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#im cosy with my recently adopted blåhaj#son settle in we might be about to witness some horrors#you are lucky im not indoctrinating you into yanited at least#im a responsible parent#for now#-
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the progression from "there's a morning snack and a midday snack" and "20 bucks for pizza" buck looking after his friend's kid to "bobby's famous lasagne: 6 types of cheese cooked to perfection" buck cooking for his family to "that's makes me your sous chef" teaching his kid how to cook is making me go so feral.
#going from two separate things - like how normal friends who aren't co-parenting would organised it - to the most domestic thing ever#to being the good responsible parent and making sure he eats real food before cookies#AND and the motifs that've been established: teaching to cook as father/son bonding and cooking food as a demonstration of love#im UNWELLLLL#buckley diaz family#911 abc#right from the pilot buck has had an intense care for children (but was also immature himself)#and we've seen him grow into a person who is literally becoming a father. (alongside his increasing ability to cook - which he is learning#from his own father figure)#children - specifically caring for children and being a father - has been tied to very important parts of buck's character development#thoughout the seasons#that man wants nothing more than to be a father AND HE IS ONE.#i dont even know if what im saying is coherent anymore but you get my drift#season 6 911#lynnsaysstuff
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the gradual shift in joel from being the guy who’s so desensitized that he can carry a dead kid the same way he carried sarah to the site of her death and toss the corpse into a fire without blinking to being the guy who has a massive breakdown and almost nukes his whole life from the fear of ellie being irreparably harmed while under his care......and the way the last few episodes the show go out of their way to specifically test him on that fear.....like hey joel you’re mortally wounded and can’t protect or take care of her, what do you do. hey joel while you were bedridden she went through the worst experience of her life, what do you do. hey joel [insert spoilers for last ep here, you get the idea]. and he rises to the occasion, he pushes through the fear for her, because she asked him to. she wanted him to be the one to deliver her. she didn’t want anyone else. and he’s decided he’s going to give her whatever she wants
it takes time for the realization that he’s gonna have to confront his worst nightmare to really sink in. he’s built up a mental fortress against what happened to him 20 years ago. and you see that when he really starts to care is when all of that comes back up. the time skip between ep 5 and 6 was probably the Joel Quietly Freaks Out with Increasing Frequency and Intensity variety hour
and him telling her she’s not his daughter. aside from being that thing where you say the worst thing you can think of to someone when you’re trying to end your relationship with them so you can’t go back and change your mind later. but also, when you peel back all the layers of pain and fear, that’s him saying “you are not going to die.” up until that moment it’s the most honest and open expression of his feelings that he’s shared with her. his daughter died in his arms. that’s what happens to “joel’s daughter.” so ellie cannot be his daughter
that probably should’ve been 3 separate posts but it’s season finale day and i’m unmedicated, fuck it
#he's so full of fear#but parenting is fear#tlou just dials the horrors of parenting up to eleven lol#and then the way it manifests for him is the inverse in a way#instead of 'im so afraid to let my kid out of my sight'#it's 'im so afraid to be with my kid because if something bad happens to them that means im responsible'#my man has baggage what can i say#i just thought that was an interesting flipflop#anyway im excited for final ep#i will probably not be engaging with s2 not bc i think tlou2 was bad necessarily but just bc i emotionally am not in a place to handle that#lol i prefer to live in denial sometimes thats my human gay right#tlou#the last of us#my stuff
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kitty kitty kitty
#fe three houses#felix hugo fraldarius#listen ok hear me out ok there is a wonderful duo i know online#who have a lovely orange cat named ferdinand and i love him and this is ONLY a problem#because i now have a funky lil orange kitten boy myself and his name is Caramel Latte and i keep#almost calling him the wrong name and im so embarrassed w myself#but after spending a year looking at someone elses cat via photo spams when i can its like#aha thats the name of a Cat#anyway i love my lil fella my lil guy#and we adopted him and his mama and they were basically living upstairs in the guest room to be Safe and Sound#bc i am the only resident upstairs and so its quieter#and so for a week the mom would come to my room and just MEOW at 4am#and id be like ope my turn#and then i would leave my room and go to the guest room and play with Caramel Latte and his 4am zoomies#im designated other parent and its truly an honor ok#my dad would be like oh no cant find the lil guy and im like ohyeah ? bet? and he would RUN ON OUT and sit on my foot#Latte loves me a lot...te.....#and i showed a lil video of him to someone on discord and her response was#his ears are too big for his lil head#and its true he has huge ears and i wuv him and he will grow into them eventually its fine he is hardly just over a month old#anyway kittens my beloved
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Behold, I've impregnated the red thing from the smiley show :P
Fr tho, A/llan's my favorite so.... ✨PRAGNET✨
#mpreg#not kink#Papa Red❤️#Sorry this is a little sloppily done#Had an itch to doodle Allan but couldn’t come up with what should be going on in the bg lmfao#just assume the other parent is the result of a not so sober rendezvous lol#Oddly enough i think he could be a good dad#As strange as he is#He’s a very responsible guy hehe#And I feel like bossman would be very empathetic and supportive#being a dad(?) himself pffff#P/im would be fucking STOKED🤣#He’s pure excited uncle energy#offers to babysit and all that good stuff#Charlie’s like#Cool man#Happy for you or whatever#G/lep is….. G/lep#🤣🤣🤣
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One of the many tragic aspects of Mikuni's character is that if he were to prevent the affair from happening, misono wouldn't be born.
