#i hate gender

[chasingthestarss]

Do you ever just get bad gender days? Like today I’m about ready to just curl up in a ball and pretend I don’t exist because gender is too much.

I’m not supposed to feel like this during pride month. It feels homophobic.

[threecheersslxt]

I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender

[vizthedatum]

I'm getting to the point in my trans journey where I just need to fucking man up and accept that I DON'T CARE THAT I LIKE MAKEUP AND FEMININE THINGS AND STILL BE A MAN.

Like, I'm NOT transitioning to fit whatever patriarchal cis-man ideal of masculinity.

I'm being my own version of gender-fluid masculinity!

And I also don't need to perform it unless I want to perform/flaunt it.

All the changes I do medically or externally ARE FOR ME. Not for society.

But... it would be nice to be gendered as a man or simply not-a-girl more often.

It would be nice to be perceived as the gender-fluid, masculine peacock femboy I know I am.

[beebisbeeble]

AHAGHAHGHSFDFHEGGEHGR

[absolutequeermenace]

I love queer possessed daemon goobers

Everyday I wake up knoiwng that i will spend hours of my living existance deluding myself into feeling joy by giggling at the little queer creatures i made up in my head. Anyways..LOOK AT MY CREATION

[thetoastedalmonds]

elf androdgyny

@phoenixwithapencil 2024

[morningstar-chronicles]

GODDAMMIT I WANT TO BE FEMININE AND PRETTY BUT IN A MASC WAY BUT IM AFAB AHHAHAHAHHSJAJS

[twelfth-dykector]

making picrews of myself looking androgynous to battle the crippling gender dysphoria😎💪

[custard-is-awesome]

Ugh gender is so difficult--

Like, I THOUGHT I was nonbinary just because I didn't feel like I got anything, but now I'm just.. straight up a guy. I think.

AND TO MAKE IT WORSE-- I thought I was bi. Then I was like, "Well, maybe I'm just into guys" but now I just -- idk.

I figure I'm just queer. A queer man(?).

Anyways. What if I made a kink blog.

[insaneplane]

guys would I be bigender if I went by she/he but like I don’t want to have a specific gender I just go by she/he or would I be agender with she/he pronouns I’m so confused

also I like my preferred name obviously but like I’m chill abt ppl calling me my real name Idgaf tbh💀 I just am anything and everything but also nothing at all 😜

[sickwithemotion]

when getting perceived as fem in a straight way gives u lowkey dysphoria… like im barely a woman, let alone a straight woman

[iwillbanu]

ran so far away from traditional masculinity “he” that i forgot that silly little guy “he” is still perfectly valid

[your-friendly-neighbourh00d-fag]

im five seconds away from cutting my hair like mikey way in danger days era

[sadlittleratboy]

I was joking with my friend about the fact that me making really gender-neutral OCs was the first sign that I was non-binary, and me making a lot of male OCs recently (which of I have always had some of because I am male adjacent) and then all of a sudden the last two have been trans men which I've never done before, and that it could be like a secret sign that I'm a man even though I've said over and over that I'm definitely not in the past. And then I started thinking about it...

Often times on other social media where pronouns in bio isn't readily available like in YouTube comments I just kind of masquerade as a man, because it's easier and I'm lazy and my username has boy in the title. And like I've always been of the mind that I would prefer to just be a man because it is simpler but like I am non-binary and it's a pain in my ass and I hate it. But like am I? Probably idk.

Anyway the last time I used he/they pronouns I didn't like it but we will be test driving it again because idk... My gender is cooking up something funny.

[drunken-devotion]

UGHHHH i hate being confused by my own gender

[gyustellations]

the love hate relationship i have with my gender is the worst thing ever. while i say it doesnt bother me how people continue to call me she/her pronouns i always say "oh i use all pronouns i just perfer he/they" i really mean "you can use she/her but id rather you not." the constant misgendering i do to myself and feeling guilty, knowing ill never be happy about how i look because i want to be everything at once yet nothing at the same time. all people see me as is a girl and i cant stand it "alaina hes probably gay" im not a woman though? so why would it matter if hes gay? i present more fem whilst wanting to present masc at the same time. i just want to escape my body and return to nothingness then i would feel more at home