#i just...am i being scammed?
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.....................i just found out that none of the payments i've been making for my therapy appointments have been going to my deductible
awesome
love that
#i know i should have checked on this sooner but it's just been hard to get around to#and now i'm just confused like...where have all those payments been going then?#how are claims supposedly being filed and yet...my insurance doesn't have any?#whose insurance is it going to then?#sucks because i've been paying in cash too and don't have any bills of service#so there's literally nothing i have to show on my end that i've been doing my part#i just...am i being scammed?#i hope to god not because i really like my therapist but like...this sucks#i know her accountant had some family issues and was out for a while#which is also why i wanted to give her a minute to get caught up#but like...at this point what the hell#like i should probably be halfway through or at least have put a dent in my deductible#and once i meet that everything's covered 100% which would help me out a lot but like#i have a bad feeling we'll get this sorted out and the solution will be i just have to start over again#i hope to god not#or i may just have to stop going to therapy because this....sucks#also as an aside i've been super depressed lately and thought i'd cheer myself up by dyeing my hair and it....#looks like absolute shit#i tried to just lighten it with powder and developer and all that instead of bleach because i thought it would be easier#and now it just looks awful and feels awful and i'm still probably going to have to bleach it anyway#awesome!#love that#love this situation#love being alive#love it all so much
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Love the idea of Philip coming into the isles with the same I’M THE HERO mentality as Luz. He never grows out of this fantasy. Well at least one of them got to see it through!
#when the enemy and heroine parallel#I am weak#the owl house#toh#philip wittebane#emperor belos#luz noceda#time travel shenanigans#Anywhen but Here!#just them#being so wrapped up in their obsession with witches#but in the end#only one of them is delusional#amoritasart#the way he just realized he’s not the main character#he also probably got scammed a few times by wizards playing into his hero complex
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grant not wanting a kid because he was worried that he wouldn't be a good father only to have his son tell him that he never should have chosen to have a kid if he knew he was broken and confirming his own fears i'm going to SCREAM
#dndads#dndads spoilers#dungeons and daddies#grant wilson#lincoln li wilson#i am once again a wilson family stan and a grant kinnie god damn#cannot wait for the titanic au#my personal headcanon is they find a baby on the boat and scam brings it back with them and thats how the li wilson's get link#i just think link being canonically from the 1940's would be very funny
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Actually, as far I know, my great great grandparents on both sides of my family were poor European laborers who got tricked into thinking that they be able to buy huge plots of land in the Americas and become rich and ended working for peanuts for actual rich farmers back in the late 1800s / early 1900s. Which I guess makes me the end result of a proud lineage of people who were as good at farming as they were easy to scam. Like if you purposely wanted to create a Border Collie who fell for the “pretending to throw the ball” trick every single time.
#Reporting live#I AM easy to scam it’s the thing#It’s not that I can’t tell when I’m being scammed. But I don’t have the heart to tell scammers to fuck off.#So I just give them money anyway. If I have it.
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Kaveh isn't dumb! He graduated architecture and is renowned in his field despite being so young! The man just lets his heart lead, which makes him easy to scam unfortunately (letting his heart lead also makes him an amazing architect, btw)
#kaveh#oh? kavehposting pre 3.6? yes#gotta defend this man hes my bby girl number 2#fun fact about me: i too am easy to scam#aaand thats another point to me just being kaveh irl#the money ive lost from getting scammed is...well it definitely needs thoughts and prayers thats for sure#maybe i need an al haitham roommate irl just to keep me safe from scammers...
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not to be an ass but if you're giving so much to fundraisers spread around on tumblr dot com that you're out of money that is a you problem. most are asking for single digit donations or a share for other people to decide if they want to do the same. if they are a scam, make sure you lose money you can stand to lose, and if not, 100 people who can afford to donate $5 each will add up real quick for someone who needs it and will absolutely not be a waste to anybody anywhere. if you have time and energy to research multiple fundraisers yourself, awesome, and if you don't, $1 or $5 or $10 is not going to kill you, unless it is, in which case, you can simply not donate! nobody has a gun to your head. ultimately it is your decision and your judgement call if that's something you can afford to spend, scam or otherwise, vetted yourself or otherwise, as a grown ass adult with functioning free will. it is not that complicated, next question.
