob from High Fidelty, not just because we’re sadly almost the same person but because I wanna own a fucking record shop and that’d be about the only way I could do it in this lifetime I fear...

9. Do you have a book that reminds you of something specific in your life (a person, a place, a time)? Hmmm, lots I guess, but Different Seasons was the summer when I turned fifteen and it definitely changed my life for the better and I always remember it fondly, same for The Three Musketeers and the 2006 summer which was.. an interesting time I guess xD, latin/greek epics will forever be tied with my father for better or worse and french authors with my mom aaaand beat generation stuff definitely reminds me of my best friend from high school and I could probably say that while I never read hp it also reminds me of people I was better off without so that’s probably another reason why I hate it but never mind that xDDDDD

10. Name a book you acquired in some interesting way. Hmm idk I’m totally blanking here XD I don’t think I have any *interesting* story about this sorry guys

11. Have you ever given away a book for a special reason to a special person? lmao no. The three times I lent book to someone they never came back and I’m really not the kind of person who shares their *special* copies so it’d have to be a really special person to make me give away a book I already own for special reasons xD and I haven’t met that person yet

12. Which book has been with you to the most places? I have a feeling it’d be the second dark tower book or the third for how badly I ruined them

13. Any “required reading” you hated in high school that wasn’t so bad ten years later? If I actually found the inner strength to get over my issues with some teacher and re-read I promessi sposi without bias I probably wouldn’t find it as terrible as I did back in the day but it’ll take me another ten years for that I fear, for the rest I’m fairly good with everything I had to read as a requirement.

14. What is the strangest item you’ve ever found in a book? Someone’s phone number I fear

15. Used or brand new? Don’t care either way but if I have to buy, used because they’re cheaper tbh xDDDD

16. Stephen King: Literary genius or opiate of the masses? Guys. Guys. While I’m the first person who wouldn’t say King is the new Proust, and while there’s a lot of things I dislike about the way he does things (first of all how much he loves his PEOPLE FORGETTING EVERYTHING trope)....

a) when I read Different Seasons I was in a moment where I had fallen out of love with reading stuff for reasons and it brought it back full spades; b) he was the first author I read in english and 90% the person that influenced my writing style more for those reasons; c) he’s a genius at crafting characters/character work/character development way more than a lot of people critics enjoy more than him and since I’m a character driven whore put two and two together; d) he came up with my Favorite Fictional Character Ever (whose surname is half of my tumblr nickname/internet nickname anywhere so...) and with my Favorite Ship Ever and my Favorite Series Ever and a lot of my Favorite Things Ever; e) he’s exceedingly good at his genre and while his endings are shit 70% of the time when he nails it he nails it;

tldr: he might not be the Greatest Writer Ever but he’s my Subjectively Favorite Writer Ever for bad and for good and no one disrespects king in front of me okay? k. I owe his damned books enough to repay how much they made me suffer xD 

17. Have you ever seen a movie you liked better than the book? Blade Runner is vastly better than the book and Maurice is pretty much as good as it but there were changes that imo were improvements over things that were not in the plot so I guess it counts.

18. Conversely, which book should NEVER have been introduced to celluloid? 

...........

THE

DARK

TOWER

I rest my case no one wants me to start ranting again about how much that piece of shit movie should have never existed and idris elba deserved a lot better than ending up involved in it.

19. Have you ever read a book that’s made you hungry, cookbooks being excluded from this question? no but I wrote a bakery au that made people feel hungry, does that count?

20. Who is the person whose book advice you’ll always take? my parents though I’ll take it with a pinch of salt because there’s people they like that I can’t stand (*cough* borges *cough* SORRY I KNOW) and viceversa but let’s say that if my dad said he didn’t dislike it then it’s probably not a bad book in 90% of the cases same for my mom (though she didn’t hate the solitude of prime numbers as much as I did which is why as stated I take things with a pinch of salt xD), then @robb-greyjoy because we basically like the same things so I trust his judgment, my high school bf who’s not on tumblr (the beat generation person) who also had my same tastes so I’d have definitely trusted her, and there’s a few tumblr users I follow for books talking whose judgment I trust 99% of the time xD

also half of the people I wanted to tag got tagged by either of you so hmmm @lordhellebore @slushiebear @blueagia @incblackbird @julesdrenages @julesfelden @ms-mormont and @greyjoysea? if you all want to of course otherwise ignore me xD

[thepenguinsdreamofsummer]

Tagged by @bubblebunnywitch

Rules: Answer these 85 statements about yourself, then tag 20 people.

