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Idk, I'd probably get satisfaction in the fact there was an answer to begin with (im a fox, im curious and i enjoy knowing things regardless of importance or applicability), and relieved that nothing bad happened to you. Or if something did, I'd have a moment of shared empathy which would have value in it's own right, despite not necessarily meaning anything out right.
Why haven't you uploaded anything to your youtube channel in six months?
imagine the sort of thing that someone would say if you asked them this question. now imagine me saying that. now ask yourself, is anything of value gained from getting this answer?
#god forbid people are curious on what you're doing in life#though#understandable if you don't feel like telling anyone#idk if replying with a flowchart conveying that#is the least passive aggressive way to#go about telling people that#maybe that's not your goal. then that's your prerogative ig#(i probably used prerogative wrong)#Also#you did ask so I'm answering#sorry if it was a rhetorical question#then u can just ignore this post
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silly little retainerswap au . . . baur was a bodyguard for one of kalim's ancestors; kalim is at NRC specifically so that sebek can go without abandoning his post. the vipers are the traditional retainers for briar valley's royalty and they REALLY disapprove of lilia for book 7 spoilers reasons
#sebek zigvolt#kalim al asim#jamil viper#lilia vanrouge#kalim is a first year in this AU because he didn't enroll until sebek was invited (it still involved bribery obv.)#theyre roommates and it's awful. they had two other roommates at first but the other two requested to move dorm rooms#because sebek kept putting them in headlocks for stepping over the imaginary line demarcating kalim's quarter of the room#jamil is determined to be completely on top of his job because his parents have been complaining about lilia for years#and if this how do you do fellow kids shithead does a better job of being malleus's right hand than him he will fucking wither and die#he has 100% passive aggressively brought up maleanor's death to lilia while malleus was out of earshot. at least twice#he fucking HATES silver. silver can beat him in a fight and he cannot deal with it at all. like he's WAY more steamed about it than sebek#i think in this AU's version of spectral soiree jamil spent the entire time trying to get silver lost for ever in the ghost dimension
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As someone who is in a love/hate relationship with BG3 at the moment, it was truly disheartening to see the absolute GAP of content between Wyll and the vampire. Like, Wyll has a really killer introduction to the story, but the fact he doesn’t react when you do his companion quest IRKS me like… stand up for yourself brother, please 🧍♀️
(also this is my praying Davrin doesn’t receive the same treatment from the devs/fans when DAV releases)
And it's fine to feel frustrated about it 🥲
Things like that are read so often as negativity, shipper jealousy, a desire to see the creator destroyed, bad faith arguments
But it's really just: hey I bought this product too, I'm a consumer like anyone else, I make fanart and fanfiction and cosplay and videos like anyone else, and I have concerns I would like acknowledged like anyone else
It's not deeper than that
#replies#it really sucks...the same people who make fun of anti-woke gamers will turn around and act the same way#eyerolling about the whiny minority + claiming authority over a space that's meant to be for everyone#at least with the 'other side' its not so roundabout#no whisper networks no months-long digital cold war no askbox brigade no passive-aggressiveness just a simple kys and they're on their way#life could be simple!
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Playing Honkai Star Rail!