With that being said, the reason why he would want to be misonos' father becomes simple. It's because that's the only way to prevent the affair from happening, and still make sure his little brother is born.
I mean, someone's gotta do it. (Im sorry lmao)
Im thinking he goes back in time, offers Hokaze to marry him to solve the money digging issue, meaning she wouldn't have to go after his father. Preventing the affair, preventing his mothers death & countless others, while also making sure misono still gets born eventually, except it's as his.. and Hokaze's son.
...yeah
And this might be the first time you'll find me not rooting for him.
#i mean i STILL am just not THAT plan#to give himself to an adult he knows is responsible for the problems in his life as a way to prevent those problems??#yeah no that would be the death of me#why am i posting this? because i dont like the “Mikuni had a childhood crush on her” allegations#sorry not sorry#they just dont do justice to the story in my humble opinion#also do you realise how young he was at the time of the affair? he was like YOUNG YOUNG and yes he was mature for his age but lets not#servamp#servamp manga#mikuni alicein#alicein misono#anyway#i also think that part of the reason is because of the situation he was put in as a child where he had to parent him#bc Kiriko was mentally unstable and mikado...is mikado#but that's another conversation#also its late at night so pardon the unprofessionalism#not that im sure its a word or that i was ever professional to begin with#honestly these tags can be a whole new post on their own lol
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Grocery shopping, except one of them is significantly worse about it than the other (I know absolutely nothing about Mob but Reagan looks like he’d be a cringe fail loser at mundane things)
Understandable BUT a fun thing about Reigen is that he's actually really good at mundane things even with the cringefail energy
Mob and Serizawa are more anxious duo, and Serizawa specifically was isolated so he'd probably take a bit to get used to grocery runs
#no mob here sorry but if he was then he'd be the kid the parent sends running back in to grab something last minute when at the cashier#I hope ppl understand what Im talking about#i have no idea when this would take place youre free to interpret the 'we' as just reigen helping serizawa shop or making him tag along#since seri would be probably be more confident much later#talk to me tag#Anonymous#managed not to answer this as a total essay#but seriously reigen's a grounding force in the series as the most normal guy there#drawn response#mp100#mob psycho 100#serirei#reigen arataka#serizawa katsuya#i dont have a drawing tag
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Okay, maybe this is just me, but the fucking whiplash from the way Sandra Lynn and Jawbone are with Adaine over Fig or Kristen is so crazy to me. It's gotten to such a point that Emily called it out in this last episode. Like, you're telling me that Sandra Lynn can acknowledge that the bad kids have helped raise each other and fulfill emotional needs their parents haven't, but can't put together that there might be a fucking reason Fig is protecting Kristen and Adaine created a simulacrum? Jawbone, as both a guardian and counselor, just let it go that a highly competent rouge capable of finding the rouge teacher straight up admitted (1) she wanted to murder Kristen and (2) she is upset at Fig for keeping her from getting close? All this after years of being obsessed with the bad kids?
Meanwhile, they see Adaine as this competent, low-maintenance, emotionally mature adult instead of recognizing that she was taught from an early age that adults would not meet her emotional needs?
