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If or whenever “no fault divorce” gets snatched away, please be aware of a huge surge in seemingly “romantic” men, sweet talkers, and the stereotypical archetype of a “perfect male partner”

They will approach you with claims of being pro “everything feminist”, providing you with everything they think you’d want in and from a man…

Beware. They will manipulate you into letting your guard down juuuuust enough to pop the big question and shove a ring on your finger… but after the marriage is finalized and they have you all to themselves, they will 100% show you their true colors.

You will legally be stuck with them…

But just so we’re all clear, MEN ALREADY DO THIS even WITH no fault divorce still being enforced. If you think I’m simply fear mongering, I encourage you all to look deeply into the marriage life/lives of all the women in your circle, including your own if it applies.

Remember, keep it critical and keep it pushing. Don’t even entertain the thought of dealing with them.

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Just shows how absolutely blind women are to how beauty culture works, we ain’t never getting out of it if women continue to hold a male’s approval as paramount. Also the women next in line to the males who perpetuate the industry need to be called out.

Believe me when I say many of these women are completely aware of how misogynistic and patriarchal-centered the notion of “attractiveness” and the beauty industry is, they don’t care that it hurts women, they profit off it. At their own expense really, they appear blindly stupid to every male, yet they see themselves as “Hot gurl baddie so feminist and free!🤪”

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Enough psychoanalysing why people have kinks. We need to psycholanalyse why they don't. Like you don't enjoy getting tied up? Clearly your tumultuous upbringing has given you a patholgical need to be in control at all times. Don't like fauxcest? That's because your petite-bourgeois class background means you view the nuclear family as a pure and sacred institution, automatically reviling anything that undermines or subverts this. Not into piss? That's easy; you're scared of the piss gnomes

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good night ladies

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We have a double standard, which is to say, a man can show how much he cares by being violent -- see, he's jealous, he cares -- a woman shows how much she cares by how much she's willing to be hurt; by how much she will take; how much she will endure.

Andrea Dworkin

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I hope the men on twitter who are already mansplanning and meddling and altering the history and meaning of what 4B really is die

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Lmaooo. LOL even.

HoW aM I sUpPoSEd to LeArN fRoM mY miSTaKesssss

School clearly did nothing for you anyway.

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I remember when r/femaledatingstrategy started taking off, it was a complete nothingburger with probably the most bare feminist standards for women like "hmmm maybe have high expectations for the men you date," and men were *fuming*, the way they reacted, you'd think that we were about to ship every man on a desert island and have them fight it out battle royale style for our amusement. but now when they come mask off and openly talk about how they want to control our bodies - 'your body my choice' - we're just supposed to take it as a joke? we're overreacting? we're just supposed to accept it as 'dark humor'? no. fuck off.

think about this the next time someone tries to gaslight you into thinking 4B is 'misandrist' or 'too extreme' or ~problematic~ or whatever other bullshit they'll use

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Men have degraded and oppressed women for all of recorded history, and the moment women express righteous anger and walk away from them in disgust as a 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘢𝘣𝘶𝘴𝘦, the men double-down and say, "Well since you hate us anyway, we're going to treat you even worse than before."

It's like that friend you lend money to, and when you remind them of their promise to repay you, they accuse you of having an attitude and use that as an excuse to never pay you back at all. Users, abusers and manipulators look for reasons to justify their wrongdoing.

Hetero/bi women degrade and torture themselves in innumerable ways to attract and keep a man. They bend over backward to please them, and they overlook a LOT to keep a relationship with a man going. I don't think I can emphasize enough how fed up these women have to be to suppress their natural desires to partner with a man and write them off forever as a matter of 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘷𝘪𝘷𝘢𝘭.

And these men who do nothing to maintain a relationship, who hold their gfs/wives to impossible physical standards while looking and smelling like a goddamned pig, these men who have to be reminded to shower regularly and can't even wipe their as*es properly... what is their response to women's pain?

"HAH, you 4B 'women' are dumb and ugly." 🐷

"Your body, my choice, always."

"Why do you ugly women think anyone wants to date you anyway?"

They say all this, and like an ex who calls you an "ugly wh*re" because you dumped him, they're also secretly assuming we'll be back.

But none of them are sorry, and none of them ever intend to change. They've made that abundantly clear. And I wish het-partnered women who never intend to join 4B look at this and understand that this is how men respond when you do nothing more than take a step back from them. According to men, the only difference between us and you, between a "dumb ugly *****" and a "good woman with common sense" is literally our willingness to cater to them or not. That goes for every woman, including you. So think about that tonight when your husband, father, brother, male friends or male colleagues are praising you for not being like us. That approval is extremely conditional, and it hinges on what's best for MEN - nothing more.

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I work a blue collar job, kitchen work to be precise.

All I can say is that if you go out to eat and see the line is full of guys cooking, there is a 70 percent chance you will get food poisoning.

I'm lucky I work with mostly other women on my team, but the guy works we did have did not last longer then 3 months.

My boss is a piece of shit(super abusive toxic masculinty chef bullshit), but it's super eye opening to see that the only competent works who have lasted have been women.

Also the food industry is super male focused,them making up 77% of the work force.

Any other radfem working a blue collar job relate to this, I notice a lot of feminism talks more about discrimination in white collared job,(which is super rampant). But I want to start up talking points about blue collar work and trade jobs.

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I have never heard the slogan "support women's mental health" in my life lol that's dire

they tell us to “support men’s mental health!!” but do nothing to advocate for women’s mental health

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this is why i think abrahamic religions are death cults. these people genuinely see earth as a trial and not as a gift. they aren't grateful for all of earth's beauty and surprises and its ability to sustain our life and provide joy and wonder. why would you care about life on earth if you think that its just something to push through before eternal paradise or whatever?

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last few years I’ve been going around with an attitude of “well, if a MAN can do it, it can’t be that hard, I bet I can do it too” and ladies I have yet to be wrong

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"4b is misandrist" don't care "4b is unpatriotic" don't care "4b hurts men" don't care "4b will cause incels to rage out" don't care "4b is just purity culture" don't care "4b is problematic" don't care "4b is xyz-phobic or xyz-ist" don't care "4b is too radical" don't care "only ugly/unfuckable women do 4b" don't care "no one would want to sleep with you anyway" don't care "4b is bad for birthrates" don't care

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shoutout to all of the radfems who had (or have) eating disorders. discovering radfeminism has opened my eyes to how horrible i treated myself while struggling with an eating disorder.