#j.txt#free palestine#most of us are grown adults can we please act like it#if that means doing basic research yourself awesome!#if that means donating to something that could very well be a scam because you don't want to cool!#you are a fucking adult!#people acting like 13yos are on here being scammed out of their college savings#i can promise you most people who have been scammed were probably adults and made a Choice#scammers should be busted and there are people busting them but like#stop borderline infantalizing people who are being scammed like they're not adults making decisions online and wherever else they go#as soon as they step away from their computer. you are not their mother they can and will do what they like#if that means taking a risk donating to something they care about like. it's their money and their judgement and their decision#if they spend so much that they are in financial trouble. um. nobody asked them to do that! to a legit fundraiser or a sketchy one like#they decided to take that risk for whatever reason?#am i being an asshole. am i crazy. it is not that complicated 😭#personally if someone scams me out of $20 bucks i will survive because i made sure of that when i decided to donate $20 bucks to a stranger#i think some people just need to learn what a budget is
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how do you keep scam bots away from your sideblogs' askboxes? are there any tricks besides turning asks off? are there any tricks invented so far??
#cringeposting#they are real annoying today#just got five same long ask pastas per minute#a new scam record so far#why targeting sideblogs anyway? why dusty rp sideblogs of any other possible blogs?? this is like oddly specific#like closer to the point of being creepily!oddly specific#..... why am i even wondering about spam bots' algorithms now
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chat i am NOT appreciating the stares i got from walking across campus to cvs in my hoodie and sweatpants as if we didn’t just sit through ANOTHER hurricane like chill man i didn’t sleep well let me get my monster to finish my logic homework in peace 😭
#spent all night having not quite nightmares not quite stress dreams#periodically woken up by storm noises (sleeping with your back to a window during a hurricane when you get shellshock from loud storm noises#- is NOT a fun experience i would not recommend)#and THEN getting woken up at 5 am by an emergency alert warning about flash floods until like 11:45 when i have a 10 am class that morning 🙃#luckily my professor cancelled class for that (and my other class was cancelled for it to)#but tbh i was NOT gonna walk 7 minutes to the second farthest building on campus through that either way#i was just gonna send him a pdf of my homework and say ‘i’m not walking through a flash flood for this class sorry 😭’#also my school didn’t do shit for this?? they’ve been sending us emails all week about dangerous weather#but made SURE to add in all caps in every one that classes and stuff will go on as normal#cofc doesn’t stop until we’re dead i guess what the fuck 😭#scratch that i mean everything’s as normal except half of our dining halls are closed. so i have to walk 7 minutes out for food anyway 🙃#BECAUSE MY SNACK STASH IS DEPLETED BECAUSE ITS BEEN JANKY ALL WEEK 🙃🙃🙃#what was this post about again??#WAIT AND THEN THE NORMAL ‘AROUND CAMPUS’ ROUTE I TAKE TO MY HOUSE WAS CLOSED#SO I HAD TO GO THROUGH THE MAIN PART OF CAMPUS#IN MY HOODIE & SWEATS & CARRYING MY MONSTER & POP TARTS#WHILE THERE WERE LIKE THREE TOUR GROUPS STANDING THERE I WANNA DIEEEEEE#wait i can’t say that anymore. uhhh hold on let me find the list. ummm. ‘i’m gonna start a scam company’ there we go.#grace being stupid#text post#personal
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Stop giving people moral ocd or I'm gonna pepper spray your underwear drawer
#You don't know what kind of activism people participate in offline you don't know if they donate to Palestine AND AO3#Unless you spend a lot of time with them in person (in which case talk to them offline- we don't need to see that)#You do not fucking know these people!#Stop assuming the worst in others!#Why do you feel the need to berate the broke bitch website for being broke bitches?#Some of y'all sound just like the “Oh but you're not too poor to buy an iPhone” crowd#And imo that's far more embarrassing to be#Also some of the asks that have been going around ARE scams#And I have seen people who are verifying accounts asking you not to fucking share those#“Oh but the scammers probably need it more than me anyway”#1. If you're working minimum wage like I am no they fucking don't#2. Do they need it more than real Palestinians? The people you could be helping instead?#“Let's not play oppression Olympics” yeah okay!#Let's start by not shaming people who don't have money to share just because they're American and you personally don't believe they're poor#See how this works?#Also I HAVE seen at least 3 gfm reach their goals#2 raised the goal. One started a new gfm#So before you despair about nobody reaching their goals maybe check the notes? Just a thought.#I'm sure those 3 aren't the only ones
