#im an angry angry feminist

[beware-the-water]

really gets me pissed when men see my frustration as amusement. thinking abt how i would get genuinely angry about something w my ex (unrelated to him in these cases, like getting cut off in traffic, etc) and he would look at me w this little smile on his face and say something along the lines of “youre so cute when youre mad” shut the fuck up i will rip ur fucking face apart

[starscream-is-my-wife]

Ratchet looks so snug in Ops trailer, very cute heheh

[forwomenbiwomen]

Men get so shivery with rage when we use misandry but understanding that everything we do is a reaction to misogyny makes their anger a little less terrifying.

For instance: we use the lovely word moid. They get incredibly defensive in reaction to it? Too bad, they devised and used the word femoid on us first.

Equally: male, used in a derogatory sense. It makes them angry? Too fucking bad, they called us females and treated us as livestock for most of known history.

Scrote? Not even that bad; but no, they need to retaliate with the historically heavy word bitch.

They call us good for nothing but reproduction and sex? Hey! That's their role. That's why when men have sex, they're happy, and when they don't, their whole biological worldview collapses and they crash out on a spiritual level. Men literally only exist to diversify our future women. Lmao. Pathetic.

Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING, is a projection on their part. Us flipping around the script in our favour, mostly ironically and in a way that releases our anger at our oppressor, is utterly incomprehensible to them and they react with their whole nervous system.

Anyway use their words against them ladies <3333

[crazyalien87]

Misandrists can fuck off to hell

Yes i mean all the tumblr radfems who are like this as well fuck you i wasted my time on yhis hellsite too much from ~ 2020 to 2022?!?!? i let you shitheads influence me too much but NO MORE.

Im not against radical feminism but the radfem communitu on here is a fucking cesspool with too much misandry and transphobia. Yall are just a more rare variety of bigots but you sre bigots all the same. Bigots are the curse of the earth you all are a disease.

Also my opions reagrding trans stuff have gone all over the place in the last 5 years ok im sorry for the confusion and i dont always agree with old stuff ive posted. ok but let me say this: let trand ppl live in peace, let them transition if they need, sometimes single-sex spaces can exceptions e.g. passing trans ppl can go to bathroom they transition to etc. No you do not know better than everyone else on wehther transition is good or not, looking at u tumblr radfems.

You condesencing sexist little shits think u knkw beeter than everyone else bc u dont hate women but u mhate men and trans ppl or at least u are bigots towrds them thinking u know netter thsm them if they need to transition but u dont. also u crazy obsessed with men and trans ppl bc u crazy also u obsesed with definitipns of words like who gives a shit if like 1% of ppl born male is now women or 1% of ppl born female is now men like goddamn who gives a fucking shit calm the fuck donw ok words are jist tools of communication, they are not meant to be ur God.

[firesidebi]

We have to do something about the state of feminism because the regression that’s happening is getting out of hand.

This week I was having a discussion in my honors English class about how historically having sons was seen as better than having daughters. We started talking about how even though that viewpoint has shifted quite a bit that it is still an issue and that women achieving rights in general is still going on.

One of my girls with full sincerity said “well I wish they wouldn’t, I would much rather be at home cooking than be at school,” and two of her classmates (also girls) agreed. When I explained to them that it’s a privilege to have an education because not everyone gets the chance to have one they all responded with “well I never asked for that.”

And I just think their response aligns with the wave of individualized feminism that has grown bigger and bigger with the rise of social media. Everything is focused on the individual rather than the collective cause. Due to these girls not wanting to be at school they have now decided that the right to an education is something that is a punishment for them. I had a lot more to say about this but I’m in a rush to get ready for work, but I can’t stop thinking about this conversation and the sour taste it left in my mouth.

[eileennatural]

jk rowling has to pay for her crimes (violent transphobia, racism, libel, etc) but also for creating the most unbelievably annoying chronically online type of woman. Idk how to describe it but you can tell someone's a jk bootlicker simply by their online cadence and insufferable vocabulary. people who think being a "feminist" gives them free reign to be as transphobic and racist as they want but also to word their tweets in a way that lets you know immediately this woman with cannot be reasoned with and likely cannot hold a real conversation irl. they exist on tumblr as well but i think are most highly concentrated on twitter

[2024skin]

1 month ago today my exes mom died is it too soon to tell him I unfriended him and ignored his message because I kind of think he raped me

[prometheuswounds]

am i gonna have to apologize in my final paper for being a bitch abt sources i dont fucking like. yknow what? NO im RIGHT if a source cant stand up under the scrutiny of one very tired undergrad then its NOT A GOOD SOURCE

[fashiun-killa]

is ocean's 8 called ocean's 8 bc women's day is the 8th of march? is it? is this horrible epiphany I just had true?

