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WHATEVER. OC SKETCHES ATTACK
three of them have 93 mentall illnesses and are banned from most public spaces
toxic yuri 1
toxic yuri 2
#oc#oc art#the waifs#tw blood#hiding the info in tags SO#first toxic yuri is madam and abyss. exes enemies are not over each other#are active threats to each other#both are incredibly fucked up#second is jeannette and madam. attack dog and ruthless owner flavour#jeannette hates her sm#im not normal about women as you can see
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No like seriously ARE we ready to talk about the misogyny in fandom spaces
#or more so like. the disparity. of depictions of men vs of women. i#and like. dear god. it's dire out here sometimes#um. anyway i dont say this to like invalidate anyone and i worry that by even saying this it feels terfy?#but its like no u can talk about misogyny while including trans people especially bc of the overlap. heterocissexism. is ghat a word#like . ugh i just. its never like an individual thing i have beef with u know#like if someone tends to prefer male characters or writing men loving men im never gonna shit on em yk#it just . bothers me how large of a trend it is#especially in comparison to f/f...#like jave u see the differences on ao4#ao3*#or the differences in how people talk about men vs women here#obviously theres room outside that binary and i fucking hate it as it stands anyway but it does stand and we should talk about it.#like i dont think this is just a cis issue at all. we should also talk about how we talk about nonbinary or gender non conforming characters#but its also like can we be normal about women too. and not prioritize men always . um#hey guys . rambling in the tags is all to say. this post explicitly includes trans people. i will not tolerate any#transphobic rhetoric on any responses to it. you will be blocked.#sierra speaks#misogyny in fandom
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Head in hands. 'I Spy' with Pulp is such a banger for Zor. It's giving me the urge to finally think about designing them (+ redesigning a couple others..). There's something so good abt some of the lyrics like: "you see I spy for a living // and i specialise in revenge // on taking the things that i know will cause you pain". Like....likee.............
Theres earlier parts that also make my brain tick: "it may look like to the untrained eye // im sitting on my arse all day // I'm biding my time until i take you all on // my lords and ladies, i will not fail // i will prevail, cause i spy"
PLUS the name. That did not help the situation. Alas Different Class by Pulp 🤝 IEYTD Characters. Similar can be said about the Chicago soundtrack but thats a. Whole other ramble
#and that whole other ramble is gonna take place in the tags rn#i have mentioned it a few times tbh but yk. yk i have given it more time.#for starters: roxie's suite is SO PHOENIX dear lord#it's this really upbeat jazz track which sounds SO IN PLACE with the rest of ieytd#furthermore: roxie is a very juniper aong ESPECIALLY early in his acting career brah#and later on is razzle dazzle thats. so juniper i will die on my hill it's SO juniper#when youre good to mama is very fabby to me it just oozes with this confidence and i just. with her higher up postion in zoraxis i like it#i can't do this alone is very fabby trying to convince solaris to work with her. i really like it in a sense she's trying to prove herself -#- to solaris ESPECIALLY because in the musical it's like a disingenuous want to work with the other which i also thinks fits#and then theres mister cellophane which HELLO REGINALD CRANE.#i can't quite place it but i think about it constantly. doesn't help that i love that song SO BAD#i tell ya cellophane mister cello phane should i bend my name mister cellophane#AUGHHHHHHHHHHHHHBH GRGRGRRGRGRBBRGRGRGR#im normal i swear#cell block tango. i would love to do that with all the women/fem alligned people in ieytd because not ONE OF THEM have EVER caught a break#that's. all of them. bows.#i LOVE chicago SOOOOOO much its such a good musical#i have taken most of these songs out of context and i would love to do an in context au for them all#but trying to figure out who would be who is a problem tbh#I've mentioned it before qnd it's still something i mull over#sigh#anyways. pleade ask me abt ieytd and music i can yalk a lot as you can see#i think i will put#ieytd#because uhh rambles....auhh