#dimension 20#d20#fantasy high junior year#fhjy spoilers#adaine abernant#kristen applebees#fig faeth#look i'm really glad that brennan has continued to make these parents and the bad kids' different relationships complicated#it makes the story so much more interesting and relatable and nuanced#but as an Adaine type who had a full on mental breakdown and a bad relationship with her father they aren’t helping her#by pushing the others to the side and making her “the responsible one” they're just parentifying her more#jawbone and sandra lynn are amazing characters and I'm in no way shitting on this storyline but I'm going to rain down hell#pull your heads out of your asses!!!#also if the reason sklonda doesn't like kristen is because the woman currently raising and housing her is talking shit about her#im gonna lose it
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bro ngl i'm in my fuckin feelings about toadsworth like. they literally fundamentally don't know what they're doing. the toads sporeate, their species doesn't raise its young. toads don't have parents. toadsworth doesn't know how to be a parent, but they know that even though full-grown boo and bowser are twice and three times their size, sometimes they look at them and see the little boys they once held in their arms. no matter how strong bowser is, how ruthless boo is, they look at them and sometimes just see something tiny and helpless and precious. something that needs protection. is this how human and koopa parents feel? is it always this terrifying?
#mariolore#''parental lecture'' ��♂️man.#because like. they would not instinctually consider themself the boys' parental figure because They Are A Toad#Their Species Doesn't Do That#idk im just kind of losing it over the fact that they wouldn't really inherently know or understand the concept of parental love#but they know that they love the brothers. and feel responsible for them. and worry about them all the time. and like#oh right. that's how parents are supposed to do (which the brothers' parents Did Not)#i'm normal
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I think one thing saki is super thankful of wxs for is occupying tsukasa’s time so he spends less time working himself up & having neurotic little fits thinking she’s in trouble. like make no mistake she loves her brother & finds his bizarre behavior endearing rather than embarrassing (for the most part) (& he’s not grossly overprotective in a way that limits what she wants to do. Thank god.) but also this is the man who charged into a haunted house bc he heard her scream and ran home in a panic because he found out she lied about her plans for the day. Now he has other outlets for his insanity besides worrying about her. Like worrying about being exploded into orbit.
#tsukasa#saki#tenmas#mine#& I think this is also a result of saki doing better and being more independent now so he’s willing to chill out#& go from worrying way too much to worrying a little too much.#at some point I need to talk about his whole complex about being responsible & mature and how that started/is reflected in his relationships#(primarily w saki). & also his boring room and fashion choices.#tenma parents going ohh we can leave you home alone at the age of ~7 we’re sorry but you’re so responsible and mature u can handle it right#& 7yr old tsukasa is like yes that’s me don’t worry about it (he is developing a complex bc of this)#sorry tenma parents u did ur best im not blaming u but also cmon. no babysitter?
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i’m sooooooo normal about the god of war series. so incredibly normal i liked it a normal amount and would be so chill talking about it. don’t worry about the sign
#god of war#i’m so so so so so normal about it it’s so whatever it’s so haha you know#something something when it comes to yourself you’ll let yourself drown before you change. you’ll die before you change who you’ve become#to survive this long#up to and until it affects the ones you’ve come to love in this life you’ve made for yourself and you suddenly have no choice but to change#it’s fine it’s ok it’s chill. everyone does this.#it’s becoming a parent and loving your child so much you HAVE to change. you HAVE to be better#we MUST be better. than they were.#who’s they. our parents. the gods that come before us. yes.#i’m screaming i’m crying i’m wasting away im disintegrating. there’s no coming back there no return#you are on your knees. you are gripping your son’s shoulders like they’re the only thing keeping you tethered to the earth.#you are struggling with who you are and who you want to become. you are promising to be better.#i’m so normal about parent(al figures) taking responsibility for their actions and choosing to do better#i’m not high enough to really express what’s going on here. can you feel it? can you fucking feel it?#this series has destroyed me.#dad of boy. dad(s) of boy. i will never be the same (affectionate)#can’t remember the last time i finished a series and went ‘oh well i’ve GOT to play it again Now That I Know’#AND I HAVENT EVEN TALKED ABOUT THE BROTHER HULDRA!!!!!!!!!#sindri’s face. has not left my memory#i’m dying scoob#gow#gowr
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sorry to say but the maker-fledgling/parent-child relationship dynamics make DM so much juicier. and i don't mean that in a kinky way in the slightest i mean it's insane to be adamant about never having a child for 500 years, break that vow on a whim and then be a deadbeat dad for a bit. and also on the more lighthearted and sappy side of things it's really interesting for a dying man in his 70s to be given another shot at life, with eternity ahead of him and the power of an ancient in his veins to inherit over the course of that eternity. idk idk! it's just neat.