Last…

1. Drink - Coke

2. Phone call - My boyfriend ~

3. Text message - '’ Im getting on my bike’’ to my boyfriend 

4. Song you listened to - Civilisation - Justice and Blood on Verona - Dawn of Tears

5. Time you cried - Yesterday, when me and my mother were discussing her work. She works with rehabilitating traumatized refugees, so her work stories are not pretty.

6. Dated someone twice? - I’ve dated the same boy for 4½ years now <3

7. Kissed someone and regretted it - I had a drunk oops once (before I met my boyfriend ofc) but otherwise no.

8. Been cheated on - No

9. Lost someone special - I’ve neverlost anyone I’ve been close to.

10. Been depressed - Not clinically

11. Gotten drunk and thrown up - I actually don’t throw up while drunk, but I get the meanest hangovers if I drink like 8-9 units

Fave colours…

12.) Pale Teal

13.) Grass Green

14.) Coral

In the last year have you…

15. Made new friends - Yeah!

16. Fallen out of love - No, still going strong <3

17. Laughed until you cried - I think once or twice bc I was drunk and my bf was cute.

18. Found out someone was talking about you -

19. Met someone who changed you - 

20. Found out who your friends are - 

21. Kissed someone on your facebook friends list - I’m facebook friends with my boyfriend so?

General…

22. How many of your facebook friends do you know irl -I know all of my facebook friends IRL

23. Do you have any pets - No,  but my boyfriend really want a cat so we’ll definitely get one someday

24. Do you want to change your name - No, I like it.

25. What did you do for your last birthday - I had a Costume themed mini meet for some of my closest lolita friends! I was a ballerina, check out my coord here~

26. What time did you wake up today - 10

27. What were you doing at midnight last night - Playing Slay the Spire

28. What is something you can’t wait for - My summer course in Numerial Methods for Physicists!

30. What are you listening to right now - My boyfriend playing some weeb rythm game lol

31. Have you ever talked to a person named tom - The principal at my old boarding school was named Tom.

32. Something that’s getting on your nerves - My courses at uni

33. Most visited website - Tumblr, I guess. I also use facebook a lot, mainly bc that’s where all of my group chats are.

34. Hair color - Golden Blonde

35. Long or short hair - Long hair is pretty, but so annoying.

36. Do you have a crush on someone - My dorky boyfriend 

37. What do you like about yourself - I learn quick, and I always try my best to be kind.

38. Want any piercings? - I have my ears pierced, and I don’t really want anymore.

39. Blood type - No clue

40. Nicknames - Celle, Celst, Celest etc. My name is very mutable. My boyfriend calls me ‘’Mis’’, which translates into kitten, except that it sounds way less perverted in Danish.

41. Relationship status - Very taken ~

42. Zodiac -Pisces

43. Pronouns - She/Her

44. Fave tv shows - I don’t watch TV a lot, but I really like Brooklyn 99 (Watch it!!!)

45. Tattoos - none

46. Right or left handed - Right

47. Ever had surgery - I’ve had a few extra teeth pulled out surgically.

48. Piercings - My ears

49. Sport - I take a few morning exercise classes, but otherwise I’m a couch potato

50. Vacation - This weekend me, my mom and my sister went on a micro, one night trip to Malmö! We ate at a nice restaurant, slept at a beautiful historical hotel, saw an art exhibition about dance as a form of activism and went shopping.

51. Trainers - I’m not sure what you mean?

More General…

52. Eating - As in food I eat a lot? I eat a lot of Hummus.

53. Drinking - I drink a lot of tea, especially green tea. The physics students at my uni has their own student lounge where you can store tea and a personal cup, and I usually drink 3-4 cups at least every day.

54. I’m about to watch - Nothing really

55. Waiting for - The solutions to that assignment I’ve been procrastinating to magically drop into my lap 

56. Want - Good grades, money, and world peace. In that order.

57. Get married - Marriage is not important to me, so if I ever get married, it’ll be because it makes some paperwork more convenient. 