WHY IS EVERYONE THROWING MICROAGGRESSIONS AT AVENTURINE, DAMN 😭
#I sat there with my jaw on the ground every other dialogue because MY BOY CATCHING STRAYS FOR NO REASON???#Also teehee I think I'm entering a part of the story that is Gallagher-centric. I'm so excited <3#Can't wait for content of my babygirl Gallagher <3#But anyway HQBXKAKLFQ EVERYONE IS SO PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE WITH AVENTURINE AND IT'S LIKE???#LEAVE HIM ALONE. AT LEAST BE MEAN TO HIM WHEN IT COMES TO HIS CRIMES. NOT HIS ETHNICITY. MY GODS 😭#No because Sparkle making a comment about blowing stuff up and referencing the IPC as a way to poke at his backstory had MY JAW DROP#WHBFKQJXKAKD it doesn't help with the cutscenes of his childhood/past 😭#honkai star rail#Hsr#aventurine honkai star rail#hsr aventurine#honkai star rail spoilers#hsr spoilers#So anyway. Ig I'm enjoying the game but WHAT THE FUCK?????#The entire time I'm like “THIS GUY IS GETTING HATECRIMED”#Me and Aventurine having something in common /j
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I cant believe fine im fine lost by 1.4% crying
-Please listen to both instrumentals if you can! While there are the popular songs, there's a lotta good ones out there that aren't talked about enough!-
Instrumental Links:
Nerd
The Bidding
[Reblog for more of a sample size of you'd like]
#the randomizer rlly put Jash's most listened to spotify song against the least favorited tmph song damn#also gonna say that y'all better listen & appreciate Nerd cos it deserves more love aight#not saying to vote for it but this song is so damn good & the refs are so fun#for everyone that puts that song low on your tier list. know i am biting your ankles#number 1 Nerd appreciator right here#tho with this. idk what to pick cos like Nerd has so much goin on in it & it makes me so happy to listen to#but like. its The Bidding you know? its so damn good#og is already catchy as hell & i love the way CJ did his cover of it#idk im torn. i like both a lot#chonny jash#chonnys charming chaos compendium#cj tmph#i wish you the best luck Nerd. you deserve much more#also Nerd has the funni skeleton riff guys#feel like that's important knowledge when voting#also tho bidding has the FUNKIEST bass & electric bits that rot my brain#also also has the most passive aggressive xylophone ever#also that marimba part tho????? especially on hearts “piece of shit” line? like hell yea bro fuck it up on that long ass complicated piano
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#My posts#for context there is some irl drama I've been having i only don't detail on bc it is beyond the scope of this tumblr. Everyone here's good#I say this so the passive aggression does not get me#don't let it get you if you want to tag something. Go rethink your words or talk to that person you have a problem with#there is ALWAYS a better way of a) sharing that you feel something or b) approach conflict#Ways that are productive and supportive. This is your reminder you can choose to be more kind#I genuinely think if we had less passive aggression then our world would be better#or at least the internet would be less stressful and on edge
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trying to do voice recordings for a presentation at work and there were so many sounds that i collapsed to the floor in pain so yeah autism is super fun
#guys sometimes work is hell for me#people LOVE to come into my office and chat and bother me and unfortunately there is not a nice way to tell people to fuck off#at least not when my job is literally to answer people’s questions and give academic advice#and then when i happen to be losing my mind having an awful day making recordings i get texts like ‘where are you’#possibly even strangely passive aggressive texts about my lack of presence#and im getting fucking sick of it#actually autistic#autism
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My mom just sent a message to the family group chat suggesting that my siblings download the 'For the Strength of Youth' magazine on their Gospel Library app and talked about how much the youth magazines helped her testimony growing up and like, cool. Fine. Don't know why the 'sending random spiritual thoughts in the gc' thing started out of nowhere when it hadn't been a thing for a decade but this is just another one of those, and you're ofc allowed to talk about things that are significant in your life.
I don't think sending the 'What I Did When Someone Close to Me Challenged My Faith' article right afterwards was strictly necessary though 🙃