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JUMPING UP AND DOWN!!,,,!!,! I DREW!,!,,,!!!!,,
yo cuando mujeres sobrenaturales
#So like… I don’t know how to explain what I just did#Basically She is. Um. Benevolent shapeshifting entity#She is a giantess (ig) and she takes a stroll around the world in a constant loop#Everyone sees her differently. Everyone has a unique sight of her. No one has seen the same version of her#By the way her name IS She. I’m not motivated enough to make som up.#Anyway as I was saying uhhh yeah so#She’s basically a concept materialized into reality#She isn’t like a normal human at all. Her skin is elastic (almost like that black goop that ppl thought was solid until som time ago)#((I can’t find or remember the name of the black goop I’m talking ab. imma look so weird. But I swear it exists 😭))#(((GOOGLE ITS NOT FUCKING OOBLECK ITS WAY MORE SPECIFIC THAN THAT FUCK YOU)))#Also uhh back to the main topic. She is going to be eaten alive by men#Kind of like Gulliver and the liliputians#PLEASE TELL ME WHAT IM TALKING AB ISNT NICHE AND THAT I SHOULD BE LOCKED UP 😭#I had a Lilliputian dictionary when I was a kid…#ANYWAY ughh I keep getting distracted#Honestly that’s kind of about it as of now#Also I’m debating if all of her forms should be completely naked or if they should maybe have a little clothing accessories#I’m mainly debating this bc of things such as hijabs. Burqas. Niqabs. Etc.#They should also be included in the beauty thing right? But it’d be inconsistent world building for She’s concept maybe?#She is only her liquid form. Where would she get the clothing articles? And how would they fit her gigantic size?#Well. Whatever. I can do whatever I want and bend rules however I want. If She goes fully naked or wears something it’s her choice.#There’s a lot more stuff I want to mention but it’s whatever#traditional art#Pencil art#concept art#story wip#Women
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my best friend is gorgeous and beautiful but she always attracts the worst and creepiest men like i can see why she says shes "aroace" bc shes not outgoing in terms of dating and all the men who show interest in her are psychos like i think her general demeanor is too friendly towards weird lame men and she needs to learn to put stronger barriers up towards creeps who want her attention
#like shes wayyyyy too nice to people she should be telling to fuck off#like yeah girl i can see why you'd think youre not into romance all those men are insane to you#i can psychoanalyze her bc shes my bestie and i think im 100% right about this#the way she'd probs have an easier time dating if she was actually gay bc shes masc and has gotten asked out by gay women before#who i assume are more normal than all those men who've bothered her
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lemme tell you im starting to get a little sick of when im complaining about when a show or movie is writing a major female character with not as much depth as her male cohorts or she's written oddly plot device-like for a main character and people always tell me "oh but it's intentional, we're seeing her through the eyes of the male main character and he has a crush on her so he doesnt see her flaws" because like
FIRST of all yeah i get it but its hard to write that trope interestingly to me at this point without a lot of work put into subversion so intentionality doesnt make it any less boring
SECONDLY half the time people say this about ensemble cast stuff and like why is the random dude suddenly designated as the most perspective of all perspective characters when it comes to this specific woman. why dont we get to see the other characters perspectives on her too?
