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artisticdysfunction · 5 months ago

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some of yall like to dehumanize singlets so much and it's weird. they're not aliens. they're people with different experiences, who are indeed capable of understanding and compassion if they want to do so.

#syscourse #miette speaks #ok to reblog #the most accepting server we have ever been in for our system hood is a singlet majority server.#we were the first system in there.#we explained the TOSD and a lot of them could relate #not only to the trauma dissociation and memory problems #but it explained some of their feelings they had as kids before the integration age #and a lot of those singlets arent young adults #most of them are older.#if someone genuinely wants to learn. and to understand. and to undo misconceptions.#then they will #regardless if theyre a singlet #if they want to understand they will #and they can.

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arynneva · 1 month ago

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wait do people read first person stories and think they're the ones in the story???

Saw people talking about not liking first person, which is fair, but their reasoning was like "I would not do that" and I don't understand that mindset.

First person stories are still about a character. A character making their own decisions. First person isn't about you???? At least I thought it wasn't. What am I missing? I've always seen first person as just a more in-depth look into a character's mind and stricter POV. Not as a reader stand-in.

#reading #writing #writblr #writeblr #isn't second person the one more likely to be projection #because it's involving you in the story #unless it's told in a more artistic way #like dislike a pov style if you want idc #I just don't understand this specific reason

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butchfalin · 1 year ago

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the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

#yeehaw #1k #5k #10k #posts that got cursed. blasted. im making these tag updates after... 19 hours?#also i have been told it should say speech loss bc nonverbal specifically refers to the permanent state. did not know that!#unfortunately i fear it is so far past containment that even if i edited it now it would do very little. but noted for future reference #edit 2: nvm enough ppl have come to rb it from me directly that i changed the wording a bit. hopefully this makes sense #also. in case anyone is curious. though i doubt anyone who is commenting these things will check the original tags #1) my friend did not do this on purpose in any way. it was not intended to distract me or to hit on me. im a lesbian hes a gay man. cmon now #he felt very bad about it afterwards. i thought it was hilarious but it was very embarrassed and apologetic #2) “why didn't he use 🫵🏼?” didn't exist yet. “why didn't he use 🆗?” dunno! we'd been using a lot of hand emojis. 👌🏼 is an ok sign #like it makes sense. it was just a silly mixup. also No i did not invent 👉🏼👌🏼 as a gesture meaning sex. do you live under a rock #3) nonspeaking episodes are a recurring thing in my life and have been since i was born. this is not a quirky one-time thing #it is a pervasive issue that is very frustrating to both myself and the people i am trying to communicate with. in which trying to speak is #extremely distressing and causes very genuine anguish. this post is not me making light of it it's just a funny thing that happened once #it's no different than if i post about a funny thing that happened in conjunction w a physical disability. it's just me talking abt my life #i don't mind character tags tho. those can be entertaining. i don't know what any of you are talking about #Except the ppl who have said this is pego/ryu or wang/xian. those people i understand and respect #if you use it as a writing prompt that's fine but send it to me. i want to see it #aaaand i think that's it. everyday im tempted to turn off rbs on it. it hasn't even been a week

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rafeandonlyrafe · 23 days ago

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well 🧍‍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.

#if youre feeling upset or disillusioned i am right there with you #but now more than ever #i want to remind you of the importance of community #check in on your friends #advocate for your friends #protect your friends #protect your community and who you love and care about #and we will get through this #my dms and inbox are always open #even if you just want to vent #im also so sad right now but we have to be strong and stick together right now #(also if youre not american pls understand this affects us all and to not invalidate the feelings of americans)

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titleofpersonage-p01 · 9 months ago

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#palestine #free palestine #israel #israel is committing genocide #i understand both sides of the argument in the comments #but the fact that this can even be some what believable is concerning in itself #always remember that an “us vs them” narrative is dangerous #we cannot deny that innocent lives are being slaughtered #i just want this war to be over #but thats not something thats going to be easily done

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mybreadsmybutters · 11 months ago

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when i was a kid i wanted to be a famous youtuber like dan and phil so that people would gay ship me with my irl best friend and we would be sooo weirded out by it and laugh and make videos joking about it but secretly it would make her realize her repressed gay crush on me and i'd help her through her gay crisis and then we would have a sickeningly sweet sappy romance and read fanfiction about ourselves together... anyways just found out she's married to a guy in the mafia now so i probably don't have a chance

#dan and phil fanfiction changed me #come into my lady door #and teen me saw that and went “i need to be that so fuckan bad”#i wanted to be dan but now that im a mature adult i understand that phil is better. phil guy 5ever nowadays #do i tag this as dan and phil. i still dont know tumblr site tagging norms and im like a year in now #dan and phil #dnp #phan

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lambment · 9 months ago

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Dont know if you were joking about needing catboy references a couple of weeks back but here ya go

Theres one for sheep too if you need that

the sacred texts.... thank you for bestowing it upon me

#drew this at 6am before coffee #if you want an understanding of my priorities #Ru also gave me a demo that lives in my head rent free #speaketh #TYYYY #reference

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millificent · 11 months ago

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Every Nico Di Angelo fan focusing more on the background of the episode than the actual plot