#hi bg mutuals 👋 i'm gonna vent about this from time to time. if any mutuals dont want to see it block the 'apostake' tag#trying not to read too much into it b/c I think I did last time something like this happened#and i dont want to make an ass of myself even if neither time would actually be in front of my parents#but like...i know that they know that one of my sisters is clearly PIMO#they went through her phone a couple weeks ago and i have no idea if they read my texts w/ her#but if they did they probably saw the conversation i had with her about some of the really common shelf-breakers#and telling her to take looking into it at her own pace b/c it's scary and overwhelming#(a conversation SHE started btw)#and when i talked to my parents about the larger context of that whole situation i talked about not having space to step back#and their response was that they give plenty of space b/c they dont make her go to seminary???#that's not the same thing as letting her openly question & potentially leave the church idk what to tell you#like. besties i dont know for sure what caused it (which is NOT making things better. it just feels potentially passive aggressive)#but from my end? it sure looks like it might be a reaction to that. probably not JUST that (friends exist) but.#if you think I'm whispering anti-mormon rhetoric into my siblings' ears just ask me. i'm very much NOT doing that#i'm just. talking? to them? when and if they come to me with questions?#and not making my answer 'well there's a reason our parents raised us in the church! ☺️'#(an actual argument given in the article my mom sent)#hate it. thanks#apostake#jay rambles#ok to interact#im not challenging anyone's faith. my patience though? INCREDIBLY challenged#gotta figure out how to work my way around a 'hey please dont send spiritual thoughts to the gc *I'm in*' talk tactfully#they've been pretty chill about me leaving over-all?? at least to my face#haven't pushed me to go to church w/ them; was fine with me not visiting for easter; didnt try to convince me to not drink coffee; etc#it's just. frustrating that they're not giving my siblings that still live with them that same grace#my sister's 17 ffs#it's very possible im way overreacting to the article. but what is tumblr for if not screaming into the void#religion#mormonism
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sometimes i kinda wish mirei wasn't killed off because boy the divorced exes dynamic with majima could've been so god damn funny
#everyones seen my 'if you see my ex-husband at pride' post. thinking about that sort of thing#like yeah i know y5 said they werent exactly on bad terms (though i think that was vague and debatable considering the way she#recounts her backstory with haruka not really painting him in a great light- for understandable reasons mostly dont get me wrong- but my#point is . i think there may have been more passive aggressive animosity lingering in there than what was presented in the romanticized#retelling of the story later on in the game basically). but come on. you cant tell me they'd get along just fine if she were to have lived.#say what you will about her and her intentions and etc but regardless she DID tear kiryu's family apart and guilt trip the SHIT out of him#to do so. knowing majima. and knowing how majima feels about kiryu. do you think he'd be like. cool with that#like if/when he heard the whole story i do Not think mirei's Heartwarming Vicarious Dreams would be enough to excuse the damage she did#and its such a wild coincidence itd be hard not to think- at least just a tinnnyyy bit- that she somehow found majima's weakpoint#(kiryu) and attacked it on purpose out of spite or something.#yeah all that and i think their relationship mustve been inevitably Very toxic and fucked up considering. everything about both of them#especially at that point in time. plus the very weird and not great gap in maturity (18-19 vs 27-28) and all that. no way that ended just#totally chill and amicable. no fucking way. she had fair reason to harbor resentment towards him and i wouldve liked to see that honestly#anyway so i mean you see what im getting at. perfect setup for the most toxic but kind of hilarious divorced dynamic Ever#if she were to ever come anywhere near kiryu again majima would be there in 0.2 seconds to sheild him from impending psychological warfare#rambling#majima#mirei#y5#yakuza 5 spoilers
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damn that talking about your feelings shit really does Suck Tremendously huh.