AND THIRDLY do people view women they have crushes on as bland plot devices without lives of their own enough irl that this is so universal in writing? isnt the point of having a crush wanting to hang out and know more about your crush, know about their likes and dislikes and all that. am i missing something here
#im gonna sound insane for what im about to say. but i grew up watching way to much harem anime for a 10 year old#and im gonna be honest. maybe that spoiled me? those things were not without their flaws but at least the 5 different magical giant#goddess demon vampire women with multicoloured hair inexplicably in love with random normal guy at least had like. inner lives#like thats why the guy is so normal and bland. because the focus is on the magical women and their pink hair and their complicated#backstories and familial lives and whatever outside of the main character#like theyre still big boobied colourful haired fantasies but at least they showed me something about em#when it comes to these other stories where a woman is treated like a plot device love interest and written like a dead wife in an#action movie but like. alive. i cant help but feel like. are you holding out on me? i want to know her. show me her LIFE i want to SEE IT#grabs writers by the collar ARE YOU HOLDING OUT ON ME???#its nuts because sometimes you see the bones of a really cool character but the writers are more interested in what she can do for the main#male character and how he sees her than whats going on in her head. i dunno im just getting annoyed. i think u can do this trope well#like how i think you can write basically any trope well. but i see intentionality used an excuse so often so i wanna see you do#SOMETHING interesting with this trope if ur gonna do it at least. subvert it in cool ways i dunno just do ANYTHING hfjdkjfkd
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people really love to conveniently forget trans men exist when they talk about feminism. or if they dont they make us out as also part of the problem as if we somehow are able to have the same amount of privilege as cis men. absolutely wild
#“not all men” is a valid statement because its fucking true#like guys. seriously. not every single man is evil#feminism isnt about putting men down its about raising women up to be equal and getting rid of gender inequality#sorry im seeing a massive uptick in people hating on trans men for being men lately and its fucking stupid#like yall are doing a great job at making me feel ashamed to be a man who likes men. awesome thanks guys#i dont normally make posts like this but its been rattling around in my mind for a few days now#its always put out like. all men (trans or not) are Inherently Evil and all women (trans or not) are Inherently Victims#which is absolutely the stupidest shit ive ever seen#and they also leave out anyone who doesnt fit into the man/woman dichotomy. and if they dont its always seen as woman lite#which is also stupid as fuck#not every nb/agender/other person is feminine asshole#anways. case in point. can we stop demonizing masculinity while also discussing the effects of misogyny and the patriarchy please.#because both of those things are very real and very much do hurt people#but im sick of people lashing out at trans men as if the problem magically doesn't affect us anymore because we are men#because guess what! newsflash! it affects trans AND cis men too!!#i shouldnt have to explain it should be obvious but like. im tired man#sorry ill forever be annoyed at women who just hate every single man who dares breathe in their direction because they COULD be an asshole#if you hate someone because of their gender no matter what gender it is i Do Not Trust You#anyways thanks for coming to my ted talk. replies are off cause i dont want to argue with people i just want to express my opinion
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the fact that this exists is truly sending me in a threat that's about unpopular opinions. HOW CAN THESE TWO COEXIST? SURELY ONE OPINION IS THE ACTUAL UNPOPULAR ONE AND THE OTHER ONE IS JUST YOUR PERCEPTION OF IT BEING UNPOPULAR. also i deem attractiveness as overall attractiveness of character - appearance, voice (yeah this is so highly debated and some motherfuckers TRULY are very wrong for their hot garbage takes, to the point where they should not be allowed to have opinions on women), and writing.
look there's a LOT i wanna say about people who comment on minthara that
never actually recruited her properly
never even recruited her
only kind of know what she's like from other people's snippets of her lines etc, so the whole narrative of her as a character doesn't REALLY tie in together for them
read lines that even minthara enjoyers think are inconsistent bits in writing and use that as a jumping point to explain why her character's bad.
but im afraid if i go off i'll never stOP
also im not even going to bother commenting on moral compass in a video game. i've said too much about that already.
and lets add in a little bonus of something something queer women something something grew up with queer coded villains something something backfired something something no we all think evil women are hot and right and we'd let them do anything to us something something those characters are usually voiced by older women with more mature/deep/"evil sounding" voices.