58. Career - I’m a physics student! My interests are cosmology, physical chemistry and complex systems, and my favorite thing to do is writing physical simulations

Which is better…

59. Hugs or kisses - Both, please.

60. Lips or eyes - Eyes.

61. Shorter or taller - Taller! I like feeling small

62. Older or younger -  I don’t care as long as the person is still close to my age.

63. Nice arms or stomach -A nice soft tummy I can lay my head on.

64. Hookup or relationship - Relationship

65. Troublemaker or hesitant - Hesitant

Have you ever…

66. Kissed a stranger - No

67. Drank hard liquor - Many times.

68. Lost glasses - all the time lol

69. Turned someone down - Yeah, several times

70. Sex on first date - No

71. Broken someones heart - A lot of heart breaking happens at boarding school

72. Had your heart broken - See the above^

73. Been arrested - No

74. Cried when someone died - Yes

75. Fallen for a friend - Yes

Do you believe in…

76. Yourself - She’s proven herself not to be very trustworthy, so no, I don’t trust that bitch at all.

77. Miracles - Nah

78. Love at first sight - Infantiation/Attraction at first sight, yes. Love is a complex emotion that requires knowing the other person, so no to that one

79. Santa clause - Nah

80. Kiss on a first date - I kissed my boyfriend before we started dating

81. Angels -  Nah

Other…

82. Best friend’s name - My boyfriend is the closest friend I’ve ever had, so Emil

83. Eye color - Blue

84. Fave movie - Mad Max: Fury Road for fiction. Particle Fever for a movie that shaped my career choices. Stealing Africa for a movie that changed the way I saw the world

85. Fave actor -  I’ve no clue 

I tag: @oehbiwan, @clanlavellan, @gaylienn, @winterlark-night, and uhhh literally anybody who sees it and wants to do it

[trisabelle]

Rules: Once you’ve been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 92 truths about you. At the end choose 25 an arbitrary number of people to be tagged. I was tagged by the amazing @canitellusmthin !! I love ya, you diamond in the rough (tumblr. tumblr is the rough)

LAST:

Last Drink: Water!

Last Phone Call: My Dad calling to ask if we needed any groceries.

Last Text Message: To my sister asking if she remembered the wifi password. Unless you count IM's in general, in which case, saying goodnight to my bf and gf!!

Last Song You Listened To: Memory by Koethe Koethe, while I was dressing this morning. Well, afternoon..

Last Time I Cried: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I am a babby but I rarely cry and tend to try to forget about t if I do.

HAVE YOU EVER:

Dated Someone Twice: Nope

Been Cheated On: No

Kissed Someone and Regretted It: Only ever kissed one person, didn't regret it even if we didn't work out together.

Lost Someone Special: For a while a friend dropped off the internet for about a month after being really suicidal.. thought she died but she came back. That was years ago though

Been Depressed: I'm depress in this binch 25/7 my dudes

Been Drunk and Thrown Up: Never been drunk, never drank alcohol ever and don't want to

IN THE PAST YEAR HAVE YOU:

Made a New Friend: Ye!

Fallen Out of Love: No

Laughed Until You Cried: YUP. Memes do that to me. Also, that video of two hamsters with a hamster wheel on its side, and they keep spinning it until it whips them around and they just keep going until they're at lightspeed

Met Someone Who Changed You: The people that come to mind; Jay, Liz, and the two who I plan to spend my life with, Matt and Lizzy!!!!! 💖💖💖

Found Out Someone Was Talking About You: This.. is very vague.. yes..????

GENERAL:

How many people on tumblr do you know in real life?: A few I've met in real life when I went to visit a girlfriend at the time down in California.

Do you have any pets?: A Doge (Steve), a Doogler (Molly), and a recently adopted fishy!! His name is Gillbert.