[butchviking]

i think. perhaps when ppl talk about a teenager being murdered it is not necessarily the best time to try and pull them into debates about feminism and gender. i know ppl are saying wrong and stupid things. i know i know i know. but. i think perhaps maybe just give it a little while. sometimes when someone is scared or upset & lashing out abt it... sometimes u just leave it alone sometimes u just let them go thru that.

[discoidal]

i was on tumblr as a kid but i didnt know u guys... i wish i'd known you. i was eleven twelve thirteen fourteen i was an outspoken feminist activist inclusionist anti-capitalist outcast i was deeply suicidal every single day i was deep in pro ana rhetoric i was psychotic i was. unhappy. is the gist of it. and now i get to be an outspoken feminist activist inclusionist communist and i have friends both irl and in my chosen online community isnt that something?? i was a harassed asexual and a baby lesbian and a closeted trans person i was!!! a baby!!! and i was surrounded by people who i hated and who hated me.... and now i truly love and admire and cherish my Friends In My Phone. idk what my thesis is idk what im trying to say. except maybe thank you. and i wish i'd known you then

[tenderhaunted]

ok actually like insane that people think its even remotely ok to joke that straight women deserve to be treated with violence and hatred bc they make obvious jokes about straight men AND THEN NON CISHET PPL SAYIN THEY DONT UNDERSTAND STRAIGHT WOMEN OR RELATIONSHIPS LIKE GIRL... !!!!

lgbt ppl hear straight n they immediate lose every feminist/leftist bone in their body. like god.

yes straight women still havr more privilege compared to lgbt people esp when theyre white but the fact remains that the patriarchy is rampant on our society and women still are murdered for being women esp if they had turned down the wrong violent incel

a woman saying "a man being pushed easily by a wave is an ick lol" as an obvious joke does not warrant violent harm and misogyny. even if it WASNT a joke women do not deserce violent harm and misogyny. saying they do even if u mean it as a joke or saying it as a lgbt person is incredibly harmful .

if you consider yourself a feminist but agree with this abovr statement even if as a jokr u rly need to look at your values n rethink the roots of feminism and the power of the patriarchy.

[volfoss]

hi sorry im like. so so mad about media so im putting this silly rant abt the witcher under the cut <3 spoilers for ummm the books or smth but i dont think my mutuals are into this so 👍

So i just hit Blood of Elves (the 3rd book) and met Triss. so not only did she literally SA/take advantage of geralt (as is the fucking pattern in these books w women towards him and the author and the plot treating any time geralt gets in this position as haha funny so many hot women want him :/) but she is um. absolutely fucking horrible. it is so confusing to me how so many fans love her (because even if you've only played the 3rd game, she LITERALLY point blank jokes with him about how people will no longer take advantage of him since he no longer has memory issues, and when he asks who was taking advantage of him, she was just like me :3. like its never elaborated on its just a fucking joke because we <3 feminism in this series!!) but if you've read the books it just becomes more clear how shes treating him. its a really disgusting pattern of behavior where most of his lovers either treat him like a freak and a mutant (which is sure soooo funny when hes treated like that by normal citizens) or just like a sexual object for them to use, with no regards to his consent. and by god triss has embodied both of those so so badly, where shes just nonstop either lusting after him (when he shows literally NO interest in her at this point lmao) or just treating him like shit. shes constantly guilt tripping him about ciri which is so fucking frustrating bc all the stuff shes bringing up under the guise of haha epic feminism moment is handled SO badly. she basically forces femininity on ciri who is like. barely 12 or 13 by this point (if my math is right) and who literally asks if triss will turn her into a boy and who is more than happy with dressing in male clothes. but triss finds this an absolute travesty that ciri literally has a diy haircut (or one of the men did it for her bc its mega crooked) and takes it into her own hands to turn her into a super pretty polished girl like. adjacent to beauty pageants but fantasy medieval. it is um. incredibly frustrating to see all of this and how triss consistently tells geralt his parenting sucks and that ciri shouldnt be with him (despite the fact ciri only feels safe around him and he does a rly good job parenting in his own way. like its not traditional bc he IS a cringefail adoptive single dad but its also like it doesnt need to be and he cares about her safety so much but wtv) and that he just overall sucks as a person. but we r supposed to root for the two of them to get together as in most of the games, she's the primary/most fleshed out romance option. and its like i do NOT expect ppl just playing the games or watching the netflix series to read the books but its also like she is genuinely really bad to him a lot, just talking down to him and it is actually um. very interesting bc geralt as a character is very emotionless a lot of the time (some of this is due to him being a witcher but some of it is just his personality or the trauma hes endured) but the increase of him just being upset or silent and resigned has increased tenfold in just the first 100 pages of this book. its so so frustrating to see esp after seeing how bad yennefer was treated, i really hoped triss would be better. but in every single way she's been worse.