#I wanted something!#I understand why they couldn’t show them #but a girl’s voice calling ‘Nico!’ or even a ‘Ghost King’ high score #(shhh I know that wouldn’t work with the timeline but nor does the entire episode)#edit: thank you to the people who pointed out that we hear him (so glad he’s Italian too!)#pjo #pjo series #pjo tv show #Percy Jackson #Percy Jackson spoilers #pjo spoilers #Nico Di Angelo #solangelo #also for the record I didn’t make the picture I saw it on Twitter and knew the perfect use for it

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metanarrates · 3 months ago

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fans when a story has some sense of inexplicable mystery or intrigue beyond the scope of its borders: oh fuck we need to explain all the mystery and intrigue immediately it was so rude of the author to leave the story open like that

#narrates #the inability to know a story in its entirety gives it flavor... WHY would you want everything to be mundanely understandable

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mynnthia · 6 months ago

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was talking with a friend about how some of dunmeshi fаndom misunderstands kabru's initial feelings towards laios.

to sum up kabru's situation via a self-contained modernized metaphor:

kabru is like a guy who lost his entire family in a highly traumatic car accident. years later he joins a discord server and takes note of laios, another server member who seems interesting, so they start chatting. then laios reveals his special interest and favorite movie of all time is David Cronenberg's Crash (1996), and invites kabru to go watch a demolition derby with him

#dungeon meshi #delicious in dungeon #kabru #kabru already added laios as a discord friend. everyone else in the server can see laios excitedly asking kabru to go with him #what would You even Do in this situation. how would YOU feel?#basically: kabru isnt a laios-hater! hes just in shock bc Thats His Trauma. the key part is kabru still says yes #bc he wants to get to know laios. to understand why laios would be so fascinated by something horrific to him #and ALSO bc even while in shock kabru can still tell laios has unique expertise + knowledge that Could be used for Good #even if kabru doesnt fully trust laios yet (bc kabru just started talking to the guy 2 hours ago. they barely know each other)#kabru also understands that getting to know ppl (esp laios) means having to get to know their passions. even if it triggers his trauma here #but thats too much to fit in this metaphor/analogy. this is NOT an AU! its not supposed to cover everything abt kabru or laios' character!#its a self-contained metaphor written Specifically to be more easily relatable+thus easy to understand for general ppl online #(ie. assumed discord users. hence why i said (a non-specific) 'discord server' and not something specific like 'car repair subreddit')#its for ppl who mightve not fully grasped kabru's character+intentions and think hes being mean/'chaotic'/murderous.#to place ppl in kabru's shoes in an emotionally similar situation thats more possible/grounded in irl experiences and contexts.#and also for the movie punchline #mynn.txt #dm text #crossposting my tweets onto here since my friends suggested so

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ravenmccookies · 3 months ago

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Weird phenomenon I've seen on tumblr

#like i understand how frustrating it can be to make art and for it to get no attention #but that ain't an excuse to shame and threaten people into reblogging #some of y'all need to relearn some manners ffs #like christ #usually anything to guilt trip/shame ppl into reblogging does the opposite #because good god who the hell wants to spread the guilt tripping?!#anyways back to you regular tagging schedule #my art #doodles #rambles #comic #my sona #furry art #furry

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miraofhearts2point0 · 19 days ago

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Isha following Jinx to protect her during a suicide mission where Jinx to tries to get her away for "ruining" her plan.....where have i seen this before?

#Isha only wanted to help #and Jinx told her to go away #i hope Jinx will understand on a deeper level now #yes it was traumatic for her but i hope Isha will help her face that trauma instead of running from it #omg shes literally me wait.#arcane #arcane league of legends #arcane spoilers #arcane s2 #arcane season 2 #jinx #jinx arcane #isha #isha arcane #jinx and isha #isha and jinx

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chloesimaginationthings · 1 month ago

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Death looms over Vanny's shoulder in FNAF..

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pissed-whizard · 6 months ago

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my blog is a gateway drug to cooler and better blogs (my mutuals)

#my blog is weed and all my mutuals are cocaine #it makes sense to me alright lmao #i get it #i have cool moots #like yes please go follow them #but also i am insane and notice when you dont rb things from me but rb them from the mutual i rbd the post from #lmao #i just dont understand the thinking #why even follow me if you dont want to interact with my blog or posts?#its not that serious #mine

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emeryleewho · 6 months ago

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People on here are always like "fuck capitalism, why can't things be weird anymore" and then write up a whole dissertation about how the biggest IPs need to change to be weirder.

Like, you are so close. You are so close to getting the point. "Big" IPs *can only exist because they are normal*. They will *never* be weird. They will *never* do what you want. Go find some smaller IPs. Bring back discovery. Bring back never having heard of a book before you buy it. Bring back watching obscure anime online that none of your friends know about. Bring back trying new things, even if they're bad or cheaply made. That is how you get *weird*.

#if y'all want some obscure recs i got em #but understand that centralized will never be weird #weird exists because it appeals to a few #mainstream exists because it tries to appeal to everyone by boiling out individuality #it is impossible for the weird to become mainstream because that would inherently make it *not weird*#stop trying to shift the things you like into the capitalism model #break the capitalism model #fiction #fandom #stories #books #reading

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birdy-babe · 6 months ago

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Blitzøs entire life spent being unwanted. So he adapted, and learned how to be something needed, something to be used.

Which is why I think he firmly believes he is being used by Stolas. He simply cannot fathom a different reality, one in which he is wanted for once in his life.

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