#iwtv#thunder rambles#armandiel#honestly the thing im most excited for in s3 is seeing more of lestat's relationship to the vampirism-as-parenthood theme#i hope we see more of louis' experience with it as well now he's got his new thing of honouring claudia (and paul's) deaths#im also interested to see how they handle armand's side of things cuz it's such a cracked scenario to have him be a deadbeat dad to a 70y/o#and yet. it is a very important thing to establish with him#because he does end up adopting two kids later down the line#and also this whole theme is centred around claudia and i think a lot of the way armand treated claudia#was caused by an inability to feel responsible for her. because hes never been in that caretaker/surrogate parent role like louis has#and if in s3 he feels even an iota of what louis felt about madeleine. by virtue of his maker-fledgling relationship with daniel#then that might make him contend with what he did to claudia in a rly interesting way! or it might not. the show is not about him after all#but i will take crumbs. i'd like for him to feel the sickening overpowering connection to daniel that louis felt for madeleine#and for him to hate himself for it. thats all<3#armandposting#ive been reading a fic that specifically deals with the gravity of the maker-fledgling bond between armand and daniel and honestly#it's completely reshaped how i think about them. i desperately need it to update😭😭😭
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13 cast in my AU where they live on pulse and no one get sucked into an alternative demotion
#A post for my other 5 ffxiii enjoyers homies in here#Look all im saying last time light and snow set on helping the same person the world nearly ended#Bart think sazh the only other responsible adult/ parent around here#hope estheim#Bartholomew estheim#lightning farron#sarah farron#i refuses a world were sarah and hope dont become besties and their cooperation give light a heart attack#Sarah a teacher helping her new friend (ligh son) into school#Vanille and fang are in this au too#Obviously never leaving my girls#They too help…. In their own way…#Saying no one got lost into another dimension but the min hope explains his proud math … we lost her#Im sorry it seems we lost lightning no Matter what we doo#snow villiers#ffxiii#Final fantasy xiii#final fantasy 13#sazh katzroy
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second? deadliest pirate sibling duo on the continent?
#this is jsut a lazy little render i did in the middle of the night the lighting doesnt make any sense and its very lazily edited#but i wanted to post anyway#holland running away from home at literally like 17 and noelia's like 13#then he comes visits at least once a year and every time she's like holland!!!!!! im so fit to be a pirate pls bring me with you!!!!#holland's obviously like youre 15 go study#eventually it turns into noelia like literally grabbing him by the shoulders shaking him like#HOLLAND OUR PARENTS ARE TRYING TO GET ME TO MARRY!!!!!!!!!! TAKE ME WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!#its not even that holland doesnt think shed be an asset but he does not want to be responsible for her getting hurt or killed#so hes just like sorry i cant do anything about that invite me to the wedding though. byyyyyyye#eventually he lets her onto his crew but only because of. certain circumstances lmao
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#p4#p4g#persona 4#persona 4 golden#hanamura yosuke#yosuke hanamura#BIG BROTHER YOSUKE!!!!!!#i love how yosuke and yu are two different flavours of big brothers#of course thats because they also have two very different flavours of younger siblings#but oh my god yosuke's knee jerk reaction the way his responsible big brother behaviour just kicks in#him trying to berate teddie and tell him to be sensitive and considerate towards yu#and then floundering when yu agrees#GOD hes like a flustered parent panicking because he knows what ted is like and IM REALLY JUST#i love all of yosukes interactions during this time period btw like his big brother behavior is just SO OBVIOUS#he's good with his queue
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oh my god, wait. firmament chapter 3 comes out tomorrow.
the scoundrel is going to end up taking mr transport on a field trip to the roof.
#they are not a responsible parent#yin-thoughts#fallen london#is transport's existence a spoiler? it probably is.#i'll keep spoiler tagging whenever i mention it#though it'll probably get mentioned a lot (because im slightly obsessed with this baby)#fallen london spoilers#railway spoilers
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