#introv

[catchymemes]

[introvertedkour]

I form N number or wonderful sentences to say to my loved ones or the people around... But wen it comes to delivery it is nil.

Recently one of my closest friends was getting married.... I had may thoughts in my head... I would do this, i would do that, i would gift her so and so... While parting i would say this... I even was ready with a speech in my head, it was an emotional moment obviously. So much was there to talk, to share... A list of things were ready in my head... But when it was time to bid good bye, not even 10% of thoughts going on in my head could be delivered.

Fun fact: I even think 100 times before complimenting any one. Its not like I do not want to compliment but i just feel conscious about it.

[introvertlifestyle]

I owe everything that I have done to the fact that I am very much at ease being alone.

Marilynne Robinson (American writer, *1943)

[haunted-house-sys]

When we scroll through and see "if you like/follow/know/interact with _____/____ system"

And we are literally here like: Who?

And thats on Introverted/AVPD :)

-🥀

[ashgreninjaplayzgamesforfun]

When you go to a party with your family but your introverted.

[dianyunipratiwi]

Aku Malu Jadi Introver

Aku adalah seorang introver.

Orang-orang sering bertanya. “Mengapa kamu diam saja? Dari tadi kok nggak ngomong-ngomong?”

Seolah-olah tidak bicara adalah hal yang salah.

Mereka menganggapku pendiam, padahal aku bukan pendiam.

Aku hanya sedang mengamati dan menimbang-nimbang posisiku di hati mereka.

Aku bukan pendiam, aku hanya tidak bisa banyak bicara di kerumunan orang-orang.

Jika sudah merasa diterima, aku akan berubah menjadi orang paling cerewet yang jika bicara lebih lama dibanding kereta api yang lewat.

*

Orang-orang sepertiku memang unik bahkan mungkin bagi sebagian orang menganggap kami aneh.

Ketika melihat seseorang yang tidak begitu dekat dari jauh, bukannya terus jalan dan menyapa, kami memilih menghindar dan berputar ke arah lain.

Kalau terpaksa harus berpapasan, kami memilih pura-pura tidak melihat.

*

Kami juga sering dipandang sebelah mata.

Mereka bilang, “Kalau mau sukses harus pandai bicara.”

Katanya, “Orang-orang yang tidak bisa bersosialisasi sepertimu akan susah dapat pekerjaan.”

Nasihatnya, “Banyak-banyaklah ikut organisasi biar luas pergaulannya.”

*

Dalam urusan asmara juga sama saja.

Teman-temanku bilang, “kalau mau disukai harus menjadi orang yang lucu, aktif, dan seru.” 

Katanya, “harus terlihat menarik dan menyenangkan.”

Itu semua bukan aku dan bukan karakter orang-orang sepertiku.

*

Dunia seolah-olah bukan tempat untuk kami.

Bumi terlihat penuh dengan orang ekstrover, yang sebenarnya mungkin jumlahnya sama saja.

Namun, para ekstrover terlihat sangat jelas dan ramai di antara orang yang tak bersuara.

Ini membuat banyak dari kami merasa malu sebagai introver.

*

Aku pernah mencoba menjadi ektrover karena merasa salah sebagai introver.

Karena merasa tak diterima jika tetap menjadi diri sendiri.

Mungkin ini pun dilakukan oleh banyak introver di luar sana.

Berusaha bertemu dan berkenalan dengan banyak orang.

Beramah tamah dan berusaha banyak bicara.

Ikut kegiatan ini dan itu.

Namun pada akhirnya, aku merasa lelah.

*

Aku bertanya-tanya, “Apakah para introver harus menjadi orang lain untuk sukses?”

“Apakah kita harus menjadi orang lain untuk diterima dan disukai?”

Kalau kondisinya seperti itu, penerimaan dan rasa sukanya hanyalah kepalsuan.

Seharusnya tidak demikian.

Bukankah lebih baik jika kita diterima dan disukai karena apa adanya diri?

*

Oh, ini bukan berarti aku mengajak untuk berhenti bersosialisasi.

Bukan juga berarti mengajak untuk berhenti ikut banyak kegiatan positif.

Bukan juga berarti mengajak untuk tetap membiarkan kelemahan-kelemahan yang bisa diperbaiki itu tetap ada.

Bukan, bukan itu.

Bagaimana pun manusia makluk sosial yang butuh untuk bertemu dan bicara dengan orang lain.

Namun niat awal dan pola pikir yang harus kita rubah.

Tetaplah bersosialisasi karena memang merasa butuh.

Bukan karena malu dan berusaha menjadi orang lain.

*

Ingatlah, kita, para introver tetap dibutuhkan di dunia.

Bisa bayangkan jika semua orang adalah ekstrover?

Siapa yang akan mampu menjadi pendengar dan pemerhati terbaik?

Ingatlah juga, manusia terbaik dalam Islam, Rasulullah Muhammad adalah seorang introver

Yang tetap mampu memimpin dan bersosialisasi dengan caranya

Jadi banggalah menjadi introver

[1introvertedsage]

Join me!

[sad-bard]

“Something on my face”

There is something on my face

People stare

There is something on my face

It’s like a shade

There something on my face

It’s hasn’t been there in a while

There something on my face

It looks like a smile

-rae

[mushroompancake]

I used to think I talk a lot but then I met someone who talked a WHOLE lot and now I feel sapped of energy the moment they start speaking to me

[catchymemes]

[danekez]

I wonder what life would be like medicated.

