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sun-lit-goth · 1 month ago

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maybe I don’t deserve friends honestly

#Maybe I am being unreasonably #And asking to be put first whilst not putting someone else first as well #Is that what I’m doing?#I won’t allow for inconvenience #I’m busy #im relaxing #Is that what I’m saying?#What if everyone asked for more grace when they disappear for a couple days though u texted them #What if that happened to me with everyone I talked to?#Well I mean no ones as reliable as ur best friend anyways so #I don’t think I’d mind it tbh #But I have people I connect with in real life too so #Right now I’m just chilling #with a beer #And it’s feel normal and not isolating if I wasn’t going through this conflict with a friend rn #Whilst taking breaks from it cause it’s a lot to handle even though I’m being nice #It’s really emotional #I could try harder #But me trying isn’t satisfying enough #So what am I left to do

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shitbl0gger · 3 months ago

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chocochococoffee · 3 months ago

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wanna do a 3x3 spread of favorite pokemon, favorite digimon and favorite foods

#im relaxing #chocolife

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doll-phobia · 1 month ago

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july-19th-club · 2 years ago

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seriously have been thinking about this all night long. call me autistic but the fact that 90% of workplaces the point is not to get your work done and then be done doing it but to instead perform an elaborate social dance in which you find something to do even when you're done doing everything you need to do in order to show your fellow workers that you, too, are Working . because you are at Work . disgusting why cant we all agree that if there is no work immediately to be done. we just dont do anything

#i personally like to not be doing things constantly at all times. it stresses me out #i know there are ppl who thrive on cosntant activity #but me i like to chill out.#and the problem then becomes that i only ACTIVELY remember to do work and Find More Work To Do when im stressed #at the thought that others might want to see me working #if im ever relaxed i just dont look for stuff to do #catch 22 of modern work culture which permeates even ostensibly noncapitalist structures like public libraries #for instance: will it really kill anybody if the books get shelved by me now after a very busy day?#or shelved tomorrow morning by. well probably me since i'll be the one at the desk #not in the slightest #but it was work that wasnt being immediately done by me. therefore it was incorrect behavior #that i failed to identify because my instinct is to relax when not immediately presented with a Situation #this got me labeled as 'having no initiative' by my dad from a very early age #and even as an adult i still feel like im a child with no initiative

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hinamie · 3 months ago

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new official illust of them with puppies healed something in me

#my art #jujutsu kaisen #jjk #yuji itadori #megumi fushiguro #nobara kugisaki #fanart #jjk fanart #jujutsu kaisen fanart #file name pupys btw bc they r all. pupys #6 pupys in this image #cries eternally u kno the cruel thing is there is no winning fr me when it comes 2 creating art fr this series #i draw them in canon situations i experience pain i draw them in noncanon Relaxed situations i experience pain #illusion of choice.....#regardless i care them so much i would MUCH rather them b in a sunny field with dogs #i will endure the bittersweet feeling of being an audience member n knowing that their reality is nowhere this tranquil #i can dream :'< i can draw :'<#anyway this took a billion years bc i made megumi stand smh #he didnt fight or anything but th overall Composition ws a bit harder 2 navigate because of it #smth smth sizing smth smth planes idk i cant draw #i think it makes sense tho! nobara/yuuji sitting chilling casually rolling a tennis ball fr their puppies #meanwhile megumi Actively trying 2 train his #head in hands god im MISERABLE #anyway this will b available as a print per request if any1 wants 2 b miserable with me

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relaxingifs · 6 months ago

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Fantasia (1940) - The Pastoral Symphony

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irishyuri · 2 months ago

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these were such fun warmups lmao COWBOY AU (briefly) BACK ONLINE ‼️‼️

#merlin #my art #gwen #guinevere pendragon #merlin emrys #sir gwaine #merwaine #merlin emryeehaw #and yeah im coming up with lore now. this was supposed to be a fun little relaxed au now its an AU #ok actually one tidbit ill give is that arthurs the one who issued the posters #he gwen and merlin were childhood friends until they were teenagers #which was the last time he saw merlin until recently #so the only info he thinks to give the forensic artist or whoever drawing merlin’s portrait is ‘yeah give him a fuckass bowl cut’#he’s just going off other witness accounts for gwaine he saw the guy for like 2 seconds

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lilybug-02 · 9 months ago

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Pain is a great motivator…

Part 26 || First || Previous || Next

—Full Series—

Meanwhile Toriel:

(Loud noises don't wake her up usually.)

Artist note: I’m so proud of this :))) I know it’s a lot of dialogue and reading, but dialogue is grueling work for me. I’m glad with the art and for the amount of pages I made in such a relatively short time span -w- page 5 was super fun to work on. A lot of blood, sweat, and hours here... :) The backgrounds were a big bore tbh, but I finished them! Yippie!

#CHARA WTF DO YOU MEAN “COMPUTER”????#lol i hope you guys dont hate me for what im doing in the next update.#IS THAT A MAC OS???#Yes......owo''#Kris and the Gang are LITTLE now. I've pixelated them and turned them into little game characters!#FINALLY!!#I never thought I would be going so far in the story to explain WHY Kris pulls out their SOUL and opens Darkfountains even when they killed #Berdly in Chapter 2. Pain can make people do horrible things.#Uhhhhhhhhh anyways. :3 I hope you liked it! I made this post a little too long for my liking and didnt get it out when i wanted too-#but thats okay! As long as people enjoy it :)#bread #art #deltarune chara timeline #deltarune chara timeline comic #seriously though #long post #man am I glad I switched over to the limited color palet! It helps me feel alot more relaxed uwu #This is....way over 16 hours of work q-q #chara #asriel #susie #kris #asriel dreemurr #kris dreemurr #kris deltarune #susie deltarune #deltarune #comic #my art

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honeytonedhottie · 3 months ago

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how to embrace being alone⋆.ೃ࿔*:･✍🏽🎀

learning to be alone is such a crucial thing to learn at all times during your life, but especially during your youth. and something to understand is that sometimes, protecting your peace comes at the cost of being alone but being alone is peaceful! and not as bad as you might think that it is.

being alone offers an opportunity for self discovery and growth and rest and relaxation and reflection and the list goes ON. being able to enjoy your own company is a SUPER power bcuz it genuinely nourishes you so much.

ENJOYING UR OWN COMPANY ;

you dont have to be codependent on someone else to make yourself happy or to make yourself feel good. what fulfills you and nourishes you isnt the relationships that u have with others. although that is an amazing and fulfilling thing, the most fulfilling thing is learning yourself. being alone REPLENISHES you, its like, hydration for the soul.

dont wait on someone else to do something that you wanna do!! if u dont have anyone to go with, just go on your own. you dont have to wait on others to be happy…💬🎀

PRACTICE BEING ALONE ;

go on solo dates, practice planning to do something fun and just doing it by yourself. once you start doing things alone and you see how nice it feels, you'll want to do it more bcuz its so easy to enjoy your own company, you just have to get over your fear of judgement or of being alone and learn to enjoy and embrace it.

♡ have a spa day

♡ learn to cook a new dish

♡ read a book

♡ have a journalling session

♡ schedule appointments for urself

♡ go on a long drive

SOME BENEFITS OF ENJOYING UR OWN COMPANY ;

♡ u can be urself without filter

♡ less distractions and u give urself time to ponder and look internally

♡ ur in control of ur space and time

♡ u can be creative and imaginative without reference

♡ its peaceful

BEING UR OWN BESTFRIEND ;

treat yourself how you'd treat someone that you valued a lot. be compassionate and understanding and respectful. dont talk badly about yourself and dont be mean to/punish yourself bcuz u wouldn't do that to someone that u loved and cherished…💬🎀

dont abandon yourself in times where life can become stressful. focus on being present and dont forget your worth. your self worth and value doesn’t come from how useful you are to others, your valuable simply because you are you. a human being who is deserving of love. your worth doesnt come from how productive you are or what you’ve achieved, instead your worth is already done and your valuable because of your existence.

COPING WITHOUT FRIENDS ;

everything is temporary and meaningful relationships will always find their way to you. just understand that some ppl are here temporarily and some ppl are here for a lifetime but only you are here for all of it which is why its important to be alone and be comfy with that.

not everyone is gonna like you or wanna be your friend and thats okay. it has nothing to do with you and is almost always simply because of different personalities and its not personal

brush off rejections bcuz rejection is just redirection. when you dont take everything personally you'll notice how much happier you'll be overall.

know that the meaningful relationships and connections that u crave will come!! no one is here to be alone forever so you'll meet the people who pour into you and you'll meet ppl that u can pour into and you'll be okay!!

overall, enjoying your own company does wonders for your mental and physical health and its a useful skill to learn in general because it brings so much peace from being able to sit with your thoughts…💬🎀