[apredispositionforanxiety]

How To Be A Male "Feminist"

1. Support women's right to speech only when they agree with you.

2. If your viewpoint is challenged by a woman, lash out. Do not stand down, do not compromise. Strike to kill.

3. Do not apologize.

4. Assume a woman at the top of her career knows less about the subject than you, a hobbyist.

5. Advocate for women's access to education.

6. Deny your wife when she begs to go to college.

7. Use that money on a new TV, a new computer, any new accessory in an attempt to fill the void in your life.

8. Wonder why you're alone.

9. Donate to Planned Parenthood.

10. Never openly admit to being pro choice.

11. Tell a woman she does not get to define feminism.

12. Ignore women's experiences in favor of your own. Who understands sexism better than you?

[patricia-taxxon]

re: your last ask about feeling threatened by transmascs, as someone who technically i guess counts as transmasc, im sorry that others similar to me have made you feel unsafe. im not the same anon im just scared to post publically since im also a poc and plural and i know theyd love to rip me a new one if i spoke in opposition to them lol. im seeing them in the notes already jumping to conclusions and saying you were "thinking before speaking" and crying infighting, but how come that is the first response to seeing a transfem express very general discomfort or fear, after publically and repeatedly facing abuse and mistreatment from transmascs? the same people who try to socially murder you every time they disagree with something you say are mad that you dont like being kicked down anymore and feel apprehensive to interact with them. genuinely some white guilt level of sensitivity going on. i dont feel safe around white transmascs either at this point. other transmascs reading this post i genuinely need you guys to examine WHY she (and other transfems, especially on this platform) does not feel safe instead of immediately feeling butthurt. "infighting" is not "i have a rational fear after experiencing firsthand relentless online harassment specifically by transmisogynistic transmascs", patricia is not saying that she hates them anywhere or is causing a divide by expressing her fear. the same way that cis women are not "infighting" with men when they express fear after being abused. the people who ARE infighting are the transmisogynistic transmascs, that is who you need to call out. assuming otherwise is completely missing the point, but i have low hopes for people on this platform to examine their gut responses and biases.

ending this on a nice note, i hope this wasnt out of line and i didnt say anything wrong, i just woke up and got really mad that someone baited you with that ask and now the exact transmascs youre afraid of are about to do it all again. whoever asked that wanted this response to probably make some gotcha. love your music and im wishing yall the best with your plurality 🙏

Thank you for the kind words, but I don't think I was baited. I was emboldened by close friends to speak up instead of just deleting the ask, and I've been further emboldened by both the negative and positive responses. The instant not-all-men-ism and telling me to get offline because misogyny doesn't exist in real life and immediate typecasting as an angry man-hating feminist in proper 2014 reddit fashion, it's sobering, I guess. It's nice to see others having that same sober response, though. I never know how to respond to these long asks that are just people voicing agreement.

[delqcate]

hi angel!!! im aware of how super busy you are rn, but I can't get like frenemies scott barringer and reader out of my head, imagine it, like he's so annoyed by everything she does, she's the total opposite of him, sweet and kind, but also the sarcastic angry feminist, and he's the self-righteous football captain arsehole.

But no matter what he does, she's constantly stuck in his head, and it's kinda like the song "you look so pretty, pretty like the sun, i could watch forever while you shine on everyone" and he's so in love and a little insecure, which he covers up with this pompous arrogant fboy persona

anyways, you're writing gives me life more than anything! when i first discovered your flannel shirt fic on scott, i became obsessed and stalked your profile and obsessively read through all your fanfics, hayden characters or not, I read them all, and im head over heels in love w u :) you genuinely write the best fluff ever, like your my favourite blog for fluff, like don't get me wrong smut is cute and that, but god i would kill for some forehead kisses and hayden fluff

because i love you.

scott barringer x reader

anon you own my whole heart ilysm!!! you're soso incredibly sweet and being your favorite fluff writer??? such an incredible honor 🥹 i'm sorry it took me a while to get to writing this and i feel so bad cause i feel like i just didn't have enough inspiration for this so it's all messy but I hope it's still good. scott and shelby don't get together here but they're still good friends

summary: you and scott don't necessarily hate each other, but you can't tolerate both that much either. after a plan gone wrong, turns out there's a reason why.

warnings/cw: swearing, kissing (i don't know if that's warnings but yeah), fluff fluff fluff

word count: 1.9k

Where does Scott even begin with you? The Cliffhanger's sweetheart, the epitome of the sun in this hell hole, is his friend. Well, sort of.