[indelen]

Mr. Darcy to every around him: *death glare*

Mr. Darcy to his little sister: Georgiana, I met the oddest girl in the world and she smells like heather and hates my guts and she plays the piano quite well while she tells me to go fuck myself, but like ... In a polite diss way, you know? Like a lady would. And her family is annoying and her mother is horrible but Georgie, even though she's so annoyed and mortified by them and they are an inch above peasants or something she won't marry me! she told me I'm an asshole and am I really? I'm so confused Georgiana she told me I should practice at being nice what does that mean? where do I start?

this is my hand flex

[loisongcanbang]

438. Ba bước khỏi cô lập đối với người "hướng nội"

Xã hội nơi chúng ta đang sống có vẻ như ngày càng hối hả hơn, bận rộn hơn. Và con người mải miết những chuyện vây quanh mình. Như tìm lấy một chỗ đứng ở đời, giáo dục con cái, lo lắng chuyện a, chuyện b… Chuyện z. Thế đó. Với nhịp sống như vậy, ngày càng nhiều xác nhận mình là người hướng nội, sống nội tâm. Những người không muốn làm phiền người khác và cũng chẳng muốn ai quấy rầy mình. Họ nhạy…

[niki-zen]

Miss introvert

Miss introvert... I just want to know you... You might show yourself as transparent... But you have many things inside covered by foggy clouds.... there’s something within you which always confuses me... Mostly I’ve seen you walking past the decision rope... Trying to balance different facets of life with calmness...hey...take care...even a slightest wrong orientation can twist your leg and make you fall down again.... And I’m damn sure you may be used to the fallouts but definitely not love it...i know you can now just manage everything but currently you just need some peace ..some place..some place you can call your own .. well you can never get it... Coz it doesn’t even exist... There is no GOAL but just the path...path to do what you want to ....but what you actually want?? What you want now ,will you want the same forever?? Ofcourse not!! There is no end to the wants... But yes if you wish to grow better than yesterday ...work on yourself... This will surely be a path which can quench your thirst for wants ( at least to some extent)... Well some amount of thirst is also important..as it keeps you going ... Which is the way to live life.... Keep going...even with sores on legs.. .keep going ...even with creeping gait... Keep going ... Even alone ... Keep going ...if your path is correct... Keep going ❣️❣️

[dineanddiet]

Are You a Highly Sensitive Person? Here's What You Need to Know

Are you easily overwhelmed by noise, bright lights, or crowds? Do you have a deep appreciation for art, music, and nature? Do you find yourself feeling drained after spending time with people? If so, you may be a highly sensitive person (HSP).

HSPs are a subset of the population who are born with a heightened nervous system. This means that they are more sensitive to both internal and external stimuli. HSPs are often more aware of their surroundings, and they can be easily overwhelmed by noise, bright lights, or strong emotions.

However, there are also many advantages to being an HSP. HSPs are often more creative, empathetic, and intuitive. They are also more likely to be deeply connected to their values and to have a strong sense of purpose.

If you think you may be an HSP, there are a few things you can do to learn more about your personality trait. You can take a self-assessment test, such as the Highly Sensitive Person Scale, or you can read books or articles about HSPs.

Once you have a better understanding of your HSP traits, you can start to develop strategies for managing your sensitivity. This may include finding ways to reduce stimulation in your environment, taking breaks when you need them, and surrounding yourself with supportive people.

Being an HSP can be a challenge, but it can also be a gift. By understanding your personality trait, you can learn to appreciate your strengths and to manage your challenges in a way that works for you.

Some of the signs that you may be a highly sensitive person

You are easily overwhelmed by noise, bright lights, or crowds.

You have a deep appreciation for art, music, and nature.

You find yourself feeling drained after spending time with people.

You are easily affected by the energy and moods of the people around you.

You are more aware of your surroundings than others.

You have a strong sense of empathy.

You are conscientious and thoughtful.

You are creative and intuitive.

If you identify with many of these signs, you may be a highly sensitive person. There is no right or wrong answer to whether or not you are an HSP. The important thing is to understand your personality trait and to find ways to manage your sensitivity in a way that works for you.

Tips for managing your sensitivity

Identify your triggers  What are the things that tend to overwhelm you? Once you know your triggers, you can start to avoid them or find ways to cope with them.

Take breaks  If you start to feel overwhelmed, take a break from the situation. Go for a walk, listen to some calming music, or do something else that helps you to relax.

Set boundaries  It's important to set boundaries with the people in your life. Let them know that you need time to recharge after spending time with them.

Take care of yourself  Make sure you are getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and exercising regularly. Taking care of your physical and mental health will help you to manage your sensitivity.

Find supportive people  Surround yourself with people who understand your personality trait and who will be supportive of you.

Being an HSP can be a challenge, but it can also be a gift. By understanding your personality trait and by managing your sensitivity in a way that works for you, you can live a happy and fulfilling life.

[sad-bard]

“Misery loves Company”

Misery wants soothing

Misery can not be alone

Misery wants to share

Misery wants to be coddled

Misery loves Company

But Company doesn’t love Misery

Company wants to be there for the good

Company wants to soothed

Company wants to be love without the cost

I am Company

Misery let me go

-rae