#tbh i hesitated to even tag this in the tag but this is fucking ridiculous#it's truly shocking when i read straight people tm's opinions#and im not talking about normal people im talking about people that have never questioned their own straightness#there's a LOT of them playing bg3 out there and you can see through shart and astarion what kind of stuff is palatable to them#both genders btw#meanwhile the lesbians are over here quietly enjoying minthara and people are fucking throwing minthara discourse all over the place#LET US ENJOY OUR EVIL SEXY SOUNDING WOMEN IN PEACE#THERE'S NO NEED FOR YOU TO PUT HER CHARACTER IN THE DIRT CUZ SHE'S NOT APPEALING TO YOU#I DONT THINK GALE IS APPEALING AT ALL AND YOU DONT SEE ME PUTTING MY OPINION OUT EVERYWHERE#edit: im untagging this
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where's the love for the average lesbians (me)? you know the ones that are too masc to be considered femme but too femme to be considered masc (still me)? the lesbians that don't want to move fast and can't stand the idea of dating apps because they just favour the conventionally attractive (also me). where's the love for the lesbians that dont want to fall into a stereotype catagory and just want to exist (I'm talking about me)
#im sad#theres nothing special about me and thats okay so why cant other people see that thats okay too#also the internal conflict i have not being into butch women when i myself have been called butch and hated that but not feeling like i can#say that because youre supposed to uplift butches idk man im just#i just wish finding a partner was not so intricate in the gay world#ive been out for like 9 years so why am i still ashamed that im not a straight person kind of normal you know#why am i still feeling i will only be loved if i push myself into a well defined box#anyway i think i need to sleep now and this will allllllllll be deleted by morning#internalised homophobia popping off in my head tonight ladies#like i feel shame for not finding some women attractive why is that#is it because i grew up with internet culture telling me everyone deserves to be loved so i felt like i had to#idk man#stop talking helena
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it is actively so fucked how many people i know have fully accepted the "imane khelif must be intersex or have elevated testosterone" when we actively do not have that information as the IBA made that false claim mid-competition in response to imane winning against a russian boxer
like i'm sorry, but it just says something (not good imo) when you're more willing to believe that a woman who is, as far as all actual official sources have said is a cis woman with acceptable* levels of testosterone per IOC standards, is more likely to be intersex or have some kind of hormonal imbalance than she's just. you know. a cis woman. with more "masculine" features.
*"acceptable" per their arcane and evil standards, just to be clear i fucking can't stand the fact they gender and hormone test athletes at all
#if she comes out and says 'yeah im intersex' or 'yeah i have a hormonal imbalance' obv i will have smth different to say#i just think it's weird how some of the responses to conservatives going 'this masculine woman is a man!!!!'#is 'no actually this masculine woman must have some kind of Disorder which grants her those masculine features!!!'#instead of saying the normal thing. like 'women can look like anything and it's weird to assign facial features genders'#like why are you playing in their fucking sandbox lol. the correct response to someone saying smth fucked is 'fuck off'#not 'well you see you're right about the fact she looks Not Like A Woman and There Must Be A Reason For That...'#also yall are literally parroting misinformation made up by a couple russian boxing officials like.... please. be more critical
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see the reality is i post on my rps usually when nobodys been there a bit and nobody is probably online, but the mental illness in me keeps saying its bc everyone secretly hates me and i dont deserve love, and when i tell a gov doctor that, they basically just say ‘take your antidepressant’s and shut up’ which is also funny when said gov doctor wont refill my fucking antidepressants in the first place
#what i need is smthn for my anxiety and PROBABLY the obviously worsening ocd#but anxiety meds and antidepressants dont mix well#just like adhd meds and anything else dont mix well#which is why i just have a redbull if i need to focus bx it works for a few hours and then i pass out#which isnt healthy but its better than going through the diagnosis process AGAIN bc they dont have my info anymore#its early sad times rn w brina who hasnt gotten an ounce of treatment at all hi#see the other thing is#if i talk about my mental health at all#people will either hate me for being annoying which is what my brain will pinpoint#or feel sorry for me which i also dont want#all i rly wanna do is vent but thats never really an option at all#like yes i know its not normal to want to have a breakdown and cry bc your fucking pillow isnt the correct fluff and wont dluff#i know its not normal to feel like you should die because something wasnt in fhe spot you put it in and was moved slightly#im aware. and the reality is nobody who can do anything about it cares#i have to get an authorization to see a therapist or get meds at all even tho the card claims i dont have to#and the doc tbey gave me wont give me one#they dont allow email so i cant leave a paper trail when bitching at them and my calls go ignored#im losing my mind steadily#and thats not even onto the physical problems#but also the sheer fucking audacity of the website being all ‘oh just go to ERs and UC snd we’ll cover it’ vs hospitals specifically saying#‘we will refuse you if you have Gov Ins unless you have the money to pay out of pocket#if youre on gov insurance you dont have fucking money thats the entire fucking point. you creedy fucknuts go shove tour nepotism in your#fucking eyes and die if anyone doesnt deserve to fuck its you fuckfaces#sometimes i just want to scream esp when this doesnt seem to be most other ppls issues#but then i talk to other women and it is#it just doesnt make sense and i hate it#but i never rly got help on private insurance either so#tbd#depression cw
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like re last post i see it happen with jhw too actually but ESPECIALLY ysa. i think on a lot of levels orv fans suck about ysa including people who really like her but reduce her down to. nice girl whos a bit bitter about it. you knwo!? theres so much more to her than just that. shes a major character for a reason.