Because every time he was near you, it felt like he was constantly basking in the sun, yet at the same time, he was warmed up by everything you did, from your smile to your voice. It was almost like he was constantly taunted.

He couldn't get enough of you, though. You were everything he's ever wanted—the warmth and love of another—and yet he still seems to be pushing you away.

But then that all changes when a little surprise is left on one of the class boards one morning when Scott and the other Cliffhangers are called to meet up with Peter and Sophie.

Scott walks into the classroom, wearing a sweater he just threw on due to the cold, and looks at the board in confusion. "Morp? Wh-what's a morp?" His brow was furrowed, and he frankly didn't care too much about decoding it until Auggie followed from behind him. "Oh, cool, a prom?"

Scott looks at Auggie, realizing everyone else is inside already. His eyes land on you, and he suddenly can't focus on anything but you. Everyone was taking a seat, and it took him a moment to realize you sat with him until a hand waved at his face.

"Scott, y'there?" Your voice rings out, and he looks at you, his face brooding as always. "Why? What's up?" He clears his throat and focuses his gaze on you. Despite hating you, he seems to be interested in what you have to say. Probably just sucking it up so it would be over.

You look at him, and suddenly you find yourself drawn to his eyes. Do they seem more blue than usual lately, or have they always been this way? But you don't have time to ponder about that because now it’s his turn to snap you out of your thoughts.

"Hey, are you there?" He gives you a small smirk, and you playfully roll your eyes. “Yeah, sorry,” you say, clearing your throat and resting your head on your palm. “Sophie and Peter paired us for morp planning.”

His eyes widen slightly, but he immediately covers them up with his emotionless stare again. “Why us? ," he asks, sounding annoyed. “Dunno,” you reply. “Probably ‘to build a stronger relationship between us’,” you say, playfully mocking what Peter constantly tells everyone whenever there’s a team activity.

He let out a soft scoff but couldn't help but let a smirk form on his lips. He was starting to let his guard down, something he rarely does around people; besides Shelby, she relates to him more than anyone. "Yeah, all that bullshit."

You nod and chuckle, watching as he bounces his leg, a habit you share with him. "All we have to do is plan the music, so it shouldn't be too bad. They're letting us use Peter's office and a couple more gadgets, I think." You shrug, but all you could think of was Scott.

Spending time alone with him in a room for days on end sounded both eventful and terrifying. But at least it was him instead of anyone else; at least you could get some peace and quiet for once.

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It had been days since you and Scott were assigned to make the playlist, and despite the bickering and constant grogginess you two would feel the next day, it was bearable. It caused something in Scott to brew—something he thought he could keep in, but it was just waiting to burst.

Scott dragged Shelby away to a corner in the common room—not the best place to have a private conversation, but it'll do.

"Let me guess," Shelby starts, her gaze landing on Ophelia talking to Peter and back at Scott. "You need advice to ask her out?" Scott scrunches up his face, annoyed but thinking about it. "Well, yeah," he says after a moment.

She chuckles and looks over at you again, trying to think of anything. "Morp's tomorrow, Scott. How are you sure Auggie or someone else asked her out?" Scott suddenly seemed upset at the thought, however. "You think Auggie has more of a chance than me?" His angry question was a little too loud, loud enough to catch your attention, at least.

Shelby quickly looks away and narrows her eyes at Scott, slapping his arm playfully. "Will you keep it down, you idiot?" He whines and leans against the wall, crossing his arms and staring at you from afar. "How am I ever going to ask her out? I'm just the cocky football star, a pompous asshole fuckboy. Every bad thing you could think of."

She sighs and moves closer, taking his hand and watching his expression before continuing, "Sure, you can be a complete asshole." He scoffs and looks at the floor. "Great way to start that off," he muttered. She rolls her eyes and continues with, "But all that matters is what they think of you. You wanna go all out and be stupid with your promposal? Go ahead. I'll be there every stupid step in the way."

He moves his gaze on her and mutters, "Stop calling me stupid. But, thanks."

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The plan was perfect. You and Shelby would be hanging out together, saying some good stuff about Scott, and Scott would play football with Auggie. Auggie would throw the ball at you, and he would save you. He would tie that to some smooth way to ask you out, but he would worry about that later. What was the worst that could happen?

