#is it inherently unhealthy? no??

[kkoct-ik]

i dont get involved in syscourse because i have literally anything better to do but im so secondhand embarrassed that integrated functioning has become the word of the week with people completely not understanding the term.

i love integrated functioning as the name of the treatment goal for DID because it really highlights that both constant cooperation and full integration are incredible achievements. and are both valid ways to live and overcome your symptoms. and are both *the same goal* (to operate seamlessly and collectively) just with different mental frameworks. multiplicity is literally fine.

[bioswear]

I think more people should make peace with their dark sides, and I don’t mean that in an edgy way, I mean that in a “letting purity culture infect you to the point where you get frightened by even your own darker thoughts and impulses is NOT the healthy own you think it is” kind of way and

[elliegoose]

posts about having been a righteously angry teen are great and all but i was terrified of my own anger and consciously forbid myself from ever expressing or acknowledging any angry feelings at all from childhood until the age of like 25. so shoutout to people who are afraid to ever express any anger. we gotta work on that

[king-of-havoc]

Really REALLY hate that so many so called "pro-polyamory" people will be like "yeah polyamory is fine, except when the Mormons did it because a man having multiple wives is wrong"

No. No that's not why it was wrong. It was wrong because a lot of those girls were minors who were groomed into it, NOT because "man has many wives and that's icky >:("

If you refuse to acknowledge that multiple women can consensually be with the same man then you are not pro-polyamory. Being pro-polyamory has to include all consensual dynamics of a polyamorous relationship, even cishet men wanting multiple girlfriends. If they're all consenting then you don't get a say, sorry

[calware]

i don't think dirkjake is inherently unhealthy, i think they're just two socially awkward 16-year-olds who haven't yet learned how to properly communicate. not to say they can never be unhealthy or that it's not interesting, i just don't think it's inherent to them

i also think there's a difference between them having relationship problems and them being unhealthy. because, yes, they do inherently have relationship problems. because that's inherent to relationships

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

Joel meeting Ellie: *slams her into a wall & threatens to shoot her*

Joel five minutes later: *kills a man w/ his bare hands for threatening to shoot her*

[fernlessbastard]

hot take moment cwilbur is literally just psychotic as all hell and i think people got way too comfortable villianizing the shit out of a man who was clearly portraying signs of severe mental illness. cwilbur was like im so fucking paranoid and scared and i think everyone is out to get me and hurt me and ive spiralled to the point i cant reach out to the people closest to me because im so afraid and lost in this spiral and im having constant panic attacks and hurting myself because i dong know what to do with myself and the only way out for me is to die. and everybody was like EVIL MAN WHO ENJOYS HURTING OTHERS AND IS ABUSIVE ON PURPOSE AND A VILLAIN AND SHOULD NEVER BE TRUSTED AGAIN. and then he came back and was like im still deeply troubled and afraid but im desperately trying to make up for the wrongs i did in the past and the people i hurt in my own way and communication is really hard for me but i hope people know that im truely sorry and i love them. im going to try my hardest to fix this in the only way i know how and then respectfully remove myself from the situation because i feel thats the kindest thing i can do to the people ive hurt. and people were like ABUSER ABUSER ABUSER EVIL MAN ABUSER. like girl

Yeah no based true real no questions asked

I'd hope I manage to portray Wilbur the way he deserves in my content, cause that man is heavily bpd coded and he just needs therapy and someone who genuinely loves him but also can handle his bullshit (which has exclusively and reliably been Quackity like, canonically)

But yeah no completely agreed. The man has issues and has definitely fucked up a lot but at the end of the day he really does need love and care and patience, but also boundaries (and therapy and meds, obviously)

[lightbulb-warning]

so has anyone figured out WHY there is the Need To Share our Artworks™ or is it just the vibes and our Soul apparently

[girlashfur]

obviously dont be ableist about moonpaw that shit is bad but also. incest is bad and ive seen a few people now try to normalize cousin on cousin incest bc of this incident and it makes me want to actually throw up as somebody who was sexually abused by a cousin lol

[positivelyadhd]

As important as it is to learn to accept and understand your neurodiversity, you are allowed to struggle with it. You are allowed to have complicated feelings or even feel negatively about it.

As wonderful as being neurodivergent is, you are allowed to acknowledge that sometimes it isn't. That doesn't make you a bad person or mean you are any less accepting of yourself.

A big part of self acceptance is also accepting the negative parts.

[captain-lovelace]

I’ve said this before but I firmly believe that fatphobia and ableism are intrinsically linked

[edwardseymour]

good for her.

[naehilisms]

the Corinthian is such an interesting character because on a surface level he craves freedom and consumption but what he really wants is fulfillment/meaning and it doesn’t truly matter how he gets it

he can satiate his hunger by consuming the waking world or by being loved by the one being he gives a damn about

he despises being dehumanized and reduced to an object/function but if he were given sufficient attention he wouldn’t even mind being treated like a tool because he would feel whole

That is to say I think Morpheus should’ve just given cori a good hard fuck to fix him 🙂 just kidding. Unless?

[bongo-thebear]

Leaning into making my favorite characters struggle. Henry emily is getting a buzz cut/very short cut between 7ish and 20ish because he just cannot take care of his hair. Anytime he has long hair its because someone else is helping him with it or its matted. Thank you henry emily's mom, jojo emily, and william afton. Its a shame you all died.

[infizero-draws]

IF YOU DON'T VOTE PEARL AND SCAR I'M FUCKING STEALING SOMETHING OUT YOUR HOUSE!!!!!!

@last-lifeduo-standing​

[bunnyboy-juice]

spent the first hour and change at work deleting some old files and am having a grand ol time laughing at myself for not realizing i was a lesbian sooner