#if not morally superior somehow

[kurthorton-moving]

Oh but if i give kurt a cousin i have to consider.... the wider horton family

[menlove]

atheists? generally pretty cool and decent people. some can be annoying but you can say that about any group ever. not believing in any god or religion is incredibly valid & understandable. ANTI-theists? most aggravating, up their own shit group of people on earth. somehow the most obnoxiously culturally christian group of people also while also smugly claiming to be above religion like. motherfucker you just redressed catholicism & are just as ignorant to history & human diversity as the most devout conservative of any religion. touch grass and smoke some weed or something. fuck.

[pharawee]

So apparently WeTV and Jinloe have elected not to put out an inter release for Addicted Heroin Thailand at all and the only way it's currently available to watch is grey and* without subs.

I can't even blame them. The MDL comment section alone is a cesspool.

*Turns out there is an official release up on youtube but it doesn't have subs (yet? 🙏):

[thelesbianthespianposts]

"Killing people is bad," I say into the mic.

The crowd of dc fans boos. I begin to walk off in shame, when a voice speaks and commands silence from the room.

"He's right," they say. I look for the owner of the voice. There in the second row stands:

I don’t even know I just need y’all to understand this somehow

[ugh-yoongi]

i hope everyone using the taeil situation as fanwar fodder never knows a moment of peace for the rest of their lives

[mxtxfanatic]

“Unpopular opinion, but—” proceeds to state a fandom opinion so popular people make viral posts about it every week.

[lavendermoonlitskies]

I feel like some of you privileged white leftists need a reminder that if not enough people on the left vote in this election, that means that the Republican candidate will win. That means that the candidate who, among many, many other things, was endorsed by the KKK will be allowed in one of the most powerful positions in the world.

You are not an activist, you are an enabler.

[vanmarkus]

i know i should be posting week two of my pride set today but i am so not in the mood to make anything... all this continuous effort being put into hating a gay character for no reason is really dragging my mood down, even though I know it's coming from kids half the age of the actors who have been chronically online since they've been born and never been socialised properly thanks to covid... it stills annoys the shit out of me ngl

[scalproie]

Domesticated Post-Tekken 2 Era Kazuya is my favorite to think about because this would be so good for him and everyone else but he would have an absolutely miserable time during it

[horsegirlhob]

Any time someone tries to justify liking spike/buffy or angel/buffy while disliking the other by trying to make one of the vampires seem less toxic or evil or bad it makes me fucking insane.

[ridiasfangirlings]

is sarumi toxic?? genuine question, i dont know if its just the way certain fanmanga that ive read portrays their relationship. i love the ship with my whole heart, dont get me wrong. ive read lost small world, finished rok and season 1 (halfway through season 2). consuming all kinds of k stuff, i personally dont see it toxic as certain people do (knowing that theyve already reconciled). im super confused on who to believe so here i am asking you

I will say to start that I’m not exactly a neutral third party here, even with me being a filthy multishipper Sarumi is still my ‘main’ ship. That said, I personally don’t consider them to be toxic as a ship. There are definitely elements of their relationship as presented that are not good and could certainly lead to toxicity, but that’s also pretty understandable considering Fushimi as a character is not a healthy person and isn’t equipped to deal with relationships in a healthy way. If we look at, say, only season one Sarumi is a vacuum there’s certainly room to call it toxic, with the way Fushimi interacts with Yata by drawing out all his negative feelings and deliberately goading him into physical violence, but thankfully there’s a lot more to their relationship than episode five of season one.

When you consider the side materials the series is pretty clear that Fushimi’s actions stem from him being an abused and neglected child who clung to the one person who ever showed him affection and who has no idea how to handle things that other people would consider easy. When they join Homra and Fushimi doesn’t feel like he fits in he starts to assume a lot of things, that Yata’s leaving him behind, that he’s going to be rejected, because up until he met Yata Fushimi’s entire life has been him being rejected by the world around him and rejecting the world in turn because it’s his only method of coping. When he burns his Homra tattoo in front of Yata it’s a move intended to hurt them both, because the only way Fushimi knows of to break something that he loves is to do it spectacularly — Fushimi himself can’t break what he cares about so he takes on the persona of the person who could, of the guy who can flawlessly destroy what Fushimi Saruhiko loves every time. Fushimi is so afraid of losing his precious friendship with Yata that he feels like he has to be the one to break it first in order to save himself the pain of losing it. This is a toxic mindset but also a totally understandable one in the context of Fushimi’s character. 

Obviously Fushimi’s way of dealing with his emotions is not healthy but he’s not a healthy person, that’s well established. Are a lot of Fushimi’s problems of his own making? Very much so. Does he really owe Yata an apology for being a dick all this time? Also yes. But Fushimi’s actions are also very understandable due to his upbringing, and Yata himself says that Fushimi is trying to be better — “You have a sense of guilt.” Fushimi’s relationship with Niki is a toxic one because Niki is abusing him and literally doesn’t care about the trauma he’s inflicting on his kid. Fushimi on the other hand is well aware of what he’s inflicting and tries very hard not to care, while still not being able to let go of Yata and still occasionally letting his mask slip (how he has difficulty dealing with a grieving Yata post-S1 for example, and how he still helps Yata in Missing Kings) and ultimately, Fushimi knows what he did was wrong and he and Yata start to reconcile. They aren’t a perfect pure and unproblematic uwu ship but I don’t consider them to be toxic just because Fushimi dared to be mentally ill, the Sarumi I ship isn’t the one where they hate each other and where Fushimi’s still constantly cruel to Yata, it’s the one where they make up and recognize their mistakes and Fushimi starts on a healing path that includes recognizing what he did to Yata and in his own fumbling way trying not to do it again even though it’s difficult for him. (And also frankly if someone does like the toxic version of them go for it, you do you. I really hate how people tend to throw around the word ‘toxic’ as some kind of forbidden brand, like if a ship is not perfect and healthy and wondrous it shouldn’t be shipped. Ship your fictional characters any way you want, as long as you tag things properly! Be free of the need to be judged!)

[sunieepo]

i love going on blocking sprees for shit that literally just does not matter. its just so funny. oh you have a bad take on video game i dont even particularly care about? never interact with me ever ❤️

[snekdood]

i dont owe anyone online* anything.

[primeministerofantarctica]

trying to explain to tumblr "shipping the white male lead character with another white guy he interacted with for a sum total of fifteen minutes when his canonical love interest is a women of color isn't nearly as progressive or subversive as you claim it to be"

[dragongirlbunny]

tbh i did not give 2 shits abt f*nnster until people started crawling out of the woodwork with long ass rants about how trans women should shut up and be happy he's getting positive attention and so now i dislike him out of spite

[il-predestinato]

just curious but why are you not a Daniel fan? like what urks you about him?

Absolutely everything about him irks me. His existence, mainly.

I do think we need to bring back the underrated concept that sometimes there are celebrities/athletes that we 1) do not like, 2) will never like, and 3) that's completely okay.