#gain reading comprehension . please#i think ysa is the onyl character tht it makes me genuinely pissed off as hell when people wildly misinterpret#normally i dont care but if youre stupid abt ysa i attack you like an animal. ok?#nd shes my favourite so im defensive for tht reason but also her arc is really important to me as an analysis of the way people treat women#both fictional and real mind you#and to see it CONSTANTLY erased by orv fans in favour of just. oh kind person w some pent up anger#without any anaylsis on how her mindsent can cause this intense detachment that hurts herself and others deeply#sangsoo fans are NOT exempt from being stupid either btw but thats a whole other story#epilogue again. my favourite scene ever. where she says what dokja did was none of their business to hsy#and then when she sees him again hse just completely breaks down in regret of why did i say that!? how could i say tht?#it fucks me up so bad. i love ysa#im ramblign to evade doign homework so this probably makes no sense but#aoughh orv. ysa. i love ysa.#i think half of the cast of orv have a chronic case of#Well its fine if i sacrifice myself because i care about the others. Surely they dont care about me enoug hfor this to be an issue!#and if you forget tht ysa also does that go reread the book#meows#delete later#<- SORRY IM SHY ABT SHARING MY THOUGHTS ON THINGS LIKE THIS LOL
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SHE'S SO... AJSJAJSJA
#shes so cute!!!#ive been playing the shit out of the game. im not sure how i feel about it yet but we have yet to meet her 😭😭😭 pleeaaseeeee#i wanna see v.ivian so baaadd!!!!#i've been smitten from the day i first saw her!! she's stunning if you ask me 👉👈#and her helper and fellow scholar has a crush on her#ash's crush is so obvious andjajsj it's pretty cute! normally my s/is are these super strong girlbosses that do these amazing things#but f.f16 ash? she's just... a loser nerd. it's so fun.#i also like the thought of there being a sidequest where you have to get flowers for ash so she can gift them to her crush#ash rambles 💚#anyways yea they kiss eventually and become the happy little gays of the hideaway#i love her voice a lot too#when i fell for d.unban i said it would be the one and ONLY time i fell for a british man#.... i never said anything about british women..#heh.