Scott watches nervously as Shelby and you sit at the bleachers, taking a deep breath as Shelby discreetly nods and Scott starts to play. Your gaze moves to Scott, and a small smile grows on your face. Seeing Scott play football was cute to you. Despite being an ex-football captain, he still never lost his love for the sport, and you admire him for that.

Shelby notices your stare and chuckles, looking at Scott and back at you. "You eyeing Scott?" Your cheeks heat up and your eyes land on her, shaking your head as your face gets all flushed up. "No- well yeah, but not in that way! He's my friend; I just want to watch him."

Your gaze moves back to the two boys playing, and you swear you saw Scott wink at you, but maybe it was your mind playing tricks on you; he probably got something in his eye.

But you didn't even have time to think because the football started flying towards you, and Scott's amazing plan came crashing down as soon as the ball hit him right in the face.

"Scott!" You yell out and rush down to him with Shelby. He lets out a loud groan and covers his face. He's never felt so much pain and embarrassment before. "Auggie, fuck!" He groans out. "I didn't mean to, I- I'm sorry!" Auggie frowns and looks at the two, watching as you take Scott into your arms and prop your leg up for him to rest on.

"Shit- Scott, move your hand." You frown and try to move his hand, watching as a crowd of people form, someone rushing to grab Peter. Scott whines and shakes his head, saying something about how it really hurt, but it's muffled from his hands.

"C'mon, please? I swear the pain will be gone soon; I need to see how bad it is." You were trying to stay calm for the both of you, and after a moment, he moves his hands away to reveal a bleeding nose and some tears.

You wince and help him stand up. With the help of Shelby and Auggie, you guys safely bring him to the girls rooms and onto your bed, hurrying off to the bathroom while the two find something that could help Scott besides a wet rag.

You return to him on the bed and move his hand away. A small hiss escapes you, and you start to clean him up. The silence was killing you after a while, so you mumbled out, "That was stupid, y'know?"

He looks at you with an annoyed expression and scoffs, trying not to move too much as you clean his nose and check if it is broken. "Well, I'm sorry for saving your life," he says sarcastically, clearly upset that you didn't appreciate him saving you. Maybe his plan was just stupid.

"I mean, I appreciate it, but look at you now." You frown and place the rag on your side table, grabbing some tissues to clean the spot better. "Why'd you do it? Ruin your oh-so-perfect face for me?" He smirks and looks at you. "You like my face, huh?" You roll your eyes, and he lets out a small laugh as you punch his arm.

"Sorry, I couldn't help it." He lets his laughter die down and listens to the two of you breathing. It calmed him down to hear your breath, especially because he definitely needed to calm down. He took a deep breath and calmly let out, "Because I love you."

You stop your arm and move your gaze from his nose to his gaze, which was locked onto yours. You couldn't tell if it was because he was frozen in embarrassment or because he wanted to show you he really meant it; either way, it left you shocked.

How does he like you? He's made it very clear that he has some hatred towards you , so it didn't make sense. "But the way you act around me—" he quickly interrupted you. "It's because I'm insecure." He sighs and looks down at his hands, feeling the embarrassment creep up on him.

"You're just so- so gorgeous. You make everyone smile and laugh; it's like the goddamn sun. You shine so bright, and I can't help but feel this jealousy towards you because everyone gets to experience all of that." Although he didn't outright say it, it was clear to you that he was jealous, and it was incredibly adorable.

You let out a soft laugh, and at first he thought you were laughing at him, but a small smile formed on his lips when he realized you were laughing with him. "Well, if it makes you feel any better, I feel like I shine brighter when I'm with you. You make me sparkle, I guess."

He chuckles and moves a little closer, sensing the change in tension, and he was sure you did too because you moved closer. "Sparkle, huh? What are you, a vampire?" He smirks and wraps his arm around you, making you roll your eyes and cup his cheek. "Just shut up and kiss me."

"Yes, ma'am." He smirks wider and kisses you gently, immediately crash-landing into heaven as soon as he feels your lips. They were soft and felt heavenly, just like he imagined. The kiss grew deeper but didn't last too long as someone threw a box of bandages at them.

Scott pulls away in annoyance but quickly gets flustered as soon as he sees Shelby and Auggie; he completely forgets they were coming back. "Congratulations, lovebirds!" Shelby smirks and moves her gaze between Scott and you. "But do us all a favor and get a room, will you?"

You let out a small chuckle and quickly helped Scott clean up, hearing the pair's footsteps as they headed outside. Despite both of you being complete opposites, Something told you it would all work out in the long run.

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