#j.txt#vent#sorry all i post about in my life is stupid personal Issues and Problems.wish I weren't so fucking ill in the head but it's a life isn't it#finally Kind of Somewhat brought up one of the things thats been really bothering to my roommate. only after having a weird#passive-aggressive ish convo w other roommate. and maybe im just being so aggro and overdramatic for no reason thats entirely a possibility#but I did finally bring up that they Extremely rarely let me know when/if things are happening and when they do it's with barely any notice#or time left for me to prepare the way I need to to deal with whatever the situation is. And that she in particular keeps just. imagining I#guess. or at least Not Communicating well within them. conversations with me abt if I would like to be included in things#anyways. some of what needed saying was said and I only teared up a little bit so👍 now if only I didnt feel so wretched-#stupid-guilty-resentful about it lol. time to avoid thinking abt *** over it for the foreseeable future<3 Anyways
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OBVIOUS NOTE OF "GUYS I HAVE THE MEDIA LITERACY NEEDED TO UNDERSTAND WHAT IS AND ISNT A PIECE OF MEDIA ADVOCATING FOR A BAD THING AND I KNOW WHAT BAD WRITING AND PACING IS" BUT LIKE. *JAZZ HANDS* THIS IS GONNA BE ON MY OWN TIME AND SHIT N READ THE REST OF THE POST AND BLOCK ME IF NEED BE BUT IM GONNA BE AT SOME POINT WATCHING THE H*LLAVERSE AND D*MP(CENSORED TO LEAVE THIS OUT OF SEARCHES SORRY)
ALSO IM MAKING THIS CLEAR BC IK IVE BEEN VAGUE ABOUT IT BEFORE AND I DONT WANT ANY EXTRA HARASSMENT OR FOR ANYONE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH IT TO TAKE ISSUES. UH BC IVE BEEN ON THE FENCE BOUT IT IM JUST MAKING THE CHOICE NOW. NO MORE DOUBLE GUESSING STUFF I WANT TO WATCH FEHFBSFBSSFB IF ITS BAD ITS BAD AND ILL PIRATE IT ANYWAYS AND IF IT DOESNT DESERVE ANY ATTENTION IT SURE AS HELL WONT GET IT FROM ME BUT I FIGURE THIS IS JUST. A BETTER CHOICE FOR ME TO STOP GUILTING MYSELF WHICH HAS JUST BEEN A HORRIBLE THING WHENEVER I SEE ANYTHING I WANT TO AT LEAST CHECK OUT AND IM SICK AND TIRED OF PUTTING SOME PEOPLE IVE TALKED TO TWICE OVER MY OWN HEALTH IN THE WEIRD ASS GUILT TRAUMA SPIRALS I KEEP FORCING MYSELF INTO
SO THIS IS PROBABLY THE ONLY POST ON THIS TOPIC IM MAKING BC IVE BEEN SO BACK AND FORTH BETWEEN "MAN THIS IS GREAT FOR ME" AND "OH GOD THE TRAUMA" LOL
BASICALLY THIS HAS BEEN A LONG TIME COMING AND MAYBE THISLL BE LIKE THE HORROR THING WHERE I RLY LIKE IT AND I TRY TO HOLD BACK BOUT IT BUT END UP OBSESSED BUT MORE LIKELY THAN NOT THIS IS JUST GONNA BE A HEADSUP FOR ANYONE UNCOMFORTABLE W LIKE THE TWO BIGGEST TARGETS FOR "IRREDEEMABLE MEDIA" BC ITS LIKE. VERY FAIR TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE W EM AND I DONT BLAME U AT ALL SO I WANT TO MAKE SURE UR WARNED
REPETITIVE POST IK AND IF YOU ARE LIKE. MY FRIEND FRIEND AND YOU DONT WANT ME TO LET ME KNOW AND IF I RB ANYTHING IT WILL BE TAGGED AND EVERY SINGLE DISCLAIMER I JUST. WANT TO MAKE SURE PEOPLE KNOW AND IM CLEAR ABOUT THIS FOR EVERYONES SAFETY, EVEN IF ITS SOMETHING SMALL LIKE THIS. MY APOLOGIES AGAIN, SERIOUSLY IF YOU ARE LIKE. A FRIEND FRIEND I WILL TAKE UR OPINION ON THIS DW
#THIS ISNT GONNA APPLY TO LIKE. SOUTH PARK OR HARRY POTTER OR SOMETHING. BUT LIKE. AND TLDR THIS IS JUST ME HAVING HISTORY W MEDIA#BUT ITS IN A ''BAD PEOPLE ARE THE MAIN REASON I HAVE THE PASSIONS THAT I HAVE AND WANT TO ANIMATE AND ENJOY WHAT I ENJOY#AND I WANT TO AT LEAST DECIDE FOR MYSELF IF ALL THEYVE DONE IS AS BAD AS PEOPLE SAY BC IK THEYRE THAT BAD BUT I WANT TO AT LEAST SEE WHERE#THAT PASSION WENT TO AND IF NOTHING ELSE MAYBE ALL THE MEANSPIRITED POSTS WILL BE RIGHT AND ITLL BE FUN TO LAUGH AT. AND IM SURE THERES#STUFF THATS SHITTY IN THERE. I KNOW THERE IS IN FACT. BUT I DUNNO IM TIRED OF BEING TOLD HOW BAD EVERYTHING IS FROM FUCKING HOMESTUCK FANS#LIKE BUDDY IM NOT NEW TO THIS IK THERES WORSE SHIT IN OUR WEBCOMIC. I SEE SOME OF U RBING SOUTH PARK STUFF AND THEN DECIDING THATS#TOO INTENSE AND I DUNNO MAN MAYBE ITS ALL PERSPECTIVE MAYBE IM JUST TIRED OF BEING A PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE COWARD ABOUT EVERYTHING#BUT POINT IS FUCK EVERYONE WHO WAS A JERK BOUT IT IM GONNA BE WATCHING THAT SHIT ON MY OWN TIME AND IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE UR BUSINESS#SO DONT MAKE YOUR DEATH THREATS MY BUSINESS'' WAY#AND MAYBE THATS ALL NONSENSE AND SHIT BUT THIS IS YEARS COMING AND IVE DECIDED IM WEEDING OUT THE ASSHOLES#AND IK I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN MYSELF THIS MUCH BUT MAN I AM TERRIFIED OF BEING MISUNDERSTOOD. ANYWAYS. 👍. ✌.