Do you want to change your name?: Nop!! I'm super happy with my name. Mostly because Tris isn't really gender specific and I like that

What time did you wake up this morning?: "Morning" hahahhahhahahahahahhahahah

What were you doing last night?: Just reading once I was in bed. Before that I was getting FO4 modded and talking to the bae's

Name something you cannot wait for: LIFE IS STRANGE: BEFORE THE STORM - EPISODE 3 HELL IS EMPTY

Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: My great-granddad. He died a while back but I remember him. He built a bunch of stuff for my Thomas the tank engine sets. Also my middle name was after him

What’s getting on your nerves rn?: i,m tired

Blood type: ye

Nickname: Tris

Relationship status: In a closed triangle!! I know my trigonometry from an intimate perspective c;

Zodiac sign: Sagittarius. Did I spell it right

Pronouns: He/him, but idfc honestly. I have a feeling they're he/him just because I'm so used to it, even tho I totally identify as a boy

Favorite tv show: Sense8. The beautiful masterpiece collision between scifi, drama, and an expression of just what humanity is

College: Not yet!! Should he doing some college courses starting January

Hair colour: Black!! Or rly rly rly dark brown. Used to be chestnut brown but maybe I'm just crazy

Long or short: Hair? Or height? I have longish hair for a boy, it's not far past my shoulders and hella curly. Once I get the courage it'll be in a lil ponytail. And height, I'm 5"6' or however you write it. Five foot six. I wanna be smol™

Do you have a crush on someone: Ye. On my Big Frog and Giant Frog

What do you like about yourself: (awkward laugh) haha yeah totally

FIRSTS:

First surgery: Colonoscopy. Sorry if tmi, but it's true. I've had a few

First piercing: NOPE

First best friend: Jonas. We stopped talking soon after starting high school but he was in a car crash recently and almost died, and we've started talking a bit again

First sport you joined: Soccer. Never sported again

First vacation: Not sure.. earliest I remember is a trip not too far away to a vacation house with the extended family.

First pair of sneakers: Idfk.. I never cared about shoes. Just let them be plain and comfy

Eating: Right now? Nothing

Drinking: I was drinking water a minute ago

I’m about to: sleeeeeeeeeeep

Listening to: The menu theme from Before the Storm

Want kids: Ye!!! I've never seen myself doing anything other than adopting tho, even though I'm not dedicated to that idea.

Get married: YE. The idea of being proposed to???????? (Hand slamming button meme)

Career: Um

WHICH IS BETTER:

Lips or eyes: Eyes. I love them lips but EYESSSS

Hugs or kisses: BITCH DONT DO THIS TO ME. I CAN HAVE BOTH!!!!!!

Shorter or taller: I wanna be the short one!!!!!! PLEASEEEEE

Older or younger: I don't care! (Lowkey lying)

Romantic or spontaneous: Why.. why not both.. These don't conflict..

Sensitive or loud: Sensitive I guess?

Hook up or relationship: BINCH I WANT DEM FEELS NOT JUST FUCKS

Troublemaker or hesitant: What.

HAVE YOU EVER:

Kissed a stranger: Nope. Only kissed 1 person ever

Drank hard liquor: Never even drank once

Lost glasses/contacts: don't have either

Sex on first date: Only really had like two dates, and she was no sex before marriage (which I totally respect and honestly I wasn't ready anyways)

Broken someone’s heart: Quite possibly.. I seem to cause a lot of negative emotions for the people around me..

Been arrested: Lol. I'm a goodie two shoes, a law abiding citizen,

Turned someone down: Ye. We're still in contact, I'm hoping they're doing well and I didn't let them down.. they deserve happiness!

Fallen for a friend: Nope

DO YOU BELIEVE:

In yourself: No I'm a myth

Love at first sight: While I believe in attraction at first sight, and that may lead to true love, there's no way to instantly know for sure they're your soulmate. But don't ignore that instinct, our hearts are smarter than us in these things.

Heaven: No. I've never believed in anything required blind faith, but honestly, I have so much respect for those that do. That's a lot of strength to believe despite the struggle

Santa Claus: I certainly believe some nut changed their legal name to Santa for shits and giggles.

Yay!!! All done and it only took me ~40 mins when I should be ASLEEP. I'm egg. But it's my birthday, I can do what I want!! Happy 20th to me c:

I tag a reasonable amount of people, not 25: @wastedhearts @raggedymancomegetme @richard-vs-marty @the-pretty-kitten @sheikahstone @dipper-the-destructor @feathersandstripes @gayerthanthefourthofjuly @crabbieapple @brokenheartsbleedtheblues @notyouraveragebl0g @moonlit-battlefield @starrchild @runekitten @mbesham @cocoa-n-donuts

Don't do this if you don't want to!! And if you do but weren't tagged feel free!!! c: