#seriously though

[imperiumwifestrikesagain]

WHO REINCARNATED GIAN LORENZO BERNINI AND DIDN’T TELL ANYONE?!

Fabio Viale, marble sculpture.

[pigglepiephi]

If the last scene of Petrichor isn’t Tul and Run’s wedding then what was even the point of all this heavy foreshadowing in the opening 2 minutes!

[waytooinvested]

I just rewatched “It’s a Super Life” and it’s so frustrating.

Kara watches all these realities where she tells Lena about being Supergirl, and in NONE of them does it cause Lena to have a Dark Arc. Yes things go wrong, but it’s always due to external forces, not because of Lena making bad choices.

Then at the end of all that Kara’s takeaway is not ‘there will always be consequences, I need to put my energy into fixing the reality I have’ it’s ‘there will always be consequences, therefore that completely exonerates me from all guilt, so now I’m going to go and give Lena an incredibly cold speech in which I call her a villain.’

HOW is that the takeaway here???

She could have gone to Lena and had a version of that conversation in which the essentials were more or less the same ie ‘I can’t keep apologising forever for what happened, but nothing good comes of working with Lex’ in a way that was actually caring, and showed some faith in Lena.

She could have asked Lena to explain what she was doing. She could have explained HERSELF why she was so against myriad being used in their old world even if it was for a noble purpose, and that if Lena’s aim was to do something like that again, even for a good cause, she was going to have to stop her. She could have told Lena that she values her and would rather work with her than against her to find a way to help the world, even if it could only ever be a professional alliance and not a friendship. She could have reminded Lena that aside from their personal history, the two of them want the same thing for the world (in broad terms) and that has never been what Lex wants. She could have NOT TREATED HER LIKE A VILLAIN AND PUSHED HER FURTHER TOWARDS LEX.

[offthethirlwall]

I hate haydenblr (I'm actually lying, I love you guys mwah) because what do you mean we don't have that much will beeman fanfics

[questionablehuman444]

THANK YOU. Someone put my thoughts into the correct words, and it makes me thoroughly happy.

Dick definitely has eldest daughter syndrome, but Tim was "really mature for his age"

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Okay, Dick holds the weight of the world on his shoulders as the oldest. He's the one everybody goes to when they're having problems with Bruce. He's the "trusted adult". He's the guy who has the ability to get people to open up, and let him help them. It weighs on him a lot as a result.

Dick feels that if he isn't constantly there for people, then he's failing, not only as a hero but as a brother and a friend. (I could also talk about how he leans into the himbo persona because his self esteem is a tripping hazard in hell, but that's for another time)

Then, you look at Tim. He's self sufficient, he's easy, and he's smart. Tim has gifted child syndrome. People think that since he's more mature, he can handle more. So they start treating him like an adult and whenever it's convenient, they double back to treat him like a kid.

So often, the adults in his life were emotionally inept, and their love for him was so often conditional. He had to grow up quick because nobody else wanted to.

Something I think about is how, despite Dick and Tim having similar experiences and bearing the weight of the world, they don't want to hurt each other more. Dick doesn't want to fuel Tim's gifted kid syndrome and Tim doesn't wanna fuel Dick's eldest daughter syndrome. They can't talk to each other because they're aware of the other person's situation, and don't want to continue fueling the other person's problems when, in reality, it would probably be the best course of action for the two of them.

They're so afraid of making the other's problems worse by talking, that they're don't realize that they're actually just harming the both of them. They fail to realize that they're stripping away the only other person who could fully understand in a way beyond just comprehending the words and feelings being told, the only other person who knows the family on a personal level and can empathize from a place of mutual feelings. They taking away the one person who *Gets It* fully and completely.

Anyway, sorry for rambling, I really like talking about things like this. Thanks for reading if you made it this far lol. I had a lot of fun writing all this.

Dick is for the eldest sibling while Tim is for the parentified children and I think that's the most important difference between them

[thesadboisguidetolife]

Dear Mr Tumblr,

Wtf do i have to do to get rid of my post limit?!?! 🤔

[prilita]

It's the little things(boobs)

[myalchod]

Does anyone else have their anxiety spike every time they go clear their Tumblr cache on mobile because of this particular design choice?

[the-selfinsert]

It's a wild ride, lol.

Today I watched the entire Underverse series for the first time and I'm still trying to process everything😭👍

[feralhoekage]

No one's been able to make me squirt(or tried 😮‍💨) & it's all I can think about right now

[nerdalmighty]

WAIT IT'S YOUR BIRTHDAY?!

Happy birthday, you incredibly kind, wonderful, beautiful person! You're a treasure on this website, a fantastic writer, and just a well of support, and I appreciate you very much ❤️

STOP IT!!! I'm overwhelmed with love 🥰 Thank YOU for being so kind and thoughtful and TALENTED!!! ILY, THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

[xylofondue]

I saw the live-action HTTYD trailer today.

THANK FUCKKKK

I needed that healing after the minecraft movie trailer

[rgb-pixel]

You do you Boo

Imma just keep doing what I’m doing :D been having a great time

[just-the-dumbest-bitch-alive]

I think someone needs to teach the people who write news article headlines about any form of punctuation other than a comma

Get them a wait fuck how do you remove a poll? Eh, it's here no

[godliketommo]

Good lord - don't be telling people what they should or shouldn't post about Liam's funeral. It makes absolutely no difference to his family or friends. There are photos all over the media because that's normal. These edicts always seem to come from young people who don't have much experience with these things. They had Liam's casket roll up in a horse drawn glass carriage festooned with tons of flowers. It was a partially public event for a public figure. The important part was private for those who actually knew him. The public part was for people who didn't know him but felt connected in some way, like fans. In general, don't push or pass on advice about things you don't know much about.

Good lord anon.

I don't know why these kinds of asks keep popping up when I mostly keep to myself here, and ramble about things by myself.

What advice are you even talking about?

Is it me taking offense about the people making a funeral like a red carpet on an award shows, like who's present, what they're wearing, who they're talking, and who they're with?

Like you said, what I say in my blog means nothing to his family and friends, then what is it to you?

Listen to yourself next time, "don't push or pass on advice about things you don't know much about." Yeah?

[numbuhbee]

Sure do love the ship dynamic of ‘fish out of water orange hair guy x tough girl with purple hair styled specifically into a pony tail’