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pet peeve: when people type a fake stutter into a written argument to be condescending. you might speak like that in an actual conversation with someone if you’re talking to them like they’re stupid but in written communications it’s so affected lol. #1 writing choice that will make me stop taking your argument seriously
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i ain't saying you treated me unkind you could've done better but i don't mind you just kinda wasted my precious time but don't think twice, it's all right
#but don't think twice it's alright#bob dylan#4/30/23#the way this feels completely genuine#but it's impossible to read it as not at least a little passive aggressive#i relate to that form of communication a little too much#feel a little personally attacked rn
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i might be reaching but seems like harry really wants to do everything Louis showed interest in lol like pretending he knows a thing about football (during tour in Argentina running wild as if I'd ever believe he cares that much ab football, btw did you know he brings bad luck for Brazil every time he goes there they are kicked from world championship lol even his fans are complaining 💀Euros e.t) hosting parties for Jude Bellingham after Louis showed public admiration for him, having a dinner with Liam G in the same week fizzy passed away out in the cafe and sending him expensive fish to buy his approval after Louis waxed poetic about him for years, attending his film premier, Grease shitshow during harryween(debatable but still fed larries which makes me despise him more), now running lol
Again last one seems reaching but when you already have a pattern it becomes hard to disregard how obsessive and weird he seems. I agree it's been a long time and I don't think they are actively thinking ab each other every day but still harry shows this wicked gross patters of wanting everything Louis likes. It's cruel and your anons said there's smth twisted ab him and I have to agree. There's something not right ab him, I used to root for him he was a good man once(at least I thought so) but he's in this game for way too long and that twisted part really flourished over the years ig
Oh I heard about the Brazilian football, that’s actually kinda funny.
Just a factual clarification. Harry never went to Liam Gallagher’s movie premiere. Only Louis was invited and only Louis was on the red carpet.
I think Harry has been running since 1D days, anyway. He’s always worked out so training for a marathon is a natural extension.
The Harryween stuff (dressing up as Danny Zuko) was cringe tbh. It almost felt like harassing an ex. I wasn’t really following him anymore but I saw a few video clips. He wasn’t cute or happy, but was in fact kind of aggressive and sad. It was during the MSG residency, wasn’t it? You can always tell when Harry puts on a “persona” on stage to act out his passive aggressive side.
#it reminds me of one of Louis’ quotes#that when he heard about Yoko Ono’s ‘yes’ on top of the ladder (her art)#he said it was ‘one of the least passive aggressive things he had ever seen#and I thought#he must really despise passive aggressive ways of communicating#and must have been subjected to a lot of it
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oh sometimes. sometimes reading my own notes is a bad plan.
#I want to feel better and I never do.#I want to be less angry but I never am.#Failed as a parent.#It always comes right back to that fucking statement.#I was so afraid of losing my father that I dug myself back into the closet.#And I fucking lost him anyways.#But at least he’s not his own fucking parents.#At least there’s fucking that.#I don’t think I could handle any of this if he was.#like sure him and me#we are very very very very bad at communication. But at least we say words like adults most of the time.#We do not do the rick and lucille tactic of passive aggressive vague bullshittery.#We manage.#They don’t.#That is the key difference here.#I have no more fear#no more obligation#no more fucking loyalty to this family. Not to this section of it anyways. I will not continue this fucking cycle.#Give me eighty degrees of separation. I’ll take it.#I want to be in fucking space if it gets me away from them and the way they look at me and talk to me and act around me.#i wish i was concise and clear like kaleb and gigi both are#but i am not#brother and i both are silent creatures#born of our father and raised in his image#isn’t that just hell of its own making#i am going to be thirty years old in a handful of years and that doesn’t feel right.#i need to be out of this state.#i need it like i need air.#i need to know what i want beyond that though#because i cannot be expected to simply climb through the unknown ranks of time listeless and empty as i have been for the past five to seve
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@infernalpursuit asked:
FUN ASK!!! If you were forced to play as your least favorite character in the fandom, who would they be? How would you play them?
TFW Game Freak claims that they don't want to make mean rivals because they 'leave an effect on the player' but somehow makes this little anklebiter A BIGGER DICK than Blue ever was?
literal 'kitten thinks of nothing but murder all day' energy
#WONDER MAIL. asks.#infernalpursuit#[[why is he SO RUDE to the player character. but like. in a passive aggressive way]]#[[i mean blue was dickish but at the very least it seemed like red could dish it out right back/they had a rapport]]#[[this kid's just a condescending JERK]]
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