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still waiting for enduring discomfort to have some kind of cumulative positive effect on my life
#low key where’s my reward for tolerating hard things. things simply continue to be hard#(not in an objective manner just in a for me and my mental health quirks manner)#such a narrative of like discomfort is the answer! pushing yourself is the answer! and sure. the specific things get easier#but the next hard thing is precisely as hard all over again. why don’t i get to keep any of the lesson!!#related: why does my intense self awareness not help. why am i being scammed on these things#personal
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this ugly bitch is back again
#not doing it. you dont understand how much i dont give a shit#i have all of doctor who on dvd i dont need you#could i pay for this now that i have a job? sure#i think paying for Not Being Scammed At Every Turn is a bullshit practice though. not where i want my money to be going#rn i am subscription free and i am keeping it that way fuck off. i'll just wait on ublock to fix it again lmao#chat
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This is a silly idea but with how Penelope scams the suitors and makes them give her more things I'm a suitor too. I will give you my fucking wallet, Penelope. I wonder if when Odysseus is back with all the gifts and items (the oxen for example, as she was trying to restock on what they had and basically tricking the suitors into bringing their own meals) It'd be kind of funny if she suddenly has a lot of livestock but doesn't have the room because she was expecting 108 freeloaders.
#I doubt this was an actual problem as it said that they were running low but still.#I love the idea of Penelope being the type who often bites off more than she can chew with situations.#just recklessly getting something and then realizing “shit. where am I gonna put this?”#“It's okay my dear. you looked hot as fuck scamming those people😘” -Odysseus#Mad rambles#shot by odysseus#I have a cold let me have this#they're likeminded. they're the SAME#Water Wife
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how do i figure out if someone directly coming to me for help with donations here is being genuine or not
#what we have here is a moral dilemma#do i prioritize trusting a stranger on the internet#or do i prioritize being absolutely sure that i’m not accidentally leading anyone into a scam#at risk of potentially denying someone who actually was being genuine the donations they need#am i a prick just for feeling like i need to ask that??#i’m not at all properly equipped to handle this sort of thing
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I’m terrified of being firedddddd my double ear infection isn’t getting better it’s been a week now and it’s only gotten worse hhhhh
#I pay 200 out of pocket for an ent to give me more medication I have to pay for out of pocket that doesn’t even work#only to go back and pay another 200 to be given more medication to pay for out of pocket that doesn’t even work#I’m being scammed and robbed and I’m out of money#and still in extreme pain#this is actually the worst pain I’ve ever had in my entire life#ruptured cysts and childbirth were easier#id take both at the same time over this pain#I’m just so miserable I can’t eat I can hardly sleep and if I get fired it’s just over#America am I right#mags.txt
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i asked my irl for a commission about a year and a half ago and if i didn't know him and see him on a semi regular basis I would've thought he scammed me the good news is that he showed me his thumbnails and i am SO excited
#in his defense he's in art school and swamped so im not mad. I just think it's funny to bring up being scammed whenever the topic pops#but it *had* been such a long time that i changed fandoms and changed my request ajksfhsdf#but i am SO excited to see the Shrieker come to life in his style!!#BLORBO DUNGEON!!!!!!#this bird speaks
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I wish being social as a disabled and neurodivergent person wasn’t so damn exhausting. i desperately want connection but actually seeing people drains me so fast and meeting new people is so scary and hard and i am tired
#autism#disabled#being disabled is a scam#chronically ill#i am lonely#i just want friends#heartsofhorrors
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