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i gradually abandoned my young mulcahy secret relationship concept a while back bc the whole ends badly when they get found out thing was like.. no that's too much trauma for what im aiming for. like im not trying to give him life-changing ptsd from this he's got enough of that happening. but if it's a triple dog dare fast car twin sized mattress situation then that works
#sorry for talking in playlist.#me.txt#mashposting#i mean those were already on my playlist so i guess i really just focussed on other things. and forgor#it would be so interesting if they like ran into each other years down the line and their lives are so different#would he hate mulcahy for being a sell-out. how would he feel about mulcahy being a Priest#if mulcahy can see how hard his life's been what convoluted mix of emotions would he feel#ok i was thinking meeting in korea or some other normal situation but now im thinking what if they met in. the pegcahy timeline Lol.#other guy would be like jesus christ how much of your soul are you willing to sell to have your comfortable place in respectable society#(kinda not Quite fair mulcahy does like women) (still kinda fair though bc literally they did only get married for like reputation reasons)#(though its worth noting they had erin to think about and also. well this is not an 'although' thing but well he would kind of lose his job#thats not a good argument in that point of view though it's literally just a different pov)#anyway i should like. go think about other things
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man i wish i did have all this privilege everyone acts like I have for being a trans guy, my life would be way more chill. I wouldnt hafta worry about shit really
#see some nazi shit in my town? nah. doesnt matter. im a man after all ! doesnt effect me and totally never would !#seeing men being misogynistic or creepy to women? doesnt effect me emotionally anymore because im a man ! I have no feelings !#walking home alone at night? nah. doesnt matter. im a man! nevermind that im short and have long hair so I could easily be#mistaken as a woman especially at night and even if not- being short is something a motivated individual can use against me if#they want to- but it doesnt matter. im a man now! suddenly thats not a concern. suddenly this totally wouldnt happen. at all.#someone would approach me to try and see that im a man and go 'oh sorry sir my mistake I didn't realize it was a super special privileged#man please be on your way now'#many such cases#vent#gotta go to a gyno or some sort of doctor relating to my reproductive system? it'll all go perfectly smoothly and even better#now that im recognized as a man- surely there wont be any issues getting help now. it should be easier. im a man after all.#trying to find a place to belong socially? must be easy. im a man. disregard that im a man w poon for a second- that should surely never#play a role even if hanging out with cis men. they totally wont notice how I avoid the bathroom or locker rooms around them or ever#getting naked in front of them for any reason- its surely not just a matter of time till they find out and subsequentially start treating m#different. and nevermind trying to fit in in queer spaces im a man so i dont belong in them as you know.#and nevermind being friends with women either- im a man so naturally that totally means all i think about is fucking women and never#just being friends with them so thats not possible and women should never work on their assumptions about dudes ever bc assuming#im probably a creep-rapist by virtue of attempting to interact with them is fine and normal for them to do and I should expect it#and totally be okay with it and totally just shut off my emotions to feel nothing about it#which is again normal#esp as someone who's also been victimized by cis men and then being assumed to be like an abusive cis man is totally something thats#normal and shouldnt effect me at all it totally does not fuck with you to constantly be assumed to be like someone who abused you#especially when you know you're not like that but ppl assume anyways and its normal to assume and i just have to accept it ig#cool#love that privilege i have
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alright so ive fully caught up with magnus and protocol. and thank god for that. i can scroll the main tag and see peoples awful takes like a true fan
#i rlly liked the series. i just. OOOO i hate fandom. ooooo i hate it.#if i see one more thing about jon being 'starved' im gonna fucking Do It bro#ooooo i cant believe his coworkers would be angry at him ever its not like hes#quite literally the physcial embodiment of all of their problems and Hes getting more inhumane by the day#to be clear i fucking love jon too! and he certainly was going Thru It when he stopped taking statements!!#but he was perhaps doing some Really Bad Shit !#ohhhh and the people ive seen get mad at basira for being hypocritical. ooooooooooooooo. OOOOOO.#basira is such an intersting and awesome fucking character she can have whatever contradictory take she wants and she deserves it#guysss its like some of you cant help but be racist and hate women. like god.#ok ok ok. i know ive done this to myself ykno. i made the First Mistake.#i listened to the series through youtube and there were comment sections under each vid. and i dared to look at them.#worst mistake of my fucking life#BUT I STILL SEE THESE SAME TWO STUPID TAKES ON THIS WEBSITE !! AGHHGRHH!! BE NORMAL!!!#IF JON DOESNT HAVE TO BE MORALLY PURE AT ALL TIMES WHY ARE WE HOLDING THE FEMALE CHARS TO THAT STANDARD !! HMM!!#ugh. anyways. i need to work my own designs for these guys